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2_intense2

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to start off with..I'm female, just to clear the air..

I could go to a female forum, but they sugar coat things. what I want is brutal honesty, and who can do that better than guys?

so here's the deal:
I'am 19 years old and I have NEVER had a boyfriend, so what the hell is wrong with me? or better yet what the hell is wrong with the guys??
 

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2_intense2 said:
to start off with..I'm female, just to clear the air..

I could go to a female forum, but they sugar coat things. what I want is brutal honesty, and who can do that better than guys?

so here's the deal:
I'am 19 years old and I have NEVER had a boyfriend, so what the hell is wrong with me? or better yet what the hell is wrong with the guys??
Seeing how i don't know anything about you, i can't really tell.
But just from your quote i can see you have a bit of an attitude maybe? :rolleyes:

If you're not like an ogre or anything, shouldn't have a problem getting a guy.
The only thing stopping you is probably your attitude.

I see a lot of girls acting like they're the sh1t, and let me tell you its not a turn on.
You can usually tell which one is a b1tch from far away, cuz they're good looking and alone.

Hope that helps.
 

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How did you find out about this site?

I think you should just relax and have a good time with guys that you like.
 

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How the fcuk are we suppossed to know? You haven't told us anything. You may have well as asked us where your car keys are at. You want some honesty? Formulate a feasible question before starting a damn thread. Toodles
 

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the quote...lol I thought it was cute..okay maybe cute isn't the word..

I do have attitude (I admit it), but come on, half the guys treat me more like a sister (thats always fun :rolleyes:) and the other half wants to F..k me..(you can fill in the blanks).

so what can of qualities do guys look for in a girl??
 

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What's wrong with wanting to fcuk your brains out?
It's the opposite of treating u like a sister, unless you're from Alabama.
 

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Are you fat and/or ugly? I know it's a direct question, but if the answer is yes, then perhaps we are unearthing the reason.
 

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Do you get approached? If not, then there are frankly only 3 possible reasons; 1/You're ugly. Sorry, Im not trying to be a d!ck but you said honesty.
2/You look angry-girls that smile and look happy are always much more attractive than girls that dont.
3/You smoke-Im not sure about other guys in here, but I find smoking such a turn off. If I find a stunner, then she lights up then Im out.
 

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Hey. Im 26, and I get an impression that all women are fvcked up. I meet models, and they are all the same. They are looking to be told they are beautiful, they need that like crack. They are looking to be with the flow, i.e. go out on saturday night and have fun, but the idea of fun is misconstrued, it is more of a status quo. You are talking about keeping status quo.


Should you do things differentely you will be gold, instead of hoe.


Go to wikipedia and look up David DeAngelo, he writes books for women, get those. Also get the rules, but that is not as good and is easily disarmed.



Bottom line, dont do things to keep status quo. Do things to make yourself happy.




I knew this one chick from MSN since I was 19, she wanted to off herself, or so she told me, and I "saved" her. I was AFC for most of the time starting and since. But thats not important. What important is that now she is about to get married to an AFC looser, just to keep a status quo. That is a looser behaviour. She will end up old and regreting, I see people like that all the time. If we go into percentage of people that are fvcked up in marriage, and all things relation ship, it be a big number.






You say I'm a b-itch.. yea I might be!!. But I don't remember asking any of you hoes to like me"
Nobody is saying you are a b1tch. It is your self impossed believe. Actually you are attention whoring through that signature. You want to be a slvt. Nobody here cares if you are or not, nor will you be able to get any attention through these forums. All women are attention *****s, it is a bad quality, and must be disarmed. If you instead dont do this, you will be that much more valuable and wanted by men.



Your attention whoring will probably result in you replying to me with anything but a question. That in turn means you want more of my attetion, which I will not give you. :(
 

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How the fcuk are we suppossed to know? You haven't told us anything. You may have well as asked us where your car keys are at. You want some honesty? Formulate a feasible question before starting a damn thread. Toodles..
damn..are you always this nice or are you giving me special treatment??

