Banging a girl at the same time as another dude

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Subtitle: banging a girl at the same time as another dude who carries 50MM ammo.

When I first read the title I pictured the OP and MP in a DP.

 

[Falcon25]

Just a shot away, the fact that you even wrote this shows how much of a piece of shivt you are. Now, everyone on this forum knows everything they need to know about you, and they haven't even met you. You are a disgrace to every man out there. I hope this kid seriously hurts you. You have mental problems that are beyond an internet forum. Good luck banging another man's wife.

Love,

Falcon

 

[Just a Shot Away]

Just a shot away, the fact that you even wrote this shows how much of a piece of shivt you are. Now, everyone on this forum knows everything they need to know about you, and they haven't even met you. You are a disgrace to every man out there. I hope this kid seriously hurts you. You have mental problems that are beyond an internet forum. Good luck banging another man's wife.

Well, of course I am VERY sorry to hear that you think I'm a "fvcking jerk-off" and a "piece of shivt" for acting on my carnal male instincts and embracing my masculinity, but I don't see why other people's business causes you so much grief. I hope you find your peace, someday.

I will update the thread after tomorrow though, and let you know how I dealt with my problem if it arises.

 

[Yeah OK]

Every time I see a post about some dude cheating with another guy's wife, I normally just read it and move on with my day. However, I found this post utterly audacious. So much so that there's no way I can't respond. The initial question: How can you prevent a married woman from having sex with her husband when he comes back home after being overseas for 2 months?

Oh, that's rich.

The answer to your question is the same I would give to the husband if he were to post a thread here asking "how do I prevent my sl*t wife from f*cking delusional losers while I'm away for work?" You can't.

Uh oh... I feel this might be one of those "moral judgment" replies that annoy you so. Aww.

You know, I almost put in the disclaimer of "no lame jokes" and "no moral judgment replies please", but I figured that would go without saying...

Before I got older and wiser about the way things actually work in relationships, I once thought that random dudes would respect another person's marriage enough to not interfere with it. I figured THAT would go without saying. I've since learned better, and now so have you.

If you're looking for some judgment-free zone where people can ignore the fact that you're of despicable character and low value, look elsewhere. Or at least look elsewhere for as long as I'm still posting here.

and now there's not a single piece of advice on how to deal with this problem; only endless judgments on my own morality and painfully obvious "jokes" about the situation. Well, now that we've arrived at this point I might as well address some of the accusations.

It's funny you think there's endless judgments of your morality in this thread. I don't think there's enough. If there were, I wouldn't have felt inclined to take on the responsibility of dealing it out myself. Some of the worst judgments in this thread were NOT over the fact that you're cheating with a married woman, but that the husband's in the military. Fair enough, although I don't personally believe the military aspect makes a huge difference. It's his job he signed a contract to do... he wasn't drafted against his will and just because he's overseas does not necessarily mean he's in harm's way.

Anyhow, that's not the point. Let's move on, shall we?

1) The guy's a piece of garbage. He's put her through extensive emotional and physical abuse during the course of their marriage. It makes it difficult to feel bad about taking a woman from a guy like that. But hey, maybe you guys think it's cool to hit women...I don't know.

1) She says he's a piece of garbage and that she endures emotional/physical abuse. She also says she's in-love with you. She probably also says to her husband how much she misses him and can't wait for him to return. Some of those statements might be true. More than likely they aren't. This woman is clearly manipulative, selfish, and a very good liar. I think you've been here long enough to know you listen to a woman's actions and not her words. If it IS true, unless you actually witness this physical abuse first-hand, it's not really any of your business. You know, since it's THEIR marriage and doesn't involve YOU whatsoever.

I really love your quote, though. "But hey, maybe you guys think it's cool to hit women..." A guy who doesn't like moral judgments is passing out a... yeah, I think it is... a MORAL JUDGMENT! Whoa!

Your hypocrisy doesn't stop there, though.

Whoever suggested that I find bush that is single is definitely right, but the only problem is that I'm a WWWWWWWBAFC and rarely come across potential tail (2 chicks a year usually.) Any girl that shows interest initially loses it very quickly once they realize that I have no confidence and do not portray the dominant, masculine area that they are evolutionarily predestined to be attracted to. So in short, I have to take any opportunity I can get in order to bust the metaphorical nut.

Boo-hoo. The chicks you normally get with lose interest when they realize you're not a good catch? You're so pathetically desperate that you'll take ANY opportunity to ejaculate? Man, that sucks. I can't imagine what it must be like to have no standards. But I guess you need self-respect to have any standards in the first place. And you certainly have no self-respect.

