Being a DJ virgin

JohnGalt

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I think that one of the problems in this thread and a lot of times on this board is that there are differing views on what it means to be a Don Juan. If you think it pertains solely to picking up chicks, then obviously being a virgin don juan is like being a race car driver with only a donkey to ride. If you think being a don juan is more about getting the most possible enjoyment out of your life, then there's no reason you can't be a virgin for as long as you please.
 

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Originally posted by thecraftylefty
I hate to sound like a complete jerk here, but to those virgin guys who don't bang their girls for whatever reason take heed: if you aren't fvcking your girl someone like me will.

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Exactly. Well said.

Jake
 

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Originally posted by JohnGalt
I think that one of the problems in this thread and a lot of times on this board is that there are differing views on what it means to be a Don Juan. If you think it pertains solely to picking up chicks, then obviously being a virgin don juan is like being a race car driver with only a donkey to ride. If you think being a don juan is more about getting the most possible enjoyment out of your life, then there's no reason you can't be a virgin for as long as you please.
 

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Originally posted by DJ IronGirevik
John Juan, as es_mer8 said, "DJing is 99% you, 1% women" ... and there is a LOT more to the game than just sex.
DJing is embodied in 100% me succeeding in life, and putting my best foot forward with the ladies. If and when I want an LTR with someone I truly care about, that's my choice to make when the time arrives. In the meantime, I'm going enjoy the company of as many HBs as I desire. :D Can I hear an AMEN out there!?

-jlc
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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ARE YOU FVCKING RETARDED? That is the biggest mistake you can ever make. I use to be just like you and when that "perfect" girl came along I didn't do ****. Only to regret it, there isn't a day that goes by when I don't think about it. Dude, just hit everything you can.
 

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i should have clarified. "enjoy the company" means "banging the hell out of" as many HBs as I desire.
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You must have some pretty high standards. I can't believe a young man like you is setting such high standards for his first piece of ass.

I don't believe in DJ virgins either. Your forgetting the true meaning of Don Juan Demarcos and all that he stood for...which was conquering new pu*ssy.

If you have subconscious fears about your first time, you need to get over them and not make excuses...and just do the dam thang.

It's cool to have standards...I'm not knocking that. But it's not cool to waste all that young talent just waiting to be tested...if your real excuse is fear based.

When I was in high school I was afraid (back in the 70's) of getting VD if I had sex with a girl. It took until I was 17 and tired of wacking off to finally get over this phobia and get out there and start getting laid.

Good luck on finding the "perfect" one...
 

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At first I say:
Being a Don Juan is not just women as many, many of you have understood. It is about growing. I mean emotionally. It is about you getting to the next level. Developing yourself.

BUT
Being a Don Juan is also about being a MAN too.
It's not all about macking, but if YOU choose not to, I don't take you as a man. You are AFC. You are against your own nature. I don't ****ing care if it's some religious ****! You do not get to the heaven if you f*ck someone before marriage?
That is just BS.
If you belive in i.e. God, do you really think that God meant human males to hold their d!ck in their pants untill they get committed and get married. Why just humans?
Hell no!
It's some crap that has created by some morans who don't get any.

If you are not virgin because of religion, you are cheating.
You are cheating yourself.
You are cheating against our nature.
You are cheating against your TRUE self.
It's not YOUR choise to be virgin.
You are just fooled to belive so.
Listen to me!!
You will regret it later that you were so dumb and didn't enjoy being male.
Don't be ashamed of your gender.
Be ****ing proud of it!!!

I've said what I think.
Now it's your turn.
To think.


Happy Hunting.
- Hot Ice
 

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This is for the virgins "by choice" who are waiting for the HB9 of their dreams.

Firstly, read some of the posts/articles about inventing excuses not to approach women. These posts are aimed at people like YOU. You have an excuse to do NOTHING - and you've actually convinced yourself that your excuse is something to be PROUD OF! You are proud to be an AFC.

Someone on here said that when that HB9 comes along you will do nothing. Do you disagree? It's hard enough playing the numbers game when you accept 7s and 8s into your game. You are vastly reducing the chances that you're EVER gonna get laid.

So, let's say when one of these elusive HB9s come along and you ACTUALLY get her number despite lack of practise, ACTUALLY get through the dates despite zero experience, and *TA-DA* get her into your bed. Do you think she's gonna be impressed with your first-time fumblings? Do you think you're gonna satisfy her? Do you think she's gonna come back for more? Or do you think she's gonna look for someone who can show her a good time in the sex olympics? Trust me, she's had better before. And she knows she can get better again.

I'm not meaning to be harsh here, but any non-virgins and probably you guys too know this is true. IF you get her in bed, you're gonna LOSE her by being dismal in bed. Any experienced non-virgin will tell you this. You gotta let those flawed women into your game for practise. Sure she's only a 7.5 but she may be the best lay in the world and she'll teach you how to deal with that HB9 when she comes along. The best thing is if it doesn't work out there are 10 more 7.5s for every HB9 so you can be pretty skilled by the time she comes along.

STOP making excuses.
START getting experience.
 

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Ol'BlueEyes

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bugsquish has it right

Last Thursday, I went home with a girl not from this area. She wasn't exactly an HB. (I'd give her a 5 or 6)
I didn't boink her (did not have any condoms, she was super cool about it); I did eat her and finger her, and got my first BJ. She LOVED my work.
One thing I was surprised at, however, was how long it took for me to climax. I think I've been spanking it a bit too hard and lost a lot of sensitivity. Ever since, I've abstained from masturbation totally.
So technically, I'm still a virgin. I still relished the experience.
 

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Any guy can have sex but not every guy can have sex with a girl they're actually attracted to.
 
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