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GH asks for further explanation...

Ok Sapiens, I get all this fundamental principle stuff, but what does it mean in practical terms, you know, how can I use it in real life? So now I know I can’t make anybody do anything, just either seduce or coerce them, but how can I put it into practice? GH, said.

Well GH, this is what this stuff means and how I use it everyday in my life.

The ancient Greeks had an aphorism “Know thyself and ye shall know the Gods.”

You are the master of your body, and your body your servant.

In most cases, human beings are the servant of their body; and the whims and desire of the body their master.

You are accountable to the Creator for all your actions and or inactions, existence demands responsibility.

You will account for your own actions or inactions of your own existence; ultimately you are responsible for being seduced or coerced. You cannot blame anyone other than yourself, even if you are ignorant of your own power and volition.

Ok Sapiens, enough esoteric talk; give me an example in how to seduce a chick with it:

Well, picture this, you see an HB9.9 and HB9.5, you are not intimidated by their physical beauty, yet you don’t know anything about them other than you find their beauty appealing.

Your body gives you the feedback that it would find it pleasurable to sense and copulate with them. It should be obvious to you that most every encounter with men that these women have had it is of a lustful nature. Therefore they have plenty of experience in diffusing these types of advances to such a high degree that it has stunted all other aspects of interaction with men. Yet you know, they experience lust just like you do, also you know that they are vain due to their beauty.

Most of these women are ignorant of the Truth and have dedicated all their lives to look good for the purpose of attracting the perfect mate, yet they don’t have the faintest idea what their perfect mate would be like. They also believe that whatever happens in their life it is not their fault, they just don’t have any power over the world.

So knowing this you go into action. You EC/Smile, they respond. You introduce yourself and make conversation, you tone down your sexual desire, you seem interested in their way of thinking, you are confident like you know something about the world that they don’t (You do, you know the Truth).

You elicit their values and perspectives; you see that they like a man with money, power and that his looks are not as important as his ability to provide a privileged life. Or, they are bored with men, they are provided or offered with every material desired, but not with intimacy and acceptance, heck, they don’t even accept themselves as they are for they are slaves to their bodies’ whims and desires.

Knowing what you know, how can they not like you, you seduce and persuade them to do your will by appealing or punishing their base emotions. Just like a drug you have become a master of their body and in turn their master.

Yes, knowledge is power and ignorance is not bliss. Those whom only know parts of the Truth can coerce and manipulate others to do their will, yet in the end all of us are ultimately accountable for our own actions and existence. So use what you know wisely.

-Sapiens
 

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The ancient Greeks had an aphorism “Know thyself and ye shall know the Gods.”
Well actually they didn't. Over the entrance to the Oracle of Apollo at Delphoi was written, "Gnothe Seauton" (shame there's no Greek font, really), which means "Know yourself." The point was that the declaration of the oracle was often very cryptic, and you had to be able to realise how it affected you in particular.

But otherwise, I agree wholeheartedly with your sentiments. Ignorance is not bliss.
 

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Sapiens, can you expand on what you call the truth? Do you mean it in a sense of perspective truth, or as in Plato's Forms?
 

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Originally posted by Jerry Maguire
Sapiens, can you expand on what you call the truth? Do you mean it in a sense of perspective truth, or as in Plato's Forms?
I can answer this question for Sapiens by using his own words:

"the Truth is the Truth. The same you find in the Bible, the Koran, the Torrah, the Tao and what not."

So far Sapiens had mentioned three fundamental principles of the Truth throughout this thread.
 

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What I understands from "THe Truth" is basically that qe are all equall. I have the same right to exist, be unique and be happy as you, as a HB, as a SHB, as people with lots of money or people without.

If we are all equal, then there is no reason to fear aproaching women. Our fear comes from us putting said target person in a mental status higher than ours, when that is really not the case. If we think the target lady is better than us, fear will overtake us and we will fail a pickup/aproach/dating/relationship.


btw im an ultra WBAFC so dont take what I say literally jejeje, its my interpretation.
 

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A secret revealed............

GH scores an HB9.5!

