Girl taking over a week to respond to a text she initiated!

[Solomon]

Honestly, it's mind-boggling what some of the guys doing.
Why do you give a F**k about all this nonsense?
When confused, go to the basic: You send her a text and she doesn't respond in a timely manner - stop entertaining her and move on. Plain and simple.
What's the point of all this mind mu$terbation?

OP is doing exactly what happens when you have a scarcity mindset it then manifests in

• Neediness
• Thristyness
• Desperation

What's the solution IMO the best solution is not to overinvest in a woman that underinvest. If OP had a rotation of 3 or 2 other women he would not care why cause he has other options but since OP doesn't he's stuck. This is why I laugh at people on this forum who still preaching this "Text her a week later or a month later" nonsense. In 2024 women always have their phones on them some check their phone every hour some check their ****ing phone every 5 minutes! if a woman has real HIGH IL this thread wouldn't be a question

OP not to be harsh with you, I have made the same mistake many times you need to move on, readjust your mindset and stop being overinvested in chicks. You are coming of as desperate and needy and this is turn off. Even if you were to get this women you would lose her because of your simping ways. Learn to be a man of self-respect and options!

I'll use myself as an example. I texted a girl on Monday she didn't respond. She had initial high IL(we already hooked up twice)and I noticed the last 2 weeks it has dropped. If she responds or reaches out cool if not that's fine because I won't reach out as I have other options and even if those optons fail you have to have respect for yourself and be willing to walk away instead of chasing a woman who is lukewarm at best.

A woman that truly wants or likes you won't act like this to confuse you she basically letting you know she ain't feeling you

 

[viking22]

Yeah it is good advice. I got sloppy because I forgot that women can be strokers and fake high interest which she probably did on the first date and to a lesser extent the second date. I should really be looking at consistent high interest and good behaviour over a period of time before investing. I had other options of course but it is hard to be coldblooded and treat them equally.

But yeah she doesn't give a damn about me. Her last texts were littered with typos and even if she is a bad texter she would know that most people do not like to be left unread for days and I am sure she doesn't treat her friends and men she is actually interested in like that.

But yeah this one is dead and I am going on some dates with other chicks over the weekend.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Yeah it is good advice. I got sloppy because I forgot that women can be strokers and fake high interest which she probably did on the first date and to a lesser extent the second date. I should really be looking at consistent high interest and good behaviour over a period of time before investing. I had other options of course but it is hard to be coldblooded and treat them equally.

But yeah she doesn't give a damn about me. Her last texts were littered with typos and even if she is a bad texter she would know that most people do not like to be left unread for days and I am sure she doesn't treat her friends and men she is actually interested in like that.

But yeah this one is dead and I am going on some dates with other chicks over the weekend.

It's likely your excessive interest and investment in her for no real reason is what scared her off and made her pvssy dry up.

No woman wants a guy who acts like they have no options. It's highly unattractive.

 

[viking22]

Out of the blue got a text from her:
"Sorry. It's been bit of a rollercoaster the last few weeks. My phone got aggressively stolen and I've moved flats. Hope you are doing well"

Not sure why she felt the need to send this. It was over two weeks since my last text which she ignored.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Not sure why she felt the need to send this. It was over two weeks since my last text which she ignored.

Sound like everything you hoped for, doesn't it?

Now be a man and tell her you moved on and she has to find another hand to massage her bruised, ahem, ego.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Out of the blue got a text from her:
"Sorry. It's been bit of a rollercoaster the last few weeks. My phone got aggressively stolen and I've moved flats. Hope you are doing well"

Not sure why she felt the need to send this. It was over two weeks since my last text which she ignored.

Notice she made no mention of meeting up.

All she wants to do is see if she still has you on the hook.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Sound like everything you hoped for, doesn't it?

Now be a man and tell her you moved on and she has to find another hand to massage her bruised, ahem, ego.

More like bruised ass from whatever other guy has been leaving his handprint on it from spanking it while pulling her hair with the other hand.

 

[jhonny9546]

It has happened to me too at times, but the truth is that not all women are the same. Some will write to you, while others, even if they are very interested, may not.

I met a girl while we were both studying in the library. I discovered that she was genuinely interested in me, but for some reason, she never reached out. Instead, she only showed interest in subtle ways, as many women do. I eventually understood this when I invited her for a walk.

What about you? How does it happen for you? Do you find that interested girls don’t write to you too?
Or do you think a woman which would be interested would write your first?

 

[Barrister]

It has happened to me too at times, but the truth is that not all women are the same. Some will write to you, while others, even if they are very interested, may not.

I met a girl while we were both studying in the library. I discovered that she was genuinely interested in me, but for some reason, she never reached out. Instead, she only showed interest in subtle ways, as many women do. I eventually understood this when I invited her for a walk.

What about you? How does it happen for you? Do you find that interested girls don’t write to you too?
Or do you think a woman which would be interested would write your first?

Most women, even those who are high interest, put the ball in the man’s court to initiate. There are some exceptions, but they are very rare. Women who are high interest will give cues that they are high interest, but they generally don’t come out and ask a man out nor do they initiate sex. It is your job as the man to LEAD and take the reins, especially when it comes to sex. Always be initiating and always test the limits for how far you can go. If she lets you get all the way to sex, then you take it.

Failing to move things forward will make you look indecisive and not like a leader and make her high interest begin to fall off quickly.

 

[jhonny9546]

Failing to move things forward will make you look indecisive and not like a leader and make her high interest begin to fall off quickly.

I recognize that my "failing to move things forward" is an issue I face at the beginning of interactions. When a woman starts to show me signals, I struggle to convey that I like her too, in the subtle way that experienced men do.

Once she knows I like her or that I'm interested in a physical relationship, it’s practically a snowball effect. I don’t have a problem with that part. The challenging aspect for me is the initial escalation—getting to the top of the mountain, so to speak.