Diary of a Seducer: Macallik's Approach Journal

[macallik]

Come on let's work it to the bone

My schedule has never been as packed in my life as recently. I am constantly interacting with people so I am not awkward or shy like I can be without constant interaction.

For example, at my old job, I've turned into that guy that has a personal saying/joke for like 10 different employees that gets a smile as soon as I step foot on the job. At my office admin class I'm the young buck that the teacher 'makes her wish she was 40 years younger' (well actually, now that I typed that out, I don't know if I should be citing that as an advantage in my social life, :\) At my new job, I'm the guy who few know much about and most want to know more about. They say your social skills are a muscle and mines have been doing extra sets in the gym.

However, this puts me in an awkward position...

On the one hand, not only am I more social but I am making decent money working a 60 hr/week between two jobs, especially in this economic climax. I am making money and as a result when/if I move away at the end of the summer, I can live much more comfortably knowing I sacrificed now. Ant and the grasshopper personified niggahh!

On the other hand, I have NO free time. I mean the people from my jobs are cool, but I aint tryina start no extended relationship with most of them outside of work. As for my life-long friends since elementary school, I only see them when I bump into them at the club. They don't even call to kick it coz they know I got a full schedule. If I plan on going away for an extended period of time I need more time with the people who mean something to me. I want to have fun with them and do alla those things that make for a really memorable summer.



Here is what my schedule looked like this past week fellas:

Monday
New job 9-5
Office Admin class 5:30 - 8:30

Tuesday
New job 9-5
Old job 5-10:30

Wednesday
New job 9-5
Office Admin class 5:30 - 8:30

Thursday
New job 9-5
Army 6:45-10:30

Friday
New job 9-5
Old job 5-2am

Saturday
Old job 5-11

Sunday
Relaxation day

Note: Weekdays start at 6:45am to make 9 am


Office Admin should be wrapping up this week thankfully and Army sometime next month. I don't know how much more I can take of my weekends being cut short due to work though...

 

[macallik]

Reading is Fundamental

Promise Me by Harlan Coben
Got this book from the co-worker who took me out to lunch on the first day. The book isn't a laugh a minute or as funny as a Mil Millington book, but it's still witty and funny. The protagonist, Myron Bolitar, is a spitting image of Hank Moody from Californication. The witty conversations, and pulling apart cliched phrases from the root and making something new and humorous out of it. Heck he even has a Charlie Runkle-esqe sidekick that keeps him in check.

The book is part of a 9 book series (book #9 was released this year and was on top of NY best sellers list I think) Definitely might catch up on this because the characters were enjoyable and the sidestories were just so random and weird that it makes perfect sense. There is a batman-esque rich man turned deadly assassin, an overweight former female wrestler turned sports agent who is an underground sex show dancer in her spare time, etc etc. Snowdog, you might like this book coz I remembered you said you like Californication as well.

 

[macallik]

As for my life, things are getting consistent. At my new job I have started acting like my normal C&F self and seeing the results I suppose. I remember I had this 30 something chick straddling my knee while she was on the phone and I was trying to will myself to not get a boner. She would have liked it I think but I aint into her and it would have made things hella awkward.

I still think I might need to turn the corner so that I am not just some dude everyone flirts with and become a viable option. There is all the ass spanking and the need to touch me whenever they walk by, but they do that to 1-2 of the loser dudes who look good, so that is no measuring pole. It's not even that I like the girls although I would fvck 1-2 and let a 3rd give me head. I guess I just want to practice on the chicks? I don't even know to tell you the truth. Maybe my ego needs stroking because I have no plates.

Yes, I have no plates. I lost my phone and decided then and there that Hara not making time for me was a tell-tale sign of loss of attraction so I have had minimal/no contact since the weekend. I feel like I am at a crossroad that I have been at multiple times in my relationship life. The options, as usual, are to:

1)Try and reel her back in and work on my game

or

2)Cut her off and move on

The thing is, If I try to do #1 then I can't do #2. But I can see #2 leading to #1 and there is no opportunity cost. The question is am I subconsciously doing #2 to save myself from rejection? Regardless of which I choose, if I had more plates, I could be doing both at the same time.

 

[macallik]

Life's a Beach

Summer is just around the bend and I am fast on its heels. Saturday night started off crappy enough. Working at the restaurant I had to stay a couple hours later than expected. Sometimes the smallest thing can throw your night off so having to show up 2-3 hours late to the party looked like a definite dealbreaker.

