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I'm not going to bother repeating this again, so take it or leave it...Kerpal said:Looks like 5 weeks of single arm work didn’t help my overhead press at all… in fact, it was counterproductive, just as I expected I really need to figure out what the **** is going on with my arms and why they absolutely refuse to get stronger.
Yeah, I forgot to mention your attitude towards pressing sucks as well, no one can help you with that but yourself.Kerpal said:Unfortunately I think there is something wrong with my left arm, I don't think any program can fix that and not sure anything can be done about it at all.
No problem, but reading your log, I suggest you try taking your own advice. With your training history and stats, I really don't think you're in a position to be criticizing anyone's attitude/training motivation etc. If my log irritates you so much, don't read it.Quiksilver said:Yeah, I forgot to mention your attitude towards pressing sucks as well, no one can help you with that but yourself.
cheers man, just telling it how I see it.
Hah, I'm trying to help you man. My log has nothing to do with your bench press barely improving in 3 years. At this point you should be willing to try anything to get it moving again... Look, I don't want to get into comparing stats, its pretty childish on the internet. And frankly, for your training experience which isn't insignificant, your bench stats are horrid so I don't know why you're bringing up stats.Kerpal said:No problem, but reading your log, I suggest you try taking your own advice. With your training history and stats, I really don't think you're in a position to be criticizing anyone's attitude/training motivation etc. If my log irritates you so much, don't read it.
Yet you're also saying:Kerpal said:I'm pretty sure I'm just going to drop pressing movements and focus on the squat, deadlift, power clean, and chin/pull ups. I hate benching too, so there's no reason to do something I hate doing.
You hate pressing, yet you really want to improve at it. If you want to get better at it you gotta learn to love it. You hate benching cause you suck at it, not because you innately hate benching.Kerpal said:in fact, it was counterproductive, just as I expected I really need to figure out what the **** is going on with my arms and why they absolutely refuse to get stronger.
I have tried many things. Unfortunately, I have a congenital problem with my left arm that is holding me back. That's why my other lifts are still increasing and my presses have been stuck for years.Quiksilver said:Hah, I'm trying to help you man. My log has nothing to do with your bench press barely improving in 3 years. At this point you should be willing to try anything to get it moving again...
I'm not on your log criticizing how you train though, am I? My bench may suck, but pretty much all of your stats are terrible for how long you've been training. I'm not comparing my numbers to yours, I'm just saying that your numbers suck, so my point that you're not in a position to criticize me stands. I don't mind people giving me advice, that's why I post here, but don't be a **** about it.Look, I don't want to get into comparing stats, its pretty childish on the internet. And frankly, for your training experience which isn't insignificant, your bench stats are horrid so I don't know why you're bringing up stats.
No, I've never liked benching at all. It always seemed kind of stupid to me to like on your back and push something with your arms. I also don't like benching because my left arm is defective so I can't make progress, and it's frustrating.You hate pressing, yet you really want to improve at it. If you want to get better at it you gotta learn to love it. You hate benching cause you suck at it, not because you innately hate benching.