Journal - Approaches on street, at mall, etc.

[Mindgamez]

DAY 10
After seeing this, I'm pretty much sure that girls love to see boners.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vKLebXCy3QE

Anyway. Day was pretty much lamer than expected LOL. But I learned some quite funny things.

Went to mall close to my house with friend Jad. I did like... 3 approaches? Damn so much *****ing out. They weren't good, but whatever.

After that, we went to his place to look at some pickup material. I was quite sceptical at first because they suggested lines and patterns, but I then I realized that it is actually friggin funny. You can give sexual meanings to what usually wouldn't! Example.
Guy : Hey, what's your favorite food?
Her : Oh I love spaghetti.
Guy : Oh yeah, spaghetti's great. Like, you can feel it, you can feel it's sweetness even before you put it in your mouth. You like it's warmth and as soon as you feel it on your tongue, you just want more and more. It gives you ha-penis (happiness) and you like that ha-penis inside.
Jad was telling me about it and I thought I'd be genius and funny to try out. Just playing with her imagination a bit... hehe

At midnight, NIGHTGAMING on a boat party!
I was so hyped up for it. I was ready, did my hair and dressed according to the theme of the night. Looking classy, mhm.
11:00, I'm with Fiodor, André and Kareem. I'm feeling quite nervous for some reason. I'm waiting for them to finish their pre-drinking (I was driving so no drinking for me). Why nervous? Had to control myself, had to remove that pressure off. Then, I remembered that that night would only be one of MANY other nights I'll be having in the future. When I'll be 18 man, I'll be nightgaming ALL the fcking time.

We're going in the line. It's 11:55 and it's not even moving. One thing's sure is that it's fckn PACKED. Like

DAY 11
Probably at LEAST 500 people on the boat. Crazy sh1t happening.
12:15 AM, they're starting to get people in. I'm looking around me, everyone seems taller and older than me...
Fck this. It's a college party, there's girls my age.
At first I was nervous. Then, I realized how stupid it was to worry. People all go there to have fun right? I know I'm attractive and girls just love my confidence. Then, I was feeling like a boss, totally calm. I was ready for everything.

I love nightgame environments.

When I step in, I'm feeling kinda out of it again. It takes me a while before approaching. I just walk around and dance with a couple random people. I start having fun and the more I have fun, the more I don't care and the more I fckn own at life.

I do one approach after like 20-30 minutes of just dancing. She blows me off haha, whatever first set.

So then, my friend André approached this asian girl. They started dancing playfully a bit, holding hands and spinning. I talk to the Italian girl right next.
We talk to very close proximity and it feels very hot. I can feel her boob on my chest, the smell of her hair as I gently slide my hand on her lower back.
Me : What's your name?
We exchange names, dance in a fun little circle us 4. Later on, I decided to grind her from behind. All I do is that I come slowly from behind, put my hands on her waist and bam. I slide my hands near her crotch and she holds my hands in place. I was getting hornier. After a while, we split off. I'd say it's more her that left though...

You know what? Next time I'm doing some grinding, I'll be switching positions, grinding from back, then from front, then on the wall, then make-out, spin her around, stop and just chat very close proximity, etc. I feel like by doing the same thing over and over it just gets a little repetitive, for me and her. It's not intense enough.

I did a couple more approaches, fails/semi-fails for the most part. Sometimes I just ejected by *****ing out...
Sometimes I'd talk to so close proximity that I could literally kiss her, but I just pussied out.

Went upstairs. Did couple more approaches. I joined a group of asian and indian people dancing in a circle. It was super fun, I did very silly dance moves and the people enjoyed. When I'd leave, some guy would pull me back in the circle haha.

I saw this cute girl with glasses and just opened : Hey, are you a nerd?
She laughed, we talk for a couple seconds and proceed to the grinding. The best transition is just to go from close proximity talking to BAM.
So I grab her by the ass and grind her directly from the front. As my crotch rubs on her thigh, I slide my hands on her sides. My nose remains lost in her hair and I can feel my boner get harder.
She then picks up to my speed and goes harder.
Mhmhm... I have no idea why I didn't make-out at this point.
She was moving around weirdly, maybe was she drunk? Or was it the boat moving. Anyway, it was quite annoying at some point and I couldn't grind correctly. She left after a couple minutes of horny rubbing my crotch on her for some unexpected reason.

When I see her again later, I freeze for a second and feel like a b1tch again. Damn I hate those moments. I gave a smile trying not to appear needy, pfft. I care way too much for the outcome.

 

[Mindgamez]

I got a bit into my head at some point. I was getting very tired. I was sick, had a cold, didn't sleep so well. I had to drink a Monster energy drink to stay awake. It was like 2:30 AM.
Guess who I saw? VAL! Bisexual girl I met from Day 3. I saw her at first but just ignored her for some reason... I felt like she didn't like me. I'm fckn stupid.
Val : MINDGAMEZ!!!
She grabs my face, we then go for a hug. Her friend Marie is also here, we hug too. She doesn't hate me, she enjoys my company too. I have to stop assuming the bad OMFG.
So yeah. At this point I knew Val liked me. She took me by the hands, spinned herself and went into the grinding position. We grinded a bit, had no boner whatsoever... Why? I don't know.
She spinned herself back, facing me. Marie looked at us looking jealous again. She's like, possessive of Val as her girlfriend.
Val : Are you ok?
Me : Yeah, just very tired for some reason...
To be honest I was just making excuses. I wasn't really THAT tired. I could have made-out earlier with all the chicks I've approached. I just chickened out. A make-out is a great state booster.
Then, I saw some people making out beside me. The girls I got rejected by grinding some other dude intensely. I was getting in my head and feeling jealous. I quickly realized that comparing myself to other people was what was going to ruin my game.
It's A FCKING GAME. It's FUN.

So I kept dancing, doing my funny moves as usual.

Then, Val hid her face in her shirt and pointed towards the exit. The couple hundreds of people downstairs all did the same. I just followed the wave of people. The loud music suddenly stopped. The silence was broken by the sound of everyone coughing, including myself, and the sound of security guards yelling at us to evacuate as fast as possible.
I was pretty scared to be honest. A gas leak?
Security : CAREFUL. Don't touch your eyes! Keep moving keep moving!
We went on the boat outside. Everyone was looking around confused. I heard complains, there was a fight going on outside between guys. People looked scared.

I knew at this point that the party was over.

Kareem : It's cayenne pepper bomb. Never heard of it?
Me : No...?
Kareem : Haha dude! At my school some dude just kept using it to annoy people. Crazy, but don't worry everything's fine.
André : Probably some angry dude that couldn't get some *****, wanted to fck sh1t up!
Me : Hahahaha yeah!

We just chilled outside in the cold. Had to wait another hour to go back inside and get our coats... People were VERY impatient.
When I climbed up the deck, I locked eye contact with some girl. Looked away, wtver. Then, the girl tickled/rubbed my back with her hand LOL. I looked back.
Her : Sorry, hahahah!
Me : Is that your pickup move?
Her : Hahahah! No!
Me : Are you drunk?
Her : No I'm not!
Me : Haha that's okay...
She was probably horny, wanted the D or something. GUESS WHAT? GIRLS LIKE TO PICKUP GUYS TOO. THEY FCKN WANT TO.

I saw the asian girl and the italian girl from ealier.
We talked for a bit. The italian girl gave me the eyebrows as we flirted a little bit, but I pussied out to take down her number.

OMFG. I COULD'VE MADE-OUT WITH HER + NUMBER CLOSE. WTF MAN. AGHH.

Anyway. Then, I hear some insane yelling coming from inside the boat. All I see is some guy being strangled by a security guard, literally.
Security : Isn't it simple damnit? Just fcking go outside huh? Fcking go outside?
Some other security guard was helping him push him outside. Apparently he was smoking weed inside and he made the racks with all the coats fall by pushing on it.

So yeah... When I finally got my jacket at 4:20 AM ish, I was relieved. On the way back to my car, some girls asked us : HEY you guys need a riiiiide?
I just answered that I didn't need any. But then I realized how I could have interpreted it sexually and joked around with it. OMFG YES. I could have said like : How much do you cost? HHAHA

I drove my friends home, even though they lived at two extremes and in different towns...
Came back home at 6:35 AM LOL. Drove 2 hours, holy crap man.
At first I was mad at them for not planning a ride back home, but then I realized that hey, who cares. I had fun and that's all I ask for. It doesn't matter if the party was ruined near the end. I still had the reference and know I can attract gorgeous girls. It's just one day, part of the whole process of becoming.

The sun was rising. Mhm, what a beautiful day...

CONCLUSION
- Seriously, go for the make-out. Take action, minimize time between interactions and go go go. Shoot the sh1t. Don't even think about it. Enjoy and have fun. The results will eventually come. I just need to enjoy, now.
- When she shows interest, don't freak out. Don't freak out when comes time to reapproach. My biggest mistake is that I was afraid to reapproach sets that rejected me, or sets that I ejected from. I was afraid to appear needy which is fckin stupid.
- Enjoy the process. Every day is a new day. Don't get mad for nothing, have patience and faith in the process. Party ruined? No, party was fantastic. Who cares about the rest.

 

[Mindgamez]

DAY 12
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VdVW-uoikUg
Beat me down, beat me down
Again and again, again and again
Let it Reign hell on me

I woke up this morning by a call for a job offer.

After that, I couldn't go back to sleep so stayed awake. Headaches annoying me, whatever. Lack of sleep, but had no choice.

It wasn't an excuse not to go out, I thought.

Texting Porno, asking him if he wants to daygame today at the mall near my house. He didn't answer until 4:30 PM. Gave him a call, he didn't want to miss his Krav Maga class so he didn't want to.
I texted a couple wing friends. They all said no.

I gave a call to Jonathan, some guy I met on the street doing pickup a long time ago. He gave some good insight. The night before, I watched some daygame tips I pirated from some website. I know, bad but I'm a poor student... It's Tom Torero's Conversation King thing. I really wanted to implement his tips on the field and see how it goes.

When I saw the video, I realized so many things : I was talking way too much, didn't give her the opportunity to speak up and express herself. I don't give her the time to invest, to convince me about how great she is. I don't even need to start talking about me. She'll eventually ask me questions and I'll develop on it. I have to take longer pauses and just assume that she's going to talk.

6:00. I'm waiting for Jad to answer but he can't come! I text Porno, reminding him that his class is at 7:30 and that we have a little bit of time.
How much time? Like, 15 minutes. That was enough for one or two approaches. It would cost 4$ of gas, 20 minutes to go to the mall and 20 minutes coming back. Was it worth it?

Yes.
Why? Because I had no excuses to give.
I even made my mom mad to go out to do those little approaches in a COMPLETELY dead mall.

I arrived at the mall. As soon as I walk in, I see some Asian girl disfiguring me LOL. She did look familiar. Probably I approached her in the past.
I meet with Porno. Upstairs, set of two girls.

Good approach, because I let her talk this time.
She was asking me question. I just stayed there and listened to what she had to say. Even though she wasn't really talking about herself but more about that boat party (coincidence, she went there. Guess what? She was the lesbian girl grinding some other asian girl hornily!). The conversation could have headed in a more sexual direction. It did a little, as Porno suggested a foursome, but yeah.
About the second non-asian girl, she was at James party! The party I gamed EVERY single girl when I was drunk as hell. She was SO much hotter at the party, wow I swear make-up is cheating.
What I noticed in that interaction is how sh1t tests can be so easy to spot sometimes. She asked me why was I invited at the boat party, that I'm not from her college and not supposed to come. Sh1t tests are based on non-sense MOST of the time.
What I did wrong though : I wasn't leading the interaction into getting to know her as a person. That's how she opens her heart, when she starts talking about what she's passionate about, her life, her adventures. I have to lead to that.

