Enough is enough, time for a change journal.

[thunder_god]

Didn't see a delete post button.

 

[thunder_god]

You know how Rex will sometimes, make a post exposing another member of the board's hypocrisy or out-and-out mendacity by using his own posts to prove my point? Well, I was going to do one about you, expect instead of exposing you as a fraud, I was going to make a thread, using the posts in your journal to shoot holes in this b.s.



However, while I was in the mist of the making the thread, I accidentally deleted, not once but twice. However, let's review anyway,



With the exception of Number 4, (which will come with experience,) which one of these benchmarks have you not met? You need to stop being so emotional dude and I sincerely hope that you haven't stop going to therapy. Part of your problem is that you want a girlfriend, when that's the last thing you need because you'll f*ck around and fall in love with the b*tch and regress back into your AFC status or worse, which will cause the broad to feel that you're desperate, clingy, and needy.

What you need is about a year or so of nothing but banging broads, possibly even a polyamorous relationship with you and two chicks, THEN you should consider an exclusive relationship with a woman. Your emotional and mental immunity haven't been strength to the point to where you could deal positively with a chick if and when see breaks bad on you. If you got with a chick now, and she left you, you're entire world would come crumbling down and you would be in a worse situation than you were when you come to So So Suave wanting advice on your oneitis.

Instead of being proud of meeting all but one of your goals, (and even then you're striving daily to meet that goal,) and being excitement about moving out, (and having a spot to bang chicks,) You're over here trippin off of that one exclusive b*tch. That isn't sexy dude, and you need to stop that sh*t, really.

As, that insta-date broad you took to the party, you're effin' up because she's the foundation of your social circle. So what you're not attracted to her, what you need to do is hook up an outing so you can meet some of friends or relatives and she if they're cute, you seem to have forgot that social circle is the easiest game to pull from. What I suggest is that you call ole girl, see what she's getting into tonight, and kick it with her and some of her friends.



I know this is your folks and all, but unless it just to kick it and have a beer, never go sarging with this dude again. He isn't this life and to paraphrase Kendrick Lamar, "He's the b*tch that killed your vibe." You should only with dudes that you're 100% sure will go out and approach women, namely those RSD dudes. They're like minded individuals who are positive about life, proactive about changing their lives, and are out c'here trying to get some p*ssy. In opinion, you should eff with them when comes time to holla at hoes.

Well when you state it that way, I guess I have been coming along quite well. I haven't quite gotten to the school part yet though but I am eager to come back with a vengeance in October, but I feel like I really need to get this part of my life handled right now. I know I have been focusing too much on my oneitis, but its because I can't seem to get another girl who I'm attracted to so that I can replace her. it also didn't help yesterday when I was at the birthday event and a girl from my class brought her bf along and I saw how they both with mingling and talking and it reminded me of how me and my oneitis used to talk. Anyways I really do need to put my oneitis on the backburner till she reaches out to me again with an offer of getting together. Until that comes, I need to continue training and improving my skills with women. It would also be nice if I got a few dates with attractive girls soon too. I did after all set a deadline of getting laid by the end of summer.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Mainly apartments and houses. I can't afford condos.

And you live in Toronto right? I wonder how the prices are there compared to Southern California

 

[thunder_god]

And you live in Toronto right? I wonder how the prices are there compared to Southern California

Atrocious!

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Atrocious!

As a guy i hate being dealt with the provider role

 

[thunder_god]

Week 16 day 1: Yesterday I only managed to do 2 cold approaches. My jacka$$ best friend ****blocked me on my first set by calling me while I was in set, and then when we met up, he ended up talking for 30 minutes to some chick he used to work with, and then told me we had to go or we would be late.

Today I met up with another friend to do some cold approaches in my area at the local mall. He was the same friend who I mentioned I went to the jazz festival with he did jack $hit. Anyways, when we got to the mall, we both developed huge approach anxiety. We kept on walking around but would not do any approaches. They was a surprisingly good amount of hot girls at the mall today. I eventually got fed up that both of us weren't doing anything so I just approached a random asian girl to warm up. She was probably a 5 or 5.5 but I didn't care. I needed to warm up. I open her with this:

me: hi, are you chinese?
her: ya,
me: are you mandarin or cantonese?
her: can't remember what she said
her: I'm from vietnam
me: really?
her: ya
me: so I guess your not from toronto then?
her: no
me: so what made you decide to come to Canada?
her: come to Canada? ( Her english wasn't very good)
me: ya, why did you come to Canada? are you here to study or work?
her: my husband
me: oh, well take care

She was walking to her husband and her english was crap. Anyways it did its job.

