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Originally posted by MysteryWoman
Just a quick question, I know it slightly side tracking the original topic. Do most good looking guys prefer very slim women (sometimes boardering skinny look) or is it basically the woman's beautiful face that attracts them?

I'm a good looking dude and i tend to notice body first and faces later so if i where just looking to hook up that's how i judge attractiveness i probably sacrifice a girls face over her body but for dating and other stuff i measure her attractiveness by her face .
 

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Originally posted by MysteryWoman
Just a quick question, I know it slightly side tracking the original topic. Do most good looking guys prefer very slim women (sometimes boardering skinny look) or is it basically the woman's beautiful face that attracts them?
Man, this is a tough one cause it can go either way. As long as the girl is in shape, her body doesnt need to necessarely be slim, but in shape, if she has a beautiful face, it will usually attract handsome guys.

Too often I see girls with wicked bodies, and troll heads. Which is a no go!

Hope this helps.
 
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Mystery Woman,

You hate the truth do you? Don't hate the messenger - hate the reality!!!!!!! Your response tells me my point was right on and you are a typical female - did you take it personally? Too bad - take it or leave it alone!!!

I will gladly compare my 41 year old male looks to your teenage or twenty-something female looks - and bet you have more wrinkles than I do - if you have more than two you lost baby! I even dare say that i am 'prettier' than you (yes - i dare use that word in its general conmnotation). Hell, from my adult experiences in the last 24 years and especially in this latest decade, I would put my looks and fitness ahead of 95% of American females from 18 - 41. I am sadly disappointed and distraught in the physical appearance and spiritual condition of the American female in the last 30 - 40 years!!!! I would exclude 80% of females from my prey list on their weight and shape alone!!
 

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Thanks Clooney and others, that helped. I always thought it was the face.

Puto Ricen I don't care how you look like, certainly not after an old man. I am not an overweight American, I am a slim british, brunette. Don't have a scanner to post a picture.

You might call all women wh@res, but it is natural for women to want to initially get the best looking guy she can get. Doesn't mean all women can achieve this. In you eyes women who go for looks may be wh@res (though I think you have serious mental issues here), but that is way nature decitates it
 

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nono, you got it twisted, it should be - women that go for the looks .. end up divorced - :D
 
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Mysyery Girl,

I only call wh@res - wh@res, and not all women. Do you have a problem with reality or do you think you would be included in my definition of a wh@re? Go to the thread 'knock it off!!!!!!!' and read pages 4 through 6 and you'll find the true definition of a wh@re.

Women that go for looks in a man will be severely disappointed as she gets older and she (her body) deteriorates quite rapidly (especially after having children) - and her man is screwing another woman while she is baby-sitting the kids. She should have been looking for a good husband and a good father and all that 'good' entails and not a man with a cute face or tight @ss!

What does a wh@re do with a man's @ss anyway? Do it doggy style with him - HUH???
 

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The problem I see on this site is too many people spend too much time on the internet and not enough time in the real world.


As for the older man who teaches law and has his own law firm, gee, there have been many college professors and high school teachers who have hooked up with their students, not a big surprise there. Good looking or bad looking.

As for the girl who works in the "IT" industry. Not everybody in the "IT" industry is a geek. It hasn't been like that for what, 5 or 6 years plus now.

There are still some that do, but the "IT" industry has become just like any other industry. A variety of men and women with a variety of looks and personalities.

Although I will say, there probably is like 75 percent or more men working in "IT" then women at most companies and firms.

Looks and attraction will always matter, plain and simple.

While everybody has different tastes and attractions, too many people come to this site and assume they can learn these "magic DJ tricks" and then go out and get any girl.

That's what causes more guys to come back and whine about they still can't get any.

As for the 40 year old who compares themselves to the younger generation, I really find that sad.

While we all do it at times and while sometimes we might be better as an adult then we ever were while younger, you need to face facts.

A 40 year old is not a 20 year old, plain and simple. If you constantly try to be better then a 20 year old, you my friend, have learned nothing over your adulthood.

You, in fact, have become just like the 20 year old. Competing and comparing yourself to everybody else. And nobody wants to see a grouchy 40 year old wishing they were still 20.

You might be hot, in shape, and successful, but if you try to compare yourself to some 20 year old, you've become nothing more then a sad sap. Why compare yourself?
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Mysyery Girl,

I only call wh@res - wh@res, and not all women. Do you have a problem with reality or do you think you would be included in my definition of a wh@re? Go to the thread 'knock it off!!!!!!!' and read pages 4 through 6 and you'll find the true definition of a wh@re.

Women that go for looks in a man will be severely disappointed as she gets older and she (her body) deteriorates quite rapidly (especially after having children) - and her man is screwing another woman while she is baby-sitting the kids. She should have been looking for a good husband and a good father and all that 'good' entails and not a man with a cute face or tight @ss!

What does a wh@re do with a man's @ss anyway? Do it doggy style with him - HUH???
B@llocks, what percentage of men end up with younger women.?Face it putero Rico, you old! There are a many more younger handsome men in the world than you. We don't all want wrinkly d!cks!
 
