How could he be this cold?

[DonGorgon]

Jesus I wanna be single for ever if some of you are anything to go by!

Funny you should say that:

Most women live the single life forever, even if they have a BF or husband cause as their perceived value in society goes up and up they always eventually feel that the man is not good enough for them in some way...

Also many women find it more lucrative to live the single life cause they have soo many desperate men willing to treat them like goddesses , why should they limit themselves to one dude?

 

[scratch]

I am glad you feel 'cracked up' SOME people know how to help others in need

If this thread is wrong for you then why are you posting in it?

Jesus I wanna be single for ever if some of you are anything to go by!

Here, have some more attention. Should I ask you for a photo? Tell you how cool you sound, how you're not like other girls? If the teenage virgins on this board want to coddle you, they're supposedly here to learn better. The very fact that you're responding to my original point, which expressly ignored whether your guy was right or wrong or mentioned anything about your pain, is great evidence that you're here for attention. Heaven forbid you're not the focal point, right? I don't think this is the instant case, but I wouldn't put it past you to make up a story of this nature for attention.

This thread isn't wrong for me, princess. It is wrong because it's misplaced; it belongs in Anything Else, not DJ discussion.

 

[DonGorgon]

Don,

If that was the case, then SS wouldn't exist. The whole point of the forums here at SS is for people to get advice. People, yourself included constantly critisize people without knowing that person.

So explain to me, how thats brilliant?

LOL... wrong...

I constantly objectively analyze people's actions or decisions in the context of the issue they are posting about and suggest other courses of action that may have yielded a better outcome....

Did you see my early posts in the thread?

Oh its brilliant cause , it breaks the trend of dudes automatically suggesting she dump her man when she is mad at him especially over an "inadequate emotional display issue".....

 

[DonGorgon]

Here, have some more attention. Should I ask you for a photo? Tell you how cool you sound, how you're not like other girls? If the teenage virgins on this board want to coddle you, they're supposedly here to learn better. The very fact that you're responding to my original point, which expressly ignored whether your guy was right or wrong or mentioned anything about your pain, is great evidence that you're here for attention. Heaven forbid you're not the focal point, right? I don't think this is the instant case, but I wouldn't put it past you to make up a story of this nature for attention.

This thread isn't wrong for me, princess. It is wrong because it's misplaced; it belongs in Anything Else, not DJ discussion.

Estrogen (the logic reducing hormone) prevents the female brain for processing what you just said...

I suggest you find a more emotional way to get you point across to her...

 

[MacAvoy]

well really astonishing how u ask for EMOTIONAL SUPPORT AND HELP in a DJ DISCUSSION BOARD. sure that is a sad thing and the majority of guys here are all trying to wipe your tears but thats not what this discussion board is supposed to be, what u can do instead is PM each one of this and ask for their support, that would be suitable or u should better have posted this thread in teh 'anything else' section.... when in rome, do as rome does, when in this site, follow the rules, dear!

and DON GORDON, u hit the point cuz methink most of the so called DJs here still need a huge dewussyfying from their AFC style.

First off, I never heard her ask for emotional support. Secondly can you tell me what 90% of the posters here do, ask for advice, why is she any different? You don't see any of the long time respected posters who have gotten more than their share of tail, feel the need to come in a thread and belittle people.

If you disagree with her posts & purpose, then why do you waste your energy getting yourself worked up, YES you are worked up otherwise, you wouldn't be getting emotional posting over and over again. You use energy for better things, like improving your life and making it positive. From the 48 laws of power

Law 10 Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky

You can die from someone else’s misery – emotional states are as infectious as disease. You may feel you are helping the drowning man but you are only precipitating your own disaster. The unfortunate sometimes draw misfortune on themselves; they will also draw it on you. Associate with the happy and fortunate instead.

 

[scratch]

Estrogen (the logic reducing hormone) prevents the female brain for processing what you just said...

I suggest you find a more emotional way to get you point across to her...

There's the rub; I don't really have a point to make to her. I had a point to make to the guys who were lining up to get into her friendzone.

If we put this on her for being a female, we're taking the blame off the suicides-in-waiting that seem to form the bulk of this site.

 

[DonGorgon]

There's the rub; I don't really have a point to make to her. I had a point to make to the guys who were lining up to get into her friendzone.

If we put this on her for being a female, we're taking the blame off the suicides-in-waiting that seem to form the bulk of this site.

Estrogen is useful but not in situations where logical thought is preferable.

