How Feminism Ruined Dating

[Desdinova]

This was a great video to watch, and very insightful so I figured I'd share:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rWR1Z4AiyWM

Lots of good points made, and I applaud him for recognizing these problems.

 

[romangod]

I watched the video and the guy made some good points. Especially about the emergence of "no fault" divorce.


I never understood how it can be "no fault". If she's gang banging the Hell's Angels when she should be watching the kids, all logic says it's her fault and she shouldn't profit from it. The same goes for men.

I want to point out that it didn't begin with his generation although I think they're feeling the full affect now. It began with the baby boomers and the sexual revolution of the 60s. This was the beginning of the end of the "family" as we knew it.

Like all "isms", feminism had some good arguments and valid grievances. However, I think it went too far and threw the baby out with the bath water.

I believe feminism made men stupid and women stupider. Nobody wins and the future generations are the ones that suffer.

Men were de-balled to the point of only the weak will survive while the strong will want nothing to do with it. They like their balls right where they are.


The manginas and girly-men are left to be the sperm donors and financial slaves to the future generations that will be more screwed up than the last.


You reap what you sow.


Cheers!

 

[Colossus]

I watched the video. He makes some very valid points, but it seems like he still is still angry at it. I was there not too long ago...it is a lot like the '5 stages of grief' model. You realize on a cognitive level the way things are, but you still cant quite see the forest for the trees and are just angry at the unfairness of it all.

I will say that running off overseas---while a great experience in many respects---isnt really the best way to deal with it, because he is making the whole woman thing the central issue of his life. So yeah he might remove himself from western harpies but he'll have to learn that women are still WOMEN, no matter what country they are from. Like the old saying goes---dont hate the way the game is, find a way to get better.

 

[Warrior74]

This is the ****. hahahahha.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dyLSstqMvH8

 

[backbreaker]

I think men have ruined dating because as a whole, men have lowered their standards in what they will accept from a woman. If men raised their standards, women would raise standards in themselves. There is no reason for woman to put forth any effort to be a better woman as long as you have that down there.

 

[Warrior74]

I think women have ruined dating because as a whole, women have lowered their standards in what they will accept from a man. If women raised their standards, men would raise standards in themselves. There is no reason for a man to put forth any effort to be a better man as long as you have that down there.

Fixed.

Seriously brah? That statement could go either way and has.

 

[jhl]

The guy in the youtube video is in for some serious bruisin' if he thinks that going overseas and finding Asian women are going to solve his problems.

 

[C-quenced]

I think men have ruined dating because as a whole, men have lowered their standards in what they will accept from a woman. If men raised their standards, women would raise standards in themselves. There is no reason for woman to put forth any effort to be a better woman as long as you have that down there.

Going by social conventions it's sin for men to have any standards. Remember that we just aren't allowed to have any.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I never understood how it can be "no fault". If she's gang banging the Hell's Angels when she should be watching the kids, all logic says it's her fault and she shouldn't profit from it.

Logic does say that. But of course, logic and the law are two very different things.

Fault-based divorce was abandoned because it made divorces take forever. Infidelity is very difficult to prove and having jury trials over whether or not your wife's a wh0re typically extend beyond most people's ability to pay their lawyer, therefore infringing upon both the #1 rule of the legal system, which is that everyone gets paid, and the #2 rule of the legal system, which is getting you in and out the door with the minimum amount of work for everyone getting paid.

 

[vatoloco]

I watched the video. He makes some very valid points, but it seems like he still is still angry at it.

And that is why he fails. Yeah, as I was watching the video I was like "Man, this guys is angry... frustrated...

Even if you understand the game, if you have a bad attitude towards it, you are destined to fail.

 

[Boilermaker]

Exactly. This guy's loaded and angry. That's why he's not attractive and his story isn't selling.

I recently came to the realization that being funny (or confident, in this context) is really attractive because it implies an underlying personality that can AFFORD to be funny.
You can't be funny when you are a) poor b) frustrated c) sick d) jumpy e) lacking confidence (the list goes on ..)
Happiness/Confidence and Funniness are all very closely related. The reason they are so elusive is because there are many requirements to attain them. This must be the reason they are universally attractive qualities.

 

[Mr.Positive]

Exactly. This guy's loaded and angry. That's why he's not attractive and his story isn't selling.

I recently came to the realization that being funny (or confident, in this context) is really attractive because it implies an underlying personality that can AFFORD to be funny.
You can't be funny when you are a) poor b) frustrated c) sick d) jumpy e) lacking confidence (the list goes on ..)
Happiness/Confidence and Funniness are all very closely related. The reason they are so elusive is because there are many requirements to attain them. This must be the reason they are universally attractive qualities.

This ^. I think of Feminism as an annoyance nipping out our heels. It's only there if you focus on it.

