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I'm sure your big head could handle some shrinkageUndergone his fair share of headshrinking
I'm sure your big head could handle some shrinkageUndergone his fair share of headshrinking
OP's not that much different from someone who was bit by a dog ONCE, and is now terrified to walk down the street. Such maladies aren't easy to remedy by any means, nonetheless getting past them IS highly achievable, and there's no shortage of technology out there to aid this processIt's also a fact that you haven't made near enough approaches to even contemplate that
I won't turn down the opportunity to enlarge my Little Head, once the technology for doing so becomes reliableI'm sure your big head could handle some shrinkage
I didn't know you were that insecure about your trouser worm.I won't turn down the opportunity to enlarge my Little Head, once the technology for doing so becomes reliable
Yet another Red Pill canard that collapses under mild scrutiny: Kat McPhee is married to/having babies with a man in his 70s, and 30something Lizzy Winstead and Alexandra Daddario are doing likewise with guys in their 50s. The public at large at worst has a little giggle over this, then wishes them all well. By contrast, pair-ups like Aaron and Sam Taylor Johnson or Olivia Wilde and Harry Styles are openly reviledThe gynocentric social order in Western nations does give older men a rough time for dating substantially younger women.
What about Madonna and her younger men? I don't hear her getting much flack.Yet another Red Pill canard that collapses under mild scrutiny: Kat McPhee is married to/having babies with a man in his 70s, and 30something Lizzy Winstead and Alexandra Daddario are doing likewise with guys in their 50s. The public at large at worst has a little giggle over this, then wishes them all well. By contrast, pair-ups like Aaron and Sam Taylor Johnson or Olivia Wilde and Harry Styles are openly reviled
If OP thinks he won't be subject to these same social dynamics, when not even our glitterati could escape them, he's in for a rude awakening
Madonna had already degenerated into self-parody by time she started pulling that crap. The story would've been different had she done so during the late 80s-early 90s, when her career was going gang bustersWhat about Madonna and her younger men? I don't hear her getting much flack
You wouldn't be on this site if you didn't care about influencing the rest of humanity's perception of you, so that they in turn will be more amenable to conceding to your wishes. I commend you for this. Most supposed men today are too pu-sy to be that honest with themselvesBesides, I really don't give a damn if society judges me for being into older women
Kings to you for doing so. What did he say in reply?Speaking of older women, I ran the idea by my therapist that my mom's hurtful comments during my teen years could have contributed to my age preference.
In the late 80s to early 90s, Madonna was only in her early 30s. There wouldn't have been a stigma about a 30 year old woman getting with a, say, 22 year old guy.Madonna had already degenerated into self-parody by time she started pulling that crap. The story would've been different had she done so during the late 80s-early 90s, when her career was going gang busters
You wouldn't be on this site if you didn't care about influencing the rest of humanity's perception of you, so that they in turn will be more amenable to conceding to your wishes. I commend you for this. Most supposed men today are too pu-sy to be that honest with themselves
Kings to you for doing so. What did he say in reply?
What hints are you aware of?He went on to say many a woman will drop hints that they want you to make a move on her, however. The bad news though: He said even non-spectrum men have a hard enough time deciphering her hints.
Some examples:What hints are you aware of?
Yeah, there would have, thus she didn't do so. Same way Olivia Wilde didn't run around with Drake or Josh back in the late 2000s-early 10s, when she was just on the riseIn the late 80s to early 90s, Madonna was only in her early 30s. There wouldn't have been a stigma about a 30 year old woman getting with a, say, 22 year old guy
And we all want to see you succeed, GM, thus we're frustrated to no end when you "That being said..."every last ounce of (extremely sage)counsel you're provided here. Stop making excuses, and start replacing your self-defeating behaviors with adaptative ones, TODAY. Because tomorrow ain't promised for any of us. Ask Anton Yelchin, next time you attend a seance. You're spending an ungodly amount of time and effort fantasizing about bedding a demographic of women who, by and large, have no desire to pair up with men young enough to be their sons. Despite being surrounded by a sea of beauties who are at the peak of their desirability, and eager for a real-life Christian Gray to carry them off to The Red RoomI'd like to do better with the ladies, yeah (which is the main reason I'm on here). That being said...