Things were different that day though. All of my closest friends since elementary school are either back from university for the summer or just visiting for a week and so the clique was in full effect.

When I get there, all of my friends are drunk pretty much I know it was gonna be a good night. A couple of them take me to get some drinks and one of my friends is at the bar grinding on a black latina looking chick like he never heard of a dancefloor, lol.

The feel of the outdoor club was real relaxed and summery. No mean mugging and grilling, tons of girls and copious amounts of alcohol. This could be because of how lackidasical everything seems in the summer or it could be due to the ridiculous police presence thanks to the 3-4 drive-bys this weekend, smh.

Whatever, no-one I know got shot so Im just out to have a good time. So with a Heineken in one hand and a ****spur and Ale in the other, I make way for the dancefloor. The guy to girl ratio is surprisingly in my favor so I do my regular tactic and find somewhere heavily situated with girls and start busting moves, pausing every now and then to see who's interest has possibly been piqued.

One girl does the old faithful and dances right in front of me while glances around and looking in my general direction every now and then. It's really guess work trying to figure out if a girl is really into you or just is dancing close to you coz there is no space but when I'm feeling good, I assume the former.

I commence the grinding which last for like a minute before she stops dancing.

Macallik: Hey whats up? Why ya stop dancing???
Portia: When you were dancing your momentum pushed me into that girl's butt
Macallik: hey it's not my fault if you don't like the girl on girl action
Portia: *playful punch*


Then there was a little lull and I just stand there for a sec and then start talking to my friend nearby. Portia disappears and I bust some dance moves, grinding with random girls here and there. I even got the sensually-deprived, yet socially-significant 'grind-sandwhich' aka a girl grinding me from the back and the front.

During one of my solo dancing times, ANOTHER girl does the ever-popular stand right in front of my and sway from side to side while looking back subtlely every now and then. However I had a feeling this girly wanted to sample the goods. She has seen me macking quite a bit in the past month or two.

She was in my sociology class but I never mentioned her coz she sits on the other side of the class room, she seen me kickin it wit Hara in class, in the club and random spots, she seen me studyin wit Robin in the library and shootin the sh!t with random chicks all over the place. She got a cute face, a nose piercing that shows she is a lil on the wild side or has probably live away for a bit coz nose piercings aren't really 'in' for the black girls I frequent. Tongue piercing yes, but not so much the nose.

So I hop on her and start the legal molestation that they call grinding. She looks back:

Macallik: Peeedraaaaaa!
Pedra: Hey *turns back and keeps grinding*
Macallik: *keeps grinding as well*

Then literally 15 seconds into the dancing and when I say literally, I mean it, this is not some hyperbole fellas:

*some nigga rolls up on me*
Random dude: nah playa... Nah.

then he grips up Pedra and relocates like 15 feet away from me.

LOL... wtf? He definitely aint the boyfriend if she dancing with random cats like me at the club. That's why I don't take girls I aint official with to the club, too much potential for drama and a chick to act up.

So they relocate just outside my perpipheral view but if I turn I can still see them. She just stands with ole dude for the rest of the night while I continue with my shennanigans so she got a front row seat to me working the field regardless. If I see her again I'll try and re-engage her.

There is this next girl that is getting jocked hard by the fellas but is giving me a little eye contact. She is tall and slender, got that modelesque body and the face is decent although there are prettier girls in the club, something about her just says model. I am standing there kicking it wit my boy and there comes a point where she is walking by me kinda slow so I lightly grab her by the arm and say that first thing that comes to mind.

macallik: Hey whats up. You got an America's Next Top Model vibe about you. You watch that show?
Raychel: Oh yea thanks, I watch it from time to time.

So we are talking for a minute or so before she asks:
Raychel: So do you or your friend *insert a look @ my friend as if she was checking him out* have any cigarettes?

Now I can take a hint, I just assumed she was digging him.

macallik: Nah, I don't have one but my boy here might. *ejects*

A couple minutes and many drunken dance moves later, Portia is back in the area and kinda orbiting around. There are some dudes nearby that I aint sure she knows or not so I take a step back and one of em goes in and hollers. He gets shut down so after he clears out I go back in.

