AmsterdamAssassin
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I got a relationship with this 'passionate' girl who liked to slapped me in the face during a quarrel.Sorry if I'm being naive but how would you define disrespect? Can you give some examples please.
I didn't give her the response she expected, I told her that physical violence against a loved one is always wrong and I was out.
I left her and she left messages on my answering machine (happened a long time ago) begging me to reconsider and give her another chance.
I had a stern talk with her about physicality. She claimed she had hit me because she was angry. I told her that she had to control those impulses around me, because if she ever tried to physically hurt me again, I would be out and not coming back.
Second quarrel she broke plates on the kitchen floor, but it was her floor and her plates, so I didn't care.
Third quarrel I was just in time to block a punch, so I walked out.
She blew up my answering machine with messages; tearful at first, then accusatory, then belligerent and angry, then offended screaming.
I never get back to her, but I found out that she has a history of domestic abuse against men. And most of these men were abused as children and didn't put up a fight. She had broken the jaw of a previous boyfriend with a crystal ashtray and the guy she had after me ended up in the hospital with a broken hip and leg after she pushed him down the stairs.
Sometimes 'passionate' means 'insane'.