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There is lots of defeatist-minded posting in here. I am not sure why, since there are plenty of dedicated incel discussion boards available on the internet. This is a forum for discussing getting better at socializing, not throwing up one's hands in surrender (Or so I thought, anyway.)

There is no magical 10 step plan to either curing one's autism or getting laid, but high-functioning autism is not an impenetrable barrier. Convicts, drug-addicts, room-temperature IQ morons, complete slobs, and more manage to get laid in this hypergamic environment . The notion that a well-groomed, fit guy that happens to be diagnosed as "on the spectrum" is forever doomed to be an incel is just one of several cheap excuses for lack of success.
 

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There is lots of defeatist-minded posting in here. I am not sure why, since there are plenty of dedicated incel discussion boards available on the internet. This is a forum for discussing getting better at socializing, not throwing up one's hands in surrender (Or so I thought, anyway.)

There is no magical 10 step plan to either curing one's autism or getting laid, but high-functioning autism is not an impenetrable barrier. Convicts, drug-addicts, room-temperature IQ morons, complete slobs, and more manage to get laid in this hypergamic environment . The notion that a well-groomed, fit guy that happens to be diagnosed as "on the spectrum" is forever doomed to be an incel is just one of several cheap excuses for lack of success.
Do you think using an escort adds to a notch count?
 

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Does fapping on escort pics and OnlyFans escorts add to mental notch counts?
 

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Do you think using an escort adds to a notch count?
I would say no in the context of game since escort service requires no skill; but I'd say yes in the context of society, since it is still technically an act of sexual intercourse.
Does fapping on escort pics and OnlyFans escorts add to mental notch counts?
I am assuming that this question is a joke due to the absurdity of it, but if "mental notch counts" were a thing, then everyone here must be Genghis Khan in their own personal world of imagination.
 

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I would say no in the context of game since escort service requires no skill; but I'd say yes in the context of society, since it is still technically an act of sexual intercourse.
It requires the same dont fvck it up skill that the chads use online. Why so chads get a pass buy those on the spectrum do not?

If you tell an escort, for example, that you hope you don't get a nervous breakdown and end up in emergency like the last escort you saw, do you want to service me as a client to see if I'll get another nevous breakdown again, then she may not want to take your money.

So you have to be careful what you say to escort. This requires skill. It requires game.

You have to find an escort that can't speak English so when you psychobabble to them, they will be like, me no understand English thank you for the money, let go **** now. So, that's call qualifying the hoe.

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I am assuming that this question is a joke due to the absurdity of it, but if "mental notch counts" were a thing, then everyone here must be Genghis Khan in their own personal world of imagination.
If you look at some of the past posts, it sounds like anything can be a notch count, so yeah, why not that too?
 
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There is lots of defeatist-minded posting in here. I am not sure why, since there are plenty of dedicated incel discussion boards available on the internet. This is a forum for discussing getting better at socializing, not throwing up one's hands in surrender (Or so I thought, anyway.)

There is no magical 10 step plan to either curing one's autism or getting laid, but high-functioning autism is not an impenetrable barrier. Convicts, drug-addicts, room-temperature IQ morons, complete slobs, and more manage to get laid in this hypergamic environment . The notion that a well-groomed, fit guy that happens to be diagnosed as "on the spectrum" is forever doomed to be an incel is just one of several cheap excuses for lack of success.
Being a convict or drug addict with a room temperature IQ can increase your odds of getting laid. Girls love bad boys.
 

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I would say no in the context of game since escort service requires no skill; but I'd say yes in the context of society, since it is still technically an act of sexual intercourse.


I am assuming that this question is a joke due to the absurdity of it, but if "mental notch counts" were a thing, then everyone here must be Genghis Khan in their own personal world of imagination.
Escorts require far less finesse than civvies. Some guys can't get laid even by escorts, however.

So a guy who gets laid by escorts is at least a step above the guys even escorts won't see.
 