Macallik: Normally I would come back and grind witchu sommore but how bout we go somewhere and talk.
Portia: No thats alright, I got my drink and all so I wanna stay here.

So we have a decent conversation on the dancefloor, lasting like 5-10 minutes. She is 18 and seems like quality from what I could tell in our conversation. Turns out she works at a children's library, reads a decent amount and doesn't have kids. I almost proposed to her on the dancefloor.

Okay maybe not but she definitely sounded plate worthy from that interaction.

During me and Portia's conversation, one of the girls from my new job walked by and went out of her way to get my attention by reaching around some people and hitting me as she walked by. When there was the slightest lull in my convo with Portia, I just peeled off and went to the work girl and chatted with her for a couple minutes. She was sitting by the stage, isolated and looking cute so it was irresistable to try and up my social status even though I aint really interested in her as a plate. However, when I came back Portia was MIA. I think I was in the process of blowing myself out here.

 

[macallik]

So, I am standing there with my boy again a couple minutes later and I asked him how things went with Raychel. He said she asked if he had a cigarette and he said no and bounced. Lol wtf, talk about Holy Open 3's batman.

My boy disappears and so I am solo for a bit and Raychel is giving me the eye again while some other dude is tryina lay some game down. I go in, chat for a second or two, bust on her for being so popular with the fellas and then go for the # close. She says she doesn't cell phone or a house phone but has facebook. Sounds like a rejection but she did sound pretty sincere when she said it. I take it and then tell her I don't want to interrupt the line of guys trying to get with her for too long and eject.

Later on I see the girl I work with chatting with two girls that look cute so I go in and ask to be introduced. So as the work girl is saying their names for the introduction they just up and leave. Ouch. I go to put my boy on the work girl and she bounces to talk to this other guy. Where are these people's manners?!?! lol.

After this, I scope the scene, hit the bar, chill with the fellas, you know the dealio. After a half an hour or so I end up back in my regular spot and see Portia nearby but not as close to my previous spot as she was the previous times.

Macallik: You know it's a little earlier in the relationship to have me chasing you down like this.
Portia: What relationship? I got a boyfriend.
Macallik: haha that's cool, I don't care.
Portia: *playful punch* Haha

We are talking and one of the chicks who was involved in my 'grind-sandwhich' gives me the eye and I hop on her like mid-sentence and start dancing with her. Portia disappears and I don't see her again for the rest of the night. I went for the # close earlier and she said she doesn't have a cell phone but she does have a fb account. She told me how her Dad pays her phone bill and she ran it up to high and he disconnected it.

Either I met two chicks that don't have cell phones or 'add me to facebook' is the new rejection line for the summer of 2009 :\

I definetly think I didn't help myself with Portia but I was just so drunk and was getting signals from so many girls that I didn't exercise self control.

 

[macallik]

Plate Report: Hara

The course of action I ended up taking for Hara was cutting off contact while I got some new plates. Once I lost my phone last weekend, I told her via facebook so she re-gave me her phone number to call but I hadn't reinitated since. She went a week without finding time for me so I can go a week without contact just to keep her on her toes and miss me a lil. She got other plates I'm sure, but I'm kind of amazing so fvck them other niggas.

I saw her out Friday night but I didn't know the course of action to take with her so after saying Hey to her, I acted like I didn't see her for the rest of the night. As it turns out that night I happened to bump into some of the female staff from my restaurant job so I kicked with them all night.

One chick likes me for sure but isn't my type. The others just love attention and flirting like most restaurant servers so I just used em all for social proof. I talked to the one that liked me most of the night but when I was relaxing later on another one like put her arm around me and just chilled for 10 minutes talking. Hara was never like right next to me but she was in viewing distance for parts of the night so I'm sure she saw me talking to someone during the night.

Also towards the end of the night I bumped into Aries and shot the sh!t with her. She had fake hair on and looked a little better than normal but still not very attractive or worth anything more than a nut in my eyes. I think the girl she was with kinda runs in Hara's circle so word probably got back to her as well.

So anyways fastforward a bit My mom lent me her phone on Saturday. I put in the new sim card so I got the same number but don't know any of the numbers that call me. On Sunday, while recovering from Saturday night with a lovely, middle-of-the-afternoon nap I get a call. The phone is about to go to voicemail when I pick it up. There is a muffled sound in the background and then the person hangs up. Weird.