Instead of trying to improve yourself and MAKE yourself a good catch--a concept repeated over and over on this site to the point that it's almost a cliched mantra--you went the easy and (sorry to break it to you) doomed route. I assumed by your posting this thread that the husband had been away the whole time you have been having sex with this worthless tramp. What do you think is going to happen when this guy comes back and this lonely little housewife is reunited with a man she (presumably) loves/loved enough to marry in the first place?

Well, I plan to get into that later. Yes, even though my opinion of you is incredibly low, I still intend to give advice to actually HELP you. See, that's what people who lead noble, noteworthy and happy lives tend to do. They give assistance to others (who really shouldn't otherwise be given the time of day) in the hopes that they'll someday lead better, more fulfilling lives themselves. And those same noble people even get laid while they do it. To their own girlfriends/wives no less! Wow, just imagine..

Yes, I take some pleasure in instilling a desire in a woman to the point where she will risk her marriage in order to bone down, but I would obviously rather get a single girl that isn't being f'ucked by another guy...if I had that ability.

Obviously? No, that's not obvious at all. Are you TRYING to get a single girl? You're in here whining that some married chick is gonna have sex with her husband. I actually laughed out loud when I first read this thread.

You ALREADY HAVE the ability to get a single girl. With the billions of women in this world it's a statistical IMPOSSIBLITY that you do not have the ability. It's impossible to you because you are weak. Your character, your confidence, it's all low as can be. I pity you. You're an embarrassment to men everywhere and symbolize everything this site preaches to NOT be.

2) "Highly trained killer"? Whoever said that...you do realize that not every person in the military is an Army Ranger or Navy Seal, right? Believe it or not, they have people that do paperwork all day and even pass out towels at basketball games that are in the military. Incidentally, his job is lived in computers and doesn't involve killing anybody. Also, I'm a veteran myself and know my way around an M-16. I'll be fine. Thanks for the concern, though.

2) Although his M.O.S. may not be as an infantryman, he's undoubtedly been trained to operate a firearm. As have you. Again, though, this is not the point. The point is--wait... wait a second here...

You're a veteran!? To be classified as a veteran--if we're going by the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs' definition--means that you have completed at least one full term of military service and were discharged under conditions other than dishonorable. (Which is funny, because "dishonorable" is the word that comes to mind as I write this to you.)

A veteran... who has undergone a countless amount of training to improve his discipline, strength, intelligence, and overall character? A veteran... who is trained to never stab his fellow soldier in the back, and to help one another and work as a team towards a common goal?

So it must not be sosuave's fault that you can't grasp its concepts of self-improvement... you clearly aren't a good learner. Hopefully when things ultimately fail for you and this married chick, trial & error will teach the lessons sosuave and the military both failed to impart.

3) No, I cannot be sure if I'm already getting sloppy seconds. But then again...neither can any of you unless you have a private detective following around your women 24/7. That's a risk that we all take when we are sexually active.

3) Yes, it's a risk we all take when we're sexually active. But even a complete moron knows he's gonna get sloppy seconds at some point when he's having an affair with a married woman. Wait, let me rephrase that, since you're a complete moron and "cannot be sure if [you're] already getting sloppy seconds."

Ohhhh! Wait, wait, wait! Hold on hold on, this is getting hilarious now. You mean you're worried about getting sloppy seconds after her having sex with someone who isn't you or her husband! You're worried she's cheating on her husband with someone OTHER THAN you!

That has to be the most insecure thing I've ever read on here. Seriously. You know what, you should confront her about this. Yeah, that would be great. You should get really emotional and yell at her, tell her "ARE YOU CHEATING ON ME WITH SOMEONE OTHER THAN YOUR HUSBAND? HOW DARE YOU! I THOUGHT WE HAD SOMETHING SPECIAL!" Just don't get too teary-eyed when she bursts into laughter in response.

Who am I kidding? You'll get teary-eyed anyway. You're a shell of a man, afterall.

 

[Yeah OK]

This is not my concern, though. My question is how do you best deal with nearly ASSURED day-old sloppy seconds. Yes, it's not as bad as having sex with her on the same day as another guy but the fact remains that she will have had sex with another guy very recently. Is there anything I can tell myself to feel better about this? Any tricks to forget about it?

Ahh, the cherry on the top of your unbelievable post.

You don't need help feeling better about f*cking a married woman. You need help feeling better about having sex with a woman who's p*ssy is still oozing with hot cvm residue from the dude she just gave it up to an hour before meeting you.

What a chump. You weren't kidding about being desperate for whatever p*ssy you can get. I'm looking in my crystal ball and I see prostitutes in your future my friend. No, that doesn't include the married one you're messing with now. She's DEFINITELY NOT in your future.

...

