ive become a halo nerd that sits at home and watches porn [Vice's Journal]

[Vice]

Taking a break from going out for a while. I'm buying a new car for very cheap, and I need to save money. I'm learning this driving technique called hypermiling, which allows you to get VERY good gas mileage out of your car. The car will save me money in the long run, which means more money to build my real estate business.

I also have school as well as a project I need to finish.

I have a girl I'm seeing for a few more weeks until she leaves, but I also have another one coming, as well as yet another one staying until October. I'll probably start going out more often in November, but we'll see if I change my mind.

But I've come a LONG way since I originally started this thread in October.

 

[Vice]

Went to court the other day for a f*cking burnt out TAIL LIGHT. Pretty gay. I sat down next to a cute girl (sadly she was blonde, and I'm not into blondes). I flirted with her a bit, and our legs were touching alot and she was playing with her hair, but I wasn't into her, especially when she mentioned something about kids. Went to the mall right after that, but didn't feel like meeting any girls; I have other priorities for now, and my phone bill is going to suck because of all these girls texting me.

Thinking about "ballin' on a budget" after I get my car, since I get good MPG I can go to better quality clubs further away, and all I need to do is pay cover, since I try not to need alcohol for confidence. I just need to get my momentum rolling again. And doing that is EASY now that I'm 21.

As for now, we're currently preparing work for the upcoming hurricane, so that means I'm sandbagging it up for the next few hours while just about everyone else is going out and having fun.

 

[Voice]

Great thread Vice, I'm thinking of making one as well to improve my night game.

 

[Vice]

Refocus

I need to get my sh*t together, again.

1. Stop snoozing when my alarm goes off. I usually don't get out of bed until I NEED to, in order to get to class/work on time. I'm wasting hours of my life laying in bed, and I noticed that if I oversleep even twenty minutes, I'll be tired for the rest of the day.

2. Use that time before class to exercise and get myself ready for the day, instead of throwing on clothes and rushing out the door.

3. Focus on getting my homework done, NOT watching movies, NOT cruising sosuave, NOTHING "fun" until that sh*t is finished. End of story.

4. Stop procrastinating when it comes to following up on leads for my business. Get this: I spend several hours every Friday night putting out signs, and then I'm too lazy to call back people that call me. I recently found out that a competitor signed a deal on a property that I had BEFORE he did. There goes a few thousand dollars, all because I preferred to f*ck around instead of grinding.

5. Stop energy drinks/soda. This has been a challenge for me since last year when I created this thread, but I've finally got the leverage to actually follow through (Thank you Tony Robbins). I'm replacing that sh*t with as much iced tea/juice that I want. The goal is to go through the whole month of October without energy drinks/soda, minus the occasional jack and coke. This is going to save me an enormous amount of money, energy drinks are $2-3 per can!

6. Keep my room clean. Less clutter means I think better.

7. Create a morning ritual, and an evening ritual. Adding some structure to my mornings will give me a reason to get my lazy ass out of bed, as well as build the neural pathways that will lead to it becoming a habit.

All of these points is just the tune-up that I need in my life. I've gotten very lazy since my last success, and I need to make sure that I try not to deviate from my routine too much. This also means that if I want to go out with a girl, I don't have to ask her "What are you doing for the next few days?", instead I'll offer when I'm available.

I have way too much going on to be lazy and unstructured. Field reports will resume once I have gotten my sh*t together.

 

[Vice]

Took a brief break from SoSuave, wanted to make a quick update before I slink back off into the shadows, since it's almost exactly one year after I created this thread.

Started hitting the field again, getting myself desensitized, and I've been working on my voice. No soda/energy drinks in FOURTEEN DAYS! So, here's the progress I've made in the last year in regards to things that suck up my time, energy, and money:

1. Facebook
2. Video Games
3. Energy Drinks/soda

I've been drinking iced tea to get my caffeine "fix", but my cravings for soda and energy drinks are gone now, and my face has cleared up dramatically. I've been eating very healthy lately, so much that I can actually FEEL my face being oily and greasy the night after I eat something oily/greasy, like potato chips.

