The problem I see on this site is too many people spend too much time on the internet and not enough time in the real world.
As for the older man who teaches law and has his own law firm, gee, there have been many college professors and high school teachers who have hooked up with their students, not a big surprise there. Good looking or bad looking.
As for the girl who works in the "IT" industry. Not everybody in the "IT" industry is a geek. It hasn't been like that for what, 5 or 6 years plus now.
There are still some that do, but the "IT" industry has become just like any other industry. A variety of men and women with a variety of looks and personalities.
Although I will say, there probably is like 75 percent or more men working in "IT" then women at most companies and firms.
Looks and attraction will always matter, plain and simple.
While everybody has different tastes and attractions, too many people come to this site and assume they can learn these "magic DJ tricks" and then go out and get any girl.
That's what causes more guys to come back and whine about they still can't get any.
As for the 40 year old who compares themselves to the younger generation, I really find that sad.
While we all do it at times and while sometimes we might be better as an adult then we ever were while younger, you need to face facts.
A 40 year old is not a 20 year old, plain and simple. If you constantly try to be better then a 20 year old, you my friend, have learned nothing over your adulthood.
You, in fact, have become just like the 20 year old. Competing and comparing yourself to everybody else. And nobody wants to see a grouchy 40 year old wishing they were still 20.
You might be hot, in shape, and successful, but if you try to compare yourself to some 20 year old, you've become nothing more then a sad sap. Why compare yourself?