Your future... yes, let's think about your future for a moment. What I love about people like you is that you think in such a short-term way that you don't realize you're already ruined. My advice to you would be to end this arrangement as soon as humanly possible and cut your losses. I'm not even saying that from a moral standpoint; it's actually what's best for YOU, believe it or not.

Here are the possible outcomes of this little affair:

1) Husband comes back, you 2 get caught, and the arrangement ends.

2) Husband comes back, you 2 get caught, she divorces her husband to be with you, and you're in a relationship with someone who will end up cheating on you the same way she did him.

(Good thing you're preparing yourself for the idea of dealing with "sloppy seconds"...)

3) Husband comes back, you 2 don't get caught, the novelty of cheating slowly fades away over time, and either you or she (more than likely she) ends the arrangement once you're both swiftly brought to the reality that neither of you are a good catch.

4) Husband comes back, you 2 don't get caught, and you start to get jealous that she doesn't put you first in her life. She'll still tell you she loves you to string you along until she's bored with you, while you become more and more AFC and push her away further. Arrangement ended.

5) You realize this was stupid to begin with and break it off with her after reading this post. You cut your losses, begin to improve your poor mental state, TRY to get with single women, and stop delaying the inevitable collapse of this affair of your's any longer.

Obviously, 5 is what you should do. And I of course know you won't do number 5, but that won't stop me from at least GIVING you the advice you really need but won't follow.

But as I said, you're already ruined. The act of cheating has its own way of punishing those who do it. You think you're insecure now? Just wait. Just wait until you find a girl who actually has VALUE. Just wait for you both to get closer, things to get more serious. Just wait and feel that sinking suspicion when she's late to meet up with you. Just wait until you grow more and more suspicious when she doesn't return your phonecalls fast enough. Just wait until you destroy a perfectly good relationship with this woman because your past experiences cheating with the worthess wh*re you're seeing now has tarnished any trust you would have otherwise had. This is what people mean by "what goes around comes around." And it will come around my friend. It will. Quit while you still have some sanity, because the longer you're in this the longer you will be f*cked up mentally when it finally inescapably ends.

Now I'm no saint. None of us here are. But we all have our boundaries. I've had many opportunities to have affairs with married women. Perhaps too many. I've always refused to participate. A lot of my buddies would tell me, "But Yeah OK, if she doesn't cheat with you, she'll just cheat with some other guy! Go for it and get your's!"

I can't speak for the other people out there, but I personally refuse to contribute to this sort of malicious behavior just so I can get a 5-second-long orgasm having sex with a chick who's nothing special. A lot of guys--especially on this forum--tend to blame women for being such cheaters. How sleazy those women are!

They never attack the guys who willfully cheat with these women knowing their relationship status. I do. You both deserve blame, because you both don't care about others.

"It's simple biology!" they'll say. "Men were meant to be promiscuous! Women are supposed to crave and force relationships!" Sure, I'll bite. But they never mention that, since we're social animals and tend to work together to accomplish our goals as a species, ensuring you do what's best for your community is also something that's supposed to come natural to us.

But with such a large community with millions of people you don't know personally, you don't feel a sense of brotherhood or a commitment towards doing what's best for everyone involved, do you? You never even met the husband but you've set up your mind to view him as some wife-beating abusive prick who deserves to have his marriage ruined. Whatever you need to justify f*cking up the community is your business. But don't come on this forum acting like what you're doing is not morally reprehensible. It is. And there's nothing wrong with anyone who wants to call you out on it. There's only something wrong with the people willing to tolerate your behavior.

So what did I end up doing with all these married women who wanted me to come to their bedrooms? I'd sit them down and tell them how to save their marriage. I'd give them advice the way people give advice to each other here. And most of these desperate, lonely, disillusioned women would take the advice. It would always shock me that they'd follow the advice, since people rarely follow advice that's given to them. But if they're desperate enough to cheat, I suppose they're also desperate enough to listen to reason for once.

I've saved four different marriages this way. The women were relieved they didn't cheat, and the love and respect they have for me is genuine, grateful, and very real. Some of the many short-sighted people here would hear that and say "you're an emotional tampon! You should have hit that sh*t! Missed opportunity! Idiot AFC!"

Well, the satisfaction I get from saving those women from making mistakes that permanently damage their family life fills me with infinitely more confidence, self-esteem, self-respect, and happiness than I ever would have gotten from f*cking them until they finally came to their damn senses the hard way.

Those same women, by the way, have many single female friends. Those 4 married women who I helped rather than cheated with, they tell their single friends how I saved their marriage. They tell them how I refused to cheat with them when they were at their most emotionally vulnerable. They tell them how highly they think of me, and how they would do anything for me. I eventually meet these single women, and frequently enter quality, fulfilling relationships with them with ease because my values give ME value in their eyes.

