Maintaining Integrity is one of the KEY traits mature healthy women look for in a Man.
Maintaining integirty has its effects on all your interactions, behaviors, words, deeds, and actions.
When you demonstrate a natural integrity, your woman will sense your Internal strength.
This internal strength is absolutely CRUCIAL for a woman to fully surrender to you.
This integrity of character is what keeps her glued to you, becaseu when she KNOWS that you don't collapse under the weight, that you don't deny her her right to her feelings and emotions, and the way she relates to you, you build an incredibly strong and intimate bond that she will have an excruciatingly HARD time finiding in another man.
She is TIRED of dealing with a weak man.
She is TIRED of dealing with the immature 'boy'.
She is TIRED of dealing with the guy who is 'checked out'.
She is TIRED of the guy who cannot 'handle' her emotions and upheavals.
She is TIRED of always having to interact with a lover in a 'guarded' state, because deep inside, she feels she cant TRUST him. She feels she cant lean on him, because he will collapse and check out, run away, and make her feel like her feelings and her issues are not important , and he doesnt want to deal with them.
That woman is tired of running all that masculine energy.
She wants to feel like a woman again.
And she can only do that when she KNOWS in her heart that you ARE truly strong.
That when she opens up to you intimately, that you can handle ANYTHING she says or has experienced.
TIme and time again, this one factor proves to be CRUCIAL in successful relationships over the long term.
A woman really does feel satisfied when she KNOWS you are 'the rock'.
That's when she can truly breathe the sigh of relief, and trust you and surrender herself fully to you.
If we can visualize women as a flowing stream, and men as the solid rock within the stream...calm, self assured, not judgin her unfairly, and able to withstand the emotional upheaval, then you will get a DEEP sens of the core nature of male/female relationship dynamics.
A woman will not let herself be emotionaly vulnerable to you, when she feels you 'check out'.
For various reasons...
during her period
during pregnancy
during arguments
understanding her past
understanding her issues
understanding and accepting her sexuality and her fantasies
understanding that she knows she is 'hard to handle' sometimes, but NEEDs a man to align her, to stand up to her, an dgive her that natural challenge.
How you deal with her parents
how you deal with an ex bf or someone
how you handle social pressure
how you handle difficult situations at home...
ALL these things she is OBSERVING when she deals with you,as she gets to know you.
The more secure she feels your strength, your masculine core, it dont matter as much if youre 'not that tall', or 'dont have a BMW" or 'dont look like Brad Pitt'.
Because you offer her something so incredibly VALUEABLE to HER...as a WOMAN.....
you offer her that strength and character, that her, as a good , healthy and mature woman with plenty of class and self respect NEEDS to feel fulfilled.
This drives up her interest and makes you all the more sexually attractive to her.
And if you are a good lover, forget about it....
She's done.
She feels fulfilled and happy. She feels that assurance, and security.
Trusting you. Feeling safe with you. Finally.
She can let her 'guard' down.
When she talks to you as a MAN...she KNOWS that you listen to her and wont freak out.
It is so imperative for men to develop that skill for listening ,and NOT JUDGING her unfairly.
You create intimate bond there.
When you dont shy away from her, it demonstrates that confidence you have in yourself.
It demonstrates how comfortable you are with sexuality, your own, and especially HERS.
If you know where women are coming from, then you get a much more realistic perspective to HOW women are TRYING to connect with you.
When she locks eyes with you, she is looking for that.
She is looking for that security, with yourself and her, and her emotions, and her sexuality.
How comfortable are you with that???
When you realize that this is how women try to 'scan' for potential men, who are confident and self assured, you will then 'see' their sub communication to you.
When you are in that 'frequency', a whole other world opens up to you.
She sees that you 'get it'.
And that you wont run away from her.
That is critical.
Build that inner strength.
The Integrity to HOLD on to your VALUES
HOLD ON TO YOUR VALUES!
This what she needs to see from you.
AND...
YOU do yourSELF a FAVOR by building on that inner strength and resources..
it affects every FACET of YOUR LIFE.
DO it for yourself and her...