It'll devour a weak man though...so by finding strength, you gain the confidence you need to blast through the BS.

Most guys wouldn't have any issues if they would just work on themselves, first and foremost. Find happiness within yourself, and you can bounce through life tackling goals and challenges, and women are there to be enjoyed.

It's important to spot the bad ones, but you can do that without sacrificing your happiness...you just leave them behind in the wake.

 

[allbeef]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tmbPbeI8JAc&feature=related
This is basically English/American men in some parts of the world. Notice how the police have to corner them from attacking the hot chicks. Sad how the chicks actually want to make those louts happy. They are fans for the wrong f----- team! They want out and the English want in. The new world order I suppose.

 

[Zarky]

blah blah blah, family structure, blah blah blah.

I don't think an average schmo like myself could have banged the couple dozen women I've banged in the past few years back in 1960. Yes, a "couple dozen" ain't a lot, but I thank feminism for pretty much every lay.

Feminism says that chicks can bone down without worrying about marriage. How is that a bad thing?

I never understand all this feminist bashing. Just sort of a republican talking point? Don't get it.

I'll break it down real easy:

1) Feminism says women don't have to be married to be fulfilled.
2) Women stop holding out on sex if they no longer feel they need to use it to rope a man into marriage.
3) Women screw more freely.
4) Average shmoes like myself get laid more.

That's how I see it. I couldn't care less whether it improves a culture or not. That doesn't even enter my mind. If an ideology makes it more likely that I will get laid, that is a good ideology.

 

[Reyaj]

This was a great video to watch, and very insightful so I figured I'd share:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rWR1Z4AiyWM

Lots of good points made, and I applaud him for recognizing these problems.

He makes a lot of awesome points! Thanks for sharing Des

 

[PappyS]

Feminism has increased the availability of pvssy in general.

When 'family values' were more prevalent things weren't all that great for the average guy. Read about marriages in the 1940s or 1950s. There may have been more guys marrying inexperienced young women. But a lot of them would end up hating their b!tchy annoying, whiny, emasculating wives. Married men had to work crappy jobs that they hated in order to support the demands of their b!tchy never-satisfied wives and money-sucking children. They had to go to prostitutes to feel like men again after their wives were finished metaphorically cutting off their testicles through constant put downs.

Nowadays it is much easier for guys to fvck women without having to make some lifelong contract to stay with her after she becomes old/ugly/fat/annoying.

The main downside of feminism is when some b!tches use it as a bully platform with the backing of lying politicians and others. It is only becomes an irritation when they're trying to ban porn (another fantastic byproduct of feminism and female sexual liberation), prostitution, international dating, or raise the age of consent to 65.

 

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Feminism has increased the availability of pvssy in general.

When 'family values' were more prevalent things weren't all that great for the average guy. Read about marriages in the 1940s or 1950s. There may have been more guys marrying inexperienced young women. But a lot of them would end up hating their b!tchy annoying, whiny, emasculating wives.

Sounds like bullsh!t to me, you got a source that proves this emasculating wives of the 40's and 50's? I always thought it was a fairly new thing considering it was quite normal for a husband to discipline (as long it was nothing wider then 2 fingers) his wife if she ran her mouth back then.

And b!tchy and annoying? I know women are b!tchy and annoying by default but you make it sound as if they were the same self entitled, couldnt care less about the family unit, marriage = half, bitter chicks of today.

This is all new to me if it's true.

 

[DropZone3]

Feminism has gone too far, but the movement would not have gone so far if men had stood their ground.

 

[DanelMadr]

To be honest I don't see any interesting points in the video. It is just a rant. I don't even think feminism ruined dating. I think the no challenging prosperous and secure society just made guys weak.
The best example is Sweden. They are the most pussified nation because they had a head start. Sweden is long time prosperous, avoided all wars and just made it perfect for guys to be total pussies. In most cases girls just fill in the void space.

I don't like feminists because they operate on this false and ultimately dangerous ideal that all people are equal. It was fine till they demanded equal civic rights that's just fine but now they just want happiness whatever the cost. Yes everyone has a right to be happy and he/she should have freedom to be happy BUT not in the expense of others. You want to be a single mother and make good money too? Yeah the tax payer will help you out. You want to be a sailor? Navy does not need your services but what a hell we can do that for you. You wanna have equal salary and spent more time with kids? No problem, we make a law about it.

Meanwhile you pay your tax for this luxurious "rights", African kids die of hunger. Someone should tell them that.

 

[Nutz]

Fixed.

Seriously brah? That statement could go either way and has.

Your version works perfectly when talking about that 10% of men that 80% of women compete for. The rest of the guys can be as nice as can be with good jobs and all that and they're still going to have serious problems in today's sexual marketplace.