This weekend I went shopping for a new living room set with GH, since at one of my little get togethers a dumb-HB chose to have a Picasso moment on my fine white Italian leather couch with some excellent Bordeaux. Now, that is what I call alcohol abuse, not to mention my poor couch.

As we were browsing the latest contemporary designs, there were two fine HB9’s shopping for furniture. GH and I had reached an impasse at choosing styling over comfort when out of the blue he walks up to the HB9’s and says:

GH:<Smile> “Excuse me ladies, but do you have a good sense of style?
HB9.3: <Smile> “Yes.”
HB9.5:<Smile> “Yeah, sure.”
GH: <Smile> “Well, can you help me, help my friend choose a new living room set?”
HB9’s: <Smiling> “Sure”

Won’t you believe it, they hung around us the better part of an hour trying to convince me to get some ugly azz couch because of comfort as opposed to styling. After some contrived agreement with them, they had us help them choose their own living room set.

GH number closed and asked HB9.5 and her friend to have brunch with us on Sunday, to GH’s surprise, they agreed. On Sunday, we had brunch and then went out to sight see NYC. GH is taken back that these HB9’s have responded so well, I reminded him that he has not made any overt sexual advances and not complemented their physical beauty.

A secret revealed…

You must know that the more beautiful a woman is, the more difficult time she has interfacing with other people. It becomes something of a curse. Why? Because other women envy her and most men only lust after them for their superior beauty. They learn to guard their sexuality to avoid being used and hurt. They become cynics and learn to hate men and distrust other women. Their spiritual and personal growth is stunted. They lead lives of quiet misery, with the false exterior of happiness and contentment. That is why men of knowledge can seduce this type of women quite easily, for they are parched for acceptance and intimacy.


Gentlemen,

I hope you have enough vision to realize the scope and magnitude of what is being revealed so far. The seduction of the opposite sex is only a miniscule part of life where you can apply the Truth.

The Truth is applicable in all areas of your life; they are the natural laws of the Universe. Just look around you and become aware of all the social dynamics; i.e. relationships that exist in your immediate area. Look at the Governmental relationship and its citizens, the Church and its believers, the parents and its children.

Remember, those with knowledge of the Truth and a dark spirit can manipulate you and your social world where you reside; by passing laws that benefit them and enslave the ignorant.

If you are familiar with the cliché “The pen is mightier than the sword.” You should know it comes from the fact that once you have given your word by agreement you will be bound to deliver and make good on your promises. Every court of Justice should hold you, and most will hold you responsible to deliver on what you have promised or agreed to perform, even if you agreed by ignorance. The aggrieved party will be justly entitled to all judicial remedies against you as provided by the courts.

Therefore, know and be aware of your own power and volition before signing or agreeing to any contract.

Those with knowledge of the Truth and an enlighted spirit know that the path of the Truth leads through hope to eternal existence.

No matter how appealing the way of darkness is by temporary material and sensual rewards, it only leads to extinguishment and non-existence.

You must put the Truth into practice, because like a recipe or chemistry formula, one of the critical elements of the Truth is for you to put it into practice interfacing with other people. For the Truth to come alive before your eyes and effective within you, you must experience existence and live life.

There is no higher authority than the Creator and even the Great Enemy can only exist by authority of the Creator. The Great Enemy can only manipulate you by seducing you or tempting you, or by seducing or tempting others to coerce you. He has no authority or ability to posses your body other than whatever authority or ability you give Him over you. Don’t forget that you are ultimately accountable and responsible for your actions to the Creator.

-Sapiens
 

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wow, I am impressed thats a big improvement from what GH sounded like in the beginning.


hey sapiens, I sent you a PM , I was wondering if you could have a read and get back to me thanks.
 
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Re: GH asks for further explanation...

Originally posted by Sapiens
So knowing this you go into action. You EC/Smile, they respond.
If this applied to my life just once in five times, I'll be the happiest man on earth! ^_^

By the way, I like your style Sapiens. Good job!
 

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This thread is inspiring, I must say. To see such a turn-around in GH's confidence and ability. I always said that experience coupled with intellectual development was the key.