Now I tried to get my friend to do an approach. He kept on hesitating and making excuses, so I decided to inspire him and show him. I see a random girl walking towards us and before my approach anxiety kicked in, I just walked real fast right up to her. She was a young dark skinned chick probably a HB6 although my friend said she was a HB7. She looked to be either indian, west indies, or latin american. I used a direct opener on her.

me: hi, I saw you walking by here, and you caught my eye and I think your cute. My name's thundergod (extend my hand out to her)
her: (smiles when she heard I call her cute), hi
me: What's your name?
her: blah blah blah
me: so what are you up to right now?
her: I just broke my phone or lost it
me: how come?
her: blah blah blah
me: you must be the only person in the 21th century without a phone
her: blah blah blah
me: so tell me something interesting about yourself?
her: I don't have a phone
me: ( didn't really know what to say as my mind was blank so I just decided to #close her)
me: well, I got to get back to my friend, lets exchange contact info and go out for coffee sometime?
her: umm...
me: ok?
her: ok
me: I take out my phone and hand it to her and I say goodbye and take off.

I honestly did not expect to # close her and I got a crazy high off of that. The adrenaline and endorphines was rushing through my body. I walked away and after a few seconds I saw my buddy and ran right up to him and started jumping up and down. I was so energetic and awake at that point and felt super confident after # closing her. She was by far the best looking girl I have # closed to date. My third # thus far. Now I was super hyper but I tried to get my buddy to approach girls. He kept on hesitating and making excuses. I saw two really hot girls walk towards us. Both of them must have been like 9's. I told him to do it first but he chickened out and then I started to think about it too much and I also succumbed to the approach anxiety. I'm thinking if it was just one of them there, I probably would have approached her but two HB's all at once is a little too much for me to handle at the moment. So we continue to walk around, and I try to help him by telling him, ok lets just go talk to some hired guns as a warmup but he still wouldn't do it. Now I was getting a little pet peeved. Like I mean, if its a total stranger thats one thing, but an employee, come on? So we continue to walk around until eventually he got approached by a hired gun by one of the booths. She was a rather young looking chick who had some invisible braces or something but she was nonetheless kind of cute. Anyways she asks us if we want to try a sample, so we both agree to try it. I quickly try to joke with her and change the topic from her work to her personal life. This was experience I got from spending countless hours talking to employees a few months back when I first started.

her: explains product
me: so how long did it take you to memorize all that?
her: not long (smiles) but I have been doing it for a while now
me: (turns toward my friend) you should hire her for marketing or something
her: laughs
me: you look like you would be a great marketer for his company
her: laughs
her: do you guys want to purchase one?
me: well I'm actually on a diet, but my friend here would love to purchase some
my friend: I'm on a diet too
me: so are you in school or something?
her: ya, I'm in my last year of HS, and I want to get into medicine
me: oh wow, so you must be pretty smart then
her: (starts blushing) ya, I have a 95% average
me; awesome
me: ( I turn towards my friend) you really should hire her then
her: blushes some more
her: thanks (smiles)
my friend: well I'm not really in advertising
me: well anyways have a nice day

She was kind of young for me but I probably could have # closed her if I had spoken to her a bit longer and flirted with her more. She stared to qualify herself to me during the conversation and I could tell by her body language that she was into the conversation. I initially set a goal of doing 5 approaches this week plus 2 more to make up for yesterday so a total of 7 but nonetheless I was super stoked when I got that # lol. I'm going to have to make up for all these approaches tomorrow by doing 5 + the 5 from today for a total of 10 tomorrow. Don't know if I'll be able to do that tomorrow but we'll see.

 

[Maximus Rex]

When the Conversation Dies

I just thought of something, when the conversation dies, (Do like the Indian chick in Barnes & Noble,) and tell the chick that she's making the situation awkward. However, you want to be so overly dramatic as to she'll realize that you're not being serious. Of course, she'll ask what do you mean by making the situation awkward or deny the accusation. However, (while still "in character,") You'll say, "Yes, you are making this awkward. I've made a goal to overcome my shyness by the end of the summer. You've just set me back several weeks and IT'S...ALL...YOUR...FAULT. However, you can make it up to me by buying some (ice cream, Subways, a beer, etc.). You take her by the and lead her to the food court.

Now one of two things are going to happen. She'll either be like that Indian chick in Barnes & Noble, look at you like you've completely lost your mind. (Which is good because that shows she has no sense of humor, is completely up tight, and therefore isn't a chick you'll want to f*ck with anyway,) or she'll find it funny and comply.

Or you after you say, " IT'S...ALL...YOUR...FAULT." You can ratchet it back, get serious and in that suave Don Juan thunder_god voice say, "But seriously though, I do find you to be kinda cute and interesting. I want to buy you something to eat. Come on." Take her by the hand and lead her to the food court.

Week 16 day 1: Yesterday I only managed to do 2 cold approaches. My jacka$$ best friend ****blocked me on my first set by calling me while I was in set,

Why didn't you put the chick on the phone with your boy?

He was the same friend who I mentioned I went to the jazz festival with he did jack $hit. Anyways, when we got to the mall, we both developed huge approach anxiety.

Now I tried to get my friend to do an approach. He kept on hesitating and making excuses,

Now I was super hyper but I tried to get my buddy to approach girls. He kept on hesitating and making excuses.

So we continue to walk around, and I try to help him by telling him, ok lets just go talk to some hired guns as a warmup but he still wouldn't do it. Now I was getting a little pet peeved.

