She is a HOT lawyer... Imagine the DA's on Law and Order.. yeah, she is one of those.
Wow! You mean she looked like Jack McCoy??????? Great hair!
Just kidding. Hey I think you did half of everything pretty right and the other half you didn't, but it's a nice improvement from the last go round!
My two cents on the whole Regular Joe dates Highly Compensated Power Woman deal is that the woman isn't looking for a merger of the business kind, if ya know what I mean. She wants a guy that makes her feel like a woman, and you don't have to earn 200 K or drive a Jag to do that.
I know you just love my commentary, MNIN, so here goes...
We asked each other what we are doing tomorrow I told her to call me. She then told me to call her. I told her I want to show her my place.
You're making yourself too available, too soon.
I got asked the same question last night: "What are you doing tomorrow?" she asked me right before I dropped her off, and all I said was, "Stuff." And this woman is a raven haired, blue eyed, tall, hot, leggy, former model 16 years younger than me. Looked kind of like a young Karen Allen type from the Raiders of the Lost Ark. So, I know... inside, you want to say, "Nothing. Just was going to have dinner with a friend, but screw that, I'd rather be sucking on your gorgeous lips!" But I find it's really not difficult to remain true to myself and pace things, rather than hand myself over to her on a platter, and thus, look to build up her respect for me.
*Edited in: "I told her to call me". MNIN, that's handing the control over to her, in that you want to be the one who makes the calls and get the dates. Otherwise, if you wait for her to contact you, you'll be at her beck and call.*
He came with the bill and she paid! She told me to get it next time.
This I find interesting. Typically, when the woman pays it all, especially the first date, it tends to signify that she doesn't want to feel obligated, which in turn means she's not that interested, though even with low interest, some will still kiss you if they think you're gorgeous.
But she also mentioned "The Future" in that she spoke about you taking care of the bill next time around, which may indicate that she is thinking to see you again. At least at that moment in time she was. That could still mean that she's on the fence, though.
She started getting friendly with the server like it was some sh!t test
I'd file that under "possible flag" for the time being. Seems to go with her medium interest level.
I'm not saying there isn't any future here, I'm saying that I think she needs some working on. So I think when you insisted on leaving and not doing the deed, this works more in your favor. Again, to be a challenge is the key here.
We talked about getting together again this weekend, and pretty much made verbal plans for Sunday night...
But that works against challenge.
what's my next move? Call her or what?
Well, if this is any answer to you, I'm going to call Ms. Model sometime the middle of next week. That's the game by design rather than by default. I'd rather she has a a bit of time to wonder when I'm going to call and why I haven't called and reflect on her mind a bit as she thinks about what a nice time she had with me last night and anticipates another.
Moreover, if one such chick is great to have, then two or three more would be even better, so let's not put all our thoughts and attention on her and diversify a bit.