As for my night game, it's been very simple: approach THREE sets a night minimum, with emphasis on following the three second rule and being LOUD, and CONCISE. Baby steps, gentlemen, baby steps.

Well, farewell for now, I'm going to take a break from SoSuave until December, hitting the field hard and NOT reading any material. Ill post field reports now and again, but there will be little to no posting in/reading other threads.

Cheers

 

[macallik]

good stuff, sometimes a little break helps a lot and allows you to pay closer attention to what you did right/wrong in specific interactions. I'll keep an eye out for the FR when they come

 

[Vice]

Been sick lately. Going out regardless, not much going on during weekday nights. Still searching for ideal places to go. College libraries late at night seem like the best bet, but I don't want to stale them out, so I keep a rotation.

Finished and published my eBook. See sig for a link.

I was listening to Tony Robbins' Personal Power II disks, and he said that you need to continually practice the FUNDAMENTALS of whatever it is you're trying to master. He gave a Ju Jitsu example, where a student kept asking to learn new things and his instructor insisted he kept practicing the fundamentals, so in key high-pressure situations, he can perform (because we know how much training your remember when you get into a fight- very little if you're not a master).

This means that I need to continue to approach, approach, approach. And I need to maintain fundamentals of approaching daily. This means going out EVERY day and going for it. The challenge is building momentum, and keeping it. Same goes with physically escalating.

The last few nights I've been going out have pretty much been "chode's night out" for me. It may be because I'm sick, but that's just a BS excuse. Soon I'll get my jump-start and I'll be sure to keep it going.

Day 20 of no energy drinks. I no longer feel pulled towards them when I see them. I did have some coca-cola today, but it was with alcohol and in a small amount. So it looks like I've finally gotten rid of my energy drink compulsion, which has saved me TONS of money, my health, and my face is much clearer. I think I used it as a way for me to jump start how social I am, but I've come to realize that I get energized just by talking to people.

I've shifted the goal of my real estate business as well; instead of selling good deals, I'm going to try to acquire them for myself first. This should allow me to get some cash flow if I can rent them out, but first I need to make sure that I can afford to carry the house on my own if it's vacant.

 

[Vice]

Had an energy drink after 21 days of abstinence; never again. I couldn't sleep until 5 in the morning, and my face was oily with a few whiteheads the next morning. It was also too sweet for me. Looks like I've finally conditioned myself to end the crap!

I've noticed that fall time/beginning of the school year is a poor time to go out to clubs. At least in my area. I assume that everyone is busy getting settled in with school, and/or have not discovered the good spots yet. So therefore my game has been stunted slightly, but it's just made me look for more opportunity. Day game seems to be the best option for these times.

Got a girl's number on Thursday; called her on Friday and she either pretended not to know me or genuinely didn't remember me. Made a note to make myself more memorable.

Friday was another slow night, stuck in traffic for an hour and a half and then showed up to slim pickings, with the only other known straight guy in the gay-friendly bar talking to the girl I would have inevitably approached, while his gay friends drunkenly hit on me. Then a girl from New Zealand swooped in and saved the night from total boredom. She could have been cute if she didn't have blonde hair, something that turns me off. I missed a chance to make her my wing girl (I wasn't interested in her sexually), but I wasn't too bent on it anyway.

Saturday sucked. Went to an art opening; lots of nerdy weird people. These things are hit or miss, and it really depends on the particular venue and type of art. It's not like New York city or LA where an art reception attracts cute girls, nor do they happen anywhere near as frequently as they do up there (over there they have multiple openings every weekend, here it's more like one every two months).

Decided to end my goal of banging a girl from every major school in the area; that's a misuse of time, and my game isn't good enough for that kind of thing. I'll take what I can get, the girl's background isn't as important as her looks and attitude. I'm sure over time I'll eventually bed girls from all those schools anyway.

Been entertaining the idea of going to another city on the weekends and sleeping in my car overnight. Out of town is great because there's less dudes, and the culture there is so relaxed and amazing, and I don't have to compete with other college guys. Just soft hipsters.