"What goes around comes around" works both ways.

The choice is your's.

 

[DangNammit]

Damn... well done yeah ok

 

[Alle_Gory]

Well, of course I am VERY sorry to hear that you think I'm a "fvcking jerk-off" and a "piece of shivt" for acting on my carnal male instincts and embracing my masculinity, but I don't see why other people's business causes you so much grief. I hope you find your peace, someday.

I will update the thread after tomorrow though, and let you know how I dealt with my problem if it arises.

Cheating is not embracing your masculinity. There's nothing masculine about it. What you're doing is just desperate.

You're like a drug addict. You want your drug, but not the side effects and you show up here asking for advice on how to deal with the side effects. If you don't want to feel like a piece of sh*t, then don't do the thing that makes you feel like a piece of sh*t!

It's really that simple.

I like how you rationalize it: "but I'm just acting on my insticts guys!" Like we're your animal buddies here. You need to get over that. What separates us from the animals is the ability to think long term and not just what feels good now. What feels good now, makes you feel like a piece of sh*t later because you know what you're doing is not fulfilling. The woman will never be yours, and even if she agrees to be, you can never trust her to be yours because you've seen how she cheats. Whatever decision you make, it will end the same way. She will never be yours. She's a ho.

Now I understand why you feel the need to be so smug and arrogant on these forums. You have self-esteem issues. Just on this thread you admitted to being desperate. This is only doing to make it worse.

Clearly morality comes into play for you, otherwise you wouldn't feel like sh*t.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Ahh, the cherry on the top of your unbelievable post.

You don't need help feeling better about f*cking a married woman. You need help feeling better about having sex with a woman who's p*ssy is still oozing with hot cvm residue from the dude she just gave it up to an hour before meeting you.

What a chump. You weren't kidding about being desperate for whatever p*ssy you can get. I'm looking in my crystal ball and I see prostitutes in your future my friend. No, that doesn't include the married one you're messing with now. She's DEFINITELY NOT in your future.

...

Your future... yes, let's think about your future for a moment. What I love about people like you is that you think in such a short-term way that you don't realize you're already ruined. My advice to you would be to end this arrangement as soon as humanly possible and cut your losses. I'm not even saying that from a moral standpoint; it's actually what's best for YOU, believe it or not.

Here are the possible outcomes of this little affair:

1) Husband comes back, you 2 get caught, and the arrangement ends.

2) Husband comes back, you 2 get caught, she divorces her husband to be with you, and you're in a relationship with someone who will end up cheating on you the same way she did him.

(Good thing you're preparing yourself for the idea of dealing with "sloppy seconds"...)

3) Husband comes back, you 2 don't get caught, the novelty of cheating slowly fades away over time, and either you or she (more than likely she) ends the arrangement once you're both swiftly brought to the reality that neither of you are a good catch.

4) Husband comes back, you 2 don't get caught, and you start to get jealous that she doesn't put you first in her life. She'll still tell you she loves you to string you along until she's bored with you, while you become more and more AFC and push her away further. Arrangement ended.

5) You realize this was stupid to begin with and break it off with her after reading this post. You cut your losses, begin to improve your poor mental state, TRY to get with single women, and stop delaying the inevitable collapse of this affair of your's any longer.

Obviously, 5 is what you should do. And I of course know you won't do number 5, but that won't stop me from at least GIVING you the advice you really need but won't follow.

But as I said, you're already ruined. The act of cheating has its own way of punishing those who do it. You think you're insecure now? Just wait. Just wait until you find a girl who actually has VALUE. Just wait for you both to get closer, things to get more serious. Just wait and feel that sinking suspicion when she's late to meet up with you. Just wait until you grow more and more suspicious when she doesn't return your phonecalls fast enough. Just wait until you destroy a perfectly good relationship with this woman because your past experiences cheating with the worthess wh*re you're seeing now has tarnished any trust you would have otherwise had. This is what people mean by "what goes around comes around." And it will come around my friend. It will. Quit while you still have some sanity, because the longer you're in this the longer you will be f*cked up mentally when it finally inescapably ends.

Now I'm no saint. None of us here are. But we all have our boundaries. I've had many opportunities to have affairs with married women. Perhaps too many. I've always refused to participate. A lot of my buddies would tell me, "But Yeah OK, if she doesn't cheat with you, she'll just cheat with some other guy! Go for it and get your's!"

I can't speak for the other people out there, but I personally refuse to contribute to this sort of malicious behavior just so I can get a 5-second-long orgasm having sex with a chick who's nothing special. A lot of guys--especially on this forum--tend to blame women for being such cheaters. How sleazy those women are!

