This is a huge reason why I'm not at all a fan of the whole "passport bro" movement. I totally understand the thoughts of finding women from 3rd countries that are more traditional and feminine, at least compared to what you'll typically find in the west. However, I feel like these guys are going out about it the wrong way and basically just setting themselves up to get involved with a gold digger or possibly even something much worse.
What I was getting at is I understand why these passport bros might have these thoughts of finding a better-quality woman in 3rd world countries but I think it's mostly a terrible idea and just a way to set yourself up for disaster.
I've rarely ever discussed the "Passport Bro" movement on this forum. I haven't done it simply because it's never been close to a reality for me. I also don't think a lot of United States men have the ability to uproot their lives in the USA and go to Eastern Europe, Latin America, or Asia to meet women. Most USA resident men need to stay in the USA for working reasons. It's also super difficult to get foreign work authorization if you need to depend upon traditional employment. Most men are dependent on traditional employment.
I agree with the idea that doing the "Passport Bro" thing can go wrong.
Yep this is definitely a double standard. If a guy is 30 and has never been in a relationship and has no dating experience (the case with me and several other men these days) women see that as a huge red flag and run away from him. High value for a woman to be in this situation, extremely low value for a man to be in the exact same situation.
It would be unusual for a woman to reach 30 and have absolutely no relationship experience and be a virgin. I would wonder what she's been doing for the prior 12-15 years. In the USA, a woman like that would have to be some sort of hermit and that's not mainstream among USA women. USA women tend to be into social media and socializing with other females. Spending time with other females between ages 15-30 means a woman is likely to interact with men in some way.
In recent times (since the mid to late 2000s), a woman hasn't even needed to have female friends in order to interact with men. Since then, all she's needed to do is have some combination of a dating website profile (pre-dating app era) or a dating app profile (more common since 2013). If a woman has a dating app profile, she can interact with hundreds of men without having any meaningful female friendships. This would be unusual but it could happen.
If a woman has social media profiles, she is going to get attention from men. Most women have Instagram now (especially the type of women I interact with most --- bougie White women). Plenty of men are sending DMs on Instagram to try to get some pussie. If a woman obtained a bachelor's degree and works some white collar job, she is going to have a LinkedIn. There are men who send DMs on LinkedIn to try to get dates and get laid too. Let's also not forget Facebook. Although Facebook's popularity has fallen off in recent years, it was more common circa 2010 for men to try to send messages there to get laid and get dates.
I think it is clear from these examples that a woman would be a non-mainstream hermit in the USA to get to age 30, be a virgin, and have had few romantic interactions.
It would be more realistic for a 30 year old woman in the USA to have never had a committed, exclusive longer term relationship but have had plenty of sex. There are 30 year old women who have never had a committed, exclusive relationship but have had plenty of shorter term sex (1-2 night stands and situationships lasting a few months). A 30 year old woman could do this and easily put up a notch count of 10+. She will get some sort of emotional baggage from her experiences on the penis carousel.
The typical 30 year old White woman in the USA who has gotten a bachelor's degree or higher, works a white collar office job, and lives in a reasonably sized city has some history with men. She has had some combination of exclusive, committed relationships and shorter term sex. Her notch count would depend upon how long she's kept her longer term relationships.
A 30 year old virgin female with no history would have some appeal as her lack of baggage from riding the penis carousel for 12-15 years would be good. She would have some personality oddities due to being some sort of hermit.
Almost everyone marks the delivery as leave at my door, so I don’t even see anybody a lot of times.
Prior to the pandemic, I met some cool delivery guys dropping food off at my place. I didn't do food delivery much in the 2010s (and still don't do delivery much now). These were all very short interactions that weren't meaningful. The conversations were always less than 2 minutes.
Women don't tend to work as food delivery people.