The onus is on you to come in with a subject to work on, hoss. You're going to spend therapy nibbling around the edges of your troubles(I.E. Not getting to the good stuff until the end of every session, when there's no time to dig deep into it), if you expect any shrink to miracously heal you, without meeting them halfwayAs for my therapist, we're covering all sorts of topics in the course of my therapy. I didn't have a chance to mention the mom thing until the final 10 minutes
Hard to say, would need more information about your relationship with this woman. It could be that you are her friend/good friend and this might be a friendzone. The comment itself is interesting but I wouldn't necessarily interpret it to mean she is expecting me to ask her out. 50/50 at best. However, it is a good quality of friendship for her to disclose that with you, even if you don't make a move.Some examples:
A woman commented to me once that she found some dresses in the back of her closet that she hardly ever wears. Then she said maybe she'll finally get a chance to wear one of her dresses if she ever gets asked out again (this same woman has told me I have good looks before).
This is 100%...she started a discussion with you. What more of an obvious hint do you need there?GoodMan32 said:A woman at the gym started a discussion with me. Then she continued the discussion while she stretched (obviously I had no choice but to continue looking in her direction, as we were in the middle of a discussion). There's more I could say about this woman; feel free to DM me if you want to hear more (for privacy reasons).
This is again another 100% because she is touching you like that. You can even remember this to write it down?GoodMan32 said:Female customer rubbed my back at work.
That does not mean anything.GoodMan32 said:Another female customer asked where my accent comes from (and said she liked my accent).
Very hard to read this one....very 50/50.GoodMan32 said:On another thread, I mentioned my female next door neighbor (who has approximately 20 years on me) saying "nothing wrong with an older woman" (upon finding out I'm into older women)
This could be a hint.GoodMan32 said:Female coworker at a past job commented on my eyes and flawless skin.
This is like 100% -- obviously you can act handsy on her too....where would she let you touch?GoodMan32 said:Female coworker back in 2020 would act handsy with me.
May not mean anything.GoodMan32 said:Female coworker back in 2023, when I asked her about her nails, told me she treated herself for Valentine's Day (in other words, basically advertising that she was single)
Very strong interest...she took the time to draw that picture and made that question. You would have to be blind to even question that.GoodMan32 said:Female coworker back in 2019 or 2020 drew a picture of me holding a bouquet of flowers (and gave me the picture). She also asked me once whether I have a girlfriend/wife.
What is wrong with you? You have some amazing IOI's from your co-workers and yet you have a policy of not crapping where you eat.I am going to add, @corrector , that I'm not 100% sure if any of these hints mean they wanted me to make a move.
All I'm saying is they could have been clues that I was supposed to make a move.
Sounds like you've found a shrink who's got both feet firmly on the ground, and who hasn't Gone Woke, which is increasingly rare at present. Don't squander this gift from Fortuna now. Make a conscious effort to be the ideal client described here 3:12-3:50He said even though it's more common today for a woman to make a move on a man (compared to several decades ago), the difference is minimal. He said he'd estimate at least 85% of women still prefer the man to make the move...
The ‘IOI’s I get at work are unambiguous. Which is one reason I never get in trouble.What is wrong with you? You have some amazing IOI's from your co-workers and yet you have a policy of not crapping where you eat.
You have clear niche interest through work and if you didn't put up mental barriers you could be successful on here like @Hamurabimbi who actually does get action through work and never gets into any trouble with it.
You think @GoodMan32 IOIs are ambigious compared to yours? (ie he said a female customer rubbed his back at work, said another co-worker was "handsy" with him, or another co-worker drew a sketch of him, etc....) That sounds unambiguous to me.The ‘IOI’s I get at work are unambiguous. Which is one reason I never get in trouble.
e.g. a coworker hopping on my desk, wiggling her a$$ and asking if I ,need a sexratatary?’. Or being offered a BJ by a coworker in a company vehicle.
What line of work are you in?The ‘IOI’s I get at work are unambiguous. Which is one reason I never get in trouble.
e.g. a coworker hopping on my desk, wiggling her a$$ and asking if I ,need a sexratatary?’. Or being offered a BJ by a coworker in a company vehicle.
These things have happened over multiple jobs in multiple fields with different employers.What line of work are you in?