Guys who have used Seeking Arrangements and done Sugar dating, experiences?

[jnMissouri]

I Know some guys who have done, it's a degenerate rabbit-hole OP.
I remember talking to a buddy of mine and he mentioned something I found very interesting. The same girls on these sugardaddies sites that want their rent/bills paid for are the same girls looking for love on Tinder/bumble. Imagine the girl won't give you the time of day Unless you go "Zion WIlliamson" on her(for those that don't know Zion Williamson is a 22 year old 2-time All-star NBA player who allegedly is paying an ex-run-through pornstar a 107K allowance a month)

There is a guy who has to pay and a guy who gets it for free, why pay for something you can get for free?

This. My last gf was 26 and a 10, possibly higher if she had bigger tits. Asian girl who turned heads like crazy. I spent less money on her than she did on me, she spent 6/1 I'd say. ****ed her for months. Lot's of guys tried to win her over and only got a kiss. Rich guys, young guys. This was confirmed. I'm a high net worth individual but have game and am an 8, plus experienced so I bedded the girl in 3 dates, while guys talked to her for months only to get a kiss....she even called them in front of me to prove it. They had no idea I was in the room (her bedroom).

Point is, focus on getting that high net worth status and game, work out, dress well. You won't have to do much spending at all, just drinks, coffee, dinner, etc. Heck, I had two gf's who flew to meet me for as long as 1.5 years (one of them) at their own expense. 25 year old 8.5. I was 39 I think?

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Update.

After waving through the crap and making things vehemently clear on my profile that I do not want a PPM, I am officially texting back and forth between 6 women. 2 are in Miami and just stunning hot, the other 4 are elsewhere in Florida (namely Tampa). The ones in Tampa are way hornier, I can say that much. I am also having some video chats with the Tampa girls and one of them actually stripped down to something more "comfortable" (different girl this time) when we were chatting and smiled as we chatted.

Gets me how much lower maintenance Tampa girls are compared to Miami girls.

Initially, I thought I was going to text back and forth with 10 women but 4 of the women, all Miami girls, after a few texts, started to pretend like they didn't even read my profile. Immediately jumped to "so how much am I getting for our first meet?" and I am like brrruuhhh .

The amount of screening you have to do on this site is insane. I mean even when I messaged girls on the site, before I got their numbers or snaps, I asked if they had read my profile. The girls say they did and then still, after a couple of texts, pretend like they did not. Luckily, I have 6 solid numbers from it now that I am texting. Unfortunately, only 2 of them are in Miami.

Man, it is no wonder why this city just drains dudes when it comes to game. The average PPM here is higher than it is in LA and NYC! It is sugar daddy capital of the US. On a side note, guess my Tinder decided to come back to life because I woke up today with 10 likes which is unusual but hey, whatever, I'll take it but I am not paying for that dumb app.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

I have yet to determine if this is a Seeking Arrangement problem or a Miami problem, that's the funniest part of using the site. Some of you have DM'd me and tried the site out with what seem to be promising results, happy for all of you. Seems like so far, it could very well be a Miami thing. My god you have to screen so freaking hard in this city to weed out the gold diggers, sugar babies, and only fans trash. It is no wonder that the smartest closers in this city all go for tourists and tend to run away from everything else. I really need to update my Miami guide.

I've also considered doing a week in Tampa of running game and seeing where it takes me. Seems like Tampa is the more up and coming type of city with some promise for game and Miami is sort of the city that peaked in terms of game.

 

[Jason Chang]

i haven't experience in sugar dating . but i think it's interest in sugar dating..all of you can enjoy your first sugar date in sugarbook so on dating apps...

 

[Jason Chang]

i haven't experience in sugar dating . but i think it's interest in sugar dating..all of you can enjoy your first sugar date in sugarbook so on dating apps...

In my opinion, i think sugar dating is legit.. It's also very helpful for guys who have a lot of money but they feel lonely. Through sugar dating, they can ask their favorite girls to accompany them to watch movies, go shopping, have meals, travel and so on

 

[eli77]

I have to give you credit this has been one hell of a social experiment to bad you don't have a YouTube channel

 

[Solomon]

No more updates with Seeking Arrangements or did other women ask you for money when you are about to meet-up? You got shadowbanned on Tinder/Bumble and now you are a financial pinata doll on Seeking Arrangements. Well, at least there is always cold-approaching and being a passport bro.