On the top, throw in some flirting and teasing. I notice that it's usually what I always and only do! I just flirt and tease non-stop without getting to the point, without actually letting her invest.

Yeah, she gave lots of sh1t tests again and she just walked away at some point. She was interested, at least curious on some level, because she was staying. She had her head tilted towards me and preened her hair. We talked for 10 minutes at least. But I didn't push it further, explaining why she left.

Second approach! Girl by herself. Not that pretty, but I wanted to practice.
I open asking her if she's Chinese. Blablabla.
I get her to open up and talk about Music, which is what she's studying. I made an assumption that she looked like a future doctor with her glasses.
When she was done talking, I just let her talk more.
Her : Yeah, I like metal, but not as much.
I nod, look at her and pause for 3 seconds.
Me : Alright, so you like metal but not as much.
As I said so, I just looked at her and assumed that she'd say more. She kept talking and talking. I wasn't talking as much, didn't even mention that much about myself, but it didn't matter. I don't need to brag.
Her mom came, she just left and I didn't number close... why? Because I had no excuse, lol.

I walked around a little bit in the almost empty mall. Skipped 2 or 3 set of girls. Damn, approaching set of many girls when alone. I have to start doing that more, I miss so many opportunities if I don't.

CONCLUSION
- Let her talk. 90% of the conversation about her, 10% about you. Make pauses and let her invest. Listen and understand. But don't take this advice the wrong way and go in the friendzone. This is for building rapport which should be combined with some push pull. Try that, see how it goes!
- NO. FCKING. EXCUSES. I spent 40 minutes driving to get to a mall to do something like 20 minutes of conversation. Yes. When I commit to something, it's a 100%. 30 days challenge means THIRTY DAYS. Not 29, but 30.
- Go get some different material from different places. Yes, don't just watch SP or RSD. Go check some other stuff and see what works best for you! Be open minded. Sometimes, just a little switch can do wonders to your game. EXPAND your knowledge to new limits. Don't be afraid of contradicting theories on the same subject.

 

[Mindgamez]

Fantastic progress.

DAY 13
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jcPqLGSH_oM

5:30 PM
I'm just chilling at David's Tea, drinking the free tea samples. They never fail at soothing me.
I'm listening to the song playing in the shop (play it! ^^^)
Porno : Hey man, let's go?
Me : Yeah, wait a sec.
Life has so much to offer. Every moment has meaning, every action leads to the next step in my existence. Everything has meaning, yet nothing has meaning because I'm going to die anyway. It doesn't matter.
I'll fall in love one day, and that's ultimately why I do pick up. It's much more than just the sex, but about meeting that special girl. I just want to better myself and offer my joy of life to someone else.

12:05 PM
Woke up. Sh1t! I was late. Called Porno and told him I'll be late.
I felt chill when I woke up. Not that nervous, more like, peaceful. I was getting used to the routine. The game becomes a part of me.

When I arrived at the local mall (I'll just call it like that, mall near my house), I tried to solo approach for 20 minutes but didn't happen. When Porno arrived, we left off to the bus stop.
Some gorgeous girl stood behind me in the line. She was close, I turned back and we glanced at each other.
Ahhh, I wanted to approach her, but I pussied out.
We entered the bus. She sat down while Porno and me were standing 3 meters away.
She had red/brown hair, had some scars on her forearms. She probably had a depressed past, or is depressed.

She kept glancing at me again. This time, she held it longer.
After 2 seconds straight, I felt a warm feeling rushing through my body. A rush of love. Her eyes flickered a little bit.
I looked away, took a deep breath.
Me : Hey man, I'm approaching her. Damn I have to do it.
Porno : Yeah man...
She looked at me once again. She just kept eyeing me. At this point, I knew she was attracted and was waiting for someone to approach her.
When I walked out the bus with Porno, I was walking slowly, like I was letting her time to catch up. She walked slow too.
I took a deep breath, like this approach would be the approach of my life.

I finally just let her walk away.

Me : Damn man, I missed that...
Porno : NO man, just go! She's checking you out again.
She did. She looked back at us even though she was down the stairs.
So I ran down the stairs to catch her up. Problem is I stopped midway, looked back at Porno. He nodded at me to go, but I didn't.

Waiting near the metro now. She was further away.
I walked towards her. UGH NO, walked back to Porno.
Me : Aww man can't do that... ugh.
Porno : Dude, she's probably depressed or something. She's waiting to get approached. Come on, make her day. Give good to humanity.
Good to humanity.
Those words ran in my ears like they directly came from god. Yes, that's what living is about. Sharing that deep love for life.
I walked towards her for real this time. She entered the train and I followed her. She sat down and I gave myself no excuses.
Me : Hey excuse me.
Her : Mhm?
We locked eye contact. We smiled almost exactly at the same time, and I did a 3 seconds pause while I giggled.
Me : I was checking you out when we were in the bus, but I didn't have the courage to come up and talk to you...
Her laughs were incredibly cute. I felt like me and her were meant to be. I knew she was attracted to me and that I was attracted to her. There was no doubt about that.
Me : I'm Mindgamez.
Her : I'm Mollie, nice meeting you.
We shook hands and she held it very long. She slowly slid her hand away.
We talked for a bit. I let her talk most of the time, letting her invest 90% of the time. It's an incredible thing to do, because she feels more connected by doing so. She's the one convincing me of her attractiveness.
We then seat next to each other. At some point, I go in the sexual topics. When she asks me what things I do, I tell her that I do films, that I do X films.
She laughs. GREEN LIGHT. She then tells me how this guy gave her a business card to take nude model pictures. It went a little more sexual. I'd sometimes touch her leg subtly as I pretended to scratch my own leg lol.
Tom Torero's tips are golden. She did talk a lot.
When I made a point, I just held my hand open in front of her, touching her hand. She then took my hand and held it randomly.
Me : Oh that's romantic.
Her : What?
I played with her hand a bit, sliding my fingers on hers.
Me : It's romantic.
Her : Oh hahaha
She giggled and linked her fingers on mine. I didn't just feel horny. It felt like love.
When we hop out to wait for the next train, we talk a little bit more sexually. Her tone of voice sounds like how a porn star would sound like. Sensual voice, the sexy eyes. She told me about how her girl friend sent her nude pics.
I talked about how Miley Cirus' Wikipedia page was hacked by 4chan and how they put a photo of her riding some guy.
Me : Yeah, there was this picture of her vagina riding some ****. They were fcking with every little detail. *did the fcking motion with hips*
She laughed. I try and get her number but she tells me that she just moved and doesn't have any. I take her facebook, ask her if she wants to chill this Saturday evening and she says yes with a smile.

We hop in the train.
We talk a little more. I touch her a little bit at times. We talk close and I don't even pay attention to my surroundings.
Before she left, I used Jad's idea and talked about food.
Me : So you could give bananas to your sea monkeys.
Her : Haha, yeah I could!
Me : I love bananas. What you think? I like feeling it's sweet taste in my mouth, and I just want to eat more of it. *motioning to my crotch subtly*
She nodded seriously as I talked, but then she realized something.
She : Oh yeah *sensually*
She knew the sexual reference was intentional.

She had to leave.
We exchange a hug. She held it for much longer than expected, she held tight and could probably feel my boner on her belly.
I held her at 3 inches away from my face. She held me too.
Me : Take care. I'll see you on Saturday evening.
Her : Yeah!
I felt like kissing her...
Me : Now I have to find my friend...
Her : He's just behind you!
I turn around and see Porno behind me.
Me : OH LOL YO MAN!
She leaves the train this time. She waves back at me as she exits the train.

So lovely...

 

[Mindgamez]

Arrived downtown,
Waiting for Kareem and Fiodor to come. I walk around with Porno and try and find some girls.
I find this pretty cute girl.
Me : Hey excuse me, are you a zebra?
She had a stripped shirt. LOL it's now my favorite opener.
We talk for a little bit. Again, Tom Torero's tips seem to do wonders. I make her do the talking.
Her : Yeah, I like psychology and political science, etc.
Me : * pause*, mhm, so you like psychology.
Her : Yeah, blablabla she elaborates on it.
Her : I like to read minds of people and manipulate them.
Me : Oh, so you're manipulating me into falling in love for you.
Her : Haha yeah, if you want.
Blablabla
Me : Any artistic side?
Her : Yeah, I do acting blabalba
HIGH RISK HIGH REWARD. BOOM.
Me : Acting like, porn acting or actual theater acting?
Her : Yeah I'm a porn actress, I like to do it. Hahaha just kidding!
GREEN LIGHT. I go sexual a little more. I drop sweater by accident.
Me : Pick it up.
Her : No you do it, you droppped it.
Me : Ugh fine.
I pick it up.
Me : Cauz I didn't want you to see my cleavage.
Her : You don't have boobs!
I feel my own boobs. Blablaba
Her : Yeah you could have breast implants.
Me : You had breat implants? *pointing at her tits*
Her : Yeah
Me : Oh well that's cheating!
We smile at each other. She seemed a little awkward shy at first, which is cute. She has to go, so I get her facebook (she's an international student, no phone yet. Could tell by her accent).
We exchange hugs. Talk for a little bit more and try and set up a date. She's busy for the whole week so she tells me : Next week!
We exchange hugs once again, hold in tight. I hold her a couple inches away from my face. She stays like that too and giggles.
Her : Haha, okay I gotta go.
Me : Seemed like you wanted to kiss.
Her : No, it seems like you wanted to kiss.
Me : How you know that?
Her : Well I read minds
She walked away, we waved at goodbyes.

Damn she was hot! The vibe was really chill and calm.
I feel a different feeling when I'm approaching girls now. It's not a feeling of fear or something forced anymore. I just feel that immediate connection as soon as I hold eye contact with her. It's like love is transferring directly from me to her, from her to me.

Sometimes I had my moments of feeling low and out of state. I'm just stuck in my head and overthinking. When this happens, the girls just eject very quickly! Still, they still keep the smile on their faces as I made their day.
Main thing I realized when I'm feeling out of it is that I talk faster, higher voice and sounds more stifled, voice doesn't come from the bottom. My face also gets tense and I smile unnecessarily.

Another set of two girls near the Arts Place.
Porno opens, I contribute to the talking and ask them questions to make them talk more. It works pretty well most of the time. Again, I had this feeling of sharing love again, as soon as we held eye contact.
Me : So I look like a Chinese tourist?
Her : Yeah.
Me : What really?
I say it kind of to challenge her.
Her : Haha just kidding!
She then touches me on the arm. Green light. She did that twice.
Me : Oh yeah you have a lot of pigs in your farms? I guess you love to hug them and sh1t.
Her : Yeah, I'm dirty! Hahaha just kidding! *looked at her friend nervously*
Me : Okay.
WHY did I JUST say okay? I should have pushed it further and said something more! Holy fck. Another mistake in that interaction is that I didn't work on isolating the other girl.
Her : Yeah, we have to go lbablalbla.
They leave with a big smile, so I run in front of them again and tell her that we have to go on a date. She denies playfully. Oh well... I was close. She gave me so many signs, but yo I should have pushed it a little further! More sexual flirting since the beginning!

