Yes i'm able to detach and leave her behind. I acted too emotionally cause we were laying in the same bed and just a few hours after that I'm sick af and need surgery followed by her coldness. It was kind of a push/pull thing by her and i was way too much into my emotions.
You are 27. You're well positioned for meeting women 20-25, who are in their absolute primes.
That's typical though. Women are used to only having to show up. All women typically need to be successful in romantic interactions is to show up and be pleasant. That doesn't seem like it is much to ask, yet women have a difficult time with achieving those two things.
It doesnt matter if she knew you werent a boss level guy, your actions dried up her respect for you. Humans have weird ways of perceiving things.
Save yourself the trouble of what? Righteous Indignation? Wasted time due to looking for a soul mate? You got your djck wet. It should be all good.
Impressive you've kept coming back here for 20 years. I remember 2002. I was in college and dealing with self-centered biatches not too much different than @Baibars' biatch and the biatch who cheated on you.
indeed life hit her hard. These events took place her sophomore year in college. Her junior year she suffered a pretty significant health ailment that paralyzed half her face... she lost her scholarship because her grades dropped and unfortunately two years after graduation her father passed away. She reached back out in 2007 and wanted to get back together and I said my piece. I sincerely did not want for any of these things to happen to her. Hind sight is 20/20 and she made me who I am....I actually hope things turned around for her.
If you scroll through a old year book and look at present day, it looks like a pie eating contest. Women from the past (in my blue pill days before learning game) were bullets dodged. I ran into a girl we fooled around in high school once upon a time. Today she's around single mom and coke head. I think she's on welfare or something.
You sir are a far better man then me. Also a military man if my memory is correct. It automatically has dudes respect from GO!
When you're by yourself, and come across them, do you say things like... "Damn Suzie, time has been hard to you huh"?
I've seen the social media profiles of a lot of women who were my classmates in high school and college. I've seen some hot married moms, some childless women in LTRs of 5+ years, but few women who were a complete mess. Perhaps I'm forgetting to look at the profiles of the women who turned into messes.
I typically don't say anything. Sit back with that smug look on my face. #nextset
It could be environmental. It's not a coincidence why Tusk or troy go abroad. It's almost encouraged to be a train wreck here. Obesity seems to be the norm. That and single mom's. The game is hilarious. I don't comprehend marriage given the proclivity of divorce rape and bulking season. Both seems to be synonymous with playing house. The older I get, the more I think bachelor life is the only play going forward especially in the west. Alternatively, there's other countries and cultures that are ideal for the nuclear family. Most fellas are of this elk. It should be their safe haven. No guarantee but higher probability elsewhere.
I've seen some bulking and some divorces in my social sphere. Some single mommery too though the single moms typically have not had difficulty finding new men. A couple of former hot co-eds from college have turned into hot married moms but I sense their lives look better on social media than in reality. I'll never know.
If you are a Western man who wants to have a nuclear family, you've got a better chance of having a healthier nuclear family environment in Eastern Europe, Latin America, or certain Asian countries. We're seeing instability in Ukraine right now, which has been a common destination for Western men looking for a healthier mating and nuclear family environment. Latin America has often had issues with governmental and economic stability.
When I 1st learned pickup, I remember a skank who went on social media professing her love to her cuckold bf. My wing was beating it rotten. I thought he was talking ****. Nope. He had the receipts. Fast-forward to present day, she's a sugar baby for senior citizens. I'm not surprised. The group of girls were *** dumpsters. It was almost like they were trying to go through the entire social circle. They all caught STDS and some of the more serious ones that done go away. The hot one was damaged goods before 21. Shame innit?
I like Columbian women. I like South America but I'm suspicious of the places in lock down and government overreach. I do think that it's a better alternative then the west.
The amount of resources required as a bachelor is ridiculous in compared to the beaten path of playing House. At least in places you suggested, the culture encourages the nuclear family vs boss girl modern woman. ran through sloot gonna sloot. Geo maxing seems like the smart play. Personally I will pull wherever. The girls are a perk. It's more about individual sovereignty and lower taxes. Better quality of life, culture, and it doesn't hurt to have feminine not fat women.
Depends where you live. 43 miles is not a huge distance unless you don't have a car. Many people commute to work every day far further than that where I live.
I have a car. I couldn't make 43 miles work. Traffic is too heavy in my area.