You have got to stop sarging with dude. It's one thing to suck and but you're trying to do something about it, but it's something else all together if you've doing nothing about. If dude, isn't going to help you approach women (in addition to increasing your own approach anxiety,) then there's no reason for you to hang out with him when your sarging. As I said before, if you want wings to sarge with, sarge with those Toronto RSD cats.

 

[thunder_god]

I just thought of something, when the conversation dies, (Do like the Indian chick in Barnes & Noble,) and tell the chick that she's making the situation awkward. However, you want to be so overly dramatic as to she'll realize that you're not being serious. Of course, she'll ask what do you mean by making the situation awkward or deny the accusation. However, (while still "in character,") You'll say, "Yes, you are making this awkward. I've made a goal to overcome my shyness by the end of the summer. You've just set me back several weeks and IT'S...ALL...YOUR...FAULT. However, you can make it up to me by buying some (ice cream, Subways, a beer, etc.). You take her by the and lead her to the food court.

Now one of two things are going to happen. She'll either be like that Indian chick in Barnes & Noble, look at you like you've completely lost your mind. (Which is good because that shows she has no sense of humor, is completely up tight, and therefore isn't a chick you'll want to f*ck with anyway,) or she'll find it funny and comply.

Or you after you say, " IT'S...ALL...YOUR...FAULT." You can ratchet it back, get serious and in that suave Don Juan thunder_god voice say, "But seriously though, I do find you to be kinda cute and interesting. I want to buy you something to eat. Come on." Take her by the hand and lead her to the food court.



Why didn't you put the chick on the phone with your boy?









You have got to stop sarging with dude. It's one thing to suck and but you're trying to do something about it, but it's something else all together if you've doing nothing about. If dude, isn't going to help you approach women (in addition to increasing your own approach anxiety,) then there's no reason for you to hang out with him when your sarging. As I said before, if you want wings to sarge with, sarge with those Toronto RSD cats.

I still sarge with a few of them from time to time, but they are flakey as $hit and not committed at all. I think I got 20 # from those rsd inner circle guys and maybe 2-3 actually come out to sarge. Plus some of those rsd guys are weird and creepy as ****. I think a lot of those guys look down on me due to my inexperience and therefore don't want to sarge with me but whatever. I'm no longer the same guy I was several weeks back and will only get better each week, so who cares what they think.

 

[thunder_god]

Week 16 day 2: Got utterly destroyed today from approach anxiety. I couldn't do a single approach at all. I think a part of it had to do with me earlier viewing an apartment downtown. The apartment was overpriced and there was literally a dozen people there viewing the apartment with me. There was no way in hell I was going to fight them for it and start a bidding war. It just made me real depressed and reminded me of how bad it was last year when I was looking for a place to rent. I definitely don't want a repeat of last year but so far things are looking pretty bad.

I was originally suppose to meet up with a rsd inner circle member but the muther****er flaked on me and didn't answer his cell. This was one of the reasons why I stopped doing cold approaches with wings especially from the rsd inner circle. Totally unreliable. I can't stand flakey behaviour like this. Real men keep their word and follow through with action. So I was left alone to sarge at the local mall. These two things made my approach anxiety too overwhelming. There were plenty of hot girls walking around, but there was one in particular that I should have definitely approached and I'm sure it would have ignited the fire and really got me going. She was a very fit blonde wearing a goodlife fitness t-shirt. She was probably between a 9-10 on the looks scale. I left the mall feeling like $hit. From now on, **** sarging with wings, especially the rsd inner circle guys. Every single one of these muther****ers from Toronto has been flakey as $hit. Guys would tell me they want to go sarging with me and to text them and stuff, but when it comes down to actually following through with their commitment, they all don't. I'm sick of this $hit, no more having ppl let me down. I'm just going to rely on myself. It sucks that I don't have a mentor or anyone showing me the ropes, which makes this a very tedious long process, but I can only control myself at the end of the day. I think I'm going to start adopting a 3 strike rule for both males and females. Anyone who flakes on me 3 times is outta here!

Tomorrow I'm going out to sarge again, and **** EVERYONE ELSE!

 

[Maximus Rex]

No Tolerance for Flakes

I think I'm going to start adopting a 3 strike rule for both males and females. Anyone who flakes on me 3 times is outta here!

Actually you should adopt a "1 and Done," Rule for flakes. Flaky behavior is a not only disrespectful towards you and your time, but is also a reflection of a person's character, morals, values, and integrity. Flakiness gives you insight to a person's future patterns of behavior and that's why you don't give a flakey individual one than one chance to flake on you. If you do, you'll be dependent upon that individual to do or provide something of importance, only for that person to let you down or or not come through, which will result in a major inconvenience to you and your life.

Tomorrow I'm going out to sarge again, and **** EVERYONE ELSE!

Good luck.

