Reyaj
Master Don Juan
hahhaha ok update time....... as usual you all are going to really kill me for what I'm about to post but hopefully give me props for another approach I did on a train over the weekend. Let me try and just fill in where we left off.
Well the 2 plates that I was supposed to meet Tuesday both flaked per say! The girl I closed quick which was the HB 8 that told me to meet her.... I called after work to which I got no answer. I followed up with a text bit later asking if she still was going out to the city area. She texted me back a bit later saying she just got into school so she was with a friend at an art gallery but would probably go there later at night.
Ok so I didn't want to look like an AFC so I said I was in that area anyway with some friends and asked where and and what time she was going to go?
No response!
So the next night even though this girl flaked I figured I'd try something that's gotten attention in the past. So I text her "You know just cause your beautiful doesn't mean you can't be nice
"
She responds back an hour later "Who is this?" Well it was on lol! I texted her back "wow at least I found out you were a dumb flake early, thanks"
That turned into a little text war but she backed down and that was that. The girl was like an HB 8 AW who I had no shot with anyway based on logistics alone.....
But ok onto the girl that said she was "seeing someone" when I met her but never mentioned it again. So I texted her before I got out of work on Tuesday "hope I'm still seeing you later" She responded quick "me too but i have a bad feeling, I have to paint, I just sent you an email"
Well i checked my email box and there was a long message written about her she promised her roomate who wasn't going to be around she'd help her paint etc..... blah blah
The thing with this girl is she has always given counter offers and thats' exactly what she did... she said if I can't make it today I'll be around on the weekend, what do you think? Now this girl is honestly different than most I've picked up so far. She doesn't flake flat out, but really gives good excuses and I almost think she is unorganized to a degree which is why things don't pan out. She never calls or texts out of the blue but most of the time always responds to mine and we've had some decent phone conversations.
So I basically I don't have much stock in this girl... but the fact that she is nice and I mean that... and at times has shown some IOI I haven't nexted her. So I figured I'd try the same deal on Saturday... acting like I was going to be in her area anyway but i needed to hang with my cousin but maybe I could at least say hi to her in person. She said she could probably bring a friend out and the 4 of us could go drinking. Now in retrospect I probably should have got this girl out alone because I'm not so sure the night went well. I just didn't want to seem like an AFC that I was going to give up a Saturday just for her after she's taken so long to make plans etc.....
So here's how it all went down. You all be the judge.... So I don't hear from the girl most of the day Saturday and I call her around 4:30pm..... no answer....
I'm thinking flake....... I follow up with a text "are we still on for later" Well she responds about an hour later "yes... just trying to find a friend"
Nothing more for an hour so I text back "what's up?" She calls me and is nice and is like "so none of my friends want to come out... its up to you.. I mean I can say hi to you or we can plan something next week..." I really don't know what to say... but since I told her I was going to be in that area anyway I say she can say hi... and she says sure.
So I arrive in the city with my cousin and it turns out she is at her friends apartment. Its her and 2 girls.... to my surprise she says we could just stop the apartment...... she ends up giving me the address and leaves my name. I basically made it sound like we were planning on going out somewhere else anyway but would stop by and say hi. So after a long ass time of trying to find the place we go up there... and I have to admit I felt really akward and out of my element being in an apartment with 3 girls I didn't even know..... Not to mention her friends were all talking about guys supplicating to them etc... I tried to stay calm and both me and my cousin made small talk.... though the girl I've been talking to kept suggesting to her friends to let us know places we can go since I said my cousin wanted to go out.... I tried to propose us playing a game together but it went by the waste side.... because of the seating position I couldn't really kino her.... but if I did anything positive it was that I did talk to her friends a lot and give them attention... maybe too much that I barely talked to mine...
Now maybe she sensed I was nervous and didn't feel comfortable but I really have no idea at this point. Finally after about a half hour I kissed her friend on the cheek. Then I went to kiss her on the cheek and she kissed me back on mine where I felt it... I instinctively grabbed her hand tight while I did it and let go.... I don't know if that was good or bad.
That was that....
I'm thinking I might send her an email at work today saying hello just to gauge if there still is any IOI what so ever... Though I really don't think I made a strong impression and that may be my downfall in this one.... At least I'll know early so I don't waste anymore time.
The night did end good with me scoring a digit on the train home. Sadly with all the flakes and challenges I've encountered so far I can't say I expect anything with any girl..... and I almost feel like its all about luck or karma rather than skill or technique at this point......
I mean I can pick up girls pretty decent now in night life... but I need to learn about follow up and how to make this girls get naked......