New girl in the dorms. She's actually cute. I need to follow up with her next time I see her; recruit her as a wing girl. I usually end up f*cking my wing girls anyway. There's yet another one that needs to drop off a dress at my room (the girl from my last lay report let her borrow it), who I need to also recruit.

 

[Deicide]

Had an energy drink after 21 days of abstinence; never again. I couldn't sleep until 5 in the morning, and my face was oily with a few whiteheads the next morning. It was also too sweet for me. Looks like I've finally conditioned myself to end the crap!

I've noticed that fall time/beginning of the school year is a poor time to go out to clubs. At least in my area. I assume that everyone is busy getting settled in with school, and/or have not discovered the good spots yet. So therefore my game has been stunted slightly, but it's just made me look for more opportunity. Day game seems to be the best option for these times.

Got a girl's number on Thursday; called her on Friday and she either pretended not to know me or genuinely didn't remember me. Made a note to make myself more memorable.

Friday was another slow night, stuck in traffic for an hour and a half and then showed up to slim pickings, with the only other known straight guy in the gay-friendly bar talking to the girl I would have inevitably approached, while his gay friends drunkenly hit on me. Then a girl from New Zealand swooped in and saved the night from total boredom. She could have been cute if she didn't have blonde hair, something that turns me off. I missed a chance to make her my wing girl (I wasn't interested in her sexually), but I wasn't too bent on it anyway.

Saturday sucked. Went to an art opening; lots of nerdy weird people. These things are hit or miss, and it really depends on the particular venue and type of art. It's not like New York city or LA where an art reception attracts cute girls, nor do they happen anywhere near as frequently as they do up there (over there they have multiple openings every weekend, here it's more like one every two months).

Decided to end my goal of banging a girl from every major school in the area; that's a misuse of time, and my game isn't good enough for that kind of thing. I'll take what I can get, the girl's background isn't as important as her looks and attitude. I'm sure over time I'll eventually bed girls from all those schools anyway.

Been entertaining the idea of going to another city on the weekends and sleeping in my car overnight. Out of town is great because there's less dudes, and the culture there is so relaxed and amazing, and I don't have to compete with other college guys. Just soft hipsters.

New girl in the dorms. She's actually cute. I need to follow up with her next time I see her; recruit her as a wing girl. I usually end up f*cking my wing girls anyway. There's yet another one that needs to drop off a dress at my room (the girl from my last lay report let her borrow it), who I need to also recruit.

It's good to read your journal again. Not to be negative, but I think our pick-up options get worse as the winter season approaches. So in some way, up until next month or early December, is the last of that good stuff aka more available women, etc... That and some of the girls at the colleges may've already settled on some boyfriend. So, we're almost in that part of the year.

The anti-blonde fetish really stuck out to me. Most guys seem to prefer blondes, but we all have our different tastes. I prefer any kind of woman generally, except for overweight types, I really haven't stumbled upon one type. Sometimes it's Asians and Latinas, sometimes it's tanned blondes, hot brunettes, etc...list goes on.
What do you think about using disqualifiers during Day Game? I've thought about using some to make it seem like I'm not some hungry dog wanting food when I cold approach.

 

[Vice]

It's good to read your journal again. Not to be negative, but I think our pick-up options get worse as the winter season approaches. So in some way, up until next month or early December, is the last of that good stuff aka more available women, etc... That and some of the girls at the colleges may've already settled on some boyfriend. So, we're almost in that part of the year.

The anti-blonde fetish really stuck out to me. Most guys seem to prefer blondes, but we all have our different tastes. I prefer any kind of woman generally, except for overweight types, I really haven't stumbled upon one type. Sometimes it's Asians and Latinas, sometimes it's tanned blondes, hot brunettes, etc...list goes on.
What do you think about using disqualifiers during Day Game? I've thought about using some to make it seem like I'm not some hungry dog wanting food when I cold approach.