A couple hours later I'm bored and so I go on the internet and start adding #s to my sim card. I get to Hara's digits and her # is the # that hung up on me. So now she knows my phone is reactivated and is probably wondering if it was ever disconnected or if I'm just dodging her ass.

I am trying not to be an ******* nowadays so I text her back instead of waiting to bump into her again and telling her my phone is reconnected. We text back and forth and then she gives me a call and we chat for a bit.

Her interest has definitely been piqued again. I don't know what I did to have it drop off, maybe it was lack of plates but I won't do it again. It was crazy coz for a second, the way I was feeling I wanted to spend tons of time with her and find out all about her. I still want to do that but now I can take it or leave it.

Timing is essential in a relationship. It's like a dance where the wrong move at the wrong time throws the entire sequence off. Sometimes absence makes the heart grow stronger because you get to idealize about the person and they aren't there to contradict you but other times... those other times it is a chance to look at the situation from a detached perspective and regain your bearings.

 

[Solomon]

Here is what my schedule looked like this past week fellas:

Monday
New job 9-5
Office Admin class 5:30 - 8:30

Tuesday
New job 9-5
Old job 5-10:30

Wednesday
New job 9-5
Office Admin class 5:30 - 8:30

Thursday
New job 9-5
Army 6:45-10:30

Friday
New job 9-5
Old job 5-2am

Saturday
Old job 5-11

Sunday
Relaxation day

Note: Weekdays start at 6:45am to make 9 am

Dawg I fel you on the schedule, it makes it hard to go out, I work in sales, and another job part time, so like I might work 2:30-11 then 11-7, 15 hours straight, its rough as hell, I remember what motivated me was just making money and then I would blow it going out, these days though I rather set it aside so i can use it for a greater purpose

Keep grinding though Macallik yo on the paper chase

 

[macallik]

Potential Plate Report: Portia

Alright so she definitely didn't add me to facebook. I figured its time to be a persistent dude and make the h0 say no. I hit her with another facebook message that goes like this.

By now don’t look like you just haven’t gotten around to adding me :-( I can’t say I blame you after how I was acting that night. I had too much to drink and was acting pretty untidy.

Even drunk and ‘twerking’ as one of my co-workers referred to me that night, i still noticed that you weren’t the kinda girl I meet every day. I remember you said that you were studying Business Technology and the drunken me was wondering what the hell that was. Now that I am sober... well I still don’t know what that is but it sounds cool and book-smart so props to you.

Speaking of books I went to the Kids Library for the first time in yeaaaars the other day and had a mini-flashback when I saw the fishtank leading to the lil small room. I remembered thinking I was cheating the system by playing (what, in hindsight, were very educational) videogames on those old computers they used to have haha. I know I’m trying to show you the softer, less azzhole-ish side of me, but hardcore gangsta stuff like that is just part of who I am so I figured I’d let you know now, lol.

Oh and in case you’re wondering, me going to the kiddie library for the 1st time in like a decade had nothing to do with me hoping to ‘randomly’ and ever-so-smoothly bump into a girl I met at the club haha. I recently happened to rekindle my love for books with pictures on every page and little/no words.

But ya, I said my part. It’s weird enough admitting I tried to bump into you. I don’t need to write some 4 page Shakespearean sonnet to you. My bad about acting all drunk n silly.

P.S. I’m not gonna message u on facebook every two weeks or casually visit the kid library weekly, lol. If you don’t respond here, I can take a hint. I just figured it was worth a shot to try and explain myself and try n get a 2nd chance to make a 1st impression.


P.P.S. I still don’t care if you have a boyfriend though

 

[macallik]

To which she finally replied:

Iread ya 6 page letter lol good for a laugh cuz I don't remember sayin all dat.. But I n my boyfriend both care that I have a man so there won't b no funny business on dis here fb n don't ask for d cell number cuz its unavalible indefinatly but u seem like cool people so u have been added

To me the response in itself shows that there is a shot. An uninterested party would or rather should not respond in my opinion. I'm working with a crack of daylight but hey that's all Kobe needs when he on point so I just gotta give it my best shot.

I'll just holler if I see her again and remember her face when I'm out and about. She had this lenghty diatribe on facebook about how she almost lost her boyfriend and half of her pics are wit dude so I aint tryina break up a happy home. Not that I got anything against doing that but she seems like quality so I'll let her be. If she shows some more signs though I'm gunning for her though.