We did a couple more. Some we were quite out of it and we had very funny awkward silences for the fun of it.
Though, realized that those kind of fun moments doesn't lead to attraction! It makes them uncomfortable too. I had to throw in some statements and questions like I did earlier with the two girls I setup a date with that day.

So yeah. We went to go see Hangover Part III in the theaters. Pretty epic.

After the movie, we approach a set of two girls.
Again, I try and get that love feeling again.
Me : Excuse me, are you a zebra? (LOL again)
Her : Hahaha! You making fun or my shirt?
Me : Just kidding, hi I'm Mindgamez.
Blablaba, we talk for a while. Problem is that I have the problem of awkward silences once again... Though, they seem interested and cool somehow. At least the zebra girl I was talking to.
Friend : We actually on a rush to go to a friend's concert right now, and already late!
Me : Damn, got some free tickets for us?
Friend : No it's free. You guys wanna come?
YOU GUYS WANNA COME? SHE SAID THAT. WHAT THE HELL DID WE DO? WENT HOME.
They INVITED US to go see the concert. Are we stupid? Of course our intentions were to do 1 approach and leave, but still it was only 9:30, not that late. We could have chilled with them for sure.
That's when it went silent awkward because I was in my head thinking of what to do. I now recognize those moments better.
So yeah, we exchange goodbyes and invite for hug. Friend looks at me VERY weird LOL, but the zebra girl welcomes it and hugs me.
I hold close, then keep her a couple inches away from my face once again. She looks away, gives me a tap in the back to say bye. She had the biggest smile, oh damn should have kissed her lol.

CONCLUSION
- Let her invest. Don't talk about you until she asks you questions about you, unless you already do that. Try that once, see how it goes.
- Set up for the date the same day.
- Longer conversations and fewer approaches is better than shorter conversations and sh1t ton of approaches.
- Give good to humanity. It's about falling in love with every instant of life. Falling in love with the present moment, with that unique moment with that girl. That sharing of peace, of joy and happiness. Don't you just love girls? Their beautiful eyes that pierce your soul? Aren't they absolutely amazing? In their smile and their cute giggles? In the way they flip their hair around while giving you the sexiest anime eyes? Come on, don't tell me that approaching is something you gotta force. You just love girls, so do it for the love.

 

[Mindgamez]

Challenges for the 30 days challenge
- Make-out with a girl during the day. At least go for it, and get a peck on the lips at least.
- Bring a girl to my room.

DAY 14
Day was good.

Did couple approaches.
First set were two 7s. Vibe was a little awkward, no real connection really.

Girl was walking with a pack of donuts.
Me : Hey, are those for me?
Her : Ahah, you can take one if you want!
Blablabla, we chat. I give her a hug because she's cool.
Me : It seemed like you wanted to kiss me.
Her : Haha no.
Me : Give me a kiss.
She gives me a good kiss on the cheek, I do the same. I propose to her as a joke, using the donut as the ring.
Blablabla, talk for a while and try to make her talk, but she just leaves after a minute or so. I got a free donut though!

Approached 2 Italians later. They were cute. Got the girl's number, flaked, vibe was a little off and she didn't seem interested.
I still did set up the date for Monday, she agreed but she never responded to her text so whatever.

DAY 15
I'm getting better than ever, feeling better than ever.
Gaming with Denis today. He's probably the best guy at pickup I ever gamed with. Great wing.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YxSqPsNriXc

Called Porno, at 12, told him to come.
At 1:45ish, called him again and he didn't even leave his house. To be honest, he can fck off. His passion for the game is not enough, his motivation is not enough, so he can stay home and do nothing.

So we went to N's cegep that day (remember N? didn't meet him though).
We walked around a little bit. I start talking to 3 girls from high school. Blabla, eject.
We go upstairs. I let Denis do approaches and I just wait...

Till I see a gorgeous girl sitting by herself.
She was soooo jizzable. Uuaargghhh...
My opener is a little weak but funny.
Me : So you're eating yogourt instead of studying?
Her : What? Hahaha
Me : Hey I'm Mindgamez.
Her : I'm Alicia.
I sit down. I manage to let her do most of the talking once again. Denis told me that my body language was quite seductive. I was looking at her right in the eyes, relaxed, tried to have a naturally charming smile. The conversation was at least 15 minutes if I remember.
She waited at the END to tell me she had a boyfriend. Though it's only been 11 days together.
I still had her number. I texted her and she didn't flake. I could set up a date with her anyway! She's SO fckn hot it's not even funny. I'd rate her a 9 no doubt, a real 9.
When she left, she gave me the *bise de France*, it's when she does the kissing sound next to your cheeks both sides. I don't know if I explained it well but yeah.

Next approach, it's a set of 3 girls. Denis goes in super chill, I have his vibe too. Wow, I don't know why I don't feel that way when I'm with Porno or other wings. I guess that when I hangout with guys that are better at pickup, I allow myself to feel at their level.
3 Latinas. We talked about anything and nothing. They seemed quite responsive. He got some girl's facebook, and I wanted to get the other girl's phone number but I'd feel bad not taking the other girl's number too... So I ended up doing nothing lol.

One girl walking by herself. Looking quite hot from behind, ended up that she's a 7.5 or so. Still pretty hot.
I open her with a somehow okay opener. I'm feeling a little nervous, but as I go in the conversation it feels much muuuch better.
Me : I'm Mindgamez
Her : I'm Catherine
I start flirting a little bit. I'm bumping into her a little bit, brush past her butt subtly.
You know the very intense sexy eyes? Mhmhm, I just get sooo much better at it as I progress.

A couple pages ago, when I said that I felt my eyes being sexy, well, now multiply it by 2. I'm feeling much better at it.

I did some joke about how I was doing X movies. She laughed and played along with it.
Me : Tell me what kind of food you like.
Her : BLalbalbalblabla, I also like sushis a lot.
Me : Haha, you telling this because I'm asian?
Her : Hahaha no! Blablabla but yeah I like sushis too
Etc. etc. we talk for a while.
I'm getting really close this time. I go in for the hug very slowly, my head an inch away from her face. She doesn't move and smile.
Me : Haha, are you expecting a kiss or something?
Her : Haha, aren't you giving me *la bise*?
So I give it to her, but this time I kiss her on on cheek while still huging, brush my nose on hers, kiss on other cheek. She loved it. I LITERALLY could have kissed her on the lips at this moment no problem. I felt like she was totally down for it, but ahhh I PUSSIED OUT.
Her : Yeah, I'll text you later. Oh, and maybe I'll see you at Tremblant (she's going there to work, me too (hopefully, if the boss calls me back...)
Me : Yeaah.

YO I GOTTA MAKE-OUT DURING THE DAY. Challenge for 30 days challenge.

After that, I did a couple more approaches but nothing special.

I got some other girl's number. I gave her a hug. She was SO awkward, turned her head towards me and I avoided her lips (because she wasn't pretty to be honest). Gave her the *bise*. LOL funny stuff.
The conversation was cool, I was feeling a little out of it but Denis was good.

After that, I chilled around with Denis. We were exhausted. He told me about his stories from the past, how his girlfriend dumped him as he got so needy over her, how that failure was an opportunity for a comeback.
He told me how he planned on becoming better and better at game every year, even start off his own pickup channel. That's his big project in mind. I volunteered to help him and film.
Denis : Yeah, your approach with Catherine that would have been good material for the channel.
Indeed, it was a greaaat approach. I'm capable of much more though.

We chilled at the Arts Place near the waterjets where kids had fun. Damn it was such a beautiful day.

Hey I noticed something. Rejections those days are so much less.

CONCLUSION
- As always, let her do the talking.
- Work on those sexy eyes, that unshakable calmness of feeling at ease in the world, knowing that she can't resist that sexy look you give her. Knowing that you absolutely deserve her because you have so much going on.
- Hangout with guys that are *better* than you at game. You'll then allow yourself to be at their level, and maybe even surpass them. Switch between different wings so you see other people's point of view and deal with different vibes.
- Everything happens for a reason. You don't get a job interview right? You get rejected? She flakes? It all happens for a reason. It makes you learn from your mistakes. Get the lesson from it and move on. Hey if I don't get a job this summer that's fine. I'll just do more pick up (NIGHTGAME!) and have more free time to work on my movie projects.

 

[Mindgamez]

DAY 16
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PYWJCItFno0

Realization.
You know what? I've thought about something.
Like for real.
Pickup is cool, yes, but that's not ultimately what I want. I guess I'd like to find that one girl, that special someone. That's probably why I'm in the game in the first place. Though, I know that finding that girl will probably take me years and it will make me meet several different girls in the meantime. In the end, pickup is not forever.

I don't know. I feel like it's getting mechanical to just keep approaching approaching all the time. It's kind of tiring sometimes, I don't know. I think I force it way too much, my head is way too focused on meeting girls lately.
After I meet that one girl, I will make a family, teach my kids about self-development and how to live life to it's fullest. I will fully dedicate my life to filmmaking and become a kickass movie director.

I want that worrying of finding a girl to go away.

That's ALL I think off.
For the past 16 days, I woke up, took a shower and ate while thinking of how I will do pickup that day, drove to the mall while worrying about whether this girl will text me or not, listening to music to *pump my state*, then arriving downtown and doing pickup from 2:30 to 7:00ish. Taking the bus back home, reflecting on what I did good or wrong, getting home and writing in my journal. After that, I watch some pickup videos like RSD or Simple Pickup on my iPod to get some new information while eating a snack. Then, I take a little shower and do meditation for 20-30 minutes.
Sometimes when I can't sleep, it's because I'm thinking about pickup again.

I'M GOING FCKIN CRAZY ABOUT PICKUP OMFG. I don't even think about filmmaking anymore, or about hanging out with my friends, or practising the piano. All I am about is fcking PICKUP PICKUP it's driving me nuts. But ahhh I wanna finish that 30 days challenge to prove to myself that I can keep commitment and I will. I will skyrocket my skills in the game. I will persist even though I get those bad days. After those 30 days, I'll allow myself to chillax as approaching girls will be a natural part of who I am, hopefully.

I wanna hang out with friends, connect with people in general. Not simply connect with a girl for 20 minutes and exchange numbers and never ever see each other again. I've done this way too many times already.
I want to meet people and have a great time. I just want to surrender to the present moment, just forget about fcking game and forget about all the theories and just enjoy fcking life. I want to free myself from that mental paranoia.

I just feel like pickup have been some kind of refuge for me to feel like I can get girls. Why should I need to prove it to myself? Of course I'm naturally attractive. Of course I meet girls naturally the same way everyone does. I'm human, and I just need to stop resisting it.

Fck the game. Enjoy life and don't EVER let pickup dominate your life.

Anyway, long speech but I felt like it was necessary. I'll read that in a couple years and remember that realization.

The day!
Well, it was pretty alright. I was negative the whole day.
Forgot to mention how Mollie, girl I was worrying about whether she'd accept going on the date or not, actually cancelled the date last minute. She told me that her parents didn't let her go out.
Immediately, I went in my head and accused it on myself. Accusing it on my game, took it personally. Like seriously? Is it my fault? There are so many elements of randomness in the game so I can't assume it's my fault.
The girl Catherine that's going to Tremblant to work still didn't respond either.

NO BIG DEAL. I make it too much of a big deal. My life is not going to change because she said yes or no, because I got laid or not.

