ThunderMaverick
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Backbreaker was exposed as a fraud and that's why he's not stepping up to defend himself.
http://www.bbb.org/arkansas/business-reviews/web-design/black-17-media-in-little-rock-ar-90209549 The BBB review for his work shows that people aren't happy with doing business with him.
Also allegedly posted on this board here where again he didn't come in to defend himself: http://www.the-mainboard.com/index....ssaud-is-a-con-artist-thread-yet.93745/page-3
To be perfectly honest, I've never seen a more insecure person on this board, (aside from STR8UP) when it came to challenging a belief. There's always going to be exeptions to rules that many of us have experienced, and there are "words of wisdom" that aren't going to be right 100% of the time.
BB came here claiming to help the little people of this forum but became such a little man when not everyone agreed with him. His emotional instability made me question his legitimacy. I mean a lot of what he said made sense and hold true, but then again anyone could have said it without truly living by example. Backbreaker used an example of this BF being stagnant to claim being on a much higher level than him. People were also pointing out that money doesn't exactly equal true success. I have to agree. What is true success? Let's compare:
BF who got cheated on:
Has a steady job in an econimic depression.
Makes 30,000 a year.
Enjoys his job.
Backbreaker:
Has his own business that's been given an F by the BBB.
Is a former drug addict who has self image issues.
Can be vindictive and abnormally frustrated when challenged
on his personal views.
Has a hot wife.
I have no problem being the guy with the steady job.
Are we measuring success on how hard you work? Or what's reaped only AFTER working hard? I've worked very hard doing voice over
work, demos, short films, etc. If we're measuring success by the latter I should be a ****ing millionaire. People can spend most of their life trying to achieve "success" in the eyes of anther who can apparently "do better" than you. F*ck that. Some people just don't gain "success" as fast as others.
I think the guy working for 30k is pretty successful, considering the circumstances. How do we know what his desires are? Why is he "below" you just because he doesn't have the same drive as you do? Does he need to? If he figures out that the reason he got cheated on was because he
wasn't good enough that might lead him here, to figure out why women are low down no good conniving c*nts. He'll learn how to be "successful" in
order to avoid hypergamy, leading him to live a life always wondering if he's good enough. He'll be working hard to make someone else happy.
F*ck that.
The point of this place isn't to measure success by someone else's standards. It's to be the best you can be, for yourself. In this ass backward thread we're learning that to keep someone from cheating on you we have to "pick up and go whenever we want". That we can at least pay 100 dollars to go see a play once a week. It doesn't happen like that for most of us, as much as we want it to. It will take time. It will take a lot of soul searching and planning and work. There are some women who will actually stick around while "the bread is being made" because they believe in your potential. Not all women will abandon you because you can sometimes get stuck in a rut. A level headed woman knows life isn't a fairy tale where a rich white knight will swoop them up to take them to his personal kingdom. A real woman
will support you, given the right ingredients.
The BF seemed to be in a comfortable place, and I could understand if the ex felt he was being stagnant. The moral of the story in BB's eyes, however, is so backwards and wrong I could go on a 3 page rant. Saying that her cheating wasn't important is contrary to what this thread is about. The REASON she cheated is because the guy was supposedly "comfortable"with his life situation. SHE wasn't happy because of something she didn't like him doing. After all, if he was "moving up" she wouldn't have f*cked the guy at her RECEPTIONIST JOB. Right? What if he were trying? Would that make a difference? Would it have?
We blame HIM for HER behavior. Again, I understand why she was frustrated, as her standard of living became different than his. BUT the way she went about it, conveniently making her life situation easier by deceit is bullsh!t and probably shouldn't be passed on. Let's not separate what she did from what he did. It's all related. We can't say ALL WOMEN would do this, because I know one here who would have took a more reasonable route to dumping someone they weren't happy with.
