zekko said:
Lol, Backbreaker. If a woman screws another guy to try to get me to commit, she's really, really, really going about it the wrong way. In fact, she's probably fvcked herself out of a chance with me. The first thing I want to know for her to qualify as a LTR is if she can keep her cooch in her pants. And yes, I do expect her to recognize her opportunity early on.
But it sounds like I'm a bit more territorial than you. Morals, shmorals. I don't want a bunch of d!cks in my girl. Of course, yeah, if the girl is nothing but a sex toy to you, what's the difference?
I just realized once I started dating women, and becoming a man that women desired to be with and in turn, really did not need them, that women, are actually once you break past the shield and the few tricks she has, are much... much... much more AFC then men will ever be. ever.
the avg attractive woman, is used, to batting her eyebrows and throwing on a skirt, throwing out a few hints, acting cute on a few dates and getting what she wants. 10 out of 10 times. Once you set the hook in a woman where she realizes "damn.. I want that motherfvcker right there" and then realizes she cant get you, they are 10x worse than guys are because
1. they have never not gotten what they want and
2. they have other guys that want to fvck them, unlike men afc's.
the combination, will more times than not end up with her using the other guy to get at you. Not because she is a *****, not because she is immoral, because she just doesn't know what else to do. she has never had to resort being patient, or competing overtly with other women before for man's attention.
There is no sosuavette lol. becuase there doesn't need to be. sosuavette consist of "wear somethign cute, fvck him 1 or 2 good times, cook something half decent, talk about how great of a guy he is", throw hints at him you want him to date you. that is pretty much what a sosuavette site would consist of. IN a war between men and women, women defiantly go light infantry lol. so what does a woman do when none of the usual things she has done for her entire life work?
your guess is as good as hers lol.
The only difference between a man AFC and a woman AFC, is that women can develop oneitis while fvcking someone else, becuase for women it has nothing to do with sex.. men genreally get over oneitis once they meet other women. women on the other hand, will lock onto one guy that she really has it in for, and will use other guys around her to get back at him
women don't fvck for the same reasons men fvck. get the silly hall mark idea that sex is some magical wonderful floating in air exchange between two star crossed lovers out of your mind.
Once you take the magical power that sex has away, by acknowledging for what it really is, you start to see just how clueless a woman is when she is dealing with a man that she desperately wants yet can't get to commit.
Once a woman has resorted to fvcking another guy to get to me, they've pretty much fried their last bullet and are standing there with an empty holster and I have a sniper rifle with a full barrel.
Fvck it.. i'll keep it 100% real with you guys. And I know this will not go over well but I don't give a **** because it works for me. I will not consider a LTR with a girl..
UNTIL she tries to fvck another guy and get back to me. Because in my mind, it is only when a woman wants you so bad... that she will try to hurt you by fvcking another man that you know that woman is dead crazy about you.
It also at the same time, she's not such a chumpn that she' sgoing to sit back and just be patient for and let me run over her. I am very much the head of a house hold but i can't date a woman without a back bone. There are times I need a woman to stand up to me.
with that said,k you have to keep in mind, I am a plate spinner. I'll plate spin like i'm in Ringling brothers Barnum and Baily circus, and will make 0 bones about it. I want you to know i'm seeing other women. So it's not like it's one sided.
A woman that likes you from my experience, will go through a very methodical process. First, she will confront you, politly. Most guys will stop right here. go look at the general forum, "Oh she foudn out i went on another date what do i do" lol. then, she will confront you.. agressivly. this is when the "you are a peice of ****" phone calls start. this is my fav stage. and every\y woman does it. Then she will attempt to play hard to get. She tried the regular "falling in love" bit that works with regular guys, showing IOI, being interested, always available, now she's going to flip the script since you are being so "childish" and not be avialable, and try to use basic DJ ish tactics, not answering the phone and stuff like that. then she will start to drop hints that other guys are interested in her. when none of this works, more times than not, she will sleep with a guy and let you know about it. It has nothing ot do with the guy, he's just a dildo that is there. This is all about you. "this will teach that motherfvcker, I can get a man he doesn't know what he is passing up"...
then she smugly drops the hint or somehow you find out that she got her some and she is sitting there waiting for you to react, and when you don't and you continue to do your thing.. sit back and grab a bag of popcorn beucase the meltdown that will ensue, once she realized that you really, do not give a ****, rather she goes or stays.. is quite epic. Once she is fianlly, forced to realize she genuinely, wants to be with you, and that you genuinely, are not going to date her right now or commit to her right now, she throws a temper tantrum. I remember millie sitting in my house crying because... she wasn't even mad anymore.. she just didn't know what she had to do to get me to "stop messing with other girls, I thought you said you liked me, you are willing to let me sleep with another man?".
only then, IMHO, have you completely and utterly broken a woman down to the point where you can have a long lasting relationship. Once you have demonstrated to her taht she isn't going to use her vag as a power saber in the relationship.
I'd be lying if i said this was mjy mind set at the time, it wasn't, this was 4 years ago. I wasn't this smart then. But when I found out she did sleep with a dude, when she told me who it was I knew she didn't like him an I knew it was all about me, i didn't give a ****. It's jsut sex. that dude had been chasing her for a year and he thought it was his lucky day, only for her to be thinking about me the whole time. But it was at that point that night that I knew she was fully committed to dating me and that was the first time I even considered stopping to spin plates, and within a month or so I did completely.
i remember sitting there with her that night and telling her look, Ill be honest, I am crazy about you believe it or not. I really am, I want you and me to work, but on my terms. this is what I want out of a woman...
I don't know how many of you are familiar with pimpin ken or not. He actually wrote a book lol about pimping. I am not a pimp, nor do I wish to be. I'm too business oriented for that ****. But pimps, understand a woman's physco better than 99.9% of males in the world, how else can you get a woman to fvck men and give you all the money lol and be happy about the ****.
When a woman meets a pimp, he makes her break herself, meaning, she needs to give up everything she has to him on the spot. to show that she is fully committed to him. how much ever money she has on her at the time, 500 dollars 1200 dollar,s 5000 dollars, give it up. it's only once a woman has broken her self that she can be a loyal hoe lol. I don't' mean to use that term in a negative fashion but i mean, we are actually talking about hoeing.
lol you probably think I'm the sickest motherfvcker on erath. I have have not had problem Q out of my wife in 4 years. not big problems at least. cooks, cleans, makes me laugh, great in bed, still in shape, great mommy.
the problem with 90% of relationships, is you have women, who actually think they are running ****. who think and kn ow they have control over the relationship.
Not only is a woman sleeping with a man and coming back to you... not wrong.. the **** is damn near mandatory in my book.
