BUSY or BULLSH!T???

[spider_007]

Why are you obsessing about it

It is wery simple.

It all boils down to what you want, and are you getting it. If he is not giving you what you want, and when you talk to him about it he doesn't give you the strait honest answer, MOVE ON. It is as simple as that. If he is getting opset when you cheet on him, but when you want him, he doesn't give you the time of day, THEN THAT IS HIS PROBLEM. You made you intentions clear, It is up to him to move it or lose it.......

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

spider man, who should know better, is giving a girl advice on how to turn her don juan boyfrined into an AFc, very sad...

Spider tells her she should just move on, he is playing games. Huh, spider, what do you think she is in, time out?

Spider dont you see that her boyfriend is a challenge and she likes that, and since her mission is to chase him and trap him, she is here to get advice on how to do that.

but you tell her, to next him. You are teaching a girl how to be a don juan? Why shold she next him? He is being a man. He has backbone, he does not do whatever she wants him to. He is a damn challenge. So spider, you teach her to be a don juan, and she goes out and her mission in life is already to trap the free living men(don juans and real men), so you just help her by teach ing her how to don juan men? Are you fvcking crazy?

 

[Jus_LikeCandy]

Why are you obsessing about it

It is that simple, to say. I guess, there is a fear of his reaction. It was hard to be without him before. The thought of having to start all over again hurts. It took me six months to feel like I was almost over him and then he comes back. There is so much fear of experiencing that pain again. But, I guess it is worse to sette for less and then get ousted..

 

[frivolousz21]

your biggest problem is ur an afc guy if not worse with ur feelings

 

[Jus_LikeCandy]

Pvssy-Eater, why is being a Don Juan so important. It seems to me all you want to do is find more creative ways to hurt and play games with women. If I don't show you anything else, just know that women have feelings too!! it is not all about games for us!! We care and we hurt! I don't want the games! I guess in your childish world, all you know is games and bull sh1t!!

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

SO SHE LIKES HIM!

WHAT THE FVCK I TELL YOU! Her man is a don juan, and she repects him, and cant really figure out why she likes him. Haha!! And you guys teach to her, this thread is four pages long guys. You guys are supposed to be on this site helping yourself and other AFCs to get out of their afcness, not helping some woman trap her don juan boyfriend. I will make a thread out of this and go into detail on why Oprah is trying to destroy man, and why women are really coming to this website! I dont think you guys seriously understand what you are doing when you encourage this woman right now, I think you are just trying to be nice, when after being oon this site you shoud have developed some kind of boldness now to speak the truth, and tell her to go back to Oprah.

Read my thread that I will post in a couple of minutes called, Don Juans are birds and why women want them in their cage.

 

[Mister Big]

Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
My point is now confirmed, men, she said chicks can be don juans too, and that is why she is here. Mister Big, to reply to you, her relationship is not miserable son. Women are attracted to guys that are challenges, becasue in their minds, she can change him. That is why she is still with him mIster big! IF the guy was easy and always there, she would be bored with him,

On purpose or not, her guy is taking way too much time playing this game and she sounds distraught, not "excited," by the situation. He is decidedly undecided about the relationship and that's fine. If she is flaking or her guy is noncommittal really doesn't matter.

Its not cool to manipulate and deceive people in relationships. Some of the DJ shyte is pure deception and compromises my values. You disrespect everyone involved including yourself when you lie and create false scenarios with people that care about you. I am successful without needing to compromise, but I find a lot of value in the DJ approach as more of a method to self improvement. This is not a men vs. women issue. Its a let's be happy, let's get laid, and let's get what we want out of life issue. She isn't, so she should find someone else to play with.

 

[Jus_LikeCandy]

Pvssy-Eater you are a 21 year old kid!!!! Do you think anyone listened to a thing that you have to say. you act like you are a Love or Don Juan Dr. If you were, you wouldn't be on this site. At 21, you havn't experienced sh1t!! Go ahead and keep gasing you own head up!!! If you were secure in you Don Juanism, a bytch trying to seek advice about her man wouldn't bother you. But, the truth for you is, you know your game is whack and see thru. You know, one single word of advice from a real man can throw your whole Fake Gam plan out the window. Don't get pissed at women because you are insecure.

 

[spider_007]

Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
spider man, who should know better, is giving a girl advice on how to turn her don juan boyfrined into an AFc, very sad

Being a chalenge and being an idiot are two different things. when i want some butty i say: "i wana grab you by your ass, trow you on the hood of my car, and **** you sencless. And when I want a relationship I say: Let's heng you and see where it goes....

At leas you can do is be honest with the women. I don't meen, be a pvssy, I meen be clear about your intentions... Playing mind games is not a good way to start anything..... it brings drama.

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

haha.,...mister big, listen to yourself man? Listen to yourself, you sound just like a WOMAN? I am not trying to be a jackazz, kid, listen to me......okay....