I'll post about the train pick up shortly... I think I'll send this girl an email just to see whats up. I don't know why... but I almost expect an LBJF from her even though I haven't gotten one so far. The longer I do this the more experience.....
Well the 2 plates that I was supposed to meet Tuesday both flaked per say! The girl I closed quick which was the HB 8 that told me to meet her.... I called after work to which I got no answer. I followed up with a text bit later asking if she still was going out to the city area. She texted me back a bit later saying she just got into school so she was with a friend at an art gallery but would probably go there later at night.
Ok so I didn't want to look like an AFC so I said I was in that area anyway with some friends and asked where and and what time she was going to go?
No response!
So the next night even though this girl flaked I figured I'd try something that's gotten attention in the past. So I text her "You know just cause your beautiful doesn't mean you can't be nice
"She responds back an hour later "Who is this?" Well it was on lol! I texted her back "wow at least I found out you were a dumb flake early, thanks"
That turned into a little text war but she backed down and that was that. The girl was like an HB 8 AW who I had no shot with anyway based on logistics alone.....
But ok onto the girl that said she was "seeing someone" when I met her but never mentioned it again. So I texted her before I got out of work on Tuesday "hope I'm still seeing you later" She responded quick "me too but i have a bad feeling, I have to paint, I just sent you an email"
Well i checked my email box and there was a long message written about her she promised her roomate who wasn't going to be around she'd help her paint etc..... blah blah
The thing with this girl is she has always given counter offers and thats' exactly what she did... she said if I can't make it today I'll be around on the weekend, what do you think? Now this girl is honestly different than most I've picked up so far. She doesn't flake flat out, but really gives good excuses and I almost think she is unorganized to a degree which is why things don't pan out. She never calls or texts out of the blue but most of the time always responds to mine and we've had some decent phone conversations.
So I basically I don't have much stock in this girl... but the fact that she is nice and I mean that... and at times has shown some IOI I haven't nexted her. So I figured I'd try the same deal on Saturday... acting like I was going to be in her area anyway but i needed to hang with my cousin but maybe I could at least say hi to her in person. She said she could probably bring a friend out and the 4 of us could go drinking. Now in retrospect I probably should have got this girl out alone because I'm not so sure the night went well. I just didn't want to seem like an AFC that I was going to give up a Saturday just for her after she's taken so long to make plans etc.....
So here's how it all went down. You all be the judge.... So I don't hear from the girl most of the day Saturday and I call her around 4:30pm..... no answer....
I'm thinking flake....... I follow up with a text "are we still on for later" Well she responds about an hour later "yes... just trying to find a friend"
Nothing more for an hour so I text back "what's up?" She calls me and is nice and is like "so none of my friends want to come out... its up to you.. I mean I can say hi to you or we can plan something next week..." I really don't know what to say... but since I told her I was going to be in that area anyway I say she can say hi... and she says sure.
So I arrive in the city with my cousin and it turns out she is at her friends apartment. Its her and 2 girls.... to my surprise she says we could just stop the apartment...... she ends up giving me the address and leaves my name. I basically made it sound like we were planning on going out somewhere else anyway but would stop by and say hi. So after a long ass time of trying to find the place we go up there... and I have to admit I felt really akward and out of my element being in an apartment with 3 girls I didn't even know..... Not to mention her friends were all talking about guys supplicating to them etc... I tried to stay calm and both me and my cousin made small talk.... though the girl I've been talking to kept suggesting to her friends to let us know places we can go since I said my cousin wanted to go out.... I tried to propose us playing a game together but it went by the waste side.... because of the seating position I couldn't really kino her.... but if I did anything positive it was that I did talk to her friends a lot and give them attention... maybe too much that I barely talked to mine...
Now maybe she sensed I was nervous and didn't feel comfortable but I really have no idea at this point. Finally after about a half hour I kissed her friend on the cheek. Then I went to kiss her on the cheek and she kissed me back on mine where I felt it... I instinctively grabbed her hand tight while I did it and let go.... I don't know if that was good or bad.
That was that....
I'm thinking I might send her an email at work today saying hello just to gauge if there still is any IOI what so ever... Though I really don't think I made a strong impression and that may be my downfall in this one.... At least I'll know early so I don't waste anymore time.
The night did end good with me scoring a digit on the train home. Sadly with all the flakes and challenges I've encountered so far I can't say I expect anything with any girl..... and I almost feel like its all about luck or karma rather than skill or technique at this point......
I mean I can pick up girls pretty decent now in night life... but I need to learn about follow up and how to make this girls get naked......
I'll post about the train pick up shortly... I think I'll send this girl an email just to see whats up. I don't know why... but I almost expect an LBJF from her even though I haven't gotten one so far. The longer I do this the more experience.....