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But younger men don't want stupid women that get their kicks of insulting older men, cause the younger men will be older men eventually ! :D
 

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There are many older men with younger women.

Many times it's because of money. Many times it's because the girl didn't have a father figure. Many times it's because the women wants to rebel. Many times it's because the girl is tired of the immature younger guys.

But sometimes it is because she actually likes the older man.


While many older men love the attention of younger women, especially if the guy is 40 and the girl is 21, many older men who date younger women have insecurity issues.

It's sad sometimes when they can't accept that it's because they drive a BMW and have a huge house and on and on that the younger women likes them.

More times then not, older people date younger people because they can't face the fact that, they are getting old.

While in some instances it might be the perfect match, in most instances, it's two people from different worlds.

It's just sad to see an older man become depressed because he finds out the younger women was using him for his money, nothing more, nothing less.
 
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Misery woman.

you ignorant slut! (as dan akroid would say on SNL)

95% of men date and marry younger woman - why the hell would they do otherwise. Women age much much faster than men and have high percantage of body fat - along with wrinkles, stretch marks, cellulite etc ...... why do you think the cosmetic industry is a 80 billion dollar business - -watch TV and look at magazines at look in your own bathroom and see all the shyt woman buy to keep their youth -- because they know that is all they have to get a man -- looks and youth. A womans body from 18 to 23 changes dramatically -- If I can date 23 year olds y o y would I approach a 37 year old woman who has been fvcked for 25 years by who knows how many pimps.

You are deluding yourself!!!! The main thing men go for is youth and looks -- and sweetheart, for women these are closely tied.
I would advise you to marry b4 27 or you may end up a old maid.
Based on your thinking and attitude - you already are! HO!
 

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Originally posted by MysteryWoman
Just a quick question, I know it slightly side tracking the original topic. Do most good looking guys prefer very slim women (sometimes boardering skinny look) or is it basically the woman's beautiful face that attracts them?
Both... A girl has to be skinny to have an attractive face.... That is she can't have big cheeks etc, she needs to have nice cheekbones, good skintone etc...

The first thing I ALWAYS look at is the face, the face and eyes and the hair (what style etc, does she pay attention to details etc...) Then if the face passes my judgement of good enough then I check the body and if the body is good enough too (Preferably thin, well trained etc) then she's inn.
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Misery woman.

you ignorant slut! (as dan akroid would say on SNL)

95% of men date and marry younger woman - why the hell would they do otherwise. Women age much much faster than men and have high percantage of body fat - along with wrinkles, stretch marks, cellulite etc ...... why do you think the cosmetic industry is a 80 billion dollar business - -watch TV and look at magazines at look in your own bathroom and see all the shyt woman buy to keep their youth -- because they know that is all they have to get a man -- looks and youth. A womans body from 18 to 23 changes dramatically -- If I can date 23 year olds y o y would I approach a 37 year old woman who has been fvcked for 25 years by who knows how many pimps.

You are deluding yourself!!!! The main thing men go for is youth and looks -- and sweetheart, for women these are closely tied.
I would advise you to marry b4 27 or you may end up a old maid.
Based on your thinking and attitude - you already are! HO!
If I can date 23 year olds, but are you dating them?. I bet you are not even getting laid. Yes I probably am a slut in your eyes. But good girls get fcuked, bad girls fcuk.

But I stand by my word. I reckon many girls will either abandon you or cheat on you. YOU ARE OLD, probably with a WRINKLY D!CK. Men think they age better than women, but I think their are more better looking women around than men. Only the minority of men take care of their appearance.

Face it Putero Rican, you are old. Why don't you retire and make way for a most Handsome younger DJ. If you went hunting for a girl with most of the guys on this site, you would probably come last if not almost last. Face it you can't compete with a 20 year old, even if you depend on Viagra.

Oh yeah and when I said what percentage of older men end up with younger women, I was talking about big age gaps which are rare.
 
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A Moderator's Humble Opinion....

"Looks vs. Personality" is the "abortion" issue of the DJ Forum. Its always a heated flame war, everyone has an outspoken opinion, no one can be swayed one way or the other and the threads always degenerate to mudslinging insults. This thread remains true to the usual form.

In any case, here's my 2 cents:

Looks and Personality are interchangable terms. They are essentially the SAME THING. Some physically attractive people become very unattractive once their their character is revealed through their personal behavior. They fail to realize that a large part of their "looks" depends on their "personality". On the flip side, some unattractive people remain ostricized because no one recognizes their strength of character. They fail to realize that a large part of their "personality" includes their "looks".

Pook has a great saying that if you asked a visually attractive woman "Do you have a personality?", she would say, "Of course I do! Can't you SEE it?"
All of you argue as if looks and personality are two different entities, when actually they are one in the same. Looks = Personality. One IS the other.

The terms "looks" and "personality" are synonymous with PERCEPTION, more specifically the perception of others. The problem occurs when you allow someone else's perception of you to become your reality. That's how "leagues" form.

