MARRIED AFC to a changed man overnight
In response to this thread, here is a situation that just proves how fvcked up females are and how weak they become when you strip them of their power....
I was married to a chick for only a short period of time as I found out she was cheating on me. I cant necessarily blame her for cheating on me because I was pretty pathetic and catered to her every whim, making me entirely undesirable to her, but I thought thats what a good husband did, right?
Well, i eventually figured out that she was cheating on me and called her out and made her admit to it. After punching a couple of holes into the wall, i then verbally punched holes into her.
I told her exactly how I felt about a lot of things that bothered me during our relationship.
"you are not a good person, you are a spoiled little *****, and all you care about is yourself"
"you should never bring another human into this world, because you are selfish and a horrible wife / would be mother"
"your ass is getting worse and showing signs of cottage cheese dimples all over it"
And on and on, Everything I could think of, I let her have it
I then proceeded to tell her that I want all of the jewelry I gave her back that night, I wanted her the fvck out of my house, and to call her parents right then and let them know what a ***** their daughter was
she said and I quote "wow, if you would have acted like this before, I never would have cheated on you"
Well, the next day, I come home, and she is waiting on my side of the bed, and has the nerve to ask me "so, are you still mad?"
I just responded, I am not mad at all, I am done with you, now get the fvck out of my house.
Well for the subsequent two months, there were so many times where she tried desperately to get me back, she tried everything in the book to talk to me or meet up with me....."just to apologize"
Since I was truly done with her due to her infidelity (I dont put up with that ****), I had no problem rejecting every advance she made.
One time, it was hilarious, so I will mention it here:
She was still going to the same gym as me, so i came in, went onto the treadmill in front of her and began my workout, never once looking her way or acknowledging her. She then gets done, comes over to me, hits me on the arm, and says something to me. I completely ignored her, never looked at her or anything until she walked away about a good 5 minutes later, extremely red in the face. It felt so good seeing about 20 other people witness this lack of acknowledgment on her attempt to talk to me. That was just one example though, there were several text messages, phone calls, trips to the house that went unnoticed, or a smart ass response was given.
Basically, my conclusion to all of this is that women if given the power feel like they are on top of the world and will treat you however they want. If we allow them to be the man in the relationship, we have nothing to do but sit back and wait for them to cheat on you or dump you, because one of the two WILL happen.
The goal has to be to get what YOU want out of these relationships and don't be afraid to put her in her place without being an *******, just stern.
It has been two years and we both have moved on, but this completely changed my outlook on women and I always seem to succeed when I dont give a fvck and never succeed when I put the girl on a pedestal. I definitely try to have the dont give a fvck attitude more often but its hard sometimes given the 15 some years where the opposite is all i knew. It takes time but everyone can get there if they consciously try. Trust me and all the other guys on these boards.
But what do I know, I'm just a doctor haha (Happy Gilmore)
Go Noles!
so i think its harder to move on when you lose all self respect and dignity on the way out, they see this and its game over. Like i said for me personally once they hit the eject button im out and i never ever look back. Btw once i adopted this mind set they always try to come back, but i in turn reject them and ignore all subsequent attempts at reconcilliation.
