OK. Long time lurker. Could not resist this very stale thread any more.
So my question really would be (assuming you are not a troll and are not just on here to seek attention - two years in -) how's your life going these days? How's this all working out for you? Are you getting the girls? Are you getting laid? Are you dating women who YOU are interested in? And don't use all the ten dollar word goobledegook. Its immature and boring.
My life is going very well. I am studying two careers, i have my own residual income and i have my pick of women.
I am getting the girls i want. I am indeed getting laid... sometimes more than i'd want. Indeed, I am dating the women i am interested in. I am comfortably approaching now. Believe it or not, i did listen to the advice posted here. I read the 48 laws of Power, as was suggested by Atom Smasher. And please, don't knock on my vocabulary. It is not my disadvantage. I am not a monotonous robot, incapable of incorporating synonyms into his sentences. I am very well educated, well traveled and enlightened.
I'll tell you this much (from a gal's perspective): the women you want are not going to approach. The guys who are backing away from you see this and they want the same women (hot, high quality, intelligent, blah blah blah) girls you do and they know you are a buzz kill to them getting women. You (at least in your original incarnation at the outset of this post) come off haughty, arrogant, insecure, and frankly amusing. Hopefully now you have some life experience and some game of your own. Daddy's money in and of itself is worthless in building you as a man. Now whatever you can learn from him in the way of wisdom etc., and your own business chops will get you your own experience. There is some pretty amazing wisdom on here too in the way of success with wealth, women and life in general. You speak 4 languages? Fabulous. How many do you listen in?
I wrote this three years ago. A lot has changed since then. I moved countries and like i stated before, i am approaching the women i want. I come off as a confident, charming individual, who understands how life & people work.
Why would you care what I have to say? I was married to a nightclub owner for many years for starters. He owned the hottest club in one of the coolest cities in the US. Beautiful people flocked there including the very rich, famous and successful from all walks of life. It was an interesting study of human interaction. I was the girl all the men wanted. Hot, smart, ambitious, sweet, sane, and confident. I'm very successful in my own right, still hot and generally appalled by what passes for manliness out there. This site does by and large an amazing job trying to bring back the MAN in a true sense. Women like me WANT high value real men. Are you listening? Beautiful people are everywhere. Many of them are so shallow (yawn) as to become caricatures of themselves. The shallow and self-absorbed are everywhere, it is a sad state of things.
Are you a leader? Have you read the DJ Bible? You've had 2 years since your post began and so you've had time. I don't mean dictator; I mean a leader people are drawn to, who people (read women and your guy friends) would want to follow; someone with inner game.
This paragraph, and the previous one, do not apply to me. I am an authentic leader. I possess all the qualities of sucess. I am very smart, very good-looking and i have the charm & charisma to talk my way in and out of anything. Hitler conquered Europe through his ability to manipulate. "Game" isn't rocket science. Create a facade so alluring and so hypnotizing, where women will feel as if they are on cloud 9. Subsequently, establish a patriarchal system to supply your self-interest (rational egoism principle) and move on. I am very thankful for this site. It has unleashed all the potential inside. Great business for shrinks, bad business for women.
Great that you work out. That requires discipline. This is good. Great that you are attractive and see in yourself value there (many men less fortunate in that department struggle with what they perceive as an appearance disadvantage - even though there is no such thing if inner game & inherent value exist).
Arrogance and vanity are never sexy. Not to the high quality women out there (a small subset to begin with so you best bring your best authentic self if you want to play). Arrogant vain men are going to pull shallow gold-digger type women or other user types. Water finds its own level. Whatever you wear out in any venue, your very best accessories are a genuine smile, your authentic self, and the guts to approach people; warmth. Not AFC, but when you are engaged in conversation, be the prize, be warm, be someone other people want/desire to hang out with. Quit seeing others as for your own use and disposal. That is the way of the psychopath my dear.
I am not arrogant or vain. Aristotle's Politics stated to work on your mind, body and soul. This is precisely what i do. Individuals with low self-esteem will view these specimens as arrogant and vain, while obviating the fact where they establish themselves as failures to themselves & to society.
This is the fun part. My smile is genuine & i am my own self. However, i sell myself in a certain way. I portray myself as a gentleman, "different" to the common norm, amicable, and disarming. Women are too quick to buy it. There are some people who are a sheep in a wolf's clothing, while others are a wolf in a sheep's clothing. Take away the skin and you'll see who the perilous one is. Search Machiavellianism. I know my strength, which is using intellect & charm to instill my influence over the other person. Very hard combination to resist. If you position your rooks, your bishops, your horses and your pawns right, the king will never be in danger. I've yet to meet a woman who i have not effectively succumbed to my feet. I'm not going to say i haven't been rejected, but those times i have encountered women, who possess an IQ a lot lower than mine and thus making them inferior. They can't talk about anything other than purses, shoes, trips and overall trivialities. Women of ages 28-40 are my ideal target range. Mayweather's boxing style is frankly brilliant. Throw a punch and come back to defend yourself. He always wins. Same tactic applies to women. If you come out swinging, you may get knocked out.
SoSuave has helped me be warm and endearing, while hiding everything else. As mysterious as a shadow and as quick as lightning.
Every person around you has a use and an expiry date. That's how life works. Your friend today might not be your friend tomorrow. One must be proactive to these things and constantly anticipate them. Same way the stock market works. Anticipate, pull out and invest in something else. Same way others work. Anticipate, cut them loose and move on to the next.
As for your model friend, I don't consume alcohol and i don't immerse myself in drugs.
Inner game is where its at. Superficial things are fluff. If you are a product of a shallow environment growing up you have more work to do on yourself than you realize. Your environment/surroundings/social circle is giving you valuable feedback. Listen. Reconstruct yourself to incorporate your blessings into becoming a MAN who draws people toward you rather than drives them away. Its a numbers game but its also a quality game. Give quality to get quality. Quality is where its at. I am old enough to be your mother. Pick a language (or several) and listen. Lots of time spent by good men trying to help you here.