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I can count the number of women who I had positive experiences with in the past and who were between the ages of 20-25. That number would probably be less than five. At the most, maybe four. And out of those four, many were women from foreign countries-the Caribbean, African, etc. The most positive experience I ever had was with a 29 year old woman. I met her at a mall and I was physically attracted to her. I talked to her and persuaded her to give me her number, although she did mention that a lot of the guys she'd met in the past didn't call her when she gave her number out. At the time, I was 27. She was a teacher, and it felt good for once to come across a woman in that age group with whom I could have an intellectual discussion.
You guys need to look at the whole picture here. Could location be part of the reason why I haven't had the best experiences with most women 20-25 especially? Perhaps...I'm not sure, but I doubt it. I live in Philadelphia and although it's called the City of Brotherly Love, people can be very rude. But that's not an excuse because I've experienced the same sort of crap with women in the same age group in other cities. If a woman doesn't appreciate being approached with class and respect, that's her problem. I don't have a rude bone in me, so if the women I have met in the past have preferred men who talk to them as if they are sluts and sex objects and that's what they want to hear, more power to them as well. The irony in all of this is that most of these women, after they get used for sex and abused multiple times and become tired goods, many start looking for men like me to settle down with and be fathers to their children. Why in the world would I want to settle down with such women then?
If you grow up not feeling accepted by many women in your age group and during your early to mid-twenties in college you were often passed over for the so-called thugs and athletes and the supposed rebels who could barely write a paper or construct a sentence, those events are gonna impact your life somehow. Dating in this country is so superficial and that is unfortunate. There are people like me out there who would appreciate simply being accepted for who we truly are as people. I'm at an age where I can't be spending my time worrying about a 23-25 year old woman for example complaining that "she didn't like my game." Give me a break. I agree with the poster who did say that dating is frustrating. And it is certainly unfair, because it isn't fair to everyone. It's just amazing to me that these days, many of these so-called HBs or hot, younger women who normally didn't give me the time of day in the past give me so much attention once I walk into a room, a mall, a store, etc., and even when they are with their boyfriends. If I hadn't worked as hard as I have to improve on my physical build, would they have been interested in me under normal circumstances? Absolutely not. Now all of a sudden, they look at me as if they are hypnotized. They think I should talk to them because now they perceive me as this muscular dude. People need to learn to be humble. No matter how pretty or handsome a woman or man maybe, that doesn't give you the reason to treat people like sh-t. It's not right.
So guys, all I'm asking for is that you give me a break with attempting to throw the "lack of confidence" label on me, ok? Because that has absolutely nothing to do with this post. When I feel attracted to a woman, I go right up and talk to her. What I'm saying however, is that women in their early twenties are no longer my priority. I'm tired of the games, tired of all the superficiality and shallowness, and I just want a mate who is normal. Let the superficial be with the superficial. I am not one of them. If a woman doesn't appreciate a guy who can have an intellectually stimulating conversation and finds him unattractive because he doesn't come across as a rough neck, I'm definitely not the kind og guy for her, and I have no regrets. Absoultely none.
I can count the number of women who I had positive experiences with in the past and who were between the ages of 20-25. That number would probably be less than five. At the most, maybe four. And out of those four, many were women from foreign countries-the Caribbean, African, etc. The most positive experience I ever had was with a 29 year old woman. I met her at a mall and I was physically attracted to her. I talked to her and persuaded her to give me her number, although she did mention that a lot of the guys she'd met in the past didn't call her when she gave her number out. At the time, I was 27. She was a teacher, and it felt good for once to come across a woman in that age group with whom I could have an intellectual discussion.
You guys need to look at the whole picture here. Could location be part of the reason why I haven't had the best experiences with most women 20-25 especially? Perhaps...I'm not sure, but I doubt it. I live in Philadelphia and although it's called the City of Brotherly Love, people can be very rude. But that's not an excuse because I've experienced the same sort of crap with women in the same age group in other cities. If a woman doesn't appreciate being approached with class and respect, that's her problem. I don't have a rude bone in me, so if the women I have met in the past have preferred men who talk to them as if they are sluts and sex objects and that's what they want to hear, more power to them as well. The irony in all of this is that most of these women, after they get used for sex and abused multiple times and become tired goods, many start looking for men like me to settle down with and be fathers to their children. Why in the world would I want to settle down with such women then?
If you grow up not feeling accepted by many women in your age group and during your early to mid-twenties in college you were often passed over for the so-called thugs and athletes and the supposed rebels who could barely write a paper or construct a sentence, those events are gonna impact your life somehow. Dating in this country is so superficial and that is unfortunate. There are people like me out there who would appreciate simply being accepted for who we truly are as people. I'm at an age where I can't be spending my time worrying about a 23-25 year old woman for example complaining that "she didn't like my game." Give me a break. I agree with the poster who did say that dating is frustrating. And it is certainly unfair, because it isn't fair to everyone. It's just amazing to me that these days, many of these so-called HBs or hot, younger women who normally didn't give me the time of day in the past give me so much attention once I walk into a room, a mall, a store, etc., and even when they are with their boyfriends. If I hadn't worked as hard as I have to improve on my physical build, would they have been interested in me under normal circumstances? Absolutely not. Now all of a sudden, they look at me as if they are hypnotized. They think I should talk to them because now they perceive me as this muscular dude. People need to learn to be humble. No matter how pretty or handsome a woman or man maybe, that doesn't give you the reason to treat people like sh-t. It's not right.
So guys, all I'm asking for is that you give me a break with attempting to throw the "lack of confidence" label on me, ok? Because that has absolutely nothing to do with this post. When I feel attracted to a woman, I go right up and talk to her. What I'm saying however, is that women in their early twenties are no longer my priority. I'm tired of the games, tired of all the superficiality and shallowness, and I just want a mate who is normal. Let the superficial be with the superficial. I am not one of them. If a woman doesn't appreciate a guy who can have an intellectually stimulating conversation and finds him unattractive because he doesn't come across as a rough neck, I'm definitely not the kind og guy for her, and I have no regrets. Absoultely none.
), negative experience. Jeez, ya think? ALL the younger women? Positive experiences.