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It requires the same dont fvck it up skill that the chads use online. Why so chads get a pass buy those on the spectrum do not?

If you tell an escort, for example, that you hope you don't get a nervous breakdown and end up in emergency like the last escort you saw, do you want to service me as a client to see if I'll get another nevous breakdown again, then she may not want to take your money.

So you have to be careful what you say to escort. This requires skill. It requires game.

You have to find an escort that can't speak English so when you psychobabble to them, they will be like, me no understand English thank you for the money, let go **** now. So, that's call qualifying the hoe.



If you look at some of the past posts, it sounds like anything can be a notch count, so yeah, why not that too?
For the longest time, I was reluctant to tell escorts about my fetish (Because I was afraid they'd refuse to ever see me again. And possibly badmouth me to other escorts).

You're right, even with escorts, there are limits.
 

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Escorts require far less finesse than civvies. Some guys can't get laid even by escorts, however.
Escorts require financial compensation for acting like they're aroused, not 'finesse'.
The only guys that cannot get laid with an escort are the ones who don't have money to pay the bill.

So a guy who gets laid by escorts is at least a step above the guys even escorts won't see.
Escorts see anyone with a credit card or a roll of hundreds.
Guys who go to sex workers don't 'get laid'.
Don't try to add your hookers to your notch count.
 

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For the longest time, I was reluctant to tell escorts about my fetish (Because I was afraid they'd refuse to ever see me again. And possibly badmouth me to other escorts).
I don't care what your fetish is, but the reason prostitutes have any type of business is because men think regular women don't have fetishes so they need to go to prostitutes for that.
No escort would refuse a fetish, as long as it's not harmful to her. She will only refuse to see you again if you can't pay her.
They only badmouth the ones who cannot pay.

You're right, even with escorts, there are limits.
Yes, don't ask for 'freebies', they're only in it for the money.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Escorts require financial compensation for acting like they're aroused, not 'finesse'.
The only guys that cannot get laid with an escort are the ones who don't have money to pay the bill.


Escorts see anyone with a credit card or a roll of hundreds.
Guys who go to sex workers don't 'get laid'.
Don't try to add your hookers to your notch count.
Some escorts are so creeped out by certain guys, they won't see him even if he offers her the money.
 

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I don't care what your fetish is, but the reason prostitutes have any type of business is because men think regular women don't have fetishes so they need to go to prostitutes for that.
No escort would refuse a fetish, as long as it's not harmful to her. She will only refuse to see you again if you can't pay her.
They only badmouth the ones who cannot pay.


Yes, don't ask for 'freebies', they're only in it for the money.
I've had multiple civvies turn down my fetish (and call it creepy even). Yet I've only ever had one escort turn down my fetish.

I could kick myself for holding out 6 years before finally telling escorts about my fetish.
 

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Some escorts are so creeped out by certain guys, they won't see him even if he offers her the money.
That is what she told you, right?
And how you're not a creepy guy, hmmm?
You wouldn't ask her anything weird or fetish, hmmm?

Did you pay her for the interview? You are paying her just to talk with her, aren't you? Because that is what most guys want, you know, to talk...

I've had multiple civvies turn down my fetish (and call it creepy even). Yet I've only ever had one escort turn down my fetish.
That is why some guys go to prostitutes, because they're too twisted to unleash their fetish on normal girls.
And she didn't turn down your fetish, you just didn't offer her enough money.

I could kick myself for holding out 6 years before finally telling escorts about my fetish.
I have no idea what your fetish is, if you like to be treated like a dog or wear a diaper or bite nipples or lick feet, but wh0res get paid because they don't do it for pleasure.

And you didn't tell them for six years because you're afraid a wh0re will have standards. :eek:

Prostitutes are human masturbatory devices. You pay them for fulfilling sexual wishes you cannot ask from normal women. That is why it's the oldest profession.
 