Yes, Lexington. The woman was a branch swinger. Happens to the most "successful" of us. lol
Let's make people accountable for the sh!t they do, shall we?
http://www.bbb.org/arkansas/business-reviews/web-design/black-17-media-in-little-rock-ar-90209549 The BBB review for his work shows that people aren't happy with doing business with him.
Also allegedly posted on this board here where again he didn't come in to defend himself: http://www.the-mainboard.com/index....ssaud-is-a-con-artist-thread-yet.93745/page-3
To be perfectly honest, I've never seen a more insecure person on this board, (aside from STR8UP) when it came to challenging a belief. There's always going to be exeptions to rules that many of us have experienced, and there are "words of wisdom" that aren't going to be right 100% of the time.
BB came here claiming to help the little people of this forum but became such a little man when not everyone agreed with him. His emotional instability made me question his legitimacy. I mean a lot of what he said made sense and hold true, but then again anyone could have said it without truly living by example. Backbreaker used an example of this BF being stagnant to claim being on a much higher level than him. People were also pointing out that money doesn't exactly equal true success. I have to agree. What is true success? Let's compare:
BF who got cheated on:
Has a steady job in an econimic depression.
Makes 30,000 a year.
Enjoys his job.
Backbreaker:
Has his own business that's been given an F by the BBB.
Is a former drug addict who has self image issues.
Can be vindictive and abnormally frustrated when challenged
on his personal views.
Has a hot wife.
I have no problem being the guy with the steady job.
Are we measuring success on how hard you work? Or what's reaped only AFTER working hard? I've worked very hard doing voice over
work, demos, short films, etc. If we're measuring success by the latter I should be a ****ing millionaire. People can spend most of their life trying to achieve "success" in the eyes of anther who can apparently "do better" than you. F*ck that. Some people just don't gain "success" as fast as others.
I think the guy working for 30k is pretty successful, considering the circumstances. How do we know what his desires are? Why is he "below" you just because he doesn't have the same drive as you do? Does he need to? If he figures out that the reason he got cheated on was because he
wasn't good enough that might lead him here, to figure out why women are low down no good conniving c*nts. He'll learn how to be "successful" in
order to avoid hypergamy, leading him to live a life always wondering if he's good enough. He'll be working hard to make someone else happy.
F*ck that.
The point of this place isn't to measure success by someone else's standards. It's to be the best you can be, for yourself. In this ass backward thread we're learning that to keep someone from cheating on you we have to "pick up and go whenever we want". That we can at least pay 100 dollars to go see a play once a week. It doesn't happen like that for most of us, as much as we want it to. It will take time. It will take a lot of soul searching and planning and work. There are some women who will actually stick around while "the bread is being made" because they believe in your potential. Not all women will abandon you because you can sometimes get stuck in a rut. A level headed woman knows life isn't a fairy tale where a rich white knight will swoop them up to take them to his personal kingdom. A real woman
will support you, given the right ingredients.
The BF seemed to be in a comfortable place, and I could understand if the ex felt he was being stagnant. The moral of the story in BB's eyes, however, is so backwards and wrong I could go on a 3 page rant. Saying that her cheating wasn't important is contrary to what this thread is about. The REASON she cheated is because the guy was supposedly "comfortable"with his life situation. SHE wasn't happy because of something she didn't like him doing. After all, if he was "moving up" she wouldn't have f*cked the guy at her RECEPTIONIST JOB. Right? What if he were trying? Would that make a difference? Would it have?
We blame HIM for HER behavior. Again, I understand why she was frustrated, as her standard of living became different than his. BUT the way she went about it, conveniently making her life situation easier by deceit is bullsh!t and probably shouldn't be passed on. Let's not separate what she did from what he did. It's all related. We can't say ALL WOMEN would do this, because I know one here who would have took a more reasonable route to dumping someone they weren't happy with.
Yes, Lexington. The woman was a branch swinger. Happens to the most "successful" of us. lol
Let's make people accountable for the sh!t they do, shall we?