5string I have a question for you and anyone else who knows a lot about BPD.
With my ex one of the things I've noticed is she can never seem to find happiness within herself. She always seems to have to get it from an external source.
It was me from when we met and dated for awhile. Then of course that changed and she felt she was no longer "happy" with me so she had to go and get it from somewhere else.
For the most part, everything we always did and went to was planned by me. And it is the exact same now with this new guy shes with.
She can never seem to make her own happiness within herself, always seems to need to get it from somewhere else and is always chasing the next best thing.
Everytime I've "walked away" from her, and chosen to not stay as friends she either gets really upset with me, or guilt trips me in some way to try and make me feel bad for her.
Are these BPD signs?
With my ex one of the things I've noticed is she can never seem to find happiness within herself. She always seems to have to get it from an external source.
It was me from when we met and dated for awhile. Then of course that changed and she felt she was no longer "happy" with me so she had to go and get it from somewhere else.
For the most part, everything we always did and went to was planned by me. And it is the exact same now with this new guy shes with.
She can never seem to make her own happiness within herself, always seems to need to get it from somewhere else and is always chasing the next best thing.
Everytime I've "walked away" from her, and chosen to not stay as friends she either gets really upset with me, or guilt trips me in some way to try and make me feel bad for her.
Are these BPD signs?