When rejection occurs, realize that the girl's perception of you is not your reality. Nor should you be controlled by her perception of you, favorable or not. Again, thats how "leagues" form. If you only like "hot" girls, remind yourself that her "hotness" is just YOUR perception or HER reality. Is she REALLY that hot? Is her reality compatible with yours? Well, the only to find out is spend time with her and gather indicators of her true character.

This isn't an issue about a woman's "looks" as much as it is an issue of a man's level of self-control.
 
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Originally posted by Eileen
Do you boys suppose that attractiveness has a little more to do with personality and life-style than you think?

For example: There are heavyset men who manage to take care of themselves. They keep their hair trimmed, dress appropriately for their weight and are reasonably hygienic. On the other hand there are men who are slimmer and more physically fit who apparently don't take care of themselves.

Now, if asked, my initial reaction would be to say that I'm not overly attracted to heavy men. However, if you stood these two men next to each other, I'd find the heavier of the two more attractive. If you add in variables such as friendliness and intelligence my degree of attraction might again change.

Is it not similar for men?
Yes, but not always consciously. As DD says: Attraction is not a choice.

Personally, I think this thread should just be changed to: I only like attractive women.

At which point one might say: talk about stating the f*cking obvious...
 
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misery chic,

I give you one thing - you stick with the same lame point even though your arguments are weak and invalid.

There was a time when women looked and took care of themselves better than men; hovever, today these hos are fat and ugly - they eat too much, are lazy, are rude, loud, ignorant, masculine acting and talking, sperm bank wh@res, look tired, stressed and defeated and then after they been abused for 10 or 15 years by their pimps they are ready to settle down with a good guy. HUH????? What fools are marrying these sluts? No wonder there is a 90% divorce rate because these hos have nothing to keep a guy besides their looks/body -- this is quite short-lived however because women looks/body are through in their 20's -- they are done (even sooner if they have children). Only fools marry such wh@res and get burned when they find out the wh@res baby is not theirs and then they are on the jerry springer show telling their story.


Misery woman I am too intelligent and have regular standards to even be with hos like you and your kind - I throw 20 year old hos away like I throw a candy wrapper away, with no remorse and without consequence. Face the music honey, the main asset women have is their youth and if you think otherwise you are delusional - men in their 30's 40's, 50's' are screwing more younger women today than ever before because these young hos are so easy - it is not even a challenge anymore - it gets quite boring and predictable.

Men get more muscular (to a certain point - shoulders get broader and strength increases) and look more 'masculine' as they age and actually look better overal than their 20 year old counterparts who have not fully developed yet, physically and intellectually. Women also like mature men and are attracted to the 'older man mystique' - especially teenagers.

The 'oprah wimphrey show' premise that older women can keep a younger man is a myth and propagated to give hope to older women and it is totally againgst reality. Men go after older women because they are even easier to lay then 20 year olds (if you can even imagine that this is possible) - an easy lay with no ties or committment - a man's dream!!


There are many older men that look better than men 10 or 15 yeaers younger - if they were good looking at 25 they are good looking at 35 - unlike women who look ragged 3 years later and thus their hurry to marry before their 'time' of beauty runs out! Why would you even argue against this reality - I know why, you are delusional!!!!
 
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Eileen, personality is a thing to consider for women but men don't give a rat's @ss about a woman's personality.- they approach women who they are physically attracted to --- period infinitum!!!!! Read my prior posts.
 

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my friend who is HB7 ****ed a chick who is a HB3. What gives?
:confused: :p :mad: :eek: :( :eek: :)
 

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Re: A Moderator's Humble Opinion....

Originally posted by Survivor
"Looks vs. Personality" is the "abortion" issue of the DJ Forum. Its always a heated flame war, everyone has an outspoken opinion, no one can be swayed one way or the other and the threads always degenerate to mudslinging insults. This thread remains true to the usual form.

In any case, here's my 2 cents:

Looks and Personality are interchangable terms. They are essentially the SAME THING. Some physically attractive people become very unattractive once their their character is revealed through their personal behavior. They fail to realize that a large part of their "looks" depends on their "personality". On the flip side, some unattractive people remain ostricized because no one recognizes their strength of character. They fail to realize that a large part of their "personality" includes their "looks".

Pook has a great saying that if you asked a visually attractive woman "Do you have a personality?", she would say, "Of course I do! Can't you SEE it?"
All of you argue as if looks and personality are two different entities, when actually they are one in the same. Looks = Personality. One IS the other.

The terms "looks" and "personality" are synonymous with PERCEPTION, more specifically the perception of others. The problem occurs when you allow someone else's perception of you to become your reality. That's how "leagues" form.

When rejection occurs, realize that the girl's perception of you is not your reality. Nor should you be controlled by her perception of you, favorable or not. Again, thats how "leagues" form. If you only like "hot" girls, remind yourself that her "hotness" is just YOUR perception or HER reality. Is she REALLY that hot? Is her reality compatible with yours? Well, the only to find out is spend time with her and gather indicators of her true character.

This isn't an issue about a woman's "looks" as much as it is an issue of a man's level of self-control.
SURVIVOR-

thankyou that is an awsome way of looking at it.

you have cleared up a lot of things for me with that post

good day
 
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