I’m going to be direct and upfront about what I have to offer and what I expect in a potential girlfriend.
I have dated a fair amount of women and very rarely am i outright impressed. I am far from your average chump. I have a lot to offer and dating me is not something i just hand out. I have sold myself short in the past and i no longer have time for mediocre women.
I am 26, well read and educated, and on my way to medical school. This is my calling in life and I am quite convicted. I understand that “future doctor” holds less weight than actual doctor. I don’t expect you to take my word for it, nor does it make any difference to me if you do. I know where I am headed and I know exactly what it takes to get there. It is a long, tough road, but it is the path I have chosen. I have full confidence in myself and my ability to achieve what I want. It may take a long time, but hey, if it was easy, everyone would do it.
I am finishing my last semester in a bio/chem degree and will be in the full application process this spring. I have solid grades, an excellent IQ, and a writer’s vocabulary. I have many interests and pursuits: Hiking, free-climbing, snowboarding, snowshoeing, web development, writing, strength training, good food and craft beer, to name a few. I also have a degree in graphic design.
I am about six feet tall, two hundred pounds, reasonably muscular. I have good genes and come from a lean German family. I am an avid weightlifter and used to be an amateur powerlifter. I have handsome, masculine features. I am more than happy to provide photos upon request.
I have a few rules i like a woman to clear before i date her. I am not an egomaniac, I just know what I have to offer and what I am looking for.
- You must be of proportionate attractiveness to me. In other words, I am not going to date a woman who isn’t above average in looks, unless she is exemplary in other areas. Age is not really a big deal to me, so long as we can relate and I find you attractive. Generally speaking, i like women who are 24-32.
- You must keep in good shape and take care of your body. I stay in great shape and I expect any woman I date to do the same. So please, if you are a ‘BBW’, don’t bother. And get a grip on reality. In all probability you are a great person, but if you don’t maintain your figure it shows me that you are lazy and have almost zero likelihood of keeping yourself up after marriage or children. God forbid a man wants a sexy woman.
- No single mommies or divorcees. I understand that things happen and being a single or divorced parent does not necessarily make you an irresponsible or bad person. It’s just not what I’m looking for. I have never been married and have no children. On that same note, you must not have a ‘baby agenda’ or some burning desire to get married. I don’t, so I wouldn’t want you too either.
- I will not seriously consider dating a woman who has a lot of hang-ups about sex. Like it or not, sex is at least 50% of it for me, as it is most men. The last thing I want is a woman who puts up a fuss every time I make a move. If I am going to commit to a monogamous relationship, I want a partner who enjoys sex often. I don’t expect you to give it up right away, and if you did I would probably wonder, but the bottom line is that if you have hang-ups or are fussy about sex now, the writing is on the wall that it will NOT get any better with time. And being a tease is never attractive, just immature.
- You must not be a feminist or have any feminist ideals. That little ‘movement’ screwed up society big time. I believe in the natural order of things. There is a balance between the sexes, and feminism is a massively insecure mentality that tries to subvert that balance. I am in no way a misogynist; I enjoy genuine, loving women just as you would enjoy a genuine man. I just do not want to be around a woman who is constantly trying to prove to me she is just as good at “man stuff”. It is annoying and unnatural.
- Don’t have the Wonder-Woman, “you go girl” attitude. This goes with number five. I will not date a woman who constantly has to tout her independence. Yeah, we get it. You’re empowered. It’s called being an adult. You SHOULD be able to take care of yourself for God’s sake. If you have something to prove about how big your panties are then look elsewhere.
- All you party girls: If you spend every weekend rockin’ the clubs or shaking your booty at the bars, don’t bother. It tells me you lack class and dignity. We all know why people ‘hit the clubs’ or bar-bounce. Don’t get me wrong, I love to have a good time like everyone else, and I’m not ‘above’ going to a bar. But a woman who gets ****house drunk every weekend is disgusting. Get yourself together.
- No smokers. Non-negotiable.
- You must not be a religious fanatic. I personally have Christian beliefs, but I am not a self-righteous religious zealot. It’s good if you have a mature spiritual life, it attests to your character. Just be a balanced individual.
- I will not date a woman who has had had excessive sexual partners. Excessive to me is more than seven or eight. I understand everyone has been with someone, but I could not think of a bigger disqualifier than slutty behavior. No girl thinks she is a slut. But in case you didnt get the memo, if you have banged more than 10 dudes you are or were a slut at some point. No 'ex' issues either. No one likes that.
- I do like a woman who is sharp and articulate. Intelligent, objective discussion is important to me. You should be well read and reasonably educated.
- Be respectful of my time. It is important just like yours. I have a zero-tolerance policy for flakes.
- Lastly, I will not date a woman who is overly career-minded or obsessed with work. Having a career is fine, in fact I would like you to, but due to the demanding nature of my own career path, a relationship where both of us are gunning for the top would simply not work.
These may seem like stringent requirements, but they are just my personal rules. Believe it or not I really am a fun and easygoing guy. I just want to weed out those that wouldn’t jive with me and my life. Another man may have few rules or none at all, this is just me. I do not need a girlfriend. I would only like one if she can add positively to my life. These requirements will save both of us from wasting our respective time and money. If you do contact me please have some photos. No "Myspace Angles".