 

[thunder_god]

Week 16 day 3: Today things seemed to be abit better. My wingman from yesterday who flaked on me called me while I was trying to daygame at one of the malls I frequent. It was distracting and I ended up leaving. I'm at a point where I don't think I even want to wing with this guy anymore. Its been a nightmare trying to meetup with him. Anyways I head downtown to game at my usual location. I walk outside after getting off of the subway and I end up seeing Mr. A who I met from the rsd inner circle when I first started doing cold approaches. He was there with another guy who he introduced me to. As I was talking to Mr. A, another short guy comes up to me and introduces himself. It was kind of awkward as I didn't know why he came up to me. As it turns out, he is little Tony. Big Tony who I called Mr. T said little Tony is a legend and a great pick up artist. I was honoured to finally met the guy. He was well dressed and dressed up like a typical player with spikey hair, dress shoes, and a collared shirt that was unbuttoned at the top. I spent some time talking to him and telling him about my progress. He said I'm actually doing great and above average. He said he was surprised I had this much progress considering I only did around 80 approaches. In my mind I was thinking "only 80 approaches? thats a lot of approaches" but I guess 80 is nothing compared to what he has amassed over the years. Anyways all four of us end up walking around, and then suddenly Mr. A's friend disappears while doing an approach and then little Tony disappears as well. Mr. A told me little Tony isn't really all that good and that he only does solo game. I had exchanged numbers with little Tony before he disappeared. I figured I could maybe learn a thing or two from him.

So now it was just me and Mr. A sarging together. I opened almost all of the sets. I only approached white chicks who were at least a 6-7 today which I'm glad. I kept on opening two sets with the opener "hey, have you met my friend Mr.A?" Unlike my ***** a$$ friend from monday, Mr. A was able to follow through after I opened them instead of just standing there like a tree. The first set I opened, I believe with two russian blondes, who had an accent. We both spoke to them for a few minutes but they said they had to go, and I tried to get the # but got rejected. Next set, I believe were two brunettes ( I honestly can't remember). I used the same opener. The chicks walked away after a few seconds. I wanted to throw a witty comeback line after they said they had to go, but my brain froze. I probably should have said "slow down or you'll get a heart attack or something". Next Mr. A opened two brown girls who were from Africa. I noticed the girl's friend who Mr. A opened started to walk away, so I walked up to her and kept her occupied, but unforunately, neither of us were smooth enough to keep the conversation going nor build attraction. We started walking back to our original location now, and as we were waiting for the traffic light to change, Mr. A spotted a girl beside me wearing a Saskatchewan shirt, so he told me to open her. I immediately opened her with the line "are you from Saskatchewan" and then proceeded to ask her for a few more questions, but I didn't really know how to continue the conversation nor did I find her attractive so I ejected. There were a few really pretty chicks like between 8-10 that walked by but I got approach anxiety due to their looks and wasn't able to approach. Mr.A also approached an asian girl but got blown off. Then I spotted a cute HB8 white chick wearing a pretty blue shirt with her dog. Without hesitation, I immediately ran after her as she was crossing the street. I opened her with "hey, what kind of dog is that?", then I noticed an accent and asked her where she was from, she walked into the mall and I didn't want to get banned from this particular mall which is known to ban PUA guys and my mind started to go blank so I ejected. Mr. A told me I seemed a whole lot different and that I improved several levels since he last saw me. This made me feel good, as I didn't want my efforts and hardwork to be in vain. He said I looked much more relaxed and happier compared to before when I was very nervous and stiff. I had to head to my salsa class so we said goodbye and left.

Overall not a bad day. Sure my approaches and conversations could have been a lot more smoother and I should have tried to kino, but it was a lot better then yesterday where I did absolutely nothing. I'm still not too happy with my progress thus far. I really want to make an even bigger rapid improvement and excel at this. I feel like I should be dedicating even more time to doing this like 3-5 hrs a day. Not really sure how I'm going to be feeling tmr since my oneitis might be at the party. Not really sure how I should act and if I should try to escalate things with her if she is there. All I know is, if she is there and I can isolate her somehow I'm going to try my best to escalate things and go for the kiss and even attempt to pull her. This has been a really tough journey so far. My ego is getting pulverized day in and day out. Getting rejected constantly definitely does not help your ego and self esteem but at the same time, I've also had a few successes and I do feel overall a little more confident especially talking to women compared to a few months ago. I was preying to the stars today as I was walking home to help make me even stronger, smoother, and sharper so that I can finally conquer my oneitis and move things forward with her. I know I'm not quite ready for her yet, but I do feel I am quickly closing the gap in experience between us and its only a matter of time before I have more experience then her and can finally beat her. Despite me not really seeing any results today, I will continue to push forward and go out sarging again tomorrow for even longer then today and we'll see what happens. I will do whatever it takes to become great!

 

[thunder_god]

Week 16 day 4: **** did today sting. From the looks of things, it appears she hooked up with another classmate of mine. I asked a friend from class and he said there might be something going on, but its not official. He said ever since a trip her, him, and a few other classmates had in cuba back in late May.