 

[daygameguy]

Dude this last girl sounds kind of wierd. Don't waste too much effort on her. Put that effort into some other girls and talk to her about other girls.. it maybe just something random.. but she will see that you have crossed her out from your list.. heck go ahead and take advice from her about your relationships with other girls...

In my opinion you have a potential social circle game in your hands.. listen to AFC adam about it.. check out the under 21 convention free day 2 video.

By the way, props for your persistent effort. Good luck!

 

[macallik]

hey what up daygameguy. thanks for dropping a line. I think the girl will notice me more if I re-engaged her would be to focus all of my attention on her and go for a connection instead of trying to pump her with displays of high value such as social proof or ****iness. But yea, i'll probably let her fizzle out. Not coz its too much effort but just because I doubt facebook hollering will turn the tide in my favour really based on where I stand.

 

[macallik]

Plate Report: Shakina

Alright so last weekend I'm in the club, posted up. I just finished up at my restaurant job so i'm feeling good. Not finished as in another day at the rat race but completely finished as in, bring in your uniform and your key.

I gave my two weeks notice two weeks earlier after a rather sh!tty paycheck and just not having enough free time during the weekends. So back to the current, past night I was explaining. I was pretty damn good coz A) I' felt a weight being released only having one job B) they gave me a mini bottle of hypnotiq as a parting gift and C) I helped myself to much much more liquor when no-one was looking.

So I'm in the club and a group of four girls step in the spot. One of them breaks off from the group, makes eye contact as says hello as she walks by. hmmmm

Later on she walks by again, and this time ask for a lighter. All systems go.

I ask her what for and she says so she can spark. i ask cigarettes or weed and she says the latter.

A little thing about me and weed. I very rarely smoke weed. Like less than 15 times in my life I'd guess which is saying a lot considering I got 3 years of university under my belt. I adhere to a strict code when it comes to weed. I never buy it and if someone asks me I always say no.

If they ask me twice I hesistate and if they ask again, I usually get pretty high, but hey, that tactic has kept me from becoming a pothead thus far so don't knock it.

Anyways, the chick asked three times so I smoked with her on the porch, got talked a bit got the digits and bounced. Texted a couple times since then but she has been pretty indifferent conversation wise. Has a kid and has i think 11 brothers and sisters of her own...

Yea, not marriage material but maybe she's worth a fvck? I feel ready to fvck like a pornh start after all these damn kegels. Honestly, kegels are the sh!t, my days of picturing castration and Rosie O'Donnell during sex are almost completely behind me i'm assuming. Doing kegels is like having someone cut off the out of control, 'hope I don't climax any second now' part of sex long enough for you to do some damage.

 

[macallik]

Top 10 things working at a restaurant has taught me:

10: If you are an alcoholic, maybe bartending isn't the best job avaliable for you

9: That witty thing you said to your waiter that you say to every waiter. The guy before you said it already it was just as unfunny.

8: Don't be the last people in the restaurant. Unless you're the fvcking staff or fvcking the staff, get the fvck out when the lights come on or people start packing up. Just coz you don't have a life doesn't mean we don't either.

7: If you want to get paid lots of money and get lots of respect for probably the easiest job in the world... become a bartender. Seriously, even a monkey could pour shots although it wouldn't expect a tip afterwards...

6: The easiest way to get free drinks is to start a tab. Bartenders will likely comp you a drink or two if you are friendly enough

5: If you work when everyone else is partying, make sure the money they are paying you makes you want to party.

4: Can't think of any other things. I'm too lazy to scroll up and call it a top 6, plus that is just such an abstract number. Just imagine I said four more points and hit me with some rep points for my general amazing-ness

 

[macallik]

Been getting content with my situation with Hara and its a pretty sh!tty situation which makes it even worse. My schedule has been flipped on its head though. No more 2 jobs, no more office admin classes and no more army in about a week or two.

That leaves me with no more excuses...

 

[Solomon]

^^Does that mean you gonna step it up?

 

[macallik]

You know this man. I'm getting that hunger. It just set in that I'm gonna be out of here in a couple months and I needta wreak some havoc.


