Friday November 17
It's amazing how things change so quickly, and how hope sometimes can come back unexpectedly. I get a call from Matt with good news. One of his neighbors in his dorm has a class with the chick whose number I forgot to store in my phone! Damn. Coincedence, fate, or did I somewhat create and shape this event to happen? You decide.
Even though there is no proof that thoughts shape our future, I'd like to think (and i think i do believe) that thoughts shape our future somewhat. The universe will help or hurt you in your quest to achieve your goals, depending on your thoughts.
Anyways, I'd like suggestions on how to go about this. I guess if Matt's neighbor has her number i'll just get it from him. If not, I'll try and get her last name from him and email her. I think it nmight be kind of stalkerish if he went up to her next class and told her that the guy who she met at Barnes and Noble lost her phone number. I only know of this guy through matt...
If you remember, on Friday november 10, I was in my school gym and I froze out, failing to ask the girl that works there for her number. Well, I went back in there today (i knew she would be working there
). She immediately opened me and asked me some question. I'm not gonna post the FR cause our conversation happened between my lifting sets and such, so i dont remember everything said. I do remember, though, that I asked her whenshe was leaving for thanksgiving. She said tuesday night. I then said "we should hang out before then." She replies "alright, sure." At the end of the workout I get her number, and she also gives me her name in case i want to facebook her. However, I checked her facebook and she has a boyfriend that goes to Yale. :trouble:
I then went to downtown crossing with Matt. We walked past a really hot chick with a stud in her nose (HB 9.2). She was sitting on a bench on the sidewalk by herself. Matt didnt notice her, but when I told him that I saw her, he whooped me in shape and convinced me to approach her. Thanks to Matt for helping me out here:
Me: Excuse me *elbow KINO*, do you know where I can buy a pair of cowboy boots here?
Her:haaa, ummm,...i dont know...umm (I didnt want the convo to end here, so I had to say something)
Her: So you don't know of any place at all?!
Her: hmmm...you can try the suit store (I didnt hear what she said)
Me: The soup store? Soup is a kind of food...
Her: hahaha no i said SUIT, like jackets and SUITS
Me: ahhh, naw i doubt they sell cowboy boots here. Damn, where I'm from (I consciously used this "BAIT" so she would ask me where I was from. It worked
) everyone wears cowboy boots, but no one here does.
Her: Well where are you from?
Me: Dallas, Texas
Her: awww, my old roomate was from keller.
Me: haha thats a small town...
Her: yeah and she ALWAYs wore her little cowboy boots
Me: Its our texas pride. Hell, if i had a cowboy hat i'd be wearing that WITH the boots.
Her: hahaha i think you should just start off with the hat first
Me: ahaah well I disagree (I liked that I did this, because a few months ago I would've just agreed with the girl)...by the way i never got your name.
Her: I'm _____
Me: Nice to meet you ____, I'm brak86. Are you from boston>?
Her: Yeah
Me: Its a shame yall dont have specific clothes that show that your from boston
Her: Yeah, well i guess i could wear a bruins or red sox or patriots jersey.
Me: I've actually seen a lot of people wearing yankee jerseys, i'm surprised they dont get killed
Her: some do
Me: ahha wow...
Her: yea well i dont like the red sox or the bruins, i only like the patriots
Me: A football girl, i like that! *Elbow KINO* (I wish I said "i think thats sexy." But I'm just happy I used an IOI).
Her: ahaha thanks
Me: Well amy, i gotta go, but i enjoyed talking to you. Can I get your number? (This was my mistake, I should have sat next to her and got more RAPPORT. Oh well...)
Her: Well...I'm kind of talking to someone, but you're cute. (i totally did not expect this. Although I acted like it was nothing).
Me: ahaha alright...So when are you two tying the knot
Her: ahahah uuhh i'm not really planning on that...its not that serious.
Me: ahah well it was nice meeting you *Elbow KINO*
Observation: As you make small talk with more and more people, you realize that people are not nearly as intimidating as they seem to be if you go up and talk to them. Your mind can be your best friend or worst enemy. This relates to the Law of Attraction.