You have made a conscious choice to not do anything about it and not take any actions that will work towards correcting it. It didn't just happen by chance. You have actively worked towards making that happen.
TBH I didn't read the whole thread. Assuming by "these women" you mean gold diggers, passport h03s etc.
I’ve always felt that no action that I could take would correct it at this point the further down this path I got. I did make a lot of bad choices in the past that led to this, like going to and then dropping out of community college after high school, followed by working jobs where I either worked alongside other men only, or was working by myself. So my own bad choices sent me down this path that led to no dating prospects and a low income and low status life.
I get the point you’re making, it is unheard of for a woman in her 30’s to be an inexperienced virgin in today’s dating environment. Sadly it appears that this same dating environment has created a lot of men in their 30’s who are inexperienced virgins and the women want nothing to do with those men because the lack of experience is so unappealing to them. But then again, there are a lot of men who would find a 30 year old inexperienced woman to be unappealing as well. Just overall, somebody being in their 30’s without any dating experience is perceived as unusual and unappealing by most people on the dating scene regardless of gender. At that age, people expect someone to know what they do and don’t want in a partner and to know how to maintain a relationship. Someone with no dating experience at 30+ likely won’t have a full understanding of what they do and don’t want their partner to have and could need a lot of guidance on how to maintain a relationship. The more experienced person just doesn’t want to be burdened with all of that, especially because there’s probably gonna be no longevity since the inexperienced person is gonna want to see what else is out there and play the field a bit. So they would be going through all of that when a breakup is inevitable.
No usually they don’t, probably because of the safety factor. Its more dangerous for a woman to be delivering food to a stranger’s house, especially at night. Post pandemic, nearly everyone just wants their food left on their front porch, not to be handed the order.
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Do something about it.
Are you sure it's your own bad choices and not just bad luck? We make allot of choices with good intent, but sometimes things don't work out or go your way, and when it goes bad too many times, then you misattribute it to making the wrong choices, when in reality, you made the right choices but things did not work out favorably in the end. Sometimes there are factors outside of your control. Our cases on here sound very similar. We both feel we lack the prerequsites to get a woman because we are not appealing to women (ie low income jobs, not much experience or limited experience, etc...).
Are you in a relationship with a Filipina?
Not normal.
