Why do you care if she is showing you signs of interest that you are somehow "misreading".
All you should care about is what YOU want to happen and then act accordingly.
Trying to figure out if it's a sign of interest is your first mistake. You simply shouldn't care.
I have no idea where you come up with these thoughts but they honestly don't make any sense. Sounds more like excuses to prevent you from having to actually take action.
Women like men that have balls, act bold and take action. Not so much guys who cower in fear because they are afraid they are misreading if they like them or not in a sexual way.
I mean might as well go write on a piece of paper "Do you want to go out with me?" And put check boxes for "Yes" and "No" and slide it under her door like we are in elementary school.
Maybe because those of us on the spectrum have a track record of misreading all sorts of stuff (not just a woman's interest level). It takes a toll on us.
For the sake of the discussion, let's focus solely on misreading a woman's interest. I've misjudged a woman's interest so many times in the past, it makes me doubt my ability to gauge a woman's interest.
I've seriously
never gotten free sex from making a move on a woman in person. My free sex has mainly come from online. The 2 free sex partners I met somewhere other than the internet just sort of happened (with neither of us officially making the move)
As for dates, I've only ever gotten one date from making a move on a woman in person. The rest of my dates have either come from tech methods, the woman making a move on me, or just sort of happened (like when I was acting as a wingman, yet the woman ended up picking me)
It would be one thing if a man's track record was 50/50 with reading a woman's clues correctly. But in my case, I misread a woman 100% of the time on sex (and over 90% of the time when it comes to dates). With percentages like mine, making a move on a woman becomes an exercise in humiliation.
The "balls" I've shown on my in-person approaches haven't gotten me far.
As an analogy, imagine a teen misses every single shot from the free throw line when practicing basketball at the public basketball court (and has only ever nailed 1 layup when practicing at the public basketball court). Would you really blame him if he opts out of the humiliation that would come from trying out for his high school basketball team?
