Do you get mad when your plate tells you she is banging other guys?

[BlackJackal]

I would usually ask her to be exclusive since I like her alot, but even if I did that and she accepted I would be paranoid she is cheating.

We had plans for the morning and then she flaked to make it in the evening. We had plans for the 4th and she just tells me she cant hang out because her girlfriend just got dumped.

I know her past, and I know she has been slutty and she has low self esteem and she has been burned and hurt many times.

I got into the chat with her tonight and I really let her have it. It started out good and then I told her I can see right through her and her stupid games. I told her she doesnt need to ho herself out she is better than that. I asked her if she thinks her p/ssy is the only thing she thinks she is good for?

She has done nothing for me in 2 months except spread her legs. I asked her how can you expect me to give you a relationship when you are running around banging guys behind my back? I told her I care for her alot.

Then she said she has to go to bed. She bailed on the convo saying she's "not that type of girl and I'm sorry you think that" and she left without answering any of my questions. (typical).

The last thing she said to me was "f--- you"


What do you think about me confronting her like that?

Keep in mind this girl said she would marry me if I asked.

We got a Capt'n on deck. Listen man, the number one rule when dealing with a h0 is know you cant turn one into a housewife. Second of all, you're obviousely to sensitive and to grossed out to play this type of game.

Third, you're actually taking this girls words serious as if they have any real merit. Thats gonna Fvck you up in the long run. You watch what women do. Dont worry about what they say cause they just love the sound of their own voice. If she acts like a h0, you treat her like one. Otherwise you'll get treated.

 

[slaog]

Vlad, she sounds like a low quality wh*re. If you did get into a relationship with her you couldn't trust this one. Not only is she fvcking other guys but she also lies to you alot.


It sounds like she is just using you. Get a grip of yourself and see her for what she is. You can do better. At least don't get emotionally involved with a plate.


Also start improving yourself so you have more value in womens eyes.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

OMG you guys wont believe this but we talked last night and this morning she texted me "I want to get married and have a baby I dont know if you are ready for that"


I texted her back.... "good luck with that you crazy b!tch"


WHEW dodged a bullet with this psycho... I have known her for less than 2 months. How messed up is this a girl talking about marriage and a baby after 2 months?

I dont even know her.

 

[combustiont]

Yeah. You'll want to avoid that.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Yeah. You'll want to avoid that.

The most scary part is she told me she is on birth control pills and I busted a nut in her a few times. I wonder if she was really on the pill? Be careful guys.

There are girls out there who want to get knocked up. Always wear a rubber. I was lucky this time.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

I know her past, and I know she has been slutty and she has low self esteem and she has been burned and hurt many times.

This should make her nothing more than @ss to you....unless of course you enjoy torturing yourself...

I got into the chat with her tonight and I really let her have it. It started out good and then I told her I can see right through her and her stupid games. I told her she doesnt need to ho herself out she is better than that. I asked her if she thinks her p/ssy is the only thing she thinks she is good for?

Bad move.... your showing her that you can't control your emotions

She has done nothing for me in 2 months except spread her legs. I asked her how can you expect me to give you a relationship when you are running around banging guys behind my back? I told her I care for her alot.

See above

Then she said she has to go to bed. She bailed on the convo saying she's "not that type of girl and I'm sorry you think that" and she left without answering any of my questions. (typical).

Of course she's gonna say that.... what girl is going to flat out tell you that she's a w-hore

The last thing she said to me was "f--- you"


What do you think about me confronting her like that?

You needed to emotionally decompress from this chick.... the fact that I'm hearing you say that you want an exclusive relationship with a chick with a boat-load of issues is more telling into your own insecurities in yourself.

Work on yourself first.... plate spinning will come naturally when you know who you are and what you want..



Keep in mind this girl said she would marry me if I asked.

DJ 101: NEVER LISTEN TO WHAT A GIRL SAYS...FOR THE TRUTH WATCH WHAT SHE DOES..

PIMP

 

[TizZle]

1. Never ask a girl to become exclusive. You are the fvcking king of the jungle. ACT LIKE IT.

2. You care more than she does. She knows it. YOU LOST.

3. Next time a girl tells you she's banging other guys say something along the lines of, "So? I'm single also" say it confident with a smile.

4. If you're only banging one girl at a time learn to keep your feelings in check. DO NOT. I REPEAT DO NOT LET EMOTIONS DEVELOP until she is wrapped around your finger. And even then it's probably a bad idea.

 

[amoka]

OMG you guys wont believe this but we talked last night and this morning she texted me "I want to get married and have a baby I dont know if you are ready for that"


I texted her back.... "good luck with that you crazy b!tch"


WHEW dodged a bullet with this psycho... I have known her for less than 2 months. How messed up is this a girl talking about marriage and a baby after 2 months?

I dont even know her.

Lol.... ain't you lucky? Let the other guy deal with her....

 

[ketostix]

OMG you guys wont believe this but we talked last night and this morning she texted me "I want to get married and have a baby I dont know if you are ready for that"


I texted her back.... "good luck with that you crazy b!tch"


WHEW dodged a bullet with this psycho... I have known her for less than 2 months. How messed up is this a girl talking about marriage and a baby after 2 months?

I dont even know her.