We decided to go to the mall outside of town that day. Porno was on time, I'm proud of him

We were approaching left and right, meh.

I decided to stop giving a fck and started fcking around and actually trolling girls. Our things were ridiculous. We were telling pointless stories about how I ate cereal in the morning with bananas.
By being in that fun easy-going vibe, that set of two girls stopped us. One of them was pretty hot, not the cutest but still. A 7.
She told us how we were cute, she liked our vibe a lot. It was effortless, she just liked us for who we were.
We decided to chill and shop with them. I made some sexual jokes and she played back.
At one point her hand brushed past my boner. She probably felt it go *DING* because it moved a little. AHA

After a while I'm getting bored of shopping with them and I lose a bit of my initial playful mood. I tell them that we should go eat, so she tells me to take her number down and that we'll meet again later.
Hug goodbyes, it's fun.
She never texted back. I took it personally and lost my good mood.

Porno was approaching more than me. Then, I started self-sabotaging myself as I gave too much expectations for myself. I assume that since I've been in for 16 days already, that I should be exponentially better than usual, but I didn't feel like it that day. Hence, I felt like I wasn't as good anymore. I was looking at Porno having nice approaches with jealousy. How stupid is this.

My next few approaches were okay. I got some other girl's number, but I sense a flake.
Guess what? I have to stop assuming she's going to flake when I go for the number. It's just a game destroyed and I have to stop taking it so seriously.

WHO GIVES A FCK.

Once I can get that in my mind, that nothing's serious, girls will start to follow up.

You know the job I was worrying about earlier? The guy actually called me telling me how fantastic of a person I seemed to be. I was worrying, why? Because he told me he'd call me the day before but he didn't.
Guess what? Well I was worrying for NOTHING. And guess what? That's probably exactly how it goes when a girl doesn't respond to me. I FREAK the FCK OUT and eventually it makes her reject me.

CONCLUSION
- Bad days happen. Don't worry about it, stop resisting it and taking rejections personally. Whether you get girls or not should not affect your mood.
- Life can be very cruel for the people that are stuck in that circle of hell and inaction, but life can be awesomely generous to the people that don't take it personally and just move with the flow of life.
- Stop caring about flakes. Fck it.
- Don't let the game consume you. Don't let it dominate your life to your very being. The game is ultimately nothing compared to what life has to offer.
- Feeling bad? Write about it, talk about it. Let it out.
- Usually everything's going just fine. It's worrying about it that ruins it. Think of that wait for that job offer... you have NO idea of what's actually going on TILL you actually get a CLEAR yes or no.
- Everything happens for a reason. Accept it as it is.

 

[Watawata]

Most of the time everything goes alright, even when everything seems to fail. It just your mind being pessimistic. If instead of giving up to your feelings you keep going forward you'll succeed.

So... keep with that 30 day challenge, and in the end you'll for sure be thankful that you did it.

 

[Mindgamez]

Thanks for support man

I skipped one day. Yes I know!
I had no excuses. I could've woke up earlier to do some at the mall before leaving. My excuse was that I had to film for a dance show. I thought I could approach people there, but spectators were all old people and dancers were all jailbaits LOL.
Anyway. I don't feel like I've lost any momentum at all which is good.

That day of filming was great. That break was well earned. I was running around the stage like a moron and some old lady spectator got super mad because I was too distracting LOL. Anyway, the shots look fabulous so who gives a sh1t. I had fun running around with my camera.

DAY 17
Most epic lyric video ever.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=04CxOpjkR84

So I did the right choice by waking up earlier to go to the mall 20 minutes before my Khmer class.
I walked around a little, saw Antoine that always works at the chocolate and ice cream store. His positive mood gave me a boost in enthusiasm and then proceeded to walk around.
It took me 15 minutes to do one approach, which is much better than usually LOL. The difference is that I was full of joy, even though nervous, to do the approach. I was all alone but could rely on my good mood to do so.

Me : Hey, are you Jennifer from match dot com?
LOL funny line.
She : No *looking confused*
Me : Oh okay, because I'm supposed to have a blind date with her today...
Blabla, 5 seconds later she pretends to be on the phone.

I left while laughing in my head, saying how awesome I was. Learn to do that when you're alone.

Forgot to mention. I saw shy girl from film class earlier randomly at mall.
She seemed interested, mirrored my body language (technical I know). I was much calmer than usual, I knew I could attract girls.
Thing is, I started to focus on her imperfect faces, her acne, and got turned off.
So then I let her walk away after some tight hug. Then, I regret not asking her out on a date! Fck.

Oh yeah! Got 2 dates.
I rescheduled the date with Mollie, she agreed. She gave me her phone number of her new phone too.

Also, Genevieve (girl that was joking about being a porn actress, same day I approached Mollie) eagerly accepted to go on a date Monday, meaning tomorrow. She gave me her Mexican phone number just in case.

Setting up dates by facebook isn't bad at all.

And you know what? I wanna get laid with both of them. Can I? Yes.
I think logistics with Genevieve are good. She lives near downtown.
For Mollie, we'll go at the local mall not so far from my house. Means I can fck.

Had some realization too.
I messaged on my pickup group on facebook about first time sex, and they told me how it really isn't a big deal at all.
And wow, that's so fcking true. What's so big with sex? Simply because I've never really been fully naked and saw a vagina from my own eyes that it's a big deal?
To be honest, I don't give a sh1t. That girl didn't text me back? I don't give a sh1t.
By repeating to myself how I didn't give a sh1t whether things worked out or not, I realized that it really doesn't matter whether I get it or not.
There's so much fun to find in the present moment. Why give a sh1t. I might die tomorrow and I sincerely don't give a sh1t. The girls might cancel the dates and I don't give a sh1t. Why? Because abundance is where it's at.
I have to stop getting in my own way! Things are going FANTASTIC. They accepted, cool, now let's go. Find more girls and get more experience.

On the way back home, passed by a bush near to the parking lot of the local mall.
I saw some lubricant and some condom pack.
Ohhh yeah... I can do this anywhere. I'm a horndog and she'll love it. Bam. I'm decisive, I lead her and make her comfortable.

CONCLUSION
- I don't give a sh1t. So don't give a sh1t. Don't give a sh1t about your small ****, because she'll suck on it anyway.
- Dates are ultimately why you do cold approach pickup. You want to get to know the girl, don't you? That 20 minutes conversation without follow up won't get you laid. Dates get you laid.
- Once you get the date, you'll have a boost of confidence, KNOWING that you actually attract girls and can make them comfortable to hang out with you again. You won't need to doubt yourself about how all your past phone numbers were out of pity or worry about all your past flaky numbers. Because you got the date.

 

[Mindgamez]

DAY18
GREAAAT. Date was great!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OXoLLiGSKQ8&list=PLEA1514932853D85A

Though, the day started off quit terrible.
I was with Denis, Kareem and Fiodor. Fun guys, but for some reason I was feeling totally out of state during the whole daygame session.

The approaches? Meh, pretty bad. I had a constant anxiety at the bottom of my stomach. Quite annoying, it stopped me from taking further action. But I had to go through.
Did some approaches. Took me like an hour or so to do my first approach, no idea why.

The night before I couldn't sleep so well. I was hyped up for the date. Bad sleep, more stress.

The date.
Right before, I was so nervous for some reason. That pain in my stomach won't fckn leave me for some reason.
I listened to Breathe In Deep by Armin Van Buuren. Awesome song, me and Porno love it.
I arrived 5 minutes late, she arrived 2 minutes later. I waved, went for the hug and *la bise*.
You know what's the first thing she tells me? That she HAS A BOYFRIEND.
Me : WHAT? ARE YOU SERIOUS?
Her : Yeah I am!
Me : What? Like REALLY? Wow... I don't know what to say...
Her : Yeah I do...
Me : Oh woow... well... fine let's just get some food then.
She giggled. We talked friendily for a while. I was scared that this date would end up just a friendly hangout, and I was literally thinking of leaving to go see Kareem and Fiodor again.
But I said to myself : Why the hell not for the reference? If she agreed to hang out with me, it's because she's interested on some level.
Her : Yeah, even though I have a boyfriend I thought that you were a pretty cool guy so I figured why not

The flirting was on later. Like really on. I had massive boners.
Me : So apparently you're a p0rn actress.
Her : Haha yeah.

Too much flirting to remember all of it.

I hug her, linger for a while facing each other. I was thinking of going for the kiss already.
Me : Mhmhmh, can't do it.
Her : Haha, what what?
Me : Can't! Just can't.
Her : What you talking about?

She had checker blouse.
Me : Hey, can I play chess on your blouse?
Her : Haha, I always wanted to learn to play chess. Do you know how?
Me : Yeaah
Her : Oh! You should show me how one day!

We walk around looking for a restaurant. I wrap my arm around her for a couple seconds at some point, I go a little physical. I knew she had a boyfriend, but I still wanted to.
At the 1st restaurant we go to.
Me : Hey, do you have any place with a sofa? I'd be more romantic.
She giggles, the waiter laughs too. It's playful.
We look at the menu and don't find anything interesting, so we leave in the middle LOL. The waiter looks at us very funnily and we just run off.

The 2nd restaurant we actually eat this time. I did some that's what she said jokes.
Her : You always think sexual don't you?
Me : Haha yeah... What's your favorite fruit?
Her : Oh I love... bananas. I just love to feel it in my mouth, to shove it in...
Me : Mhmh, with some white cream?
She kept her mouth open, eyes half-closed. It got me so fckn horny.
Her : Oh yeah a little white cream is great
Then I imagined her whirling her tongue around my **** and her opening her mouth to welcome my sperm between her lips. I popped a boner instantly.
Me : Aghhh...
Her : Hahahaha... you're not going to last so long.
Me : Yeah I know. No fap it's been 7 days already!

I was talking about how her boobs were fake.

Sometimes we'd just stop talking and look at each other in the eyes. We smiled at each other. Then, I started laughing for no reason.
Me : Hahahah!
Her : What? What? What?
Me : I won't say it...
Her : No say it!
Me : Okay. In what language do you orgasm?
Her : Hmhmhm I don't know... haha. Whatever comes more naturally?
Me : Mhhmhm... Spanish?
Her : Yeah, probably
Me : Ohhh alright

Sex. Sex. That's all I was thinking of.
Later on, I went in some more serious conversation, talking about self-development material. Not because I want to show her how wise I man, but because I'm just passionate about it. So she has a glimpse of what I am except from being a horn dog lool.

When we were about to pay, I tell her that I'm low on cash and that we should pay separately. She agrees no problem, then her debit card doesn't work so I agree to pay for her lol...
Her : I'll pay next time. I want to bring you to a Mexican restaurant.
Her eyes and hair looked beautiful with the yellow lights from the room. Her smile was bright too.
Me : You're bringing me to a Mexican restaurant? Okay cool

We walked outside, more flirting.
Me : Hey, does it ever happen to you to forget your underwear?
Her : Hum yeah sometimes. You?
Me : Haha yeah. Boxers aren't always comfortable you know?
Yeah, especially on very hot summer days when your sweat makes your underwear stick on your sweaty balls... Itchy. Just saying.
Her : I hate bras, I don't wear them
INSTANT BONER.
Me : Ohhh really? Aghhhh...
I open up her blouse (she has a shirt underneath. Wanted to see if I could see her nipples). She smiled.
Her : Haha, stop it!
Me : But when you're horny, don't your nipples show?
I was totally fine talking about this. Totally comfortable.
Her : So?
Ahhh even bigger of a boner!
Me : Niice. Yeah me from not wearing boxers my boner shows more, but whatever I don't mind too much. I just gotta... *adjusts raging boner* be careful.
She laughed, probably saw it.