So my oneitis showed up to the party I was at thrown by one of my classmates in his apartment. There was over 50 ppl there in his apartment. She came up to me to talk and kept on shoulder bumping into me when I made fun of her calling me an *******. I noticed she hovered around me a few times as well and also went back to that other guy and that other guy kept on following her as well. Anyways the host of the party at the apartment which had over 40 ppl there kicked us all out and was planning on going to a nightclub with everyone afterwards. I left the apartment first, along with my oneitis, her friend, and another classmate. When we were downstairs my oneitis asked if I was coming to the nightclub so all four of us walked there first. During our walk, my oneitis kept on flirting with me and smacking my ass and bumping into me. I gladly returned the favour. Anyways her friend kept on asking her whether or not to text someone who I'm assuming was that guy who she probably hooked up with. She also teased me saying she'll help me get a girl (wtf). What I want to do next time I'm with her outside is go cold approach a few chicks in front of her face to knock that ego down. Anyways after we arrived at the club, we noticed it was empty so her friend dragged her away to another club ditching us two and all of our classmates. All of us ended up going to a nearby bar and it was during this time that I asked a classmate if anything was going on between her and that guy. He told me something is going on but its not official and its been like that since their cuba trip. I left the bar feeling like $hit and really depressed. I'm still really angry and depressed right now. I called my wingman and almost had tears rolling down my eyes. This left a really bad taste in my mouth. I really wanted another chance to make things right with her but it appears that its too late, since she already hooked up with this guy since May.

I'm kind of confused on why she kept on still trying to contact me, and also flirting very heavily with me when she sees me in person even though it appears she hooked up with that other guy since May? Is she just looking for attention or is she looking to branch swing to me? What can I do at this point? I'm in so much pain right now and I immediately cold approached two girls after I found out from my classmate. One of my wings says to just remove her from my facebook and delete her number and never contact her again while another one says I can **** her as a **** buddy. I know I should not be looking for revenge and should be a better man and just forget about it and move on but it stings like a ***** and she basically ruined my school year and lead to my major depression due to her mind games she was playing. I'm in so much pain right now and she basically removed herself as a relationship candidate with me from this point on. I don't think I can ever see her in the same light again. I plan on going on a approach rampage tomorrow to help me ease the pain. I plan on doing 50 cold approaches tomorrow and I told my wings to literally kick my ass if I don't do it.

 

[thunder_god]

Week 16 day 5: Today I was still feeling pretty $hitty about last night but nonetheless decided to hold myself accountable to what I said I would be doing which was to do a crazy amount of approaches. So me and my buddy drove downtown. I received a text from my oneitis asking me about the how was the nightclub last night and if I had fun. I decided since I'm not thinking clearing to past along the text game over to one of my wings who has a lot more experience then me and because he has a clear mind to handle it. I told him about my goal of doing 50 approaches today and he told me that wasn't realistic unless I was getting blown out constantly. He told me to try to do 25 so I changed my number to 25. So me and my buddy hit up downtown. We ended up running into big Tony and another wing who I will call Tommy. Me and my buddy decided to do our thing and to meetup with them afterwards. I didn't have too much problems opening girls and getting their attention however my approach anxiety still was an issue. During one set, I was very commanding with the girls, and as they walked away I called them to come back because I wanted to talk to them, I even told them to introduce themselves as I extended my hand to them. Being very commanding actually felt good. I think I could have tried to be more friendlier but I'm still calibrating. I did about 5 approaches with my buddy while he did 2-3 lame half ass approaches that got him no where and then told me he had to take off. Oh well, his lost. I met up with big Tony and Tommy and we all gamed inside of the mall since it was raining outside. Afterwards big Tony left and it was just me and Tommy. Tommy mentioned that I've improved and I'm no longer nervous when opening girls like the first time he met me when I couldn't even open any girls. I approached about 3 girls in the mall. Afterwards it stopped raining so we went outside to game since security is pretty tight in the mall. One of the sets I opened, ended up giving Tommy a condom, so he just grabbed the girls hand and said lets go while I kept the other one company. The girls said they wanted to smoke hookah so Tommy said he would show them. They were from out of town. I tried to engage the girl the best I could even swapping glasses with her at one point, but me and Tommy both decided to eject set after leading them for 15 minutes. The girls were just so boring and it didn't seem like it was going to go anywhere. I later opened two girls drinking bubble tea and tried to number close one of them but found out she was 14! so I ejected while Tommy asked one of the girls to show him her ID lol. Later on I went to the monthly rsd inner circle meeting.

I met a few more ppl there and then we had a whole introduction from each member. Mr. A was there as well along with the approach machine. A also tried to open girls with a high five but the first time it didn't work and then Mr. A showed me and I calibrated and opened better the second time. I also winged with another inner circle guy. More then half of the guys ditched the group to do street game while the rest of us wanted to head to a nightclub. After finding out we couldn't get in and it cost $15, I just said **** it and went home before my mother got home. I did about 20 approaches last night. It felt like a lot of hard work but I now feel more confident opening girls and asking for the number or sometimes instadates. My next steps at this point is work on being more sexual, using sexual innuedos during conversations, chase framing, and kino. Especially kino since I hardly touch the girls except with a handshake. I need to work on holding their hand after I shake it and then drawing them in for a hug or something. These are my next goals to work on.

