feminist, NO, seeing everyone else as feminine, YES.
If a man is ok with his (assuming) future wife having ridden the c0ck carousel several times before settling with her man at the "just in time" age of 30+, then his actions say that he is ok with a woman having her cake and eating it too. I propose that no man of value will be ok with this.
A man of value will do what is in his best interest and to me that is finding a woman who's first interest is to find a good man and building a family with him.
Let them pay the consequences of their actions, because ultimately, they are counting on you to not judge their past and to accept the used up vag they have to offer.
The more that people are "ok" with this sort of action from women, the more it will happen. Have standards.
Let me guess...your standards are a 26 year old virgin who will be sugar, spice and everything nice. She will be a perfect angel that will do no wrong and give you the perfect life with the perfect family.
If a man is ok with his (assuming) future wife having ridden the c0ck carousel several times before settling with her man at the "just in time" age of 30+, then his actions say that he is ok with a woman having her cake and eating it too.
Dude if you really feel like this you can sit on a mountain side somewhere all alone playing with yourself because women are people and like MOST people women enjoy sex and they will have sex with as many men as they want whether you like it or not.
Just my opinion, it would put me off. I would probably end it.
Why would it put it you off ??
On the flip side, any girl you date could have done this and you may never know. Sometimes ignorance is bliss
Im sure most guys feel like this...which means, you are NOT STRONG enough to handle the truth = WEAK
it's fair to say that it's only natural for those guys to not to want to hook their wagon to a hor.
What does it matter if your enjoying your time with her NOW and she is YOUR HOR and no one elses ??
but LTR or marriage? No f'ing chance!
Why not ??
It means she's a slut and if you marry her you are a fool.
....but she isn't a slut, she is faithful to you and you are enjoying your time with her. She, like anyone else had the opportunity to enjoy a sexual experience in the past and did the human thing...she acted on it.
It means that when she goes down on you she went down on 50 other guys and you aren't special.
really ?!?!?! your concerned about a girl making you feel special ? I think your panties just cut off circulation to the 2 shriveled up raisins between your legs called BALLS. If you had the chance to hook up with 100 women in your past would you take it ??
And most of all those other 50 guys didn't risk to ruin their lifes with a marriage and a divorce
not sure what your trying to say, but I'll assume you mean the men of her past intentionally made the choice not to marry her because they knew of her past sexual life ?? if thats the case, maybe...just maybe...they were enjoying sex without the need to marry each other (NSA).
I am definitely judgemental. If I wasn't then I might just marry a wh0re. If you want to attach your wagon to a woman that a small army of men have enjoyed, that is your prerogative.
I raise your feminist shaming "weak and insecure" statement and raise you "I know I can do better, can you?".
...but she isn't a hor, she is faithful to you. What happens when you marry a woman thats only had sex with 2 guys in her life only to find out that you hate each other and divorce. She has no problem taking you to the cleaners (financially and emotionally) because she that is the kind of person she is. She meets another guy who think she is awesome because she NOW has had sex with 3 guys in her life but she has an agenda for this new man in her life to take his money.
A persons sexual history does not detract from their character, level of honesty or their ability to genuinely love and care about another human being
Everyone talks a big game about about judging women who enjoy sex...but no one knows anything about anyone for sure. The most sexually innocent of women can be the worst snake in hiding.
If you are not looking for a LTR than this woman is a gold mine.
I dont understand this logic...this leads me to believe that most of you men are boring, unable to hold the interest of women and insecure. Im starting to think that you guys are probably only good for a paycheck and some bad jokes. Its good to be cautious of women but NOT because of their sexual history. Be wary of inconsiderate women who will stab you in the back, destroy your dreams and hurt you emotionally. I dont see how her sexual history comes into play when it comes to the important things that matter.
@ Franky
Heck I would too but my GF is too conservative.
SOOOOO basically your in a LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP with a woman who you WISH had "SLUT" tendancies...yet at the beginning of your post you say
If you are not looking for a LTR than this woman is a gold mine.
weak sauce !!!
Keep living the delusional life style kids. Keep thinking that a girl who YOU THINK hasn't had a lot of sex in her past is some is some kind of good, pure, moral person who is worthy of marriage. (people are still getting married these days ???...dang you chumps are never gonna learn)
p.s. I just went back and read this whole thread and Im basically repeating what a few other guys have said. Some guys are FOOLS who think blindly following their principles is an ABSOLUTE way to ensure what is best for them and some of the smarter guys realize that there will be time you have to see things from a different perspective.
Human beings adapt to what best suits their lives. Having principles MAY sometimes work in your favor but there are other times that principles are useless and a bit of FREE THINKING is necessary to give you the best chances at happiness.
Same thing goes for business !! the company that can't adapt is the company that will FAIL !!
That's just my two cents, play it how you want bro.