They never attack the guys who willfully cheat with these women knowing their relationship status. I do. You both deserve blame, because you both don't care about others.

"It's simple biology!" they'll say. "Men were meant to be promiscuous! Women are supposed to crave and force relationships!" Sure, I'll bite. But they never mention that, since we're social animals and tend to work together to accomplish our goals as a species, ensuring you do what's best for your community is also something that's supposed to come natural to us.

But with such a large community with millions of people you don't know personally, you don't feel a sense of brotherhood or a commitment towards doing what's best for everyone involved, do you? You never even met the husband but you've set up your mind to view him as some wife-beating abusive prick who deserves to have his marriage ruined. Whatever you need to justify f*cking up the community is your business. But don't come on this forum acting like what you're doing is not morally reprehensible. It is. And there's nothing wrong with anyone who wants to call you out on it. There's only something wrong with the people willing to tolerate your behavior.

So what did I end up doing with all these married women who wanted me to come to their bedrooms? I'd sit them down and tell them how to save their marriage. I'd give them advice the way people give advice to each other here. And most of these desperate, lonely, disillusioned women would take the advice. It would always shock me that they'd follow the advice, since people rarely follow advice that's given to them. But if they're desperate enough to cheat, I suppose they're also desperate enough to listen to reason for once.

I've saved four different marriages this way. The women were relieved they didn't cheat, and the love and respect they have for me is genuine, grateful, and very real. Some of the many short-sighted people here would hear that and say "you're an emotional tampon! You should have hit that sh*t! Missed opportunity! Idiot AFC!"

Well, the satisfaction I get from saving those women from making mistakes that permanently damage their family life fills me with infinitely more confidence, self-esteem, self-respect, and happiness than I ever would have gotten from f*cking them until they finally came to their damn senses the hard way.

Those same women, by the way, have many single female friends. Those 4 married women who I helped rather than cheated with, they tell their single friends how I saved their marriage. They tell them how I refused to cheat with them when they were at their most emotionally vulnerable. They tell them how highly they think of me, and how they would do anything for me. I eventually meet these single women, and frequently enter quality, fulfilling relationships with them with ease because my values give ME value in their eyes.

"What goes around comes around" works both ways.

The choice is your's.

As I stated in my post, early on, without moral judgement, OP has shown he doesn't have what it takes to handle or be in this type of "relationship"; it is not for everyone, specially dudes who can't handle the fact that women are sexual beings who have had sex with somebody else before. Guys, you are not the only penis in town.

Very well said Yeah Ok.

OP, I'll repeat it, if you are that lost and insecure about how to handle being involved with a woman who is taken, you shouldn't be involved with her. You are way over your head, when it comes to knowing how to stay detached or grounded in reality. Has nothing to do with morality or judgement. This goes for anyone who's so insecure about a woman having sex with anybody else in the past, or present; being insecure and judgemental about a woman's lifestyle, yet lowering your fake standards just for a piece of a$s, then whinning and bitshing about it.

Not for the faint of heart.

 

[Just a Shot Away]

Wow, my question and circumstances seemed to have attained mythical proportions while I was at work. People are addressing problems I don't have, making assumptions based on nothing, and claiming I said things that were never said. Not sure why this is, but since we're already at that point I might as well go ahead and clear some things up.

If you're looking for some judgment-free zone where people can ignore the fact that you're of despicable character and low value, look elsewhere.

Well you're more than welcome to judge of course, but it'd be nice if people would keep the judgments to themselves considering they have nothing to do with my question and only clog the thread. As for being "despicable", I'm of the opinion that all is fair in love and war. You don't agree? Hey, that's cool. I feel no need to refer to you as "low value" because of this disagreement though.

1) She says he's a piece of garbage and that she endures emotional/physical abuse. She also says she's in-love with you...If it IS true, unless you actually witness this physical abuse first-hand, it's not really any of your business.

Yes...she says this, and I believe her. It's fine if you can't trust anything a woman says, but I consider myself a very good judge of character and can usually see through dishonesty. Also, if a friend says they are being abused...it's my business. You wouldn't help a friend that says they are being physically abused unless you witness it firsthand? That's harsh, dude.

I really love your quote, though. "But hey, maybe you guys think it's cool to hit women..." A guy who doesn't like moral judgments is passing out a... yeah, I think it is... a MORAL JUDGMENT! Whoa!

That wasn't a judgment. That was speculation, and I made no statement indicating my feelings about it one way or another.