Actually, you're starting to sound rather like Our Lord in the Gospels... You're absolutely right in fact.
 

Peace and Quiet

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
it would be very funny if GH goes on to become a leading dating book writer after he completes his Jedi training

"this book is dedicated to Sapiens my mentor. because you believed in me i found the hope to believe in myself"

GH AND THE LAND OF AMAZON WOMEN

how to succeed in the dating world of today


AS SEEN ON TV


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
:crackup:

I can see the late night infomercial! Cue in the Leisure Suit Larry musak and GH appears all decked out in his best suit.

Hey you, yea you! Suffering from too much internet porn blues? Your right hand filing workers compensation claims from too much use? Already used the last of your fleshlight pocket Pvssies 6 pack?

Don’t worry, just dial 1-800-GRASSHOPPER for your very own PUA program! You will be a master in no time, guarantee or your money back!!!

With my program you will have your very own HB; fully equipped with its very own fake boobs and nails, not to mention its sheet staining make up. And as an extra bonus, a full drama queen option to make your life a truly living hell!!!

CALL NOW!! 1-800-GRASSHOPPER

Flashing warning on the bottom of the screen: On some cases it may cause side effects such as: Oneitis, male friend alienation, feminine hygiene care products in your sock drawer and panties hanging from your bathroom faucets. Please consult with a DJ before using.

Fade to black….:D

-Sapiens
 

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Very inspiring post, im amazed at the change GH showed, specially considering I relate almost 100% to him, from the way he described himself. Now I cant wait to hit the streets. Hopefully your post will give me some pointers as to how I can learn what you taught GH by myself out of experience and practice, what id give for a friend with your experience and dedicatione.

Again, great post and thanks for sharing it here!
 

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Moved to a blog....

Ok, for those of you whom PM me about this.

I created a blog like Ian suggested: You can read the blog here

Click Here

http://sapiensstory.blogspot.com/

If you are tired of the pointless flame wars and trolls, I am sure this will save you time.



-Sapiens
 

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Awesome, just bookmarked it, ill be sure to keep visiting it. Thanks man!
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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A little incident.........

Ok, usually if someone is teaching you something, at least give him the benefit of the doubt and some thought to what he is saying before deciding to blow him off.

I have told GrassHopper (GH) not to bring any women to his place until they are completely vetted.

Last Tuesday, one of the ladies he had met while sarging decided to pay him an unannounced visit. He was not home, but his roommates were and they in their own “hospitality mood” made welcome GH’s lady friend.

Well, to make a long story short, GH shows up at his place with the HB9.5 we met while looking for my new living room set. The whole ruckus that ensued can only be described as an episode of science fiction. The waiting HB went ballistic and trashed the whole place, cops were called and assault charges filed and pending.

I will grace you with more particulars later….

-Sapiens
 

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Human Stupidity..........

Well, how stupid can you get?

The story of our prior post, our little incident goes like this:

GH met this woman, let's call her Sylvia, at a club where we went sarging. After some phone tag, according to GH, he met with her and hit it off. They went out twice and she gave it up on the second date. After she gave it up GH stopped calling her and didn’t return her calls.

Fast forward to last Tuesday, Sylvia went to GH’s house and met his roommates, GH’s roommates being the good pals that they are, invited Sylvia in and made her comfortable while waiting for GH.

Now, can you believe none of these two knuckle heads had the wisdom or vision to call and tell GH that a broad is waiting for him?

In the mean time, GH took the HB9.5 we met at the furniture store to dance class. Let’s call her Stephanie. After dance class GH took Stephanie to his house, he tells me he had planned on making a light meal and drinking some wine to see where things would lead with Stephanie.

Now, I had warned GH that in the field you will come across all kinds of people. Some people are nice, some really dangerous. Just because a chick is beautiful doesn’t mean she is not mentally imbalanced. You have to always think of your safety.

Second, you never brag about your exploits. By bragging you only create envy in other people, and the worst case of envy that can harm you is from someone whom you trust.

In this case GH’s roommates are carefully watching his fun and wishing it was them, as Omega males they are only too happy to pick up GH’s scraps. When they saw Sylvia come to their place, they were only too willing to let her in without knowing where GH’s game was or is.