I believe that all year is a good time to pick up women; you just need to have the right strategy.

It's getting cold out, so that means that women will be confined to mostly indoor areas, like malls and cafes. They're not spread out at the beach, in parks, etc. like they are in summer.

Plus those who are single near Christmas/New Years are much more receptive because it's the holidays, and they don't want to be lonely. It's prime time.

As for disqualifiers, I haven't really been doing any day game lately, so I haven't gotten to the point where I can decide whether or not it would be a good idea. I usually go direct if there's no opportunity for something indirect, like when a girl walks past you on the street.

My own preferences are that I'm not attracted to black women or blonde women. Not sure why, and I don't care to find out. I personally think that most guy's attraction to blondes is mostly due to society telling them that they should. This is reinforced by Hollywood movies, and I can't stand it.

My attraction is towards blue-eyed brunettes. And for a guy like me who's crazy about brunettes, it can be a mindf*ck to watch a movie like Solaris or Vanilla Sky, where what I consider to be very beautiful women are really imprinted on my psyche.

 

[Vice]

Just got my new issue of Heavy Hitters in (thank you to whomever was the one who brought it to my attention, it's a life changing magazine). The letter from the editor, John Jarasa was exceptional this issue, bold added by me for emphasis:

A baby bird doesn't mistake the flapping of its mother's wings as its own, so why do so many humans mistake the success and power of their friends as their own? Now let's be real. Human beings are a much more advanced form of life, but why has simple logic and self respect been antiquated and replaced with ignorance and braggadocio? Right about now, you're probably reading this editor's letter with a grin on your face (as you compile a mental list of people you know who are like this), but in all reality, we all know someone who rides the coattails of others.

These are the same people who brag about driving other people’s cars-and there are others who acquire an attitude and sense of self empowerment through the magic of osmosis. Now the sad part about it all is that it’s rarely the movers and shakers who are actually adopting this sickness, but rather the fan boys, cheerleaders, and those closest to them. I like to call them “social static”, because all they do is cling to what’s new and powerful, when they should be establishing themselves by standing on their own two feet.

As if these social leeches weren’t bad enough during the Reaganomics era, the advent of the Internet has only increased the pervasive reach of social media-thus poring gasoline on an already raging inferno of false pretenses. These bluffing birds have now been given a voice: They tweet their ostentatious dreams into a passive reality, that’s to social media giant Twitter. That outlet, along with LinkedIn, Facebook, blogs, and others has given these new “Me Generation” flunkies the power to appear as though they are blazing trails and making moves to milliosn of people in an instant. Gone are the days of taking a Polaroid of yourself next to a parked Murcielago in a valet parking lot. These fraudulent falcons are creating entirely false identities online, making it all the more difficult to separate who’s real and who isn’t.

Let’s keep this one simple. Birds learn to fly through imprinting and studying the behavior of their parents and elders, but once they take flight, they soar the skies on their own wings as a direct result of their own hard work. Do the same. Don’t wait on the next man or woman to achieve something you can live vicariously through-create your own destiny. Don’t be the open mouth at the end of the table. Sit at the head of the table and control the menu. Otherwise, you won’t have a movement for others to follow and be inspired by-you’ll just be tweeting with the rest of the birds.

This has inspired me once again to keep doing what I'm doing. I'm going through a dry spell in both women and my own business right now, but at least I have a solid foundation; a great economical car, stable job with new opportunities to come in a few months, good looks, good height, a good deep voice, the drive and motivation to improve myself and reach for higher levels.

Woke up at 10am for the first time today. I only had less than 45 minutes to be ready for class, but I was able to get to the gym for a quick workout. Didn't do any approaches at school, I need to build up some momentum at nightclubs before I'm comfortable doing day game.

Going to industrial/goth night tonight. It's been slow for the past few weeks, so I've found myself approaching less and less, because there isn't as many people going. Not sure if it's because of midterms at the local college, the cold weather, or the fact that everyone is in school and getting situated.

