Great date but she won't return phone call

[Cesare Cardinali]

crowes wrote:

Yea, you just gave away your own mentality/reality bud.

I recall you saying to me that my attitude was that of a loser, by nature of the fact my attitude towards American women.

I conveyed it to ya huh?

Let me tell ya this, your attitude conveys to ME that you have little to NO experience w/ women, likely a fvcking virgin, if different you would not be so fvcking clueless. I wish you all the best. Insist I am a loser if you wish, I'll still wish you all the best

um...ok dude. How about you try one more time in English?

Seriously, I don't have any idea what you're talking about and I'd rather you just PM me with the background or start a separate thread about your gripe and we'll discuss.

Dr. Zaus wrote:

The only thing I care about is what's going IN her mouth

Amen to that. In her mouth and on her face if you ask me.

Good post man. I understand what you mean and I agree that the chicks attitude can f*ck up the action date.

 

[crowes22]

Originally posted by Cesare Cardinali
crowes wrote:um...ok dude. How about you try one more time in English?

Seriously, I don't have any idea what you're talking about and I'd rather you just PM me with the background or start a separate thread about your gripe and we'll discuss.

I'm afraid not, I haven't the time, nor the inclination. How bout you PM me, if you wish to hear my thoughts. I will then openly discuss.

 

[drZaius09]

Originally posted by Slickster
No sh!t.

Keepin' it real!

 

[white sox bill]

Called her last PM, took Cesare Cardinali's advice. Left voice mail--amazing how I get VM now these days--told her i wanted to take her rock climbing in future. Teased her about something else, and told her to get back w/me. First time in over 2 weeks since last call, and 9 days after I saw her out and she told me to call her.

Last time I ever call her unless she responds. I'm 80% sure she won't call back. WTF is her game about? Maybe she hates men, and leads them on only to sh*t on them!!

 

[Oblivious]

Maybe she just isn't into you

 

[Cesare Cardinali]

crowes wrote:

I'm afraid not, I haven't the time, nor the inclination.

LOL man. you brought up all that stuff not me. I still don't know who you are or what you're talking about.

 

[crowes22]

Originally posted by Cesare Cardinali
crowes wrote:


LOL man. you brought up all that stuff not me. I still don't know who you are or what you're talking about.

Who am I? Who the fvck are you? Reciprocity, I say.

This masking is becoming an annoyance to me, so maybe it best I just bail on it. I'll be discreet and go on my way.

 

[Cesare Cardinali]

crowes wrote:

I recall you saying to me that my attitude was that of a loser

I don't remember saying it or when I said it, but thanks for proving it.

 

[crowes22]

Originally posted by Cesare Cardinali
crowes wrote:


I don't remember saying it or when I said it, but thanks for proving it.

Haha. How is it that I proved this to you? Elaborate, please. I'll need it. You dig up your posts, don't ask me too.

 

[Good_ol_boy]

Excuse me Mr. crows22, but is there a history of insanity in your family??

 

[isotope]

personally i think 9 days to call was a little long, i would have called after 4 and then NEVER called again if she didnt return

but the important thing to notice is that she is clearly a game player

she plays hard to get, she knows 'the rules' and she is manipulating you, trying to make you want her by being scarce rather than actually getting to KNOW you in a real conversation by spending time

either way she seems bad news, an AW

 

[white sox bill]

Originally posted by isotope
personally i think 9 days to call was a little long, i would have called after 4 and then NEVER called again if she didnt return

but the important thing to notice is that she is clearly a game player

she plays hard to get, she knows 'the rules' and she is manipulating you, trying to make you want her by being scarce rather than actually getting to KNOW you in a real conversation by spending time

either way she seems bad news, an AW

Glad you mentioned this--I'm gonna get possibly flamed for saying this, but I saw the high interest including the amount of touchy feely she did on me. As much as I appreciate the comments from everyone stating different, the phone calls I made to her that next week meant nothing. She wasn't going to return ANY of them regardless of how long I waited.