 

[scratch]

First off, I never heard her ask for emotional support.

This is blatantly myopic. Did you note the title of the thread?

Secondly can you tell me what 90% of the posters here do, ask for advice, why is she any different?

What advice is she asking? If it's wrong to be upset? Methinks not. Nowhere does she request an analysis of his motives or a suggestion for a course of action.

If you disagree with her posts & purpose, then why do you waste your energy getting yourself worked up, YES you are worked up otherwise, you wouldn't be getting emotional posting over and over again.

This style of argument is hollow, and serves to quash all dissent. Don't use it.

You use energy for better things, like improving your life and making it positive. From the 48 laws of power

Law 10 Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky

You can die from someone else’s misery – emotional states are as infectious as disease. You may feel you are helping the drowning man but you are only precipitating your own disaster. The unfortunate sometimes draw misfortune on themselves; they will also draw it on you. Associate with the happy and fortunate instead.

Take great care in quoting Greene in a vacuum. A careful reading of his work makes one realize that the precepts are often contradictory, and that the real skill lies in knowing when to apply a given law.

Estrogen is useful but not in situations where logical thought is preferable.

If you're going to post banal non-sequitors, feel free not to address my posts.

 

[panosha]

wow this place is turning AFC...ban the troll

 

[SilverSonnet]

If this is just attention-seeking, I think you'd better drag your ass over to LS. If not, Im sorry for your loss.
And guys, how is telling a girl your sorry for her, attention seeking? I dont fancy her, I get plenty of female attention, and I couldn't care. Im just a nice guy generally (the good kind )

 

[Lishy]

I would like to say thank you to everyone who have given such good advice and help. It really has helped me to see this situation more clearly.

I am unsubscribing from this thread as the teenagers have got home from school and trying to act like men, maybe they need your guidance more than me right now.

Thank you again to everyone who helped and I am sorry I could not thank you all individually but there are too many.

x

 

[SilverSonnet]

If that's directed at me, Im gonna be kinda pissed...me being a teenager means NOTHING.

 

[DonGorgon]

If you're going to post banal non-sequitors, feel free not to address my posts.

LOL.... you sounded female just then...

 

[DonGorgon]

wow this place is turning AFC...ban the troll

AFCs in DonJuan's clothing ...

 

[DonGorgon]

If that's directed at me, Im gonna be kinda pissed...me being a teenager means NOTHING.

LOL... classic...

Anyway she means, those who don't agree with her are similar in nature to immature teenagers in her opinion...

 

[iqqi]

If I am left to feel alone at the key moments when I need to feel his strength - then I end up choosing to be alone. At least then I know what the real status of my support system is and I am not left to falter in illusion at a critical moment.

This is so true, all DJ's of sosuave.

This is one of the biggest reasons I lost attraction for my ex.

 

[iqqi]

If this is just attention-seeking, I think you'd better drag your ass over to LS. If not, Im sorry for your loss.
And guys, how is telling a girl your sorry for her, attention seeking? I dont fancy her, I get plenty of female attention, and I couldn't care. Im just a nice guy generally (the good kind )

Don't explain yourself, kid. If you couldn't stand by your actions, you shouldn't have made them.

Never explain yourself. That is AFC.

 

[iqqi]

I would like to say thank you to everyone who have given such good advice and help. It really has helped me to see this situation more clearly.

I am unsubscribing from this thread as the teenagers have got home from school and trying to act like men, maybe they need your guidance more than me right now.

Thank you again to everyone who helped and I am sorry I could not thank you all individually but there are too many.

x

Maybe you should post in the MM forum, then. And/or ignore the immature remarks... this IS a boys' playground. You have to be prepared if you are going to ask them for advice.

 

[DonGorgon]

This is so true, all DJ's of sosuave.

This is one of the biggest reasons I lost attraction for my ex.

NO straight man can meet the dynamic emotional needs of a woman.. And when it seems like he is meeting them or a time, they suddenly increase.

I repeat

NO straight man can meet the dynamic emotional needs of a woman.. And when it seems like his i meeting them or a time, they suddenly increase.

The harder a man tries to match his woman emotional capacity the more AFC, weak and gay he becomes... like those broken zombified husbands you see following their wives around home depot every weekend..

Human females are wired to instinctively tire of mates over time and discard them for another to keep the jean pool strong.

 

[iqqi]

Stop posting in bold, you look like an idiot. Please use things like bold, colors, and italics sparingly.

I am not even going to read that.