When she talked, she lifted her eyebrows sensually. I loved it.
When I went in physical, she started talking French to me saying : Woooah stop stop, relax breathe in...

I was thinking about making out with her. I pussied out to do so multiple times, but I still got closer to her.
Touching, escalation. At some point she was sitting next to me, had my hand sliding down her leg a little. She pushed me away playfully.
Her : I'm leaving in 15 minutes.
Ahhh sh1t, at this point I was like FCK what do I do. I gotta go for it uugghh...

Me : Hey let's get some water. Some wet wet water.
Her : Ohhh yeah... You like it wet huh?
The sensuality in her voice made me sooo hard.
Me : Yeah, you're the one getting wet with that vagina mhm?

Me : Yo I REALLY gotta pee...
Her : Ahh well go pee behind this tree!
She pointed at some tiny tree.
Me : But my **** would show to everyone!
Her : That's okay, it's natural.
Me : I don't mind if you see, but I don't want other people to see.
She laughed. We walked to some other tree and I literally thought she'd come hide in the bush with me to see my ****... I was picturing a blowing in the bush right at that moment. Got fckn horny and started breathing fast.
She just waited for me to pee on my own. Wtver LOL.

So we walk back to her bus stop.
Me : You know, I feel like it's very unfair. Guys when they sleep with many girls they get respect from their friends. Girls on the other hand, can't sleep with many guys!
Her : Why not? What's the problem? Oh yeah, they'll be called a slut...
Me : Exactly. That's bad social conditioning. We are all animals after all! Why resist our natural urges?
Her : Yeah, you're absolutely right.
What I did here is convince her logically that it's okay to hang out with me and potentially sleep with me.

Me : So what are you doing on Thursday?
Her : Thursday? Hmmhmhmh nothing, no I'm doing nothing. Why?
Me : You should come at my local mall, we'll get some free chocolates and we could go to my place afterwards. I'll show you how to play chess.
Her : Yeah, sounds good!
I tell her about logistics to get to my place. It's like an hour ride from her house just to get to the mall + extra 20 minutes to get to my place, but she says : Oh that's not too bad! Yeah.
I go in for the hug.
Her : Let's do *la bise*!
I do it to her. But then, I kiss her on both cheeks.
Me : Hey, you know the eskimo kiss? Let's do it!
Her : Haha when you rub your nose like that?
She giggled as I tried to go in for the make-out. She backed off but it's understandable. She smiled at me.
Her : Bye, message me on facebook!

In general, the date was great. A lot of sexual flirting, very explicit.
She was very reactive to everything I'd say. She'd act impressed by what I said. I just smiled simply as it was no big deal I was doing short films, that I was Buddhist, etc. I was working on being as calm as possible the whole time, and it worked. It was a little awkward at times, but not so much. I was still able to deal with it just fine.
Though, listen to this. She had only one boyfriend in her life, and with that first boyfriend she's now living with him! They've been 6 months together, living together for a month. That's fckn crazy, and stupid in my opinion.
Why settle for that first guy you meet?

CONCLUSION
- Boyfriend objection? Whatever, push it a step further. If she's hanging out with you it's definitely for a reason.
- Make her talk sexually. Make it normal and effortless to talk sexually. It's just something that's part of you, of your animal self. Express it.
- Setup the next meetup during the date!
- Be unreactive and calm during the interaction. Let her be impressed.
- Fckin go physical as soon as you can. Wrap your arm around a little, poke her, whatever.
- ALLOW yourself to be HORNY. She'll love it, and she'll feel the same. Girls are sexual creatures, sex maniacs and they want to get laid just as much as you do. The hornier you are and the more you show it, the more she'll be. Show it through your eyes, no need to say it verbally. Once she senses your vibe, go in explicitly and she'll do the same.
- You CAN get laid from daygame. Build rapport with her, escalate.
- I fckn love the game.

 

[LearningSlowly]

If she shows up Thursday, she's all yours. If she doesn't, she felt too guilty. Either way you know where you stand and there are two clear paths ahead.

Sounds like a fun date even with no kiss.

 

[Mindgamez]

Learning I appreciate your support. You're right on that, either way I won.

DAY 19
Progress? Yes yes, definitely. I'm learning more and more.
Epic lyric video again.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=6wYVvjzTCzw#!

I borrowed The Game by Neil Strauss from Denis. It's an interesting book. I always tried to avoid it at first because I thought it'd be too mainstream and everything, but it's actually quite cool. It's not about all the inner philosophical psychological concepts from RSD, but it's good to expand your horizons and look at other material.

Anyway, about the day.
I was with Jad that day, Porno too.
For some reason, I had major approach anxiety that day. Not only this, but Porno was the one approaching all the time! He's become so much better than me at the actually opening/approaching, while I'm now better at setting up dates and building the connection.

After 7ish, I was feeling VERY tired. My head was pounding from migraine, and anxiety got the best of me. I was going DOOWN.
Jad : Hey man, let's stay a little man. I wanna do one approach at least...
He had his notepad. His plan was to pretend to do an *interview* of girls for school.

So yeah. We walked around, he opened the set of two girls. They accepted to take the survey.
Midway through questions, we'd go into conversation mode and I'd isolate the hot girl. Her name was Valerie.
I'd start off by asking her personal questions, getting to know her. She was investing more.
Though, she wasn't asking that much about me. Didn't matter. When I said obnoxious things, she'd look at me with the frowned eyebrows.
But you know what? With experience, I became able to discern the difference between fake frowns and real frowns. Fake frowns come with a veeerrry subtle smirk, and I can still feel her smile through her eyes.
She was just sh1t testing me.

OMG her friend was SUCH a ****BLOCK! I told Jad to wing me on this one.
When I was flirting with her, friend was like : Ohhh what are you doing with my girlfriend? Blablabla
She would INTERRUPT our 1 on 1 conversation all the time, listening to us like a stalker monkey. Every sexual kind of flirting she went like : WHAT WHAT? WHAT YOU SAID?
Then she would physically block me away from her. Valerie giggled and hid behind her. It was playful.
At first I thought that her friend was pretty funny, but at the end it was ANNOYING as hell.

So we lead the girls to the mall and we sit down at a table with some sofas. I sit right next to Valerie, continue on with the flirting.
My vibe was excellent. I experimented on this one. I wasn't smiling all the time, kept it unreactive and just very chill to the friend's objection. Valerie played like she wasn't interested, but still gave me the cute eyes, so I knew. She would slap me playfully at times.
I tickled her a little at some point. That was the most physical I could get without her friend freaking out LOL. I think her friend was jealous.
I was saying obnoxious sh1t and acting weird on purpose for my own self-amusement. They enjoyed it.

At some point, I act like I'm leaving. I look at Valerie, and I can see that little disappointment in her face. I just smile because I think it's funny. She waves at me goodbye, but all I did was go to the toilet to come back XD.

The interaction was like what, 40 minutes? Thanks to Jad for being interesting and for doing his best to isolate the jealous ugly friend. She had the Bieber haircut, ew.
So we leave the sofas. Valerie and her friend run away playfully. Valerie's giggling.
Me : Hey wait! Guys come back for the hug.
I had a slight desperation in my voice.
Friend : Why? You need affection? Blablabla.
Me : It's an invitation for a hug. How can you deny that? (or somthing along those lines)
Blablabla.
Valerie : Haha, why hug you?
Me : Are you stupid?
Valerie : What?
Me : You think I'm stupid? You're fcking hot and I want to hang out with you. I don't want your friendship
BAM. Couldn't be more blunt than that.
She smiled. Yes, that's what she was waiting for. Then, of course ****block interrupts.
Friend : What's going on here huh?
Me : Yeah, we're just staying friends.
I look at her and give her The Smile. She did the same.
I give her the hug. I go in for *la bise* but she pushes me away playfully. Fun times!

I go back up. I see a set of 5 girls doing the heart sign towards us, so I give one back to them.
They burst out laughing because it wasn't intended for us LOL. I walk towards the girl and she accepts the hug.
We walk to the metro while I'm on a 1 on 1 conversation with her the whole time. Jad isolated the 4 other girls very well. Good job man.

Though, they were tourists from Quebec so we'd never see them again! Told the girl I'd bring her on a date if she wasn't leaving the next day. We wave goodbyes, it was a great interaction and very comfortable nonetheless.

DAY 20
Pushed through.

Yeah. I planned 20-30 minutes to do my approaches at the local mall today before going at Nick's house to edit the dance show DVD.
When I arrive, I skip groups of girls and just try to look for that one girl. It resulted in me walking around for a good 30-40 minutes.

Nothing.

I saw girl on the phone? Waited for a while, walked around and came back and she wasn't there. Ugh.

So I exit the local mall, telling myself that I'd be okay to skip that day. That it won't really change my crazy momentum I built from the past 19 days.
Till I saw that girl I skipped earlier. Went in directly.
Me : Hey, can I have a sip?
Her : Haha no
Me : Actually just thought you were cute, hi!
She was engaged lol.

Anyway. Lesson? PUSH THROUGH. It's not over yet. I'm glad I saw that girl near the bus stop or probably I would have skipped another day. Skipping one day was enough.

Text game becoming better
Read this article. Helped a ton.
http://www.simplepickup.com/forum/become-boss/20807-text-game-overview.html#post175596

Waited a day to text Valerie. Here's how it went. Some inside jokes in there though. Please, give feedback.
Me : Hey it's Mindgamez, slap me in the face
Her : haha no sorry i dont slap people
Me : Aren't you a karate gurl? What happened to your asian side?
Her : jeje i am its still there jeje
Me : Jeje? And you're spanish?
Her : im not ;p I just always say that ;p
Her : whats ur last name
Me : Aw spanish wouldve been exotic. (censored), dont stalk me too much lol
Her : im already exotic and i wont haha
Me : Yeah? I dont believe that
Her : haha its true
Me : We should meet Saturday at 7 at Chinatown to get some food. You're in?
Her : jeje I'll think about it
Her :
Me : The smile means yes
Her : give me good reasons ;p
I was about to try and find something funny, but I decided to not text back. Me? Proving myself to her? I value my time. So 1 hour and a half later she goes :
Her : hello?
Me : Instead of fried chicken I do fried dog
Her : im sure..
Her : poor dogs
Me : HAHA if I do will you kick me in the balls?
Her : I will
Her :
Me : You naughty.
Her : sometimes
Her : ;p
Me : You wont kick me because the smiley means no!
Her : haha
Her : i will
Her : ;p
Me : What about my future babies?
Her : dont eat dogs and ull have them
Her : ;p
Me : Jeje ill think about that (;
Her : now tell ne ur lastname
Her ;p
Me : Didnt I tell you already?
Her : no you didnt ;o
Me : (censored) happy facebook stalking hahaha
Her : nnoooiiii
Her : thats not tru
Me : Yeh
Her :noooooo
Her : jesus
Her : ;p
Me : Buddha*
Her : Buddha then
Her : ong bak haha
Me : Bangkok?
Her : jaja yes
Me : Thats a naughty town name
Her : how come
Me : Wtf is ong bak
Her : haha
Her : ;p
Her : nothing
Me : I came to Bangkok
Her : hein what
Her : haha
Me : Bangkok noodles, lets do this
She didn't respond. Fck LOL. Hopefully she does soon.
During the whole interaction she would respond instantly, while I took my time to respond. My last Bangkok noodles text wasn't supposed to be sexual anyway (or maybe...), because the date I suggested was at Chinatown so yeah.
Anyway, it's all a game.