Boo-hoo. The chicks you normally get with lose interest when they realize you're not a good catch? You're so pathetically desperate that you'll take ANY opportunity to ejaculate? Man, that sucks. I can't imagine what it must be like to have no standards. But I guess you need self-respect to have any standards in the first place. And you certainly have no self-respect.

Thanks for the input. Yes, I know it sucks not being able to get girls. It must be really awesome to have that ability, huh? I mean, I see chicks walking around on the street after coming out of the bars late at night with the dudes they will be banging later on that night and think "What a lucky guy, to be able to get girls." You're one of those guys? That's awesome, man. Should I be applauding? I apologize for having low self-esteem. Is that going to be enough for you or do I need to send money or something?

Instead of trying to improve yourself and MAKE yourself a good catch--a concept repeated over and over on this site to the point that it's almost a cliched mantra--you went the easy and (sorry to break it to you) doomed route.

I've been trying to improve myself in this area for almost a decade, and still trying. I'm sorry if I'm not making progress quickly enough for you, but everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. I didn't really "go this route", so much as this is the route that landed in my lap.

I assumed by your posting this thread that the husband had been away the whole time you have been having sex with this worthless tramp. What do you think is going to happen when this guy comes back and this lonely little housewife is reunited with a man she (presumably) loves/loved enough to marry in the first place?

Yes, assume. Why read my post when you can just make assumptions and sound like an idiot? Anyway, she hates her husband. She stays with him for the sake of their child. What happened when he came back yesterday? She cried and let me know about how his return only heightened her desire to see me as quickly as possible and how the countdown turned from days to hours.

Obviously? No, that's not obvious at all. Are you TRYING to get a single girl? You're in here whining that some married chick is gonna have sex with her husband.

At the moment? No, not really. I don't really have what it takes to get a girl period, at the moment. Single or married, doesn't make a difference. I have no confidence or game, lack the ability to put women in a sexual state, only make things VERY awkward with any attempt at kino, cannot make eye contact with any woman above a 4 and instinctively break the EC if it happens by accident, and do not project a masculine, dominant aura. In addition, I have been rejected by every single girl I have ever pursued. I ended up with this chick via pure serendipity. I'm not whining about her having sex with her husband. I asked advice on dealing with it if I am unable to prevent it from occurring.

You ALREADY HAVE the ability to get a single girl. With the billions of women in this world it's a statistical IMPOSSIBLITY that you do not have the ability. It's impossible to you because you are weak. Your character, your confidence, it's all low as can be. I pity you. You're an embarrassment to men everywhere and symbolize everything this site preaches to NOT be.

There's roughly 350 million women in this world between the ages of 18 and 40 that are 8's or above. Of those, roughly 350 million desire confidence in a mate above all else. You are talking to someone with confidence in the negatives. I don't know, you do the math. Again, I apologize for not having confidence and being weak with women. What can I do to appease you for this inexcusable lack of a trait given to some people at birth?

A veteran... who is trained to never stab his fellow soldier in the back, and to help one another and work as a team towards a common goal?

This guy is my "fellow soldier", now? Come on. A bit melodramatic, don't you think? Like I said. I have no feelings of brotherhood for a guy that likes to hit women. My conscience is clear.

You mean you're worried about getting sloppy seconds after her having sex with someone who isn't you or her husband! You're worried she's cheating on her husband with someone OTHER THAN you!

No, and I have no idea where you got that from. I'm only referring to her having sex with her husband. I understand that you think anyone who cheats on their partner becomes a "tramp", but again...all is fair in love and war. That's only MY opinion, though.


Now as far as your other post, I think it's awesome you've saved four different marriages. Maybe you should become a motivational speaker or something, seriously...if what you say is in fact true, of course. My view is that they are grown women. If they want to have sex with me even though they're married, that's their business. I'm not going to tell them how to live their lives.

Scenarios 1-4 won't happen because like I said (which you would have known had you read my post), they live halfway across the country. Whilst I'm blowing my load all over his wife, he will be sitting a thousand miles away watching TV or cheating on her or whatever he does with his spare time. No danger, there. You also said that I don't care about others, which is just not true. I do care for others, but I'm still a member of the animal kingdom and look out for number 1 first and foremost. I see nothing wrong with a female believing that I present a superior evolutionary package to the male she is currently running around with, and wanting to mate with me. To deny our own impulses is to deny the very thing that makes us human. That, my friend, is not an opinion. That's a fact.

 

[Just a Shot Away]

Cheating is not embracing your masculinity. There's nothing masculine about it. What you're doing is just desperate.

Yeah, well so is the beta wolf when he runs into the pack and tries to steal a bone so that he may perhaps scrape some leftover flesh off of it for sustenance. Why do you hate instinctual behavior so much?

If you don't want to feel like a piece of sh*t, then don't do the thing that makes you feel like a piece of sh*t!

