onestargeneral
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Ist Day on Week One
Hi!
I've inserted an exclamation point (see above) because I am in a fairly good mood. It takes a lot to get an exclamation point out of me, so be impressed.
Seriously, though, I went out today and did the first excercise--one hour making eye-contact and saying hi. This is something I've done before--but never with any real discipline. I'd just do it when I felt like it. I like the one hour specification. This is good. It's easy to go out and say hi to five people and think, "ok, that's good, I'm accomplishing something." And then not do anything about it again. If for that reason alone the boot camp seems like a good idea--gotta have a program to stick to, like working out.
So, today was a good day to do the eye-contact/hi thing--it's beautiful out--one of the first real nice days of Spring. Everyone, including me, is in a better mood, so it's easier to make connections.
I started out walking downtown on my way to get some lunch and do some studying (finals this week). I made some eye-contact, and said hi (only to dudes at first, because they were the only ones to return eye contact). I still find it hard to say hi to anyone unless we make eye contact first (however brief). I think, in order to say hi without eye contact, you have to decide beforehand that this is what you're going to do. Otherwise, you wait for the EC and if it doesn't happen, the momen't passed.
Got 10 hi's--if you count the girl who smiled and waved at me from a distance (which I do). Also talked to this girl who performed at a theater thing that I also performed in last night (it's called No Shame Theater). She's cute. It was nice.
So, that's that. I hope to keep posting, so that I'll also keep up with this boot camp training. It worries me to see that so many people give up after the first week, though--I hope that won't be me!
--osg
Hi!
I've inserted an exclamation point (see above) because I am in a fairly good mood. It takes a lot to get an exclamation point out of me, so be impressed.
Seriously, though, I went out today and did the first excercise--one hour making eye-contact and saying hi. This is something I've done before--but never with any real discipline. I'd just do it when I felt like it. I like the one hour specification. This is good. It's easy to go out and say hi to five people and think, "ok, that's good, I'm accomplishing something." And then not do anything about it again. If for that reason alone the boot camp seems like a good idea--gotta have a program to stick to, like working out.
So, today was a good day to do the eye-contact/hi thing--it's beautiful out--one of the first real nice days of Spring. Everyone, including me, is in a better mood, so it's easier to make connections.
I started out walking downtown on my way to get some lunch and do some studying (finals this week). I made some eye-contact, and said hi (only to dudes at first, because they were the only ones to return eye contact). I still find it hard to say hi to anyone unless we make eye contact first (however brief). I think, in order to say hi without eye contact, you have to decide beforehand that this is what you're going to do. Otherwise, you wait for the EC and if it doesn't happen, the momen't passed.
Got 10 hi's--if you count the girl who smiled and waved at me from a distance (which I do). Also talked to this girl who performed at a theater thing that I also performed in last night (it's called No Shame Theater). She's cute. It was nice.
So, that's that. I hope to keep posting, so that I'll also keep up with this boot camp training. It worries me to see that so many people give up after the first week, though--I hope that won't be me!
--osg