I can personally cite someone who is full blown autistic and had a low IQ that somehow was able to meet a woman off of an online dating site, get her pregnant and have a child lol. If a subhuman individual like that can do it anyone can haha.
With that out of the way,
This whole "on the spectrum" thing really doesn't mean much in my honest opinion. Autism and Asperger's are very real things for sure, there is no debate on that. However, I personally believe that over the last decade or so many children and teens, primarily boys, growing up that may have been socially awkward or mis calibrated were automatically lumped into this category. I believe the issue is that by putting a label on these individuals you place them in a bubble where they are expected to behave within this realm of existence. I also get the feeling that it creates a scenario where instead of encouraging these individuals to develop their social skills they just use this label as an excuse instead of working on self improvement. I personally believe that the whole autistic thing is far too readily thrown around in today's world.
With this also out of the way.
There are tons of young men today that honestly have sub par social skills, particularly when it comes to interacting with the opposite sex, which is naturally much more difficult. The reasons for this are simple, this generation spent a substantial amount of time on the internet, social media, playing video games, etc. but at the expense of real world social interactions. With those that are legitimately Asperger's, such as yourself, a lot of this would come down to your degree of functioning. There are quite severe cases but more often than not these individuals are honestly quite high functioning and otherwise normal. They may come across as a little quirky, odd or even awkward but they get by. Some really good examples that immediately come to mind are engineers and hard science types, like those into physics, etc. I guarantee that if you went to a university and surveyed the upperclassmen in these majors you'd find that they'd overall score much more on the "spectrum" than the average person.
The fact that you are even posting this shows that you are aware of your behavior to some degree, which to me shows you are most likely high functioning. DO NOT use Asperger's as an excuse, you have the ability to work on social skills and become much more comfortable during interactions with others. There are many ways to do this, one could be getting a part time job in a setting that literally forces you to interact with a lot of people, working at a restaurant is a fantastic example. This is a good stepping stone to begin with, next would be putting yourself in an environment where you interact with women in a non courting manner, again you could do this working at a restaurant, bar, etc.