Whatever. This will make me appreciate summer more. And sharpen my game by not allowing room for b*tching out of approaching. It's either approach and have an interaction, or b*tch out of approaching and be stunted socially. Burn the ships.

 

[Vice]

Goth/industrial night was... educational last night. It's challenging to approach girls out there during the slow season, because it's very cliquey. You have to know the "cool" people and stuff. I talked to this guy, and he pretty much gave me some suggestions for landing a goth girl:

1. Wear skinny jeans. I'm not too big on those, but hey, I can give it a shot.
2. "Fluff" before you put the skinny jeans on. Helps accentuate that bulge.
3. Wear a mesh shirt since I have a good body.
4. Wear more accessories + makeup.

Apparently this will make me "very popular". Obviously these steps I'm to take are VERY fruity, and take me way out of my comfort zone. But I ought to at least try it once. There's guys out there that wear way more freakish things out there, like assless pvc suits and sh*t.

If you guys haven't been out to a goth/industrial club, I reccommend you try it. It's a very interesting experience, the music is different, and people are alot more chill. Go to websites like suicide girls, gods girls, or bad ashley to get an idea of the kinds of girls that go out to these things. These girls are VERY sexually adventureous. Just beware that these girls have slight princess syndrome, since they hang around nerdy/fat/needy goth guys all the time. But that also gives you a chance to stand out by actually having a spine.

Next week I'll be sure to befriend the "top guys"; the ones that I see with the hottest girls. They look like total assh*les, but I'm pretty sure they're chill.

And the weekend is coming and starts on Thursday. I can't stand Halloween, but whatever. I'll play. And the clubs are starting to pick up again, so maybe I'll have a more interesting field report in a few days.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

That's some moist stuff vice. Don't change your appearance in order to get more girls.

 

[Vice]

That's some moist stuff vice. Don't change your appearance in order to get more girls.

It's an experiment; this is the ONLY venue that I'll change my appearance to get more girls. If it works, I'll keep it for that specific venue. I know game trumps appearance, but that doesn't mean I shouldn't focus on appearance. I've got to stand out, and being 6'3" helps with that.

 

[Kerpal]

I talked to this guy, and he pretty much gave me some suggestions for landing a goth girl:

1. Wear skinny jeans. I'm not too big on those, but hey, I can give it a shot.
2. "Fluff" before you put the skinny jeans on. Helps accentuate that bulge.
3. Wear a mesh shirt since I have a good body.
4. Wear more accessories + makeup.

:crackup:

I think you're getting trolled.

 

[Vice]

Went out to 80's night. As usual, a bunch of dudes. Gay ones. Zero competition that night, the other straight dude that goes was sick that night.

There were more girls out this time, but I wasn't too into it. I did have a girl sit down next to me and open me. Asked her what kind of girls she liked, and to my surprise, she said she liked manly ones!

And she was hot too. If I was more sexual tonight I would have gone for a makeout, but whatever. We talked about her being submissive and be being naturally dominant, then she went off to dance, and I never got a chance to get her number and recruit her as a wing girl. Oh, the missed possibilities of threesomes on a regular basis.

Lesson learned tonight was CLOSE CLOSE CLOSE! Oh, and SEXUAL STATE, SEXUAL STATE, SEXUAL STATE! Everything else will fall into place.

The only other girl I was interested in meeting that night wandered off before I could find her (and my motivation to approach her).

Oh well. At least the nights are getting better; last week was a record low point in the entire year.

:crackup:

I think you're getting trolled.

Was a gay dude in the club trying to give me advice. Maybe it was some secret gay setup thing, but again, it's worth a try. The advice he's given me before, as well as insight into the mind of the goth female, has been valuable.

 

[Vice]

F*ck Halloween. Can't wait for this sh*t to be over.

I don't want to f*ck some chick that looks like she got stabbed. That's borderline necrophilia.

Plus the makeup they put on is mostly atrocious.

Those who argue that it's an excuse for girls to dress slutty don't realize that girls ALWAYS dress slutty.

I'll consider putting together a Lt. Dangle costume for next year.

