Dating a woman who has had groupsex in the past?

[S.S.N. 318]

Already!!!

To me, the real strong couple is the one that can go out to a swinger-party, screw around all night, and STILL wants to come home to each other at the end of the night.

That was a very good point right there, Squirrels! No Doubt

 

[NocheOscura]

Bottomline:
Do not ever consider yourself a DJ (=man of high status) if you`re thinking of getting seriously involved with a woman with a slutty reputation/past.
I´m glad to see a lot of guys in here have the selfrespect and lack of desperation to call these woman out for what they are: Women of 2nd class behaviour.
As a former bartender I know a lot of women who has slept with 50+ men and done everything sexual under the sun, and believe me they don`t change when they get into a LTR. Even with their "best intentions" I see them fall time and time again into cheating and attentionwhoring.
That disgusting feeling in your gut you get when a woman has revealed the truth about herself ( such as she being nailed by 5 construction workers!) is actually your true nature warning you something isn´t right.
Follow your instincts in stead of trying to overcome them or swallow them, only a pvssyfied male ignores his real nature and doesn`t respect his own boundaries.
Fvuk the sluts and then run Forrest, ruuuuuuuuun.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

You might like to research the lit. on " BPD Waif ".

These women are uber feminine, delicate and demure in their presentation - real "china doll " types. But underneath they are manipulative deceptive monsters.

Oh yeah and this reminds me of another reason I broke things off with her. She started to seem very manipulative. She was like some kind of expert on making people feel sorry for her. Being somewhat aware of these kinds of female-tricks I say through some of it and I started to see a very ugly person underneath her nice smile.

She was always playing up the victim card.

Yeah, It can be BPD (she really suffers, and most of the times it´s her own damn fault) or she feigns victimhood to manipulate you, this is the sociopath. Some Bpds have sociopathic traits.

"The best clue is of all things, the pity play. The most reliable sign, the most universal behavior of unscrupulous people is not directed, as one might imagine, at our fearfulness. It is perversely, an appeal to our sympathy. I am sure that if the devil existed, he would want us to feel very sorry for him! When deciding whom to trust, bear in mind that the combination of consistently bad behavior or egregiously indadequate behavior with frequent plays for your pity is as close to a warning mark on a sociopaths´s forehead as you will ever be given!"

*The Sociopath Next Door - Martha Stout

 

[Legendary_Unicorn]

Ok I cant' read anymore... this is really irritating.

How you feel about your woman is entirely up to you. You can choose to let the past hinder how you feel about her now (which would be dumb, she could've lied like most women will do... but she respected you enough to be honest)

Would you rather have some girl who has no sexual experience and ends up leaving you anyway b/c of curiosity?

And wtf how does having group sex some how make you devalue sex... It's ok for men to sleep around but not for women. .. but oh no she's a prude if she doesn't give it up to you but you wouldn't want her if she does... I don't like playing games w/ women but really I do.

Grow up and get over your ego or you'll ruin your relationship... the end!

 

[maqnetik]

Bottomline:
Do not ever consider yourself a DJ (=man of high status) if you`re thinking of getting seriously involved with a woman with a slutty reputation/past.
I´m glad to see a lot of guys in here have the selfrespect and lack of desperation to call these woman out for what they are: Women of 2nd class behaviour.
As a former bartender I know a lot of women who has slept with 50+ men and done everything sexual under the sun, and believe me they don`t change when they get into a LTR. Even with their "best intentions" I see them fall time and time again into cheating and attentionwhoring.
That disgusting feeling in your gut you get when a woman has revealed the truth about herself ( such as she being nailed by 5 construction workers!) is actually your true nature warning you something isn´t right.
Follow your instincts in stead of trying to overcome them or swallow them, only a pvssyfied male ignores his real nature and doesn`t respect his own boundaries.
Fvuk the sluts and then run Forrest, ruuuuuuuuun.

amen

stop making ecuses for women who are NASTY and DECIETFUL for no apparent reason.

:box:

 

[Buddha_Mind]

I pick a girl based on her looks period. That is my only criteria for picking women.

You are the last person I would listen to for advice on anything.

Enjoy your eurosluts and penis-residue.

 

[st_99]

Banged by 3 dudes at the same time? Sorry, way to risky for LTR.

Its an interesting conversation but all things being equal, If I had
the choice between girl that had 4 some and the one that didn't, I'm going
with the ladder thank you.

 

[Noodles]

A good point made is that none of us will ever know for sure if our woman was a closet wh0re.

This, for me, is the key point here. Why did she tell you this? Either she's got no social skills what so ever, she thinks this is something impressive, or she's trying to get a rise out of you.

Either way I would probably close the door - as you apparently did.

If you'd found out yourself through other methods...that could be different. In that case it probably depends how bad you've been in your youth, and what you can relate to.