Flame away if you must, but I beleive this "older" gal is skilled in playing hard to get and the tools she uses is the phone--or lack of in this case. But when she sees me, she can't seem to keep her hands off! Go figure! Your right on $$ Iso, she is BEGGING me to chase her. Its an ego trip for her having someone like me chasing her. Thats my gut feeling.

She now knows that I hang around this "mutual" friend we have and that she will keep bumping into me every so often @ the bars. I will leave it at that and I will bet that if she doesn't accidently run into me for a while, she will call.

So DJ'ers, how would you play it when I do see her out and about? Do I act like absolutly NOTHING is wrong and try picking her up then and there? I've always thought that the cool tool thing is the way to go--agreed?

 

[Luveno]

If she won't call you back, it probably wasn't a great date.


This girl seems like a user. My guess is she was acting impressed on your date to keep you on the ' back burner' so to speak. She definitely wasn't attracted to you, but she was banking on having you as a meal ticket.

She has probably already found a more attractive meal ticket, so your number is off her phone now.

My suggestion is to drop her like a bag of dirt, because that is what she is.

Additionally, if you do see her out, don't initiate contact with her or anything. Act as if she is a bug and you are God. Don't avoid her - you do not let women control where you go! What you do is walk like you own the place and pay her no mind at all.

The best weapon against attention *****s is complete and utter disinterest!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by white sox bill
...So DJ'ers, how would you play it when I do see her out and about? Do I act like absolutly NOTHING is wrong and try picking her up then and there? I've always thought that the cool tool thing is the way to go--agreed?

Bill, supposedly she's out of your life so why not act like it? Consider this, would you rather have your buds see you stressing over this chick whenever she's nearby or would you rather they see you sarging women and having a great time? And what about this chick? Would you want her to see how much she's effecting you or would you rather her see you having a great time with other women?

Get out and start living your life. Hang out with your buds, sarge women, move on. Take it from experience AND that it's been posted several times in this forum, the best revenge is living a good life (and her seeing it).

But hold on a second, I'm talking as if you were in a relationship with this woman. H3ll, you two weren't even dating! Does any of this make any sense?

 

[drZaius09]

It hasn't made sense since page 1 of this thread. He posted, a select few offered some sage advice (amongst the usual heeping of bullsh1t), and it has gone unheeded. So tragically goes the typical course of events here on sosuave.

Obviously this girl has Bill by the sack, for reasons none of us will ever understand, no matter how many times we've all been through the same thing.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by drZaius09
It hasn't made sense since page 1 of this thread. He posted, a select few offered some sage advice (amongst the usual heeping of bullsh1t), and it has gone unheeded. So tragically goes the typical course of events here on sosuave.

Obviously this girl has Bill by the sack, for reasons none of us will ever understand, no matter how many times we've all been through the same thing.

Yeah, it can be frustrating at times watching lemmings run off a cliff but there is something to say about experiencing the fall...

 

[Chrispy]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Yeah, it can be frustrating at times watching lemmings run off a cliff but there is something to say about experiencing the fall...

Even lemmings have to learn, but by the time they do they're splattered to the ground!

In this case, the answer's in the subject line - great date, lots of touching, but the "after-date"- how she responds to his follow-up - matters equally...if not more. I've been there! If the after-date is luke-warm to cold, it means she thought about it, she has other options, or she's busy enough to not want to go out again.

That's why, personally, I like to have more than one option so I don't get too hung up on it.

 

[drZaius09]

Originally posted by Chrispy
That's why, personally, I like to have more than one option so I don't get too hung up on it.

I was almost certain that this is the first guideline that needs to be well understood before even considering interaction with the opposite sex. Yet it is inevitably also the first one we forget.

 

[Slickster]

Originally posted by drZaius09
Obviously this girl has Bill by the sack, for reasons none of us will ever understand, no matter how many times we've all been through the same thing.

:crackup: F*ck man I don't know why but this line has me busting a gut right now.

Gentlemen I think we're finally onto some ground breaking sh!t here......

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Slickster
:crackup: F*ck man I don't know why but this line has me busting a gut right now.

Gentlemen I think we're finally onto some ground breaking sh!t here......

Yep.... MEN, CARRY YOUR OWN D@MN SACK!!!