By the way, Mollie flaked... I should've avoided that pointless chatting on FB about nothing.
Genevieve the girl I dated on Monday, the horny banana girl, didn't respond either. When she does, I'll leave a day or so without messaging her see how things go. Anyway, I'm a dangerous seducer and she's afraid of falling in the trap! Her boyfriend will be mad...

Honestly? Why care?

CONCLUSION
- Look for subtle cues in her behaviours. She doesn't mean it when she gives you the frowns sometimes. Even if she does mean it, be unreactive to it and just embrace.
- ****block friend? Don't be fazed by it.
- Text game? Practice it. Read the article I posted.
- Go go GO for the dates. Set them up, left and right. Flakes? Who cares, it happens. Get over it. So many elements of randomness into play. Don't take it personally. TEMPORARY truths. Girls mean it 100% in the moment, but might not mean it a couple days later. Why? Sometimes it's just her.
- Persistence. Push through till the last minute. That's how I got my last approach on day 20.

 

[LearningSlowly]

Your text game seemed to fail at "Will you kick me in the balls?" After that it was a repetitive, weird conversation. Also this girl is stupid (called it).

 

[Mindgamez]

Learning really? It worked wonders. The will you kick me in the balls was an inside joke. Repetitiveness is playful and the weirdness is part of who I am. Haha

DAY 21
On FCKN FIRE!
CAn't get enough of this song. Reposted.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=6wYVvjzTCzw

I woke up earlier today, 9:45 AM.
Took my time to exercise, install video software and read The Game a little bit.

Arrived at 3:00 at local mall. Waited for Cake to arrive. I did one approach, Porno arrived an hour late. Talked to Antoine working at chocolate store, he wants to pickup with us one day! Whatever, we headed downtown.

After an hour bus ride in traffic, we arrived downtown at like 5:30. I was pretty tired, but I managed to force myself to do a couple approaches. First ones are always hard to do. It took me a while to go into momentum.

Me : Hey Porno, what about we just troll around this time?
Him : Hahaha yeah! Let's do this.

Set of 2 girls.
Porno: Hey guys, this morning, I woke up, ate a bowl of cereals, drank my milk..
Me: Then he went to the doctor and bought cereal.
Then I realized that the girl had a very cute smile. The one I was talking to was a good 7.5. Very cute eyes, couldn't resist.
I proceeded with the compliment, shook hands and isolated her. It was two 1 on 1 conversations now, which is always best.
I'd talk simply, try to make her talk as always. I sometimes asked random questions out of nowhere because I didn't quite know what to say. It's nice because I was a little nervous but I managed not to show it.
Me : I'm Mindgamez, you?
Her : I'm Lili
Me : How old are you?
Her : 15, you?
Me : Oh that's just fine. How old do I look like?
Her : You look nice, why?
Me : No, how OLD do I look like?
Her : Oh hahaha! I don't know, 17-18?
Me : Yep 17.
Blablabla.
Me : So it's your first time a guy hits on you?
Her : Yeah, haha. Guys at high school are just stupid...
Me : No pretty guys at your school?
Her : Well no, not as cute as you.
Me : Thanks
I smiled simply. Her smile was very attractive. We were talking quite close, I stared into her eyes and didn't bother looking around. I was looking at her 90% of the time. She was definitely hooked. She goes to a Hebrew school and no guys ever hit on her. She wasn't used to this! Definitely virgin, that'd be great to bang.
Porno talks back to us and tells us that we'll go on a double date. Porno's girl suggested that because she wanted to go with her friend too. I could've suggested a 1 on 1 with me and Lili, but I wanted Porno to get the reference of getting a date!

So double date. That's cool.

Did a couple more approaches. They were interesting. I realized something : I actually feel more aroused to 7.5s than 8.5s, because around hotter girls I feel nervous and can't allow myself to relax and feel excited. It's crazy. But when it's a 9, holy sh1t boner.

We approached two hot *lesbians*. Really couldn't tell if it was real or not! It looked real though... Funny because they just stood in front of us awkwardly the whole time like they wanted to stay! But they walked away as we did after we got bored.

Later outside near the car exposition, I see two hot chicks. One with HUMONGOUS PERFECT CLEAVAGE TITS. Holy sh1t. She looked like the perfect pornstar. To me, a solid 9.
I shook hands with her. Asked her if she was a cougar with her funny scarf. As I looked at it, took the opportunity to look down her cleavage. It was deep, perfectly round breasts. Her face was perfect, lots of make-up but well done.
At first I was pretty nervous, but then when I hold eye contact I just came back to arousal and stress was relieved. Till they told us they had to leave, I went needy.
Funny because we already approached them like a week ago LOL.

Phone game! Getting great.
Texting with Valerie.
Me : Bangkok noodles, lets do this
Her : haha
Her : where ;o
Her : sorry i was busy
Me : I dont text at night because... things usually get out of control
Her : hahas
Her : what happens ;p
Me : Im not going to tell you, naughty
Her : hahaha
Her : Im not naughty
Me : What are you wearing?
Her : why are u asking?
Her ;p
Her : I wont tell anyways
Me : You wont tell? Haha, gotta sleep gnight
Her : haha me too
Her : goodnighttttttt

7:42 PM the next day :
Her : hello
Me : Grettings from Bangkok
Her : oh yeah are u that far
Me : Yeah, I went by elephant
Her : oh cool!
Her : I want one too!
Me : Saturday 7 at (censored), I'll show you my elephant
Her : haha
Her : u cant bring an elephant in the subway
Me : Yes
Her : how?
I felt lazy to play the game, so I figured I'd be cool to play it lazy.
Me : Dunno
Her : haha
Her : u didnt give any good reason to go yet
Her : but
Then she stopped texting. So did I. I was waiting for her response. Then, an hour later she goes :
Her : are u alive?
Me : After you said butt I was expecting a poem about how great we'd be together
Her : ah really?
Her : sorry to disappoint you
her : ;p
Make it or BREAK IT. Whatever, showing intent and telling her I'm ready to move on, showing her I'm tired of playing games.
Me : Coming on Saturday or not? I'll make other plans
Her : haha
Her : Why not
Her : only as friends ;p
WIN. Only as friends? Yeah right, she wants the D.
Me : Good, see you at metro (censored)
Her : okayyyyy ;D
1 hours later
Her : goodnight now!
Me : (;
Her : haha what does that mean
Me : Rawr tiger
Her : haha rawr dinosaur im better
Me : Go to sleep! Haha
Her : haha yes ;p
Her : im gone

Oh yeah. That's how it's DONE.


What about Mollie? I thought it was over? That she flaked? Guess what.

Wednesday :
Me : Hey it's Mindgamez. Friday lets meet at local mall. 7 is good?
Thursday(today)
Me : Fine I'll photoshop nude pictures of you and post it on Wikipedia
Her : Woah woah.
Her : I actually can't. Time is bad for me. Lol I keep fcking up with thinking. Impulse. I got suspended Tuesday and my parents are still mad at me for being late.
Her : More than once.
Me : Its okay, couldn't either. You're a pretty bad girl, that's not cool
A little PUSH, and see what happens. Challenged!
Her : You're not cool.
Her : Pretty bad girls are cool if you haven't noticed
Her : Cool kids take risks
Her : Just kidding. I don't take risks. I just wasnt thinking
Her : That whole Jackie Chan *courage without wisdom is foolishness* **** happening for me

Didn't respond yet. I'll text her tomorrow or so.
About Genevieve? She responded today last minute for our date that was supposed to be today. So I didn't respond to her. I'll make her wait a couple days.

CONCLUSION
- Make the girls CHASE YOU. Let them wait. Don't reward bad behaviours.
- Go in without the intention of hitting on them if you're too stuck in your head. Then, transition to the real sh1t! It worked wonders for us because we had no pressure at the beginning. Look at her with the eyes of love, make her talk and hold strong eye contact. Stay very calm and chill, assume that she's super excited to meet you.
- Hotter girls? Don't be nervous around them. ALLOW yourself to feel aroused, let it arise through your body. KNOW that you deserve this quality of girls. Of course easier said than done, so you might as well start off dating 7.5s before 9s. Even get laid with 7.5s!
- Abundance. Abundance feeds abundance. It's a never-ending cycle!
- Consistency pays off. Going out several days in a row was ABSOLUTELY worth it, every single approach was. I'm glad I managed to do so.

I keep my challenges in mind for the 30 days.
- Attempt make-out during daygame approach within the first few seconds.
- Bring a girl to my room. Actually you know what? Get Laid.

 

[Mindgamez]

DAY 22
I usually don't like pop music, but this one was playing as we were about to make-out. It reminded me of good times filming my friend Danniel dancing for a dance video. Fck yeah.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TH2tp72T13o

Anyway. The day started off ordinary. We did a couple approaches at the mall, a lot of b1tchy rejections for some reason! Whatever, it didn't affect me.

Then, had a double date with Porno and the two girls from day 21.
BEST DATE YET.

So we wait at the metro station. They don't come, so after 5 minutes of waiting we decide to go wait in the music store and try out some guitars and pianos.

We go back to the metro when Lili texts me. We look around and can't find them lol... so we keep looking around and around. Finally found them, go for the hug and I tease them about how dumbass they were.
At first I was feeling quite nervous. I realized that every beginning of a date starts off like that for me. Even though I feel nervous at first, the feeling diminishes as the evening goes forward.

So I start off leading them out of the metro.
At the first light, I grab her hand and randomly start slow dancing with her. It's funny! Physical right from the start (;
We walk for a bit, I bump into Lili from time to time. I hug her, stay in close proximity. Every time we're turning from street to street I lead her with my hand on her lower back. At one point, I had my arm around her but only for a short while.
When we talked, it was always from very close. I kept thinking about kissing her, even though it was the beginning of the date. Sometimes I'd hug her from the back making sure that she can feel my boner.

So she touched my hands and told me how hot they were.
Me : Oh thank you
Her : Hahaha! No your hands!
So we walked away again, and we just started holding hands because I felt like it. We linked fingers together. I was with Porno and Lili's friend Nataly but I didn't really pay attention to them. We were both isolating our girl.