What are you talking about? I made no reference to feeling like a piece of s.hit. I'm just wondering how to best deal with a little hangup I have about female purity.

The woman will never be yours, and even if she agrees to be, you can never trust her to be yours because you've seen how she cheats. Whatever decision you make, it will end the same way. She will never be yours. She's a ho.

Lol, where are you guys GETTING this stuff from? I don't WANT her to be mine. I'm not going to take care of a kid, are you crazy? You had best believe though if I wanted her to leave her husband for me it wouldn't be much of a problem. Not much of a problem at all.

Now I understand why you feel the need to be so smug and arrogant on these forums. You have self-esteem issues. Just on this thread you admitted to being desperate.

I feel no need to be smug and arrogant about this stuff. I don't know s.hit about women, which I readily admit. I know that you think it's somehow "arrogant" to cite scientific studies when people try to say things that aren't true, but it really isn't arrogant at all. It's just displaying the facts for all to see to provide contrast to unfounded and misguided viewpoints about the topic of facial symmetry. Believe me, while I may come across as smug to you, I'm anything but. When I'm standing in line at the bank or a fast food restaurant every ounce of my resources goes into to making sure that I'm standing normal, my hands are positioned normal, I'm not making a weird or unusual facial expression, etc. etc. When it's my turn to go up to the counter and talk to the girl at the register my adrenaline goes through the roof as I struggle to maintain homeostasis and ensure that I'm doing all of the things I just mentioned but now have the added burden of worrying about appropriate amount of eye contact with the girl, smiling a normal amount without too much so nobody will "get the wrong idea", and sounding normal when I speak. If any of these checks and balances fails, I envision myself being the butt of everyone's joke in the building and being laughed at/berated to the point where I have no choice but to leave without my food or making my cash deposit and returning to my car. Believe me. I am not an arrogant guy.

Clearly morality comes into play for you, otherwise you wouldn't feel like sh*t.

Yeah, again...I don't feel like s.hit. I feel fine. I just don't like the idea of sticking my tongue into a hole where another guy's weenie has been in the past 48 hours. =/ Sue me.

You are way over your head, when it comes to knowing how to stay detached or grounded in reality. Has nothing to do with morality or judgement. This goes for anyone who's so insecure about a woman having sex with anybody else in the past, or present; being insecure and judgemental about a woman's lifestyle, yet lowering your fake standards just for a piece of a$s, then whinning and bitshing about it.

Yes, I know I'm over my head which is why I came here to ask questions. I didn't know I'd be dealing with a so many people riding in on high horses demanding that I immediately match my code of ethics with their own. I just had a f.uckin' question. =P Yes, I know it's foolish to expect a woman to abstain from sex with her husband so I can be the sole profiteer of the fruits from the vagina which is why I asked for help.

 

[d!ckmojo]

Very tough situation JASA, there is basically no way to win; she's made up her mind and she does have a duty to fvck him, even if she doesn't want to. The best thing you can do is just retain your dignity n image by trying as hard as you can to not giv a fvck. If you can't do that, then just tease the sh!t out of her for being a slvt, but don't get heavvy on her just try and keep it ****y n funny.

 

[bukowski_merit]

Damn man, i've made and seen many threads about guys cheating with married women, but never seen someone attacked like this.

Who cares that this guy is in the military? Why should that have any baring on a man fvcking another man's woman??? I certainly wouldn't give a sh!t if a woman's bf/husband was in the military anymore than i'd care if they were a lawyer or carpenter....

If you don't agree with a man having sex with someone who's married - that's fine, you're allowed to have different morals than the next man... But it seems like a lot of you are just saying he shouldn't because this guy is in the military, which is obnoxiously absurd!

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As far as JASA question - it's something you're going to have to accept or stop messing with taken women....

I've been with MANY taken women (less these days because of how much trouble they are; not for any moral reasons). I am ok knowing that they may have had sex with their bf/fiance/etc a month ago, a week ago, a day ago, the same day.... It helps that i've had sex with different women in the same day; and am not going to sit here and demand purity when I, myself, am not pure!

Essentially - you were filling in the husband role while this guy was gone. He's back now - so you're going to lose that role. And if this guy is as nasty to her as you say she is - and you're a nice guy to her - guess what? You will NEVER be her bf/husband. She will not leave him and it has nothing to do with the children they may have together. So please do not try to be exclusive with this woman. Even if she humored us all and got with you - you will not be able to trust her, you will not be able to keep the emotions spiked, she will grow bored and tired of being controlled, and then she'll be out doing the same thing to you and you'll be wondering why..... I fvck the sh!t out of other men's wives/girlfriends but i NEVER consider dating them EVEN IF THEY BREAK UP AND SHE INTENDS TO DATE ME! It just doesn't happen because i've tried it a few times, and unless it's going to be an open relationship - a lot of things change....


