Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
Sounds like a scam, bro. Be careful.
This is a huge reason why I'm not at all a fan of the whole "passport bro" movement. I totally understand the thoughts of finding women from 3rd countries that are more traditional and feminine, at least compared to what you'll typically find in the west. However, I feel like these guys are going out about it the wrong way and basically just setting themselves up to get involved with a gold digger or possibly even something much worse.Sounds like a scam, bro. Be careful.
I’ve been to over 30 countries and I can tell you that most countries aside from extremely poor countries and outliers like North Korea have western influence there. Unless these girls have locked up in a hot box their whole lives, they are lying to you.This is a huge reason why I'm not at all a fan of the whole "passport bro" movement. I totally understand the thoughts of finding women from 3rd countries that are more traditional and feminine, at least compared to what you'll typically find in the west. However, I feel like these guys are going out about it the wrong way and basically just setting themselves up to get involved with a gold digger or possibly even something much worse.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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I'm totally aware of that. What I was getting at is I understand why these passport bros might have these thoughts of finding a better-quality woman in 3rd world countries but I think it's mostly a terrible idea and just a way to set yourself up for disaster.I’ve been to over 30 countries and I can tell you that most countries aside from extremely poor countries and outliers like North Korea have western influence there. Unless these girls have locked up in a hot box their whole lives, they are lying to you.
Lots of expats here from Veterans to digital nomads who settled down and found a good woman.I'm totally aware of that. What I was getting at is I understand why these passport bros might have these thoughts of finding a better-quality woman in 3rd world countries but I think it's mostly a terrible idea and just a way to set yourself up for disaster.
So, in what jail did she spend the last 15 years?She’s Filipino like me, 30, Virgin and never been in a relationship.
Hi Hamilton,Did you get a work visa or what? I was looking into living in Bali for a while myself, or really anywhere in Indochina in general. Like 6 months or so, to save $$.
Hi Amsterdam,So, in what jail did she spend the last 15 years?
Or did her parents lock her up in the shed, waiting for you to come along and wife her up?
Thanks for the advice. I'm mostly concerned with ease of getting a work visa / residency / citizenship. Is Philippines hard to emmigrate to?Hi Hamilton,
Having been to all three of your contemplated destinations,I would strongly advise that you go to the Philippines.....The people genuinely like Westerners and are ultra friendly,English is spoken by most People in the Towns...It's cheap,not such a touristy place and the Girls are free and easy...Downsides are the oppressive heat and lousy food.
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
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If she runs away it's because of the weirdo vibes the dateless 30yrs guy gives. And in 95% of cases it's not high value for a woman to be 30yrs old and have no dating experience ... because in 95% of the cases it means she's either a liar or has some other serious issues.Yep this is definitely a double standard. If a guy is 30 and has never been in a relationship and has no dating experience (the case with me and several other men these days) women see that as a huge red flag and run away from him. High value for a woman to be in this situation, extremely low value for a man to be in the exact same situation.
There are definitely some exceptions, like if she is legitimately waiting until marriage, but otherwise I agree with this. It's not hard for women to have a ton of interest from men, even unattractive or fat ones, so for a woman who is not religious or holding out until marriage to still be a virgin at 30 or have no real dating history is not a good sign. It's actually way more common to see something like this in men than you probably realize, I guarantee a substantial number of men in their 20s and 30s that are in the STEM fields, particularly things like engineering, computer science or physics, are virgins. It's not so much that these guys have "red flags", it's just that a lot of them are legitimately on the spectrum to some degree or have nerdy personalities that women just do not go for. Add this with the modern dating climate that is way more harsh and judgmental than you would have seen just a couple decades ago and this is the result.If she runs away it's because of the weirdo vibes the dateless 30yrs guy gives. And in 95% of cases it's not high value for a woman to be 30yrs old and have no dating experience ... because in 95% of the cases it means she's either a liar or has some other serious issues.
Sure, there are times when that is the case. But more often they get turned off and run away from inexperienced men in their 30’s is due to the lack of social proof by being that old with no dating history, the lack of pre-selection from other women, a lot of them feel like they’re gonna have to be your teacher and show you a bunch of things about dating and sex that most men your age already know and they also feel like that will force them into the dominant role since you don’t know what you’re doing and she’ll have to take the lead so you can learn, and they get concerned you’ll get really clingy since she’s your first at such a late age. Not to mention that a lot of them feel like it would be pretty awkward to be a 30 year old guy’s first girlfriend and it would emasculate you in her eyes if she does have to teach you these things, especially when it comes to sex.If she runs away it's because of the weirdo vibes the dateless 30yrs guy gives. And in 95% of cases it's not high value for a woman to be 30yrs old and have no dating experience ... because in 95% of the cases it means she's either a liar or has some other serious issues.
That sums up a defeated man's POV.Sure, there are times when that is the case. But more often they get turned off and run away from inexperienced men in their 30’s is due to the lack of social proof by being that old with no dating history, the lack of pre-selection from other women, a lot of them feel like they’re gonna have to be your teacher and show you a bunch of things about dating and sex that most men your age already know and they also feel like that will force them into the dominant role since you don’t know what you’re doing and she’ll have to take the lead so you can learn, and they get concerned you’ll get really clingy since she’s your first at such a late age. Not to mention that a lot of them feel like it would be pretty awkward to be a 30 year old guy’s first girlfriend and it would emasculate you in her eyes if she does have to teach you these things, especially when it comes to sex.
This can happen anywhere even with your neighbor. The passport movement is just expanding your dating options abroad, so necessary with the stupid hoeflation men like in the U.S. have to endure.This is a huge reason why I'm not at all a fan of the whole "passport bro" movement. I totally understand the thoughts of finding women from 3rd countries that are more traditional and feminine, at least compared to what you'll typically find in the west. However, I feel like these guys are going out about it the wrong way and basically just setting themselves up to get involved with a gold digger or possibly even something much worse.
Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.
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