Being a DJ virgin

[Oxide]

First of all : Religion is bull****. IMO.
Second of all : Obsolescence is bull**** too. You are just missing out.

 

[dionysius_d]

I have to agree with the "bad guys" on this one..

The phrase "Virgin DJ" is an oxymoron.

You just can't remove the sex component from being a DJ.

 

[Hot Ice]

Julian.
So, you are too picky eh?
Well, I can tell before I found sosuave I was too.
I was really demanding.

Realize this:
I haven't lowered my standards at all.
I am picky. I couldn't ever mack a chick who doesn't attract me sexually.
This is because I've stopped searching flaws on women.
EVERY WOMAN ON THE EARTH HAVE FLAWS.
And I'm speaking about looks here.
1st stop seeking those flaws.
i.e. "oh, her tits aren't even C-cup, I can't f*ck her"

Oh, I felt like you a while ago when I was still virgin.
Look, what I did is that I made myself a reasonable deadline.
Then I just educated myself reading lots of information to learn the basics. Then I just picked up a hottie and did it. Believe me, it's so easy. It was really easy to get her maybe because I had really decided to mack that chick. I had no doubts in my mind, neither hesitation or unconfidence. Since I knew the basics, I had no pressure to do it. I knew I would do it right an just f*cking did it.

I think you should do what I did too..
Otherwise, I think you would regret it to not take action.

Happy hunting.
- Hot Ice

 

[sAxyguy83]

Your mind is so open you can almost see it? Hell, (.)(.), I can see clear through to the other side. She's Catholic, I was just raised Catholic, and while the "no sex b4 marriage" rule may be bs, I'd rather play it on the safe side. As for religion being bull, for the most part I agree - most religions these days are centuries out of date and rife with hipocrisy. However, I believe that there is some greater power, and that there is more than just this existence. That, however, is nowhere near the topic of this forum...

Moving on, I have yet to see a well-written, coherent, rational post in favor of having sex b4 marriage. Everyone posting on that side seems to simply focus on insulting their opponents, rather than explaining their own views. A little hint, guys: You'll never convince anyone of anything by simply insulting them. If you think I'm wrong, then either try and persuade me to agree with you, or respect my opinion and shut up.

I'm not trying to preach. I could easily be wrong, and this could be all there is, or your position in the afterlife might be improved by banging a lot of chicks. I don't know! All I know is that I'm going to do what I feel is right, and allow others to do what they feel is right. I won't try to convince you not to have sex, but I will advocate protection - it doesn't feel nearly as good when your kit falls off inside her...

 

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saxyguy I havent seen anyone insult you as a person, i have seen alot of people pointing out ridiculous ways of thinking.
stop trying to make more out of this, its a public forum of course alot of people will find your ways moronic., (like weirdos will find find my stuff rubbish)
stop taking it as a personal attack, if you cant handle people calling you on rubbish , simply dont come here if it gets you that worked up.

but seriously these DJ virgin threads have to stop.

 

[Howie Farkes]

Originally posted by sAxyguy83
One of the things that separates mankind from other animals is that we can control our actions, rather than just following instinct and hormones.

Yes, we can - and that is why rape is considered a crime. And murder and assault - but did you know that animals mostly only have sex to reproduce their species? I choose to separate myself from the rest of the animals by indulging in sex for pleasure - not procreation.

And just where do you draw this animal/mankind line? Do you masturbate? That's pretty instinctual and just succumbing to those hormones fizzing through one's blood. Must we also abstain from solo sexual gratification to become better than the animals? (I guess there are other people on this board for whom the answer to that question is a resounding "Yes!" too?)

Look, you have whatever reasons you have for not having sexual intercourse with a girl until marriage, but your doing a poor job of convincing me that you're gonna reach a more evolved state of existence by practicing abstinence.

Moving on, I have yet to see a well-written, coherent, rational post in favor of having sex b4 marriage.

And I have yet to see a well-written, coherent, rational post on why having sex before marriage is wrong. Because most arguments for the negative are based upon religion and faith - two things which never sit comfortably next to coherence and rationality in my opinion.

Really, it's about choice. You do it or you don't - neither way is Right nor Wrong.

 

[Howie Farkes]

Originally posted by Oxide
Second of all : Obsolescence is bull**** too. You are just missing out.

And I think Abstinence, not Obsolescence, was the word you were looking for.

 

[sAxyguy83]

Originally posted by Howie Farkes
And just where do you draw this animal/mankind line? Do you masturbate? That's pretty instinctual and just succumbing to those hormones fizzing through one's blood. Must we also abstain from solo sexual gratification to become better than the animals? (I guess there are other people on this board for whom the answer to that question is a resounding "Yes!" too?)

Good point.

I am not trying to convince anyone that my way is right. I'm just trying to convince people that their way is not the only way, and that they should respect other peoples' values.

 

[T.T. Boy]

Horses fvck donkies. Therefore, it should be acceptable for me to stick it to a chimp.

 

[Howie Farkes]

Originally posted by T.T. Boy
Horses fvck donkies. Therefore, it should be acceptable for me to stick it to a chimp.

Ummm, your point being......?

 

[MetalFortress]

Originally posted by matius
Don't you virgins have friends out there that ask if you have a vagina instead of a d;ck? Or you're a p<>ssy or a fag? Maybe a c0cksucker or something?