I might potentially meet up with that same buddy from yesterday who made a half assed attempt at doing cold approaches but said I inspire him, and he has never met nor known anyone who is as hardworking or driven as me before. Its rough out there but I won't stop until I become great!

 

[JaegerPilot217]

was watching the movie "Yes Man" with Jim Carrey, last night, the most powerful lesson is always say "Yes" to invites, anything that will get you the **** out of your house even if you don't think you will enjoy it, yes for new experiences, but I don't mean saying yes to everything in the sense that you will be ass-kissing, no never like that, you'll have to see the movie, or just watch it again to get it drilled into your head

 

[thunder_god]

was watching the movie "Yes Man" with Jim Carrey, last night, the most powerful lesson is always say "Yes" to invites, anything that will get you the **** out of your house even if you don't think you will enjoy it, yes for new experiences, but I don't mean saying yes to everything in the sense that you will be ass-kissing, no never like that, you'll have to see the movie, or just watch it again to get it drilled into your head

Ya I watched that movie a few months back. I think I spoke about it in my journal somewhere. It made me say yes and do a lot of hobbies and activities a few months back when I was really down. I've since cut down on a lot of hobbies that I didn't enjoy and started to really focus on game, and dancing. When school starts I will put at least 50% of my energy into my studies.

 

[thunder_god]

Week 16 day 6: Today I stayed at home mainly to help out with household chores and to get some of the paperwork done for renting that apartment. My parents have been really riding my ass about going out all the time. My mother is like your almost thirty, you don't know how to think and are always going out. WTF. So they expect me to just be locked away at home and live under a rock? I'm going to be so much happier once I move out and have freedom. I decided to text my buddy from last night and we both hit up the local mall in my area, although he came pretty late to pick me up so we only had like 35 minutes to game till they closed. I opened a two set, one of the girls was cute, and the other was average. I opened the cute one, but then my jackass friend started talking to her so I was stuck talking to the average looking one. We had just started to talk to them when my idiot friend asks them if they want to join us for a drink. They were already holding two drinks duh. This ruined the set and the girls said bye and left. The pickings in the mall was very slim today due to the long weekend. I told him to approach and he kept on hesitating and not doing anything. We walk by the foodcourt and I spot two asians walking beside me and I told him to approach them. He made an excuse and then told me to do it. I said **** it, and opened one of the girls with a direct opener. I ended up number closing her. That's my fourth number overall and my second number close this week. They were ugly to average looking probably a 5 at best so I won't be calling her to setup a date. It was more to show him that I could do it and he needs to stop being a little girl. Just as I got her number, her guy friends come by, I wasn't sure if he was her bf or not so I quickly bolted lol. Next we hitted up boston pizza. I was hoping to try a few lines on a waitress like when she asks me what I would like to order I would reply "I want you" and then pause for a second or two and see what she says. Then when she replies I would be like "don't get any ideas, I want you to bring me a pint of this beer". Stuff like that. Anyways we got served by a fat chick so I didn't bother to use this line. Next we hit up a entertainment area where there's two nightclubs to try to do some sarging on the street. Again pickings were slim and there were mainly dudes and cougars. Nonetheless, I spotted a two set and one of the girls was decent looking maybe a 7-8. I opened them and asked about her tattoo, the girls walked away from us. Next I made my buddy approach some girls. I don't remember the exact number but I think I only did like 3-4 approaches today. I had to deal with the bull$hit from my parents and I didn't want to get thrown out of the house so I stayed at home mainly for the day.

 

[thunder_god]

Week 16 day 7: Today I hit the local mall to do some cold approaches by myself. The approach anxiety was tremendous. I almost wasn't able to do a single approach. I had to use the pain and reminder of my oneitis hooking up with that guy and use that as fuel and fire to push me to use willpower to overcome my approach anxiety. I did five approaches and got shutout from all of them. I used 3 direct openers and only the last one seemed to be somewhat receptive to it. One of the girls was walking super fast when I tried to open her and then blew me off after thanking me for complimenting her jacket lol. One of the girls who I opened who was a HB8 told me she was married when I extended my hand out to her. I didn't see a ring on her finger, so I probably should have called her out on that.

The last girl who I approached was an asian HB6.5-7. I would have ****ed her. After using a direct opener on her I probably should have tried to build more rapport with her. The conversation went something like:

me: hi, you caught my eye, and I had to come over to talk to you, my name's thunder_god (extend my hand out)
her: hi, my name's blah blah blah
me: so how's your day going?
her: good, u?
me: good, so what are you up to right now?
her: oh I'm just meeting my cousin
her: what are u up to?
me: I'm going to go grab a coffee, you should join me
her: I'm busy
me: ok, what's your schedule like this week?
her: Oh I'm busy
me: I guess that means no then
her: sorry
me: have a nice day

The mall was closing so I didn't have too much time to talk plus she was walking to meet her cousin so I wasn't sure how much time I had. I definitely need to work on building more rapport and a connection before asking them out.