Bumped into Carrie at the library after work one day. I was there donwloading some music with their fast wi fi and she was there studying. I talked and had the most awkward conversation I've had sober in ages. It felt great though


Work is pretty much all gravy. All the girls hit me or tap me on the shoulder as they walk by and I catch a couple staring during the day. I got nicknames for em and they are makin em up for me. I'm gonna try and transistion into gettin mass social proof with em when I go out but its gonna be hard tagging along and not becoming a 5th wheel (or is it 3rd wheel? I'm having a brain fart). I'll keep yall updated.

 

[macallik]

It's a small world after all

Just a quick update on things coz none of this stuff is really worth going into detail with.

Was out a couple nights ago and bumped into Hara at the club with her guy friend she is always with. I act like I don't see em at first just so I can scope the club out on the whole. I head out on the patio and who should I spot other than Akilah with her friends... including the one I tried unsuccessfully to #close when Akilah was out of the country. D'oh

Akilah is drunk, and all over me. Her friend is in the background kinda c*ckblocking but not in a manner that is very forceful. Apparently she told Akilah that I kissed her or some sh!t? I wish, lol. What happened was I went for the digits after a lil convo and got shut doooown.

Anyways, I'm here with Akilah and I lost my phone with her digits a month or so ago so I get her digits before I head back inside. I find Hara and start bumping and grinding for a bit and then we stop and she starts dirty dancing with her guy friend.

I dunno if that was an attempt to make me jealous but fvck it. Not that night. Akilah had relocated on the dancefloor so I peeled off onto her and started heavy... HEAVY grinding with her against the wall. Some making out, some neck sucking, alla that good stuff in clear view. Do. Not. Fvck. with. me.

I come back to Hara eventually and she does that subtle, poking around the situation that people do when they are in undefined relationships. We just chill for a couple seconds before her female friend sees her talking to me after I almost had a sexual eruption in the corner of the dancefloor and yanks her out of the club.

End of the night comes and I come out the club and Akilah is getting hollered at so I kick it with Hara anyways even tho she is right in front of Akliah. I get nothing at the end of the night and go home.

Message Akilah on facebook. Nothing. Text message her... Nothing. Oh well, I'd be lying if I said I was concerned. I coulda fvcked her last year and didn't so not too concerned what happens between us.

 

[macallik]

It's a small world after all Pt:II

Went out last night, man on a mission. Grinded with at least 6-7 girls, maybe more. Went for the digits on a girl I had seen out earlier in the month. When I saw her previously, Hara was acting silly so when her attention went elsewhere, I started chatting up this girl and then when Hara reappeared it turned out she knew her and so I just didn't talk to her anymore.

When I saw her last night she (Zhane) actually came in my vicinity so I hopped on and grinded a bit before starting the convo. Got her laughing a couple times and went for the digits but she said she got a man but can add me on facebook.

Whatever. I tryina get my facebook pimping on point if nothing else than to return future profits for facebook game in the future. I can stand chicks on there that aren't gonna give me no puss as long as they look like they will to other chicks.

Bumped into Aries last night as well and got a couple dances in with her. She would still get fvcked but not much else. Got her number again since I lost my phone and texted her last night. No response. Don't care.

Oh, also last night, when last call finished and the people were filing out, I was posted up getting ready to go in and get digits from Aries when she was free. While I was waiting, who should come up next to me but Shay...

I guess you'll understand the conversation a little better if I told you what happened last week, so i'll backtrack to last week for a quicko:

I'm in the club and I see a buddy from army with Shay. I haven't had any progress with Shay in ages and it was a slow night so I figured why not go in just to pique her interest again.

Macallik: Hey what up army guy

*snip convo*

Macallik: Alright yeah man see ya later
Shay: You aint gonna say hello to me?
Macallik: I would but I can't remember your name
Army Guy: Oh sh!t! *Hi-5s me*

Yes that was pretty douchey, but it respiked her interest high enough in retrospect. Plus I honestly couldn't remember her name.



So anyways fastforward back to last night, I'm got the gangsta lean up against a pillar and she comes up:

Shay: Hey you remember my name yet?
Macallik: Err. it's on the tip of my toungue, I know it starts with an S... Dammit what is it.
Shay: It's Shay.
Macallik: Yea. Now can you remember MY name?
Shay: ....
Macallik: haha all this sh!t you've been giving me about forgetting your name and you can't even remember mines?
Shay: Hold on, I know it... it's...
Shay:... Macallik (I think she knew it all along, but I played along)
Macallik: Alright, yea you got it, haha. So how's it been?
Shay: Good *blah blah*
Macallik: Oh yea so who you here with?
Shay: Blah blah
Macallik: Oh cool. All this talk of names and I don't have your #. *whips out phone*
Shay: *puts digits in phone*
Shay: Alright I'm driving tonight.
Macallik: Ok ya, see ya later.


