SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
Always be the man with options. If you don't have options, act like you do. This should solve most of your issues.
SickAgain said:Always be the man with options. If you don't have options, act like you do. This should solve most of your issues.
Yeah but if I do the same and don't need them... then nothing happens.. I get the point though....DonGorgon said:Exactly cause all of womens power comes from the fact that they have many many options and never really need you at all...
1. Reality check: Whether or not you're getting laid that night or getting her number has absolutely little to do with whether you buy her a drink or not. If there's a positive rapport, and she asks you for a drink, saying, "Okay, let's do shots" doesn't mean you're not getting laid. You should be socially smart enough to tell whether someone is using you or not. If you aren't, even if you do get laid you're going to have a rough, rough life.1. never ever ever ever forever buy a girl a drink unless she your best friend or maybe if she gets you in alot of 3 somes
2. Read The Don Juan The bible or print it out. Talk to her. You have to get into her trust zone before you can sleep with her or even date her.
3. Body Language. Lets do what that 1 song dose. Lean back come on, Lean back, Lean Back, 1 more time Lean back. Give that girl some space. Let her breaht !!!!. Relax your shoulders. Always walk with your head up unless you drop something or you though you saw $50.00 dollars laying on the ground. Having your head up is a way to show confidnce. When you sit down try not to play with your hands or fingers alot and spread your legs !!!!!!!!!!!!. When shaking her hand give a nice strong handshake. Not too strong ( COMMON SENSE ).
4. Be a challenge. Have the Attitude
of ( are you good enough for me) NEVER EVER EVER EVER FOREVER have the Attitude of ( I'm good enough for you). A challeging man is wanted by women. First he is hard to get. Second he is wanted by other women and people want what other people want. Three when rejected he makes it seem as if it was her lose and not his. ( this way some girls end up running back to him after rejecting him ).
5. Be ready . Sun tzu said not prepareing for the battle is prepareing for failure. When you go out their always remind yourself of the bad women out their. Act like your on a customer service job. Allways be ready. A nice excuies would be to know how react to nasty rejection lines. Lets say some girl say naw I don't want to dance with a ugly guy like you it makes me look bad. What would you do ?? be ready !!! Another nasty rejection line.
I don't wanna dance with you ( and then some guy grabs her and she dances with him) Hard ?? well then be ready, just laugh it off and go apporach another girl.
mr_elor said:Jayer, as you can understand I don't have time to go through your whole thread, but I am curious as to how you're doing.
So how are you mnaging so far? Give us a general run down, like:
How many approaches you've done
What kinds of results you're getting
Your strengths and weaknesses
Mindset
What kind of approaches you're doing (day/night game etc).
So yeah, give us a quick run down mate.
LOL,SickAgain said:So many mistakes, but still very fixable. You need to read up on some of the informative threads here.
1) Never talk about kissing.
2) Never talk about relationships or marriage.
3) Never confront about flaking.
Actually, as soon as they notice that you dont need them they find you irresistible .. but you have to strike a balance between showing interest and indifference...Jayer said:Yeah but if I do the same and don't need them... then nothing happens.. I get the point though....
Yes ... A little AFC goes a long way but alot of AFC gets you nowhereizza said:the BEST thing you did with this chick was say "It's getting hard for me to go on dates without kissing you."
I was really impressed by that. It's direct, it's honest, it's from the heart. Most chicks I know eat that stuff up. It is so rare that guys speak from the heart in a mature and likeable way. Keep doing that, it will make you a winner. In a lot of ways.
Izza
DonGorgon said:Yes ... A little AFC goes a long way but alot of AFC gets you nowhere
Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Word. Neither does asking them why they are all aloneJayer said:Asking a girl to dance verbally as an opener doesn't usually work
Amen to that. 1/2 assed plans and they double book you...Jayer said:Try to make definite plans. This helps avoid last minute flakes
err.... no real experience here so won't commentJayer said:A follow up text shortly after meeting the girl helps shows her IL by whether or not she responds. Those that do tend to be interested, those that don't are usually flakey from the start
yupJayer said:Being nice and friendly to all the targets friends even guys is the best way to be.
???Jayer said:Speaking from the heart in a mature likeable way is not afc but DJ if used timely
Amen to thatJayer said:Approaching more than analyzing is more effective
yup. its the best feeling when you have had AA all day and then you say F it and go inJayer said:Always feel good about making the approach no matter what happens. It takes balls.
yessirJayer said:Don't turn AFC so fast or fall completely infatuated with target. Even after sex or LTR declaration the game still goes on....
yup you gotta be patient. You can be angry @ times but only within reasonJayer said:Be patient and expect tests and games. Don't next at first **** test or game but let the plate now in a calm mature matter thats its not appreciated and won't be tolerated. Keep your cool though and don't show that you are angry.
yea I've stifled my urges far too many times and paid the priceJayer said:Liking a girl or feeling attraction to her is naturally, don't fight but use the energy to your advantage.
no exp. hereJayer said:Don't ask permission but make confident statements. Its easier to ask for forgiveness than permission