Today was rough. Thinking about my oneitis getting rammed by that other guy really stung and made me angry. I am using this as my drive to continue to push myself everyday despite seeing lackluster results. I can almost feel like the 6.5-7 are within reach of me. I just need to be more smoother and polish up my game. The HB8-10's I think right now are way too advanced for me. I keep on getting rejected outright from them. I didn't get a chance to really use kino today since I got blown out from each set pretty immediately each time I opened.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Ya I watched that movie a few months back. I think I spoke about it in my journal somewhere. It made me say yes and do a lot of hobbies and activities a few months back when I was really down. I've since cut down on a lot of hobbies that I didn't enjoy and started to really focus on game, and dancing. When school starts I will put at least 50% of my energy into my studies.

Also as Johnny Berba said the first step is get the **** out of the house, even if you don't approach anybody or talk to anybody as you go out you still succeeded, because the more you sit in your house the more you'll get in your head

 

[thunder_god]

week 17 day 2: OMG I can't believe I followed advice from these so called rsd inner circle members. I was referred by another inner circle member to another wannable pua guy. The way my wing referred to this guy was a "legend". After what happened on thursday, I was in a very emotional and vulnerable state and couldn't think clearly. My other wingman who always calls me I just found out today is a complete ****ing idiot but I'll talk about him in a little bit. So after what happened on thursday night, I basically begged this guy who was a "legend" to help me become great with women and to wing with me and show me the ropes. He basically told me I could make my oneitis into a **** buddy. So on friday afternoon, I got a text from my oneitis asking me "how was croc rock last night?". At first, I wanted to just act normal like a human being and talk to her like that but my new wing the "legend" had different ideas. I was also with my beta acf friend at the time as well who I also realized today is another ****ing idiot. My new wing told me to text my oneitis this text:

me: y-- -r- s-xy. Would you like to buy a vowel?

I was very hesitant to send such a stupid text and asked my buddy who was sitting beside me if it was a good idea. This ****ing idiot tells me its good and that I should flirt with her. What kind of an idiot says this is a good text? I was even more of an idiot to agree to send it. I should have just had a normal conversation with her and then ask her out. Anyways I sent it, and she didn't reply back until 30 minutes.

her: e
her: where did you get that line from

I didn't see the "e" so I ****ed up and just told my new wing that she said "where did you get that line from", so we spend minutes trying to figure out how to answer back. He told me to send "what vowel would you like to buy?".
So we sent her that text. She replied back 7 hrs later "I like to take things slow, so I'll buy a vowel". She actually was going away to the cottage for the weekend so it was a bad idea overall to text her that. She never replied back. So this genius tells me today when I went to sarge with him to send her some bull$hit text :I think you're as sweet as a chocolate layer cake. Probably cause you contain eggs and milk, just like the cake. When I read that $hit, I was like OMG what the **** have I gotten myself into? Why the hell did I listen to this nutjob? He showed me two girls who he had sent that text told and one literally told him to F off while another didn't really respond to it. He thought it was a great text. I knew he was delusional. I didn't go through with that text.

I just sent her a normal text asking her how was the cottage. She responded back fairly quickly with three texts and then he convinced me to send her some bull**** text about the party but talking about her grabbing my ass. So I sent her the following:

me: so did you have fun on friday?
me: grabbing my ass?
her: ??
her: I did what
me: it's ok, I won't tell anyone
her: When?
her: I don't even remember that
her: lol
me: ya that's bc u have poor memory
her: Or I forget the things that don't matter to me

That last reply back, I thought was very ****y and rude, and I knew it was a **** test so I knew I had to comeback with someone witty and strong. My new wing kept on trying to convince me to text back "your flirting skills need work" but I didn't like that. I texted another one from a different wing and he told me to text"
dat ass tho...Just keep ur hands off the merchandise next time"

and thats what I decided to use. I originally didn't want to keep on pushing it with these commends but that muther****er new wing kept on insisting I did it even though I just wanted to get to the point and ask her out. She stopped replying after that. I knew at this point I had ****ing blown it and made things weird and awkward. If I had only acted like a normal human being I would not have been in this mess. I also had called up my best buddy right before I sent her that text and this muther****er really let me down. Like I mean its one thing to be ignorant and not deliberately trying to screw you over but to know how to fix it for your best friend and just leave him hanging was a big slap in the face. He basically told me he wasn't going to help me and I need to do what I want to do and if I **** up then I **** up. I was so pissed off at his apathy that I hung up the call. He was the ****ing guy who got me into this mess, back in November when he convinced me to go after my oneitis, when I wanted to give up on her in mid december he told me to go after her, back in late march when I was on the verge of failing everything, he told me to go get myself friendzoned with her, and then when I was ready to move on with my life in mid june, he told me to answer her phone call which brought all these old emotions and drama back. Now for him to just turn me down like that was a huge blow to me and I don't think I can be friends with someone like that anymore. Now let's talk about my other wing who I referred to as an idiot. I had also called him up asking for what to reply back and you know what he said "*****, stop playing games!". I was like omg are you ****ing retarded or something in my head. Like seriously does he think that is a good reply back? It has quickly become apparent that I have been receiving the wrong dating advice from several ppl and I now need to be extremely wary of who I listen to. My new wing wants to meet up with me tomorrow to do some sarging but I am very hesitant to ever meetup with him again. First, today when I saw him in action, he got rejected extremely badly. He couldn't even get a few of the girls attention at all, which I have now pretty nailed down. His approaches were weak and sloppy. Lastly his text game was ****ing terrible. He seems to be in denial about his text game. So here I am right now, having tears drip down my eyes for being an idiot and listening to these fools and ****ing things up once again. I am very pissed off at myself for always making these stupid mistakes with my oneitis. Why the **** can't I just use my brain and understand women and respond to them well? You know they say things are suppose to get better, but so far, things have gotten worse. Now I am seriously considering not even winging with these guys from the rsd inner circle anymore. So far, I have been hugely disappointed with most of the members. Some of these guys are just downright weird and lack social intelligence and the thing is, they just don't get it. They think they are normal and are in denial. I thought I would have been able to find a guru to show me the ropes, instead I found a chump who's probably even worst then me when it comes to game even though he has spent years doing it.