To be a don juan, is not a game. Being a don juan, you know hwat, lets not even call it that. When you were an afc, this site does one thing, and one thing only, that is not to get you into playing a game, but to get you from playing a game, and being a man.

Afcs play games like seducation, buying gifts, writing poems, it is the push this button and my character jumps X-box and Playstation 2 theory. This site, frees you from that.

This site makes and back into your nature, that is a free man. Not playing games, but just being free to think as you want, be who you want, choose the career you want, let go of fear, and be just tottally free, with no damn feears in the world from anybody of any situation. This site does that....and that is makes you a man.

Women, are the ones that are playing games, and are even SUPPOSED to be playing games. Their whole agenda, is finding a real man(free, free, free) and trying to get him to number one approach them (by dressing up real sexy), then get to know him( by going on his dates) then try to control him (by getting him to get into a relationship and fall in love with her). Listen, there is nothing wrong with women playing this game, because that is their nature, son, you got me.

What I am talking about now, is that Candy is playing her natural game, and it is not her fault, she does not and most women dont even think, they are playing a game, but they are, and becuase its natural for them to do it, they dont know it.

What you guys are doing is helping her trap her don juan boyfriend........eventually, if he wants to be in a relationship with her, he will, however, he NEVER does not have to be trapped by her.

When he is trapped, when he starts that fallign in love, I love you, I need you stuff, he is trapped. The chase is over. The relationsip is boring. And you wonder why wives cheat, I would not blame them.

You can be in a relationship guys, you can get married guys, but dont ever allow yourself to be trapped. And we as men dont play games, afcs do that. We are just being our natures by being free and not taking orders from women. That is what I am talking about....I will post my thread a little later.

 

[spider_007]

being a DON JUAN means being; funny, charming, confident, withey....

it does not meen; being controling, hurtfull, mean, MANIPULATING...

 

[Jus_LikeCandy]

Spider, I am glad you cleared that up. Iwould hate to think men come to this site to learn to hurt and manipulate women.

 

[frivolousz21]

*****eater-

I think ur taking this way to far and seriously.....you sound like a jerk..not a man.

 

[frivolousz21]

being a DON JUAN means being; funny, charming, confident, withey....

yes!

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

friv, I can sound like a fag for all I care, the truth is real men are free, and real women are looking to trap those free real men into loving them. That is what the whole damn woman-man thing is about.....bottom line, call me what you want.....but also call me right.

 

[spider_007]

Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
What I am talking about now, is that Candy is playing her natural game, and it is not her fault, she does not and most women dont even think, they are playing a game, but they are, and becuase its natural for them to do it, they dont know it.

Am I the only one here who sees a problem with this!!!

The gurll likes the guy for fvck sake, and she whants to BE WITH HIM. where is "the game" in that. that is not "game" that is what i call "being reall"

 

[frivolousz21]

When he is trapped, when he starts that fallign in love, I love you, I need you stuff, he is trapped. The chase is over. The relationsip is boring. And you wonder why wives cheat, I would not blame them.

this is a huge false claim here.


so if u love a women ur trapped?

when I get married..Im supposed to make her chase me?


the relationship is boring becuase the guys is an afc, or they have nothing in commen.


you need to realize that a TON Of the material in DJ Bible is OVERBLOWN.

its a guide to help you get out of ur afc ways.

does anyone follow the bible 100 percent? no but its a guide as well.

 

[frivolousz21]

friv, I can sound like a fag for all I care, the truth is real men are free, and real women are looking to trap those free real men into loving them. That is what the whole damn woman-man thing is about.....bottom line, call me what you want.....but also call me right.

im not calling you a fag..I have nothing against you.

but ur not right about this.


she likes him....so what?

whats wrong with that..she can etiher leave him or try to get him to see her more..if he doesnt she can leave him?

so how is that trapping him??

 

[Jus_LikeCandy]

I think if a man has a women who loves them, that is a good thing. She doesn't want to trap him. She wants to love and support him. Most of all, she will always be in his corner, no matter what. If you haven't experienced it, it is easy to make assuptions and criticize.

 

[frivolousz21]

I think if a man has a women who loves them, that is a good thing. She doesn't want to trap him. She wants to love and support him. Most of all, she will always be in his corner, no matter what. If you haven't experienced it, it is easy to make assuptions and criticize.

this is correct...

ive had a women in love with me before..actually 2.

and this sums it up pretty well.


a lot of guys here have never had a women really be in love with them..therefore they dont get that when a women loves you..she wont cheat, she wont leave, she wont lie, she wont play games with you.


the bottom line is a women wants her man to be:

cool not dorky
confident not insecure
funny not dull
charasmatic not bland
control of himself not *****

thats pretty much sums it up..

if u are the guy on the left column..you dont need manipulation to get a good women to fall for you.