You actually said "good luck with that you crazy b1tch". Lol you been complaining about this woman not wanting to be exclusive and when she says she's looking to get exclusive as it gets you don't want it now. Maybe it's time you did get married and have a kid?

Nah but seriously I think you are taking her too much at her word. What do we say, never listen to anything a woman says only how she behaves. Maybe she's just trying to see if you will acccept her frame of getting married and having a child. And she might not even have any intentions of doing so at least with you and right now. You know, she's throwing a hoop out there for you to jump strictly for her own gratification and security and when you jump it she gets what she wanted and you lose all value. You telling her no I think was the right answer.

 

[jafyk]

I think she might be trying to scare you off and she succeeded, lol.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

You actually said "good luck with that you crazy b1tch". Lol you been complaining about this woman not wanting to be exclusive and when she says she's looking to get exclusive as it gets you don't want it now. Maybe it's time you did get married and have a kid?

Nah but seriously I think you are taking her too much at her word. What do we say, never listen to anything a woman says only how she behaves. Maybe she's just trying to see if you will acccept her frame of getting married and having a child. And she might not even have any intentions of doing so at least with you and right now. You know, she's throwing a hoop out there for you to jump strictly for her own gratification and security and when you jump it she gets what she wanted and you lose all value. You telling her no I think was the right answer.

I'm so screwed. I felt bad about what I said so I tried to apologize to her last night and she is back to giving me the silent treatment. I tried to call a couple times and she nexted the call on the first ring. Then I got drunk and sent her like 10 unanswered texts.

This woman is scary and dangerous. Talking about wanting to get preggo and married and she was begging me to bang her with the condom off.

I need to stay away... far away... this is crazy right? Talk some sense into me. This is driving me insane.

Oh yeah, she is bragging about being an x player in her profile now. She is a player alright!

 

[horaholic]

lose her number and find another one, or two. Thats all you can do, and nothing more needs to be said.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

lose her number and find another one, or two. Thats all you can do, and nothing more needs to be said.

Aint that the truth! She broke her silent treatment this morning and texted me some BS about being at work.

I'm PRETTY SURE I remember her telling me she is off today... hmmmmmmmm

I screwed with her and told her I'm getting ready for a hot date with a horny girl I met. She got all bent out of shape and started replyling like she's mad.

I told her it's a joke and I have no date. I told her if she wants to talk I'll give it a few days and then we can go our seperate ways.

I have been a fool and fell for this one and I never should have let the situation get like this. Lesson learned.

 

[BlackJackal]

I'm so screwed. I felt bad about what I said so I tried to apologize to her last night and she is back to giving me the silent treatment. I tried to call a couple times and she nexted the call on the first ring. Then I got drunk and sent her like 10 unanswered texts.

This woman is scary and dangerous. Talking about wanting to get preggo and married and she was begging me to bang her with the condom off.

I need to stay away... far away... this is crazy right? Talk some sense into me. This is driving me insane.

Oh yeah, she is bragging about being an x player in her profile now. She is a player alright!

seriously dude would you just dead this drama already. Cut her off and let it be that. Getting rid of her number can shave off alot of relapse situations.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

seriously dude would you just dead this drama already. Cut her off and let it be that. Getting rid of her number can shave off alot of relapse situations.

I've been talking to some new girls and I feel a little better but I would be GREAT if I can score with one of them. I already deleted her # but I have it memorized by now.... so if I relapse and want to send a text I just fire off the digits from my memory. Don't you hate when that happens?

When we communicated this morning I told her that I will leave her alone and give this situation a few days to marinate and if she has anything she wants to talk about she needs to let me know.

If I dont hear from her in a couple days I know the answer.

Even though I feel like I want her to call me, I know deep down that she will be doing me a favor if she never calls me again.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

She cracked tonight! She apologized for banging another guy and she said she feels bad for cheating on me. I told her it wasn't cheating because I never told her I cared.

I told her now she knows, and it better not happen again or I will go and bang my ex who is begging for me to come back... ( I made this up) I made it up because you have to let the girl know you have options.

Then I told her I never go back to ex's and she needs to make sure she doesn't become one.

I won! Finally.

 

[Mr_rogers]

You haven't won... any sort of relationship with this girl is automatic lose for you. She's clearly ****ed in the head and might want you to get her pregnant or something. It's just not worth it. Avoid this woman at all costs.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

You haven't won... any sort of relationship with this girl is automatic lose for you. She's clearly ****ed in the head and might want you to get her pregnant or something. It's just not worth it. Avoid this woman at all costs.

Yes she is definitely BPD. I'm not going to get into that. I just need to make sure I wrap it up from now on.

Strangely, now that she is crawling back I have the urge to call some new girls up. My ego will be the death of me..... they tried to tell me but I didn't listen.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

She cracked tonight! She apologized for banging another guy and she said she feels bad for cheating on me. I told her it wasn't cheating because I never told her I cared.

I told her now she knows, and it better not happen again or I will go and bang my ex who is begging for me to come back... ( I made this up) I made it up because you have to let the girl know you have options.

Then I told her I never go back to ex's and she needs to make sure she doesn't become one.

I won! Finally.

You will be crying back to us in less than 48 hours....




PIMP

 

[shaunuk]

You're happy because she 'apologised' for shagging someone else?

Erm...

I know it's pvssy, but go find someone else who isn't fvcked up in the head, even if you do stay detached (which you're already not), she's still bad news for you.