So i finally make it outside the club and just when I think I couldn't bump into anyone else I have already got a number from, I see Kariah, the chick who spotted me the weed at the club the other day. I'm posted up with some friend scoping the leg and just shooting the sh!t so I don't go in immediately.

I do see her facing my direction and looking my way so the balls in my court. I head her way and when I'm less than 15 feet away, my younger cousin who must've just turned 18 and just started clubbing just started clubbing pulls me to the side and just started talking to me. (At least I think she 18, I was dancing with one of the girls she came with and while I was talking to her while grinding I found out she was 17. Needless to say, the dancing stopped rather quickly) My younger cousin starts telling me we should go clubbing together. In my head I'm thinking hell to the no chick, but Kariah is in the background so I grab the digits just to look that much more pimp.


I finally head over to Kariah who is much more receptive. She says she saw me getting down all night but thought I was someone else. She seems like she jocking but she seems like kind of an attention wh0re when I saw her as well concerning guys attention so I didn't look into it too much. Texted her to see what she was doing later on and she was going home. Got her facebook address and will add her.


So I got a facebook of a girl I didn't know before as well as two facebooks of girls I knew but never added. Bricks in my palace I suppose. Aiming for better next time.

 

[macallik]

Went out last night after pregaming for a couple hours at my company picnic. Danced with a handful of girls again. My attempts at grinding are a whole lot more successful recently.

Had a couple conversations with the girls I was grinding on. The one worth noting started like this:

Gay dude: have You see Kara?
Macallik: Nah
Gay dude: (to girl) Have you seen Kara
Girl: Nah
Gay dude: OMG I love you *hugs girl*
Gay dude: (to me) Have you seen Kara?
Macallik: Nah, still haven't seen her dude.
Gay dude: Oh my God. I love you
Macallik: *stone faced look straight ahead*

*Gay dude leaves*

Macallik: (To girl) Hey I got a question for you.... Have you seen Kara????!?!?

*Laugh and talk about how weird that was.*

Then I ask her what her name is and shake her hand waaay too long. Then we see the gay dude saying the same thing he said to us to others.

Macallik: Wow... Well at least when he said he loved me, he meant it.
Rhiannon: haha
Macallik: I'm not the jealous type but he can't keep walking around telling people he loves them and expect me to be fine with it.

A couple minutes later she starts swaying hard so i take it as a sign to dance. Grinded for a bit and then ejected with:

Macallik: So have you see Kara yet?
Rhiannon: nope
Macallik: alright give me your number and I'll call you if I see her
Rhiannon: I haven't seen her (I think she misheard me here)
Macallik: Oh, just give me your number! *whips out phone and gets digits*

Unfortunately, I saw her later in the night with Aries. Looks like they are friends. Imma give Rhiannon a call later and hopefully Aries aint on the sideline c@ckblocking.




At the end of the night, I was grinding on another girl and she was into it. I didn't get a chance to talk to her but she had her phone out so fvck it

Macallik: Hey I noticed your phone is out so why not... What's your phone #?
Chick: Ok how bout I get yours
Macallik: Sure its..
Chick: ..Wait gimmie a sec, lemme put it in
Macallik: OK its... *gives out #*
Chick: OK and whats your name?
Macallik: Macallik... and don't call too late *ejects*


Don't expect much from that girl. No rapport at all but even if I only have a 5% chance its better than a 0% chance. I'm starting to get a little rhythm going for me now, just a matter of time til the level of success and consistency increases even further

 

[macallik]

Went out Monday. Grinded on a couple girls. Got digits from one girl but she turned out to be 16 so i deleted it shortly thereafter.

Texted Rhiannon a bit yesterday. Turns out she is 17 but going 18 shortly and already did a year of college so fvck it, I'll spin her . The club scene is filled with too much jailbait here though I'm noticing. At 22 I had to force myself to chase 18 year olds and now the age range seems to be dropping for some reason :\

I called her around 10:30 at night and talked for about 10 minutes. I was kinda nervous but I did okay. She is a intelligient sounding girl thus far.