That's why I thought the statement deserved a thread of its own. BE spoke the unvarnished truth about how women view commitment.
But any guy willing to settle down with her is probably not a valuable male with lots of options.
Both of them recognize that sex=marriage so neither would have as many options as modern people.
Fair enough.
What do you mean by 'best' ones? You should remember women don't go after men who are quality, it does not matter to them.
To permit this type of thinking allows a free pass and opens a pandora’s box of deception on both sides.
Correct. Not in this day and time. The only guarantee of exclusivity is rock hard male and female commitment to each other no matter what their relationship status is.
No I didn’t, but I will point out fallacies and half-truths in harsher manner when I see that a person has consistently done so before. How can you be so confident in yourself, yet according to you, I’m just an idiotic 18 year old boy who somehow managed to piss you off? Ironic isn’t it? I won’t extrapolate what all that means though because I’ve done so before.
Again, this was NOT the REAL INTENT behind my posts. I know it might seem that way (‘haha just another edgy teen who’s provoking an argument by being an irritating brat’), but no. These “personal insults, insinuations and backhanded slights“ are the evidence being provided for my reasoning of argument. And yes, some of them are exaggerations (i.e. ‘redneck’), but that’s to get he point across. Do you want me to dissect every single one of my posts for you? Your feelings towards this argument is already set though so I know that it won’t change a thing about how you choose to understand this or me, but if you wish...
Every SEXUALLY APPEALING WOMAN does. Or before 19 I should have said. I haven’t met a hot virgin younger than that. I have met some who were virgins and were hot at 17 and 18, but usually it’s because they were ugly ducklings who became beautiful. Then unfortunately they expired.
This is fact lol. I’m not gonna argue with you on this. But know it to be true. I have had a stronger faith in God than you have before. Perhaps right now I am weaker. But religion is a whole other debate.
When did I EVER call them ugly? I don’t know them, and I rarely, if ever, make fun of people who have nothing to do with anything regarding a situation.
I present what you cannot stand to believe to be within yourself. You have convinced yourself that it does not exist within you though, hence why you hate it so much. And whether you like it or not, you have reacted to me in a way that you never have reacted to anyone else on this forum. It did affect you and bother you immensely, especially that bit about birth.
Oh I can take a beating alright. But the way of the MAN is that even though he CAN, does not mean he WILL. You telling me to suck it up is insulting at best. I’ve given myself enough tough love to make most commit suicide (or become a drug addict or shoot places up) before. That’s what happened to everyone else who was like me once they reached 11-13. You can’t say anything about being ‘tough’ to me. Your life has been much more ‘la di da’ than mine has (or most of the men here for that matter). Make judgments based off what you DO know. Not wat you DON’T.
With my choices? Yes. My life? No.
Hey, I’m a horny 18 year old. This website taught me how to sate my hunger. Now I’m on here for ****s and gigs mostly. There is the occasional egghead though. Yeah sometimes it’s me, but usually not. And drugs are easy as fvck to get, much leads tobacco. I had mates trying to sell me meth at 13, you think tobacco is hard? Bah. The fact that I’m on here means that I have as much life experience at 18 as you at 39. I’m sure there’s things that you know that I don’t, but there’s also stuff that I do that you don’t.
Haha. When I was 18 I think phones were still in a bag and about the size of a brick. Game and the life lessons were taught by actual men. I guess it still is kind of, but it just seems like there's allot fewer of them around to go upside the back of a young guys head, when he veers off track. I don't doubt that you have seen and lived some chit. I actually feel for younger generationsI that they are having to grow up quicker.I Iike to bust balls, but there's allot of truth to what's being said. I won't deny that things all the way around aren't seeming like they are getting worse, but at some point, in order to put things back on track, we are going to have to stop passing the buck.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
I’ve had my fair share of beatings lmao. But overall, they were just like “you were being a piece of ****”. Not “you did that wrong, here’s what you can do better”. No one is willing to teach anyone anything anymore, and it’s extremely difficult to learn on your own since fewer people actually know how stuff works. Or when they do, they are so far ahead that it’s pointless to even try to mimic them.
Well, I'm not a woman, but marriage from matrimony from matrix [latin for womb] exclusive to a man and woman for life for the rearing of children. No one is thinking of the greater good today... just their own little mean selves, and what a disaster that will bring. It's like we are dancing to the fiddle of theory whilst Rome burns.
Both the powers of state and church are required for marriage to be the orthodox state between the sexes. From the purely pragmatic and social perspective, you can see why that system first evolved. It was only the ideologue with his lust for freedom, and blind to order, that sought to throw off the 'chains'.
And I think to myself, what a egotistical world.....
Yeah, the sad fact is that men are more capable of resisting the tide. In cultural matters, as well as sexual ones, we lead.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
As more than an individuated atom free-floating in a cold and vast universe, a guy would want to get married to realize his social nature. In the development of himself as a social animal he will couple with a mate and therein the intertwining of two lives will be as a doubled strength in the face of an often harsh, cruel and competitive world. He will have a sanctum, a home and hearth, an inner temple, to retire to each evening, where the cares of his soul may be soothed in sweet caresses, and his intimacies unfold in further adorations.
As an inner conviction it does... hence the vows. This is why marriage as an institution evolved in the Church. The difficulties started to arise when just the externalities of it came into consideration with the state. Marriage, in a secularized/ economized society, eventually became a hollow shell.
Very well said
Since marriage existed before the church and state... Marriage is none of their business! They've BOTH overstepped their boundaries. Only God should have jurisdiction in this area.
Isn't marriage a ritual and a sacrament? Isn't there some form of public authority performing a ceremony? Is it not a public expression/ confession? How then can it precede Church and state?
