I don't know if you read my post correctly, but I certainly don't know what "hope" you are blaming me for reaching for. There's no need for me to hope, nor is my goal to get laid. I no longer need to hope because I have already accomplished my goal! It is too late for things to go in reverse, here...because it's already a done deal.
Indeed it's not all about being what is considered 'attractive', but rather be comfortable and being in touch with who you are as a man, and radiating that naturally.
What the hell are you talking to ME of all people like that, for?
I've been preaching that for WEEKS now....put my name in the search and just take a look at the articles "Are YOU an AFC?" and many others.
I constantly preach that once you understand women, their wants, their needs, and what they want out of a man and really start to gain a deep understanding of this. You CAN go with your gut and you will just KNOW WHAT TO DO NATURALLY. When talking to a woman....you can just shift into "autopilot" and you'll be having a great time with her and leaving with her phone number.
Women will notice and perceive your maleness based off of a visual.
I think you're mis-interpreting what I'm saying. I didn't mean a VISUAL, I meant PHYSICAL APPEARANCE. PHYSICAL APPEARANCE is not significant....but HOW YOU CARRY YOURSELF is EXTREMELY significant. You can be a 5 or 6 and carry yourself like a 9 or 10. You can be a 9 or 10 and carry yourself like a 5 or 6. So we might be in agreement there.
We are ALL capable of getting laid, it is just people like us, on this board, that let our insecurities get in the way and make US fvck up the whole thing because we don't even recongize something when it was handed to us.
Well because of my religion my goal is not to get laid. Never has been, and never will be until marriage. I think the problem is that a lot of people on this site look at communicating with a woman as if there is if there was some tactical formula in gaining her approval of him. I talked about this in a huge article called "Are YOU and AFC?". Check it out.
Your stuff is nice and inspiring but it's not new. Everybody has heard it and we notice it's not quite flying. You'll notice it too, in time. In the beginning you will get a HUGE ego boost and feel you have something up on everybody ("people are brainwashed by the media!").
When I see a woman that I would like to meet, I could CARE LESS if she is interested in me or not. My only goal is to get to know her as a person - I don't use "tricks", "techniques", or "tactics" to make her attracted to me - if she is attracted to me it's going to be because I NATRUALLY created attraction in her. I do NOT think I have something up on anyone. If she is not interested in me, then she's not interested in me. I'll find somebody who is. But I'm not going to be a big baby and DEPRIVE myself of meeting wonderful and interesting women just because I'm afraid I won't be able to sleep with them.
Trust me. Just wait it out before you start throwing a bunch of cliche DJ theory that we've all heard a million times before.
I don't treat attractive women any differently than I treat average ones. I don't use "tactics" on women that I approach, EVER....I don't have to, because I know how attraction works and I know women and what they look for in a man. I GO WITH MY GUT and I just NATURALLY do the right things. So why should I have to KEEP MYSELF from getting to know her just because I'm not as good looking as she is? If she is not attracted to me, then she's not attracted to me, so what? There's other girls. That's my attitude on the whole thing, and I think that it is a positive one.
And you are just too insecure to comprehend and ACCEPT the truth because it would take you back to the starting block again.
When I approach a woman, I DON'T CARE how she feels about the way I look, OR what judgement she may have about the way I look. *I* want to talk to her, and I have that right. I could care less how interested she is in me, I want to talk to her. If I find myself starting to feel attracted and she doesn't happen to feel the same way, I find somebody else. How is that insecure?
And that scares the shyt out of you. She's a threat. A threat to your perceived power that will stop you from falling into that very person that you were ashamed of, that made you feel like you NEEDED sosuave.com to begin with.
First of all, I don't allow myself to fall into the position that a beautiful woman is a threat, because unless her attraction is required at the moment, how attracted she is to me is HER business, NOT mine. The only time her attraction will be my business is when I try to take things to the next level - but I always know that the move can fail - it's just that I have a good attitude about it and know that there are plenty of other great and ineresting women out there from me to pick from.
And even IF the pursuing is unsuccessful, I still had a good time meeting somebody new. I don't fear failure, I embrace it.
Second of all, I have never been ashamed of my character. Even when I was an AFC, I was still a good, thoughtful, Christian guy who had a good head on his shoulders.
I have been this way for quite some time. If my approach to this area of life would have been a failure - it would have failed me by now, but it has not.
And I have never needed sosuave.com. By the time I came here, I had already had this part of my life handled. I came here to give my advice and be there for people that needed help....not to GET help.
