Okay homie. Well I do agree with you about Tinder to some degree. Disagree on your binary m/f and NAWALT points.
This is my view, and I am not exactly active in the club scene. Your goal should be to to entertain yourself, any women you pick up along the way is just a fun byproduct.
This is preposterous. On OLD you are competing against more men and you still have to meet the girl in person first.
Every single girl has a tinder or some sort of OLD profile.
Here? Surely you jest!
I use it, but like @Pierce.Manhammer mentioned, it’s a trigger warning. A lot of posters on this site need a safe space and throw temper tantrums when they feel like their safe space is violated.
Oh, is that how that works?
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Sexual intercourse, reproductive act in which the male reproductive organ (in humans and other higher animals) enters the female reproductive tract. If the reproductive act is complete, sperm cells are passed from the male body into the female, in the process fertilizing the female’s egg and...
If you've never used it, do some recon. Do a fake profile of a good looking dude (a couple of points - but not too many - above you on the looks scale) locally or in another city that way you can get the volume you need to practice. Once you get the hang of it, come out as you but with the best pics you possibly can.
You need focus on making yourself more attractive first. No date in 8 years....OLD isn't going to be the chariot that bails you out.
Use OLD as a supplement to other means of meeting women. Just one more tool in the toolbox.
Haha I would do that just to get a feel for how it all works and to practice using the apps, I don’t think the women would be too happy to learn that I was catfishing them.
I do agree with that since I also still live at home with my parents, don’t have a social circle, and don’t have a regular job either. But I am in school and working a series of seasonal jobs for money while I go to school. I don’t think it would hurt to go on some practice dates though because me being so inexperienced at 30 has been a cause of constant concern for me since I feel like it will cause a lot of issues with dating. Getting some experience from practice dates could help ease that concern.
That’s just a matter of finding the other means then I guess. It seems like a pretty common problem facing men these days where they just don’t know where to meet women. The Instagram route seems like a huge pain in the ass and requires a lot of time and money too probably to make your profile as interesting as possible with posts at cool places or doing fun activities. And OP said himself that cold approaching yields a pretty low success rate.