I also expressly told him, never to bring women to his house until he had a time knowing them and the people around them. Her friends would have told him stories of things Sylvia had done in the past, pointing to possible red flags.

Well, when GH appeared at home with Stephanie ready for a night of fun, Sylvia was already fired up from the crappy breakup. When she saw him with Stephanie, this only drove her over the edge. GH’s room mates tell me that Sylvia grabbed a fire poker from the side of the fire place and began swinging at them; she was screaming how deceitful GH was and how he had played with her emotions. She broke the TV, all glass decorations in the living room and finally stuck GH in the forearm, bruising his arm and making a flesh wound with the hook of the fire poker.

Someone called the cops and the roommates and GH were able to subdue Sylvia until the cops showed up. Stephanie was hit with a lamp, and now I have it on good word that she is not speaking with GH.

What a friking nightmare. I hope all you know this was preventable and foreseen. None of this had to happen if GH had done his homework as instructed.

Remember, you don’t need to lie to women. They are doing a fine job misleading them-selves. By lying to them it just help’s to set them straight. You should be man enough to be able to handle rejection and just play with the ones that want to be in your type of setup. There are more than enough women out there willing to play by your rules that you don’t need to be setting yourself up in this kind of situation. Keep in mind: Do unto others as you like done unto you; don’t do to other what you don’t want done to you.

-Sapiens
 

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Learn to Value Your Time…..

As GH is recuperating, I want to quickly share this with you.

Do not let fools waste your time i.e. don’t suffer fools lightly. If you are in your late teens or twenties you may think you have all the time in the world. You don’t, as of this writing I am 35 and have not been able to achieve more than 3% of my goals.

Do the math; at 365 days per year, you only have 3,650 days per decade. And from those days you have to deduct the time you have already been spoken for. Like school, job and commitments. How about if you fall ill?

My point is that you must use your time wisely to enjoy your existence to its maximum potential and your enjoyment. Keep in mind: It’s your time, once you are gone, you are gone. No game over reset, so to speak.

We will always have fools, there are plenty of them out there and their value is low.

Like precious metals, you as a wise man are valuable. You are valuable because you are scarce; your fruits of labor are plentiful, but only for those that deserve to be graced by you. No snobbishness here, just stating a fact. Know your value and share it accordingly.

With discipline you will learn to know when just to keep quiet and don’t argue with fools.

-Sapiens

P.S. GH wears contacts while sarging....for whomever asked.
 

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Learn to Give….

We had to modify GH’s work out routine. He can’t lift because of the battle injury he received, while in the field of battle LOL. I will have a ceremony once all the paperwork for his medal is approved.

Don’t you love sarcasm? LOL.

I will have him just brisk walk on the tread mill until his doctor tell us or is healed enough to continue lifting.

Anyhow, the point of this post is this:

First take care of yourself.

Care for your needs, your health, your well being; be it physical or spiritual.

Then after you have taken care of you, you will be better able to care for others.

Like a tree you must 1st mature in order to bear fruit. But if the tree is mistreated, its branches broken or damaged; it will hardly have a chance to bloom and bear fruit.

Therefore, take good care of you first and when you bloom, you will bear bountiful fruit.

-Sapiens
 

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Women are not complicated....

One thing I keep hearing is how “women are complicated.” They are not; you just gotta realize that their biological purpose is different than ours.

They have a greater investment in raising and producing offspring than males do. That is why they may seem complicated to you, because you have never probably though about what women are exposed to everyday.

This is very graphic and somewhat disgusting, but here it goes anyways:

Picture this, you as a male; every male that you encounter everyday wants to penetrate you in the anus. They will find it pleasurable, yet once they have you, there will hardly be any incentive for them to get to “know you.”

Now, what kind of defenses would you develop?

How would you react to every male that approaches you?

Would you be suspicious of their motives for approaching you?

Women pretty much go through the same thing, except that they are attracted to males, especially dominant males with resources.

Male = Dominant. Dominant = Resources. Male+Dominant+Resources = For the female a good chance of success raising offspring.

-Sapiens
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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