So we walked in the restaurant/lounge. I took a seat on the sofa, girls sat in front of us.
Me : Hey, come sit right here.
I gestured next to me. She sits close.
We started talking about anything. She asked me a lot of questions, so I didn't need to start bragging randomly.
She had her coat over her thighs. She was wearing a top that could let me see her cleavage. It gave me a boner which she probably saw. I slid my hand beneath her coat, between her thighs. She started moving her legs a little. I bet she was getting horny.
I teased her a little, what we said didn't matter as all I needed to do was to be chill and let her be interested. How easy it was, it's almost scary to think that I used to worry so much about making the move with a girl.
I had my arm around her waist, I slid my hand on her back a little, she was definitely interested.
I asked her to give me a massage. She would do so and push her boobs against my back, asking me in the ear if I liked it. It felt like a pre-sex routine haha.
So I turn around, take her from the waist and turn her around, brushing on her boobs a little. I give her the massage. Then, we turn and face each other. I don't remember what I said, but she gave me the sexy eyes. I got closer.
Me : Hey, have you tried the eskimo kiss?
She smiles and says no
Me : You simply go like this with your nose
I brushed my nose against hers for a couple seconds as she smiled. Green light.
I went in directly for the make-out. DAMN she was good at it. I slid my hands on her belly as I did. I opened my eyes a little bit while switching sides. Being so close to a girl never felt so hot. I continue making-out more intensely, leaning a little forward.
After we were done making-out, I had a bit of her hair in my mouth.
Me : Ahhh, I ate your hair!
Lol, we laughed and it was fun and games.
She gave me more massages, and I did too. We were in a fckin restaurant/lounge and having fun.
At one point I was playing with her hair. For me to stop, she took my hand, slid it down on her boobs a little. Damn I wanted to fck her so bad.
The best part wasn't the making-out. The best part was that I was completely chill and confident about it.
I had my little nervous times when I was worried whether I was interesting or not, but little moments like these don't matter too much. Every date isn't perfect!
Eventually, I did a couple sex jokes. It started off when she asked me what I wanted to be, and told her that I wanted to do Porn films.
Her : Haha, you want to be an actor or something?
Me : Yeah, wanna be the actress?
We laughed together. It was a nice connection.
We took pictures of us making-out too. Damn my hair looked funny... shows how it doesn't matter the looks.
She later felt my biceps. She told me it felt like I worked out, but I didn't. I basically have the skinniest arms ever LOL.
Shows how the girl's attention is focused on the positive parts of you when she's attracted. Everything you thought was weird about your appearance becomes a plus.
Her : So you speak Cambodian?
Me : Well yeah a little...
Her : Tell me something!
Me : Mhmhmh... Kgnom Chang Choy!
Her : What does that mean?
Me : It means, I want to have sex.
She smiled at me. It was a risky one, but hey I had to say it.
Me : I'm just kidding... That's all I know in Cambodian
Kind of trying to tone it down so everything feels normal. It's a great thing I did, tried to avoid too much sexual talk and just keep it small talk and talking about whatever. The difference was the look in her eyes, the physicality and the making-out.
Her : Should we go out?
Me : Go out the restaurant? Why? Go to some dark corner together?
She laughed, and then told me that she had to go home. Her mom was getting mad at her on the phone, but I knew she wanted to stay longer.

 

[Mindgamez]

We left the restaurant, didn't pay for her and my excuse was that I was low on cash... haha
Seriously, I'll be going on so many dates so I can't pay for all of them. Paying for her doesn't change the outcome at all.
I had my arm around her waist, she did the same. We talked and stuff.
Her : Oh I so want to go to New York one day... is there a lot of shops out there?
Me : If there's a lot of sex shops at New York?
With her accent, it literally sounded like this!
Her : No! a lot of shops! Hahaha
Me : Well yeah there's plenty of sex shops. Blablabla.
Me : By the way, do girls watch porn a lot?
Her : Haha well, no...
Me : I see. Girls are more the imaginative type right? Like 50 shades of Grey
Her : Yeah I want to read that book!

Blablabla. Fun times. We head in the metro. While waiting for the train, I grab her hand and spin her.
Me : Hey, I'm going to show you how to dance!
I put her hand on my neck. She giggles. I take her second hand and pretend to dance.
Then, I hug her very close like I'm about to grind her.
Me : Hey, have you ever been to a club?
Her : No
Me : Well that's how you dance in a club
I start grinding her with my hard-on. She giggled.
Me : Okay we'll stop, people watching around!
So then I go in for the make-out again. This time, more intense. She can feel my crotch on her, I slide my hands down to her ass, up her back. I grab her neck, switch sides. We made out for at least a minute non-stop. It was so hot, I'm getting a boner just from writing about it. Damn nofap challenge.

We go inside the metro, talk for a bit. Midway through home, I make-out with her again. I lean in towards her, I'm a real horn dog. We made out for even longer than before, got her lips very wet and I just wanted to feel more of her saliva in my mouth. I slid my tongue in deeper, slid my hands on her thighs. I played with her ear with my fingers.
Me : So what are you doing next weekend?
Her : I don't know... Studying?
Me : Come to my house, we'll watch some Netflix
Her : Yeah, I don't know. Text me.
Time comes for her to leave for real, so we stand up. I go in for the hug, but she goes in for the make-out, so I go in. I grab her ass this time. The metro's moving but I stop her from falling down.
And damn, she smells so good and lovely.

WOW. Such a boost in confidence. How easy it was? Like, holy sh1t I had no sh1t tests going on. Porno and me were talking about how we'd become so much better and how we'll get laid easily with them. They asked us if we were virgins, which we admitted. They are virgins too, perfect.

Texting, messaging
Texted Mollie. She got super mad because I told her she wasn't the type of girl I expected and she told me to fck off LOL. She's a maniac, crazy.
Messaged Genevieve. Since I believe in abundance, I figured that I'd be bad to make her break up from her relationship. Anyway, gaming a girl that has a boyfriend just puts so much more resistance...
Hey, to be honest I feel kind of bad for getting in the way of your relationship. We can't go further if you're still with your boyfriend. Or stay with him and we'll just be good friends, you're cool

Me : Hey, to be honest I feel kind of bad for getting in the way of your relationship. We can't go further if you're still with your boyfriend. Or stay with him and we'll just be good friends, you're cool
Genevieve : thats what I thought we'd be lol. you're really cool too
Me : I still find you hot, but I'm not the right person for a serious relationship if you have any cute friends I could meet that'd be cool too

CONCLUSION
- Go in physical as SOON as possible. Get the reference of going in for it.
- Making out is amazing. Let yourself lose, be horny and express it. She'll love it and she'll be asking for more and more.
- Be completely comfortable. Lead her, do what you want. Assume that you already won and that she fully wants you. Because guess what? That's how it is. Once she has accepted the date, you've already won.
- Abundance. You're getting there. Sex is no big deal man, just go for it. She clearly wants the D at some point, and you guys are both comfortable with it. Escalate.
- CONSISTENCY PAYS OFF. It took me 22 days straight to get there, and it's a sh1t load of fun. It's a great experience, meeting a girl randomly at the mall and making out passionately the next day.

 

[Mindgamez]

What happened?
I got too much work to do. Had to edit video for dance show. It takes HOURS and I really had to use my time wisely. I basically failed the 30 days challenge, but that's fine. I'm still bringing the girl to my room and will go for the make-out during the day... hopefully.

Before I leave in end June for vacation/work!

I've done crazy progress with those 23 days, and I'm pretty proud about what I've done. Right after I'm done with the video, I'll be back on the challenge. I want to spend time with my friends before I leave. While I'll be up there at Mont Tremblant, I'll be flirting with the girls over there! (160 staff members, mostly around 16-20 years old).

Sh1t, if do another 7 days to finish the 30 days challenge starting this Friday, I'll have no time to chill with old friends at all. I'll be pickup pickup mode non-stop! Should I? Well totally, it'll be a massive boost for me.

DDAY 23
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nGCeJvG5gSY

Meh day. Date was pretty boring too...

So yeah. I went to the local mall with Porno. We did one approach each or something. Yeah, that was it.
Then, I went downtown by myself because Porno wanted to go workout instead. I didn't even approach! It was like 2 hours wasted at least. I just ate, chatted using Wifi on iPod on fb, and basically did nothing.

Till the date.
I was a little nervous for some reason. But then when I saw her, she wasn't as pretty as the first time... I don't know, maybe she simply wasn't that hot actually. It was Valerie.
Whatever, it'll be cool anyway I thought.

So we went to the exact same place I went to with Lili and Porno's girl. It was awkward, because she was awkward. I was too, but I couldn't help it. She was SHY! I invited her to sit next to me on the couch but refused.
The conversation wasn't really going anywhere. I tried to make her talk but she wouldn't say too much. I had to rely on my senseless funny random sh1t I always talk about, but she didn't like my humour really. I got a little in my head at some point, I didn't know what to do and how to make her feel more comfortable. Basically, it was getting quite lame.

We left the lounge/restaurant with me not paying for her. My excuse was that I was poor lol.
We walked around Chinatown. For some reason she'd keep a distance from me and didn't like it when I touched her. Even the innocent touches! Just tapping her shoulder made her back off. She tried to keep a playful vibe, but I don't know why she seemed depressed to me.
I felt like she liked me anyway but didn't know how to show it. Or was I simply overconfident? I don't think so. For real, she wanted me to walk around with her the whole time. We did for like 2h30 or so, talking and talking about simple things. She wasn't comfortable enough to just sit together at some random bench to talk, she wanted to walk the whole time. She would avoid eye contact with me.
I was going a little crazy at times and it made her uncomfortable in public, so I toned it down and tried to relate to her as much as possible.
Me : Yeah you know, I have my crazy moments but my introvert moments too. I like being at peace and just chilling sometimes. And yeah, it doesn't matter if you only have a few friends. It's better to have few close friends than have thousands of acquaintances.
We talked more and more. She was into singing, me into piano and guitar, and she told me we should do a band.
Later on when no one's around, I try to wrap my arm around her. After 2 seconds she pushes me away again playfully.

After all this time, I felt like meh...
She was quite negative, saw hotter girls walk by and telling me how they were attention *****s in minidresses. She probably envy them and everything. She doesn't like the clubbing scene either, nor getting hit on by random dudes. She told me that I was exception.

I waited a little bit at her bus stop before she'd leave, but then felt like leaving earlier because it was boring.
As I left the bench, she looked at me with some kind of sad look on her face.
Me : Hug. Hey come on, you hugged me at the beginning!
Her : Hahaha okay...
She stands up, gives me the hug. She seems awkward. As I walk away she looks at me and smile.

I kind of feel sorry for her...
Later texted her the evening. Mentioned how she seemed shy about the hug. Told me that she's a little awkward with people she doesn't know.
Me : You seemed shy but I knew you wanted the hug anyway!
Her : Haha

And we never texted each other from that moment. She doesn't interest me.

Hot texting.
It was with Lili.

Me : I want to feel your wet lips against mine
Her : Me too (;
Me : And feel your breathing as our tongues interlace... mhm
Her : Hhh ok i give up when you wanna meet?
Her : But you can continue (;
Me : Holding you by the neck, switching sides while feeling our noses brush past. I slide my other hand down and down more to then bring our bodies closer together. You cant resist the rush to slide your tongue deeper inside.
Me : Romantic or erotic poetry? You decide haha
Her : Definitely both ohhhhhh wow
Me : Your turn, impress me
Her : I really want you next too me right now to feel your warm and safe hug to feel your lips burning on mine and your hot hand warming mine
Me : Mhmhmhm, I know you're feeling so hot right now (; dont play too much! Good night, lets meet on Friday
Her : Good night.)

 

[Mindgamez]

The next day
Her : What about saturday?
Me : Yeah, take the *bus* from *location* and stop at local mall. Is 5PM good for you?
Her : I cant comme to you this weekend you want to go to the movies or something?
Me : Got better movies at home! If transportation is the problem I can go pick you up
Her : Ok where you want to pick me up?(have to be home at 8 PM)
8 PM WHAT. Okay well, we'll have sex during the day while my parents and guests are at home LOL. Hopefully they don't come in our room.
Me : Thats so early... ok *locatio* McDonalds at 4
Her : Ok

Actually planning on having sex that day. I'm really feeling confident about it! She'll love it. I have everything going in my favour, she's comfortable with me grabbing her ass and kissing already, so in private I'll be able to do even more.

