Nutz
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This why I love the line "text me when you're on the way". That's how you know if she's flaking or not.Vlad the Impaler said:I think it's finally over... she hasn't shown up tonight and she was supposed to be here 2 hours ago.
I called her once and she bounced the call.... I spoke to her on the phone last night and she said she was coming.
I dont know what kind of sick game she is playing but this really is the last straw. She stood my ass up so she can go to hell and if I ever go back to her after this somebody better shoot me in the head.
I guess she could still show since it's only 9pm but I am not betting on it. Only a coward would make plans the night before and then not give any explanation for not showing up.
You make plans to do something, like meet at a venue. You make other plans with friends and say you might be going out with a chick, but if not you want to hang out or something. Then you go do what you planned with your friends (or double book with another HB). If she never text's you no sweat off your ass as you've already got stuff going on. If she does text then you let your boys know what's up and you have to split.
If she doesn't text, but does show and you're off doing something else, just remind her she was supposed to text you. Poof! Now the blame is shifted onto her for not following simple directions.
"Text me when you're on the way." is an excellent tool for helping mitigate flakes the night of. How I use it is when I set up the D2 or whatever it is, I text or call prior to the date and say "I have some errands to run. Text me when you're on the way and I'll head over." If you don't get a text then assume she's flaking and you go about your business.