Exactly bro. That's my point. It's the attachment that causes the jealousy. Why did you form the attachment in the first place? It's because you were socialized to form that attachment. You took her as your wife. Imagine you live in a society where you don't wife them up. Where you don't see them as property. Would you still feel the jealousy? My point is civilization tells us to form these wifey like attachments to these women and this is where the extreme jealousy comes from.I don't feel jealousy when the stripper starts grinding on the other man because I don't have any investment/ownership of her as my woman - nor is she under my sexual domain. If I saw my woman getting pounded by another man, it would elicit a completely different response than some random stripper getting pounded by the same man. My woman has committed herself to me in some way whether she is a plate, LTR, or wife. By sexually submitting herself to another man, that elicits a visceral response in me to protect what is mine. First, I am going to use force to dissuade the man from my property; but second, it is a violation of my relationship with my woman for her to submit to another man assuming she is doing it voluntarily.
I agree it is easy to not feel sexual competition over women you care nothing about it. But if you develop an attachment to them on some level - plate, LTR, wife - that is not going to be the case. Nor do I think that this is in any way influenced by society -- it is how we are wired as men.
Interesting thought experiment right? I'm not saying I am right but even you just admitted that it is possible to see women as sexual without forming possessivness.
From here on out every man will have to practice not forming possesivee attachment to women. Those days are long gone brothers. This is what im telling you. She WILL cheat or leave you. Too many options and it's in her nature.