7/21/23 - Back at it and a very proud moment.
11 approaches and 4 closes.
I wanted to go out on Thursday but due to the massive amount of time I spent assembling new furniture, I had no energy for it. Friday, I knew I had to get at it. I get a text and a screenshot from one of my good wings who is still in the old pickup chat I used to be a part of. The guy practically tells me that my new local spot is no longer safe from PUAs as it is all the buzz on that PUA chat now. Funny how in the month it has been open, it went from me and the true locals + hot girls finding out to now the PUAs knowing all about it. Guess what Roosh said internationally about poosy paradise is true right
@SW15?
However, no excuses, I had to go out. I told myself that I will not be bitter tonight, I will do at least 5 approaches, and I will obey the 3 second rule (approach a girl I like within 3 seconds). Here are the appproaches.
Approach 1 - Dark haired girl and her sister
I see this hot dark-haired girl with another girl with dyed blonde hair and approach them, compliment them on their black dress. They look good and it is going well. The two girls are locals and surprisingly sisters. The dark-haired girl is going to Chapel Hill but is visiting Miami, even though she is from there. We have a great convo but her sister breaks off to talk to someone else. I Instaclose the dark-haired girl and when the sister comes back, try to close her to make her feel included. In hindsight, a true rookie mistake. I should have shut up and just stuck with the dark-haired girl.
Later on, like not that long from then, I see some buff tatted up guy hitting on them. Good ole Miami, the competition is insane here.
Approach 2 - Dark haired girl with white pants and her friend.
I approach these two girls wearing white pants and a brown top. The one girl I really wanted had that Israeli look to her with her curly black hair. Told her she looks like she is from Manhattan, that does not go over so well. They say they have to leave but will be back. Sure thing....come to find them 10 minutes later talking to other dudes.
Approach 3 - 2 Girls in yellow waiting on their food.
I see these two girls in a yellow dress waiting on their food and one is a tall brunette with her hair in a braided ponytail. I open complimenting her on that. Try to guess both of them as Colombian, they were not. Braided ponytail girl was from Spain and her friend from Chile. Spanish girl is ordering food on an app but it would not go through, sends her an error. I tell her not to press submit too much, my friend did that and got charged 5 times. Spanish girl freaks out but I walk her to the staff who found that it did go through. Food did not go through, lucky her. I walk her back to the original spot. The girls now have to go but I ask for their Instas and get it. I count that as a close.
Approach 4 - Two blondes and a funny "boyfriend" situation.
I see these two blondes standing by near a trash can (which to be fair is fine wood and not your typical dirty dumpster) and I tell them "you two picked a great spot to post up". One of the blondes I am not into but the other I kinda am. I compliment them on their light colored style and they take well to it. So far, it is going well and we are having a great convo. The blonde I like asks me what I do for work and I tell her "oh god, the boring interview question", they say they wanna know and I tell them I rip off rich people. They ask if I am in pharmaceuticals and I tell them "you can say I work for a man named Walter"
@BillyPilgrim.
Then, a random dude who is tall and a prototypical Chad (god I hate using that term) comes into the set. He seems to know the blonde I want and I tell them "wow, you two make a beautiful couple". They play along with it, or so it seemed. Then I joke and say "you two can be on the cover of Vineyard Vines" and they laugh at it. They chat and then the Chad walks away.
Blonde I want tells me "that was not my boyfriend, just some guy I know, we are just friends". Wow, we banter back and forth, all three of us. I end up getting the Insta-close but their profiles are private and I do not know if they will accept.
Approach 5 - 3 set.
See this three set sitting under an area where people like to take pics say I will take the pics for them. They say no thanks and I was like whatever.
Approach 6 - Blonde and Indian girl.
I open a two set as I am walking around and they are receptive, it is a southern blonde and her Indian friend. Then, a couple walks into the set and I find that it is a large social circle. They completely break up the set. Welp, nothing I could have really done there.
Approach 7 - Two Latinas.
I approach this Latina two-set. I was initially standing in front of a fan but walked towards them since they were nearby and said "I felt bad for taking up the air". They giggled. One Latina I wanted was cute and then there was her friend. The one I wanted was from Uruguay and chill. Her friend was from Jersey
Latinas from the Jersey and NY area tend to be just outright awful. We have good banter for a bit but I somehow bail from the set. Just the Latina telling me she was from Jersey was enough to make me bail yo.
Approach 8 - Three set.
I approach this three set with an Indian girl and two Mediterranean looking girls. They were looking to get a photo and I tell them of the best spot. Not soon after, I just realize that these girls are really drunk and not that down so I kind of bail.
Approach 9 - Two set in black dress.
You are gonna love or hate this
@corrector. I approach a two-set which is two girls wearing a black dress. One girl is from North Carolina and the other from Canada. The Canadian girl is from Winnipeg but looks really Persian or Jewish or whatever. I was more into her but I entertain the two of them and we chat a bit. Somehow, it goes from somewhat friendly to the Canadian girl looking around. The group is behind them and comes to their rescue. Set over.
I run into the girls again, would not make eye contact. I get a drink at the bar 30 min later, they somehow get served first. Okay whatever it was a bad set but dear god I hate Canadian women, the worst of all the Anglo world and that is a hill I am willing to die on.
Approach 10 - Latinas with a Japanese fan.
I open this Latina two-set where one of them had a Japanese fan. I open with just that, telling them it is a Japanese fan and it goes meh at first but then the Latina tells me to have a good night, I wish her a great night. However, I am somewhat disappointed. No way I am letting my night end like this.
No Jesse, no.
Not a chance, get it together Jesse. Keep your head up. Not a chance, I am not going to let my night end on that bad note. I tell myself I will take a few laps around the bar.
Approach 11 - Cutie in blue shirt.
I see this tall hot brunette in a blue dress and white pants looking somewhat lost. This is an outdoors bar btw so I approach her with "it's so bad with the traffic here that you lost your friends". She tells me "oh no, my friends are over there". I respond with "I see but it's still so easy to lose them in this crowd outside". She laughs at it and I open her with a "I can tell that you are like from here, you seem to dress in a way that screams "I want to keep a low profile"". She sh*ttests me and tells me "oh so you know people from the way they are dressed". We then get to her being college educated somehow and it ties back into her dress.
She grills me on that and says "wow, we are at a bar and you already make so many assumptions about me based on the way I am dressed, and you can figure out I went to college based on that?".
I tell her "I feel like educated people keep a low profile and don't need flash to overcompensate". She somehow smiles and nods at that. Then we chat but then it happens.
Set invaded.
This one black dude invades my set and tries to AMOG me. He opens the girl and somehow knows her name since his friend is talking to her friend and even the girl looks lost. I stay put and just look at the girl as the black dude is talking to her. Guy was hyping himself up as a former D1A football player. Then the black dude opens me and asks for my name, I tell it to him but he pretends like he doesn't hear it, I tell to him again and he pretends like he doesn't hear it, and then the third time the girl says my name to him.
I go back to looking at the girl and seconds later, the black dude goes away. I talk to the girl some more and we start talking logistics, she lives near me. I then propose a place and she proposes I take her number.
I am going to see where this goes.