This guy always has something negative to say, you must be a charmer in rea life.

 

[Gamisch]

I have to give you credit this has been one hell of a social experiment to bad you don't have a YouTube channel

I agree. Jesse deserves credit for sticking out his neck and describing in detail how it all goes down.

What I don't like is how quickly threads get emotionally charged when there a little pushback. To many members are offended way too easily. Gotta have a thicker skin.

Remember; women are WAY more ruthless and WAY less compassionate than men.

 

[corrector]

I have yet to determine if this is a Seeking Arrangement problem or a Miami problem, that's the funniest part of using the site. Some of you have DM'd me and tried the site out with what seem to be promising results, happy for all of you. Seems like so far, it could very well be a Miami thing. My god you have to screen so freaking hard in this city to weed out the gold diggers, sugar babies, and only fans trash. It is no wonder that the smartest closers in this city all go for tourists and tend to run away from everything else. I really need to update my Miami guide.

I've also considered doing a week in Tampa of running game and seeing where it takes me. Seems like Tampa is the more up and coming type of city with some promise for game and Miami is sort of the city that peaked in terms of game.

What about Orlando?

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

So here is the reality. Lately, I have not been as on my game. I have been sick a lot and dealing with way too much crap from toxic people in my life that I have had to cut out. Today, I had kind of a reset and a major detox go through to where I felt better than I have in quite some time. I looked at Seeking Arrangements and so far, I have to say that it is going well. It is still an adjustment period for me but I have noticed a few more things about it.

1. Women really take the time out the fill out their profiles. I mean attractive women with great things going on in their lives taking the time fill out a descriptive bio trying to sell themselves. You just do not see this on any of the apps.

2. It is worth repeating, the quality is significantly higher. You just see far more attractive women.

3. Women go right to text or Snapchat if that when going off the site. Almost no girl wants you to know her IG which speaks to how taboo sugar dating or the site is.

I have been talking to 6 women back and forth somewhat consistently but been too ill in my health to really capitalize like I would like to. Lately, been feeling a lot better so I feel like a date might actually be right around the corner. Of any major dating platform, SA is giving me the most traction.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

I agree. Jesse deserves credit for sticking out his neck and describing in detail how it all goes down.

What I don't like is how quickly threads get emotionally charged when there a little pushback. To many members are offended way too easily. Gotta have a thicker skin.

Remember; women are WAY more ruthless and WAY less compassionate than men.

There is a fine line and when I feel like someone is personally going at me, I have to go at them. When a guy tells me that it is "karma" for me cold approaching and laughs at me, or anyone, going through a tough stretch then I call them out on it. When I have had bad run ins with some in other places and they continue to bring that to this thread, I call them out on it. We all have a breaking point.

Almost everyone I have got into it with in this thread has confronted me on other threads, including my field reports one, with low value content and I had to call them out on it.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

We all have a breaking point.

For me it was cancer, Jesse. Have thicker skin.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

So btw, decide not check the app too much annnnnddd, hilarious exchange

http://imgur.com/jIlRi4i

 

[BillyPilgrim]

So btw, decide not check the app too much annnnnddd, hilarious exchange

http://imgur.com/jIlRi4i

A meal, Jesse?

 

[SW15]

A meal, Jesse?

A key Manosphere rule is no dinner dates in restaurants prior to sex.

 

[corrector]

A key Manosphere rule is no dinner dates in restaurants prior to sex.

Those rules don't apply to Seeking Arrangements or pay4play arrangements.

 

[The Duke]

Those rules don't apply to Seeking Arrangements or pay4play arrangements.

B.s. Correctoid. Only for men with low SMV and no game. Make up your own rules. Comply or bye.

 

[corrector]

B.s. Correctoid. Only for men with low SMV and no game. Make up your own rules. Comply or bye.

They can afford Seeking Arrangments?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Those rules don't apply to Seeking Arrangements or pay4play arrangements.

Yes they do. A high end lounge is ok, but only for drinks. Now if she was an official escort, and not one trying to misrepresent herself on a sugar site, maybe that's different.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

The biggest tragedy? That chick was HOT