Why must I continue to go through this torture and pain? I'm trying my best to go out every single day and put in time and effort, continuously getting rejected yet there seems like no hope for me. I always **** up and make stupid mistakes, in this case taking terrible advice from idiots.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Stop Crying So Damn Much, It's Very Unbecoming

He basically told me I could make my oneitis into a **** buddy.

Your "why," for embarking on this journey completely and totally f*cked up. You're doing all of this in the hopes that you'll eventually become attractive enough in ole girl's eyes so that she'll "discover," this new found love for thunder_god, y'all will start dating, get married, move to the suburbs of Toronto, have 2.5 kids, and a Jack Russell Terrier named Krypto.

Rex told your dumb ass a long time ago not to f*ck with old girl because if you do things will not go well for you. If you think your trippin' now, imagine what will happen if you were to f*ck this chick (and God forbid,) you were to get into a relationship with her. I can pretty much guarantee to that you that you will f*ck it up, royally. You don't have the experience, let alone the emotionally and mental stability to deal with, let alone handle this chick. Before you interact with ole girl again. You need to get some p*ussy under your belt. You need to have women chancing you and you need to stop crying so f*cking much. Really dude, stop that sh*t.

I got a text from my oneitis asking me "how was croc rock last night?".

For your own well being, tell your oneitis that you're "talking," to somebody and she doesn't like it when you talk to other chicks, then go NC on her until you get some p*ssy under your belt.

At first, I wanted to just act normal like a human being and talk to her like that but my new wing the "legend" had different ideas. I was also with my beta acf friend at the time as well who I also realized today is another ****ing idiot.

Again, Rex told you to stop f*cking with ole boy when it goes time to sarge. If he's f*cking you up in the Game, why are you consulting him for advice? Then having the nerve to get mad when that advice proves faulty. That's on you potna.

My new wing told me to text my oneitis this text:

me: y-- -r- s-xy. Would you like to buy a vowel?

Some dumb sh*t like that would probably work with a chick that you've already gotten to know carnally and you've already established yourself as having a off beat wacky personality.

I was very hesitant to send such a stupid text and asked my buddy who was sitting beside me if it was a good idea. This ****ing idiot tells me its good and that I should flirt with her.

If dude has proven himself to be time and time again to hinder your game, why are you sraging with him?

What kind of an idiot says this is a good text? I was even more of an idiot to agree to send it. I should have just had a normal conversation with her and then ask her out. Anyways I sent it, and she didn't reply back until 30 minutes.

As I said a long time ago, only use texting for logistical purposes as it pertains to a day. (E.g. Where are you? When will you be here? etc.)

I just sent her a normal text asking her how was the cottage. She responded back fairly quickly with three texts and then he convinced me to send her some bull**** text about the party but talking about her grabbing my ass. So I sent her the following:

me: so did you have fun on friday?
me: grabbing my ass?
her: ??
her: I did what
me: it's ok, I won't tell anyone
her: When?
her: I don't even remember that
her: lol
me: ya that's bc u have poor memory
her: Or I forget the things that don't matter to me

As of Wednesday, August 8, 2014, 10:18 A.M. Eastern Day Light Saving Time, thunder_god is to stop engaging in text conversations with women until further notice.

dat ass tho...Just keep ur hands off the merchandise next time"

You should have used that line. Or you should have told her, Come on, you're cute, but you're not cute enough to get away with that. You grabbed my ass and you know it. Or teased her about being so drunked that she just went on an ass grabbing tangent. When she denies it, you check her dumb ass about denying sh*t that happened.

and this muther****er really let me down.

You let yourself down by seeking the advice of people who can't relate to you or your struggle.

He basically told me he wasn't going to help me and I need to do what I want to do and if I **** up then I **** up.

He can't help you because he doesn't know how to help you. Also, he's right in that you know what you need to do and if you eff up, you eff up. Effing up is part of the process, effing helps you learn and aids you on your way to mastery.