Sunday,
It was my piano concert. I planned on hitting on that friend's sister but it seemed a little weird to do so, so didn't do it... hahaha.

Afterwards in the car, my older sister talks to me.
Her : So, any girlfriend yet?
Me : Haha well, no but I'm meeting this girl.
Her : Oh really? Blalbalbalbal
Told her about Lili, girl I made out with on Day 22. My sister was SO open to it. She even suggested me that we go buy some condoms for when Lili will be at my place.
She also said that when I'll be back from clubbing, I could go sleep at her place because it's closer than my house. Maybe she'd be open to me bringing a girl home? I have to ask her, but I don't know if I should. Because she lives 10-15 minutes from downtown clubs which is amazing logistics. Worst case scenario, I drop her off after the sex is done.

DAMN I want to nightgame so bad. My sister told me she'd help me set some guestlist for my party.

Monday,
Edited video all day.

Tuesday,
Went to some old friend's house, Simon. I was with Samuel, childhood friend.
Simon's sister is kinda cute. I felt like flirting with her for fun but that'd be just wrong because it's Simon's sister and she has a boyfriend. LOL, she's funny.

At some point I was in her room lying on her bed. She told me to get away, we had some funny fight and she was pushing me away. At least she gave me candies.

We stopped at a videostore. Wanted to approach the two chicks but Samuel just left the store like a *****...
I ran back to the video store like 10 minutes later, but the girls were gone already lol. Wow, such a fail XD.

Then, we were supposed to go to the movies. I get in, see Simon's friends (they are girls) and join the line with them. One of them was cute, so then started a convo. But then, Samuel tells me he's leaving because there's too many people on Tuesdays for movies and he's not down... Lame.
Since he has the car, had to follow him. Didn't feel like taking the bus at 12:30AM to get to my house at 2 AM.

Whatever! I could've approached that day, but I don't know why I get too influenced by my friends, especially my old childhood friends.

So yeah,
Saturday I'm going to escalate and do everything to get laid! At the very least finger her.
Also, saw some video from Julien talking about some cool Porn videos we saw when a guy would put ads on newspapers about finding bikini models for a calendar. When the girl would arrive, he'd welcome her with a cam in his hand and film everything. He'd trick her into saying how she had to show her bra, bend down, etc. Basically, he was leading her into doing things and she had to invest and comply back. I thought it was very interesting and actually watched the porn.
Then, I saw how he was telling doing sh1t like
Him : What are you touching right now?
Her : Your ****
Him : What?
Her : Your big ****
Him : What I'm I touching right now?
Her : My tit
He gets *******
Me : Tell me to fck your mouth
Her : Fck my mouth
Me : Again
Her : *gives the horny look* Fck my mouth
He grabs her head and whaaam!

The guy does videos, it's called netvideogirls. Look it up for some porn infield footage, it's actually very interesting. You don't need to watch the whole porn. The interaction and the build up is gold. It doesn't look staged too.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=XkXdcBqTOaA

CONCLUSION
- Even if the date is boring and the girl's super shy, get the reference. See how far you can push it, assume that she's attracted anyway. You'll realize the vast variety of different girls out there! From them all, you'll be able to pick the best ones better. Get the reference.
- Don't be influenced by your friends' negative vibe. Go approach anyway, AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. Don't wait later to approach, do it while they're still there because they'll be gone 2 seconds later.
- Don't make excuses... I did too many.
- Understand that girls are HORNY SEX MACHINES. Get references that reinforce that constantly! Check the porn, really... lol

 

[Mindgamez]

I'm going to approach every day for the next 7 days. Doesn't matter 1 approach or 10 approaches, I'll still do.

Thursday, June 13th
The night before I saw Tyler's video about meditation. It really chilled me down, it allowed me to do some very good meditation before going to sleep.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mR67eAyT9-c

So I went to the local mall to meet with Porno.
I didn't approach in a couple days already, but I felt very happy nonetheless. I felt like everything was going good, that I'll be meeting that girl on Saturday to get laid. Great

We walked around a little bit. It surprised me how many hot girls I was skipping. There was quite a few actually for a little mall! Not as many as in NYC but still.

Then, saw a girl I approached back in october. Actually, I approached her hot friend (because she's kinda ugly to be honest), but yeah we stayed to talk. She was doing most of the talk, Porno was conversing with her. I think he went for her, she's okay.
While they were talking. I approached a set of two latinas. I was a little nervous, but not that much. I handled quite well, but then they told me they were in university. I just assumed they were too old for me, mistake. I let them go, I'm the one saying bye.

So I talk back to the girl and Porno, and we sit down. Girl tells me she could hook me up with her hot friend again. So she called her, I took the phone and talked to the hot friend.
It was cool because I wasn't nervous at all, I liked my tone of voice on the phone. Her voice sounded sexy. Why do every girl sound sexier on the phone? Haha.
Anyway. I try and setup the date for next week but she says maybe, and that she'll be very busy with exams which I understand.
Gave her my phone number, didn't take hers (I should've...) She didn't text me yet, whatever.

So then I go to Nick's house to finish the dance videos. I still have to edit videos and burn DVDs...

Anyway, lost my momentum a little bit from not approaching, but at the same time I'm feeling happier from taking that little break. It made me clear my mind a bit from picking up chicks. It was getting repetitive and boring, and coming back the next day actually made me feel more eager about approaching.

CONCLUSION
- Do meditation, it gets rid of that bad cortisol and unecessary unhealthy stress. Bad stress lowers your immune system, makes you more tired and everything. Take care of it!
- Phone skills, practice them. I think I'll go for the phone call more often, I never do. I have to get used to that.
- If you take breaks, make sure it's for a good reason. Then when you'll be back, you should feel happier and more energized.

 

[Mindgamez]

Friday, June 14th
I was waiting for Lili's text.

I decided not to text her for 3 days or so. Texted her that I wanted her to give me a massage Thursday. But she didn't respond at all.

I don't know why I was so paranoid about it. She wouldn't answer or anything, and I figured that something was going wrong. It got me into my head.

Whatever, I thought.
So I went downtown with Porno that day. We did a coupel approaches starting at 4-5 PM. Pretty okay approaches, kind of lame for me. It took us so long to go back into it. It felt like the 22 days or so of momentum was ALL GONE. But I pushed through.

Then, Porno did an epic approach. It almost lasted A WHOLE HOUR. Like I was shocked and thought that maybe I wasn't on his level, that even though I was so much more consistent than him that he was still better.

But then realized how stupid that was. Comparing myself to other people? Being jealous of my best friend's success? How crazy is that?
So I walked around. Did 2 approaches in the meantime, pretty lame again.

So around 8 he decides to head back to the metro.
Me : I don't know if I should come with you or stay here to do some solo...
Him : What's the right thing to do?
He looked at me in the eyes, I looked at him in the eyes like we totally knew. We totally knew what was going to decide whether I was going to be a ***** or be a pro.
Me : Alright, seeya man!
I head down near the arts place. Luckily, Jad calls me (out of the random) to ask me if I'm downtown. I tell him to come because there's some big event happening at the Arts Place, so he arrives like 1h45 minutes later.
When I told him yes, I was feeling quite tired. But I knew what was the right thing to do. I couldn't end my day like this.

Some more luck! Khoi is at the event too, so he texts me and we meetup with him and Oscar.
While waiting for Jad, we do a couple approaches here and there. We skip SO many sets, because they're all in big groups and super hot we thought. But hey, at least we did.

Oscar opened this set of girls. I then isolated that one cute girl, 19 years old. I tried to make-out at some point, talked close proximity. It didn't happen but it didn't matter. We bounced off. We invited them to go eat with us at McDonalds. They weren't sure, so we just left.

With Jad, we did a couple more. Not much, but it was better than doing nothing.

I could have utilized my time more I thought. I was in my head a lot. The show was nice though.

Lili? Still didn't text me. I was wondering whether she'd come tomorrow or not.

Saturday, June 15th
SKYROCKET.
As always, I better not spoil anything. But I guarantee you that if you've read my journal since the beginning, you will enjoy the progress I've made.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SU88c0f5-h0

So yeah,
Lili's phone was actually in her father's hands the whole time! She sent me a facebook message telling me she had a new phone for the moment.
Lesson? Don't freak out when she doesn't answer. You clearly haven't made anything wrong, so stop beating yourself up over it. Abundance.

I planned to go out and approach at the local mall before going to pickup Lili at the metro station. But when I realized it took me longer to do my hair + clean my room, I decided not to.

When I woke up, I was dead tired. Slept at 3 AM the other night. I tried to sleep a bit more but couldn't so I woke up, drank my green drink and went for some dancing.
I was stressed but the dance really helped to relieve me.

So I was running a little late. I use my GPS to get to the location, but realize midway that I took the wrong road, and that the GPS wasn't giving me the right location...
She was there at 4:05, it was 4:30 and I was completely lost. I even got angry as hell, thought that I'd NEVER find the place. And I started beating myself up for that sh1t.
I called my mom, furious at myself for being such a retard for orienting myself.

I literally was furious at myself. 4:40, the date was planned for 4 PM and I already was 40 minutes late...

So I arrived at 4:45. I excused myself to her for being so late, but whatever. I met her at the metro, gave her a hug, made out a little.
I guide her to the car. We talk in the way home a little, about everything and nothing. It doesn't fckin matter what you talk about at one point, you just want to have a good time.
Me : I'm so hungry! When I get home I'll eat a banana. You wanna eat a banana?
She laughed and assumed the sexual connotation, but I actually proposed her to eat an actual banana LOL. Her fault.

So yeah! I was so relieved once I find her, me that thought I'd get lost forever LOL.
We went to my place. She was amazed by the size of my house. We start going around the main floor. I present her to my mom, we go upstairs and I show her my room a little bit, just make her feel at ease. We go downstairs and I show her where we'd watch the movie.

We started making out on the random. It was getting a little hot and I slid my hand between her legs. I caressed her boobs a little too. I took her hand and put it on my penis. That was like, 20 minutes after she arrived at my place.
She looks at me and goes : Ohhhh!...
She smiles and starts stroking it.
Her : Hey wait a sec. I just want to make something clear. We are not having sex.
Me : Yeah I know, that's totally fine.
We keep making out and everything. I lead her back to my room.
Her : But why? We're not having sex!
Me : Oh of course not! You're just giving me a massage, it'll be more comfortable, nothing more than a massage.
Her : Haha okay
Me : Never have sex! Damn, our babies would look terrible.

I said that jokingly, it was fun and games. We go grab a bowl of fruit, eat a little and once in the room, she starts touching me on the shoulder and everything. I lay on the bed playfully, tell her to sit down and give me a massage. She does, then I give her one. I make out from behind, it's very hot. I caress her body, brush past her ***** a little bit. We switch a little bit, make out from different angles, very slip my tongue in deep.
I want to go on top of her, she's feeling kind of hesitant about it.
Me : No, we're just making out from a different angle, nothing else!
Damn I love that technique. Just saying how inoffensive it is and just keeping on escalating just to make her comfortable. Making her hot.
So I make out while being on top of her. I rub my crotch against her not even thinking about it. It just happened without me realizing it! Then I realized that this frame of mind was the right frame to have, just go with the flow and do not resist whatever urge there is.