What's wrong with wanting to fcuk your brains out?
It's the opposite of treating u like a sister, unless you're from Alabama.
c'mon, seriously..??

I get approached by guys, but there always saying some crazy ass remarks like, "nice ass"or some shyt, I've been called ALOT of things but not ugly..at least not yet..
 

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2/You look angry-girls that smile and look happy are always much more attractive than girls that dont.
hmm...I don't look angry, just serious.
 

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One thing you don't seem to get: it's sex, then boyfriend. You're going to have to have sex with a guy for a bit, then start in on the relationship stuff.

Another thing:

hmm...I don't look angry, just serious.
That'll have to stop. The ultimate aphrodesiac isn't viagra, it's laughter. Laugh at his dumb jokes. Just smile and make eye contact out of habit.

Finally, you need to be interested in the guy, in hearing what he has to say, not just talking all about yourself and your fascinating, intense beliefs. If college guys really bore you, start talking to 30 year olds, heh heh.
 

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Agree with Phyzzle. You want a boyfriend that doesn't want to fvck you? That's what boyfriends do...

I tell you I know one girl who cant get a boyfriend. Not fat or too too ugly, but talk about social disconnect. You might want to work on your social skills.

If I hung around you for about 30 seconds I could probably tell you the reason. You still haven't given anything to work with.
People usually aren't very good about being objective about themselves anyway.
 

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my first guess is that you should lose weight. Post a pic or something.


And no, you don't necessarily have to have sex to get a boyfriend. Doing that would just make you more of a hor, which we don't appreciate much on this forum. But you shouldn't be a prude either. And don't be a damn feminist.
 

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Are you fat? That's the only explanation I can think of.
 

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Have to say, if you want an assessment, people need to know some background that actually base an assessment on. So far the only thing you gave us is half want to fvck you and half treat you like a sister, you had been approached by guys, and you have some attitude.

Going by that, the only sure thing you are attractive enough to be approached. Anything else based on what you said is way too open to interpreation (such as half of guys thing could means half are AFCs who trying to game you by being way too nice or they aren't really interesting in you or wtvr).

Therefore, tell us about yourself a bit more that help us see a picture of the type of person you are, even saying things like you are similar to a streotype or something.

Ok, I'm don't feel I can really fairly give advice, but everyone can agree more information is needed. The one thing I can be 100% sure of is to not listen to Phyzzle, if you are looking for love, it is not through the *****. I even remember some claims in some articles here that said some women will "use their bodies" to try and win over the guy they going after, fail, and ignore the nice guy. I surprised someone would suggest that in a forum that have such a negative view to that.
 

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I won't be any chick's boyfriend without sex. Just like any other adult male with an iota of self-respect.

If we're not quite comfortable enough for something simple, like sex, then obviously we're not comfortable enough for something serious, like commitment.

Only exception: when I was a virgin. That's just causes awkwardness in general. The 1st poster said she had trouble getting a "boyfriend". Does that mean you've never had sex either? I dunno. You've got lots of explainin' to do, missus. Hope you wright back.
 

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No, you don't have to have sex first and then hope for a commitment after the fact. Don't ever buy into that...and if you want to be respected and treated properly then you need to respect and treat yourself properly first.

Here's another tidbit for you...the guys who are friends with you...there's a good chance that most of them actually would like more than just friendship with you. Guys will quite often pretend to be your friend when they wish you were more and not say anything for years.

Here is what you do...guys are visual...and if you want to attract one then you need to maximize your assets and use them to your advantage. Try to always look your best. Try to show your femininity as much as possible. Practice "the walk"...get yourself some heels and make sure you put your foot down so your heel is lined up in front of your big toe when you take each step. Trust me...if you get that walk down every male in eyeshot will notice when you walk. :) Look your best and use that walk and remember that you do NOT have to have sex with someone without a promise of being exclusive. Guys who insist on sex without a commitment are not worth your time. They won't respect you or treat you well. You should ALWAYS treat any guy you get involved with well, too...and also respect him...it should always be mutual, not one sided.
 
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