I'm serious, I'm not calling you that at all...but I happen to have a group of friends like this...if you ain't getting laid you obviously have a vagina. It kind of sucks especially when you have problems hooking up. In fact, I notice this in general with people I barely know, not just my group of arsehole friends. If you ain't having sex you're obviously worthy of being the butt of a joke or two about your sexuality.

Again, I'm not slamming you...I'm simply asking a question > I get that shyte all the time and I'm not a virgin. I'm just surprised by all the virgins and people with similar situations who don't feel the pressures of society to have sex. Even from women themselves who flaunt it.

Not me. My school doesn't seem to be a really "sexual" one, and some of the most popular guys and girls are proud of me for choosing to stay a virgin until marriage.

 

[matius]

Thanks DJ, I was wondering when someone might acknowledge that question. I think that's great for you. I'm just surprised that other people who usually don't bring home girls constantly or get laid alot have insecure friends or acquaintances that taunt them all the time. Maybe I'm just a bit unlucky in that respect.

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

HUMPIN!!!!!!

 

[Ol'BlueEyes]

matius

Hell, the people I hang out with have absolutely no interest in my sex life.
Funny thing is, the guys I work with were aghast when I told them I was a virgin. I do feel a bit out of place when they're swapping sex stories and the like, and it didn't take a rocket scientist to figure out who the only one not participating was. These are the kind of guys who smoke pot, drink till they drop and know a lot of girls who do the same. They're always saying they'd pay to get one of these skanks to **** me....I'd rather do it on my own terms.

 

[Mr. Delicious]

I am a virgin by religious choice. Its really not something for me to be proud of in public, which some of you think we are all proud and think we are better than everyone else. Most of my friends do not believe the way I do and therefore tease me about it. When people ask if i am a virgin I always hesitate and feel anxious telling them. Saying it on a message board is much easier than real life. For the guy who said there is no such thing as virginity by choice, that is false. I have been flat out offered to have sex by a few attractive girls but I refused. It was my choice not to.

 

[sAxyguy83]

They're always saying they'd pay to get one of these skanks to **** me....I'd rather do it on my own terms.

Good choice... Who knows how many diseases those sluts are carrying around?

Here's my one argument in favor of abstinence - aside from this, I won't try and talk ppl into abstinence:

There are STDs that you can get even if you use protection correctly every time. Some diseases can get around a condom. Condoms can fail. Abstinence is the ONLY 100% effective method of preventing STDs, including the really nasty ones like unwanted 9-month swelling and the angry father with a shotgun...

 

[matius]

More power to you. I've done some less than honorable things in the name of low self-confidence - moments of weakness based on this societal pressure to have sex. Sad but true.

The conclusion I've come to is you should never feel pressured or obligated to perform certain acts without consulting yourself first- at all costs. Believe in your actions and try your best to eliminate all outside influence unless it's something you do actually need to do for yourself. Like...don't obey what people say but hear what they're saying kind of shyte.

I think to be a mover and shaker DJ you have to be guided on what you want no matter what or it doesn't work. As it's been said before too many people (including myself in the past) have been guided by fragile egos and falsities. You can't get anywhere like that...nowhere.

 

[STR8UP]

Originally posted by sAxyguy83
Abstinence is the ONLY 100% effective method of preventing STDs.....

It is also a 100% effective method for keeping you from doing what you were born to do- spread your genes.

You don't have to fukk everything with two t!ts, a hole, and a heartbeat, but give this religious self righteousness sh!t a rest and go out and get laid. If you don't you're gonna be sorry one day when your dream honey who you DO decide to give it up to decides you don't do it for her anymore and starts gettin freaky with one of her coworkers. At that point you'll REALLY feel like an ass and all of your goody-goody morals will get thrown out of the window anyways.

And don't start with the "My girl would never cheat on me" crap. Odds are pretty good that she will.

 

[Bill]

I agree that "DJ virgin" sounds weird, but IMO being a DJ doesn't necessarily imply fvcking any woman.

Although I respect sAxyguy83's beliefs, I think all that STD talk is going too far... I mean I know that there are STDs you can catch when wearing a condom, being careful and everything, but sh!t DOES happen and that's why there's the word "accident" in the dictionary. Giving up sex in fear of STDs is not the solution.

All you DJ virgins out there (fvck the commas), keep it up -- but PLEASE quit it with the virgin pride fluff, that's just too much... it's like saying "I'm proud to drive a Toyota Echo".
Peace.

 

[MetalFortress]

Originally posted by STR8UP
It is also a 100% effective method for keeping you from doing what you were born to do- spread your genes.

You don't have to fukk everything with two t!ts, a hole, and a heartbeat, but give this religious self righteousness sh!t a rest and go out and get laid. If you don't you're gonna be sorry one day when your dream honey who you DO decide to give it up to decides you don't do it for her anymore and starts gettin freaky with one of her coworkers. At that point you'll REALLY feel like an ass and all of your goody-goody morals will get thrown out of the window anyways.

And don't start with the "My girl would never cheat on me" crap. Odds are pretty good that she will.

1) speaking of self righteousness...

2) A wife who stayed a virgin until marriage would be a LOT less likely to cheat than a wife who did not. If my wife ever cheated on me though, there would be divorce papers waiting for her faster than you can say "liar" ...