Funny I should say this, considering I go to a goth/industrial club once a week. At least the girls that go there look like GIRLS for the most part, just dressed sluttier and with more dark makeup.

The mass-produced costumes these girls wear plus their lack of originality isn't too thrilling. I'm going to be spending the night nailing bandit signs to wooden posts for my business. I made this PVC pipe contraption that lets me nail them up high, high enough so that the average person would need a ladder to take it down. So this will free up some time by not requiring me to go out every weekend with 50 signs and spend 4 hours putting them out. Be relentless, son.

I spent about an hour addressing and preparing letters to send out to homeowners that live near a college that has some gorgeous women, asking to buy their house. This is called a question of proposition, and even though there isn't a "for sale" sign in front of the house, I'm still asking. A question of proposition can be asking a girl out, getting her number, anything.

My eBook (check sig) has been well received by those who have read it. I'm getting handfuls of emails thanking me. I feel all warm and fuzzy and sh*t about it, and the few bucks I've made have gone towards paying for my domain fees. The most important thing about this venture is the confidence that I have the competency to create something of value to people. The stuff I learn from this will only help me in the future

In closing, this pretty much sums up my approach to life. Because that's the only way to get what you want, whether it's women, money, freedom, change and/or happiness. F*ck being like anyone else, "average". F*ck whoever thinks they know what I can and can't do.

 

[Vice]

Looks like my anti social attitude towards Halloween has paid off. Just got a call in from a lady that owns rental properties in my local area that found out she has cancer. She needs to liquidate her properties and use the equity to help pay for treatment. I'm glad I'm in a position to help. Calling her tomorrow, hopefully the combined DAYS I've spent in my car listening to real estate stuff, hours of sitting down with sellers, and countless books I've read will finally pay off. The Bible says something about planting a tree and being patient for it to finally bear fruit.

Started exercising more consistently and more focused.

My goal is to make enough passive income in the three remaining years that I have in college to be able to not need a job to pay for the essentials: a house, food, bills, and gas for my car. This will allow me to be creative and really exploit my potential, and develop more businesses and work on more projects.

 

[Vice]

Approached a chick today. I've noticed that I have stopped making such a big deal out of "approaches" and it dawned on me later that I actually DID an "approach". I suppose I'm starting to become more "natural"? It was at the library, my community college is full of obnoxious black people (the bad kind, not the educated, sensible ones) so there isn't many girls that interest me. I usually just go to class and go home. But there's a few diamonds in the rough. This girl was sitting at a computer in the library and I just sat down next to her, and asked her about what she was working on (French). Got into a quick discussion about France, and I decided to leave because I wasn't into her.

Speaking of libraries, they're great places to meet girls. I go to this other college nearby of MUCH higher quality to study (and its library is open way later), and when I walk in, I try to sit next to a girl that I think is cute. Opening is easy; just ask them what they're studying. They're usually very receptive.

Fell into the trap of soda/energy drinks AGAIN earlier this month. Turns out that there's a protein in the brain that floats around for about two months that makes relapse happen easier. So it looks like next year in February I'll be COMPLETELY free of the relapse chemical, and would have about three solid months of not drinking that sh*t. October was a good month for getting rid of the addiction. I'm on day 3 as of today (the 11th) and I'm over the hump of having a throbbing all-day headache (the mild withdrawal symptom).

Starting to slow down with how often I come to this site, as well as spend less time on the internet. Which leads us to...

Vice's Great Adventure & Car Camping

So, with $20 and a full tank of gas in my new car, I am heading out to a college town that's about an hour and a half drive from where I live. I'm going to explore the city, approach random chicks, and just scumbag around. Live in my car for the weekend. Get out of my comfort zone.

 

[Kerpal]

So, with $20 and a full tank of gas in my new car, I am heading out to a college town that's about an hour and a half drive from where I live. I'm going to explore the city, approach random chicks, and just scumbag around. Live in my car for the weekend. Get out of my comfort zone.

That's awesome, I was thinking about driving up to NYC and doing that just for the hell of it