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That is what she told you, right?
And how you're not a creepy guy, hmmm?
You wouldn't ask her anything weird or fetish, hmmm?

Did you pay her for the interview? You are paying her just to talk with her, aren't you? Because that is what most guys want, you know, to talk...


That is why some guys go to prostitutes, because they're too twisted to unleash their fetish on normal girls.
And she didn't turn down your fetish, you just didn't offer her enough money.


I have no idea what your fetish is, if you like to be treated like a dog or wear a diaper or bite nipples or lick feet, but wh0res get paid because they don't do it for pleasure.

And you didn't tell them for six years because you're afraid a wh0re will have standards. :eek:

Prostitutes are human masturbatory devices. You pay them for fulfilling sexual wishes you cannot ask from normal women. That is why it's the oldest profession.
When escorts tell me they turn down certain guys if the guy creeps her out too much, the escort always approaches the topic on her own. I never ask.

I've also heard from guys on other forums that they've been turned down by escorts because escorts are so creeped out, they won't bang him even for money.

Additionally, a mass shooter a while back said he committed his shooting because he was upset by the fact even an escort turned him down.

Besides being creeped out, some escorts will turn down a guy for refusing to comply with her screening, for being too young, for being a certain race, etc.

As for the fetish thing, my fetish is to watch a woman pee. One time when an escort asked if she could use my bathroom, I agreed to allow her. Then, without even telling her about my fetish, I went into the bathroom with her. As she was sitting on the toilet (before she had officially started peeing), she said "Don't watch me pee. That's weird."

I never told her it's my fetish. Nor did I ask if she'd let me watch if I paid extra (for all I know, maybe she would have). Anyway, she's the escort I'm talking about when I say one escort turned down my fetish.

After the awkward experience with her, I hid my fetish from escorts for the longest time.

One closing comment: Guys don't only utilize escorts for fetishes normal women won't indulge. Some guys utilize escorts merely because they can't get laid on their own (or at the very least, they don't want to deal with the BS that comes with pursuing civvies)
 

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That is what she told you, right?
And how you're not a creepy guy, hmmm?
You wouldn't ask her anything weird or fetish, hmmm?

Did you pay her for the interview? You are paying her just to talk with her, aren't you? Because that is what most guys want, you know, to talk...


That is why some guys go to prostitutes, because they're too twisted to unleash their fetish on normal girls.
And she didn't turn down your fetish, you just didn't offer her enough money.


I have no idea what your fetish is, if you like to be treated like a dog or wear a diaper or bite nipples or lick feet, but wh0res get paid because they don't do it for pleasure.

And you didn't tell them for six years because you're afraid a wh0re will have standards. :eek:

Prostitutes are human masturbatory devices. You pay them for fulfilling sexual wishes you cannot ask from normal women. That is why it's the oldest profession.
This is not the 90s. In feminist hypergamous 2023 even escorts are acting entitled and screening out people and incel and MGTOWS use them. Categories again that would not exist in the 90s, one of the last sane decades.

When I was in my 20s at the time, escorts were just interested in money and would take anyone, like how you are portraying to be. You never hear nonsence like no blacks, screening, or escorts refusing anyone who can pay. Maybe they are like that still in Amsterdam. Not everywhere is as toxic as North America.
 
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When I was in my 20s at the time, escorts were just interested in money and would take anyone, like how you are portraying to be. You never hear nonsence like no blacks, screening, or escorts refusing anyone who can pay. Maybe they are like that still in Amsterdam. Not everywhere is as toxic as North America.
Yes, it's business as usual over here.
 

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I read an interesting theory on another website of why men on the spectrum are hated by society.

During primitive times, our tribe would have killed us off, as we lack the skills needed to survive in a primitive environment. We'd be viewed as dead weight.

Even though modern society is no longer primitive, humans are still hardwired with the same mentality from primitive times. Since modern society doesn't allow others to kill us off, the outside world settles for hating us.
 
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