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2 things you can do that may help you...

1) Never eat their pvssy - I wouldn't trust women to tell me the truth about if they got banged out by their husband last night. Or even if they took a shower this morning.... So just fvck them. I highly advise you don't put your face in it. If that's what most of your sex game is based on - then learn how to stroke better.

2) Never go raw - Again, shouldn't happen. A lot of them will request this at one time or another, just ignore it.

These go a long way in helping a man not give a sh!t what a woman did this morning.

It's really no different from "dating" a single woman. Or having FBs. Or MLTRs.

But in the end: If you want absolute purity - then you CANNOT mess with other men's women.

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And to all the people saying "sloppy seconds" this and "sloppy seconds" that.... the truth is - the "other man" is often first in line....

Most women when cheating do it after work. They say they're going out for drinks, going shopping, working overtime, etc. ... Then they go and fvck the man they're having the affair with... then go home... and they don't always say "no" when their man makes a move on them that night (and the real freaks even get off on it.)

 

[jafyk]

Ok, People. What's the point really? Those who want to advice the poster based on what his questions are have done so? Those who want to advice him against his ways or chide him have done so. The one thing that is clear is that the OP has set his mind to continue doing what he's doing. So, why don't we just stop responding. Maybe we should have a discussion room labelled "For the immoral who want bad advice to do bad thins' or something like that. That way people who are of the same mind as the OP can go there and post advice.

 

[Alle_Gory]

Lol, where are you guys GETTING this stuff from? I don't WANT her to be mine. I'm not going to take care of a kid, are you crazy? You had best believe though if I wanted her to leave her husband for me it wouldn't be much of a problem. Not much of a problem at all.

Then why do you care? Live with it. She's got a husband, you're sloppy seconds. If that's acceptable for you, there's no point in this thread. Live with it.

I feel no need to be smug and arrogant about this stuff. I don't know s.hit about women, which I readily admit. I know that you think it's somehow "arrogant" to cite scientific studies when people try to say things that aren't true, but it really isn't arrogant at all. It's just displaying the facts for all to see to provide contrast to unfounded and misguided viewpoints about the topic of facial symmetry.

There's studies done on everything, that doesn't make them all good. Not all scientific publications are worth anything. Just a few weeks ago, some Brits did a study about how beer is great drink after a workout.

Now, a person who didn't know anything about nutrition would say "AWESOME!" But the truth isn't so nice. Beer is garbage, sure it hydrates, but it puts extra stress on the liver, and the alcohol reduces muscle synthesis.

Point I'm making is, sure you can quote a bunch of studies, but without the inside knowledge, you'll take a blatant mistake and think it's true.

 

[jafyk]

Then why do you care? Live with it. She's got a husband, you're sloppy seconds. If that's acceptable for you, there's no point in this thread. Live with it.



There's studies done on everything, that doesn't make them all good. Not all scientific publications are worth anything. Just a few weeks ago, some Brits did a study about how beer is great drink after a workout.

Now, a person who didn't know anything about nutrition would say "AWESOME!" But the truth isn't so nice. Beer is garbage, sure it hydrates, but it puts extra stress on the liver, and the alcohol reduces muscle synthesis.

Point I'm making is, sure you can quote a bunch of studies, but without the inside knowledge, you'll take a blatant mistake and think it's true.

Well, I think I read that article too and while I don't really care for beer. I think it mentioned something to do with quantity. The key to most things is moderation.

 

[horaholic]

This is the most retarded thread EVER!!!


OP: if you want to get over the disgust at sloppy seconds try embracing the fact that you are nothing but a FAGG0T. You should let yourself get off on her husbands jizz.

 

[scribblec]

She's avoided the sex for the first day, I just have one more day to make it through. I don't know if she'll be able to do it, but I've resolved to just try to keep my mind off of it and I'm not going to eat her out if she fails. As long as I use a condom I think I can handle it, but the thought of getting oral herpes because I licked a chick's snatch that just had a diseased philandering husband's throbbing member all up in there FAR outweighs the pleasure I would get from a good ol' fashioned 69 session. Thanks for the input.

lolllls ur more worried about getting a disease from the husband who ISNT cheating then the slag ***** of a wife whos ****ing every tom **** and harry around... are u ****ing serious? you really think your the only one

 

[DonGorgon]

lots of men have to take what ever sex they can get ....

 

[The Inside Man]

Sex can't be your first priority in any situation. You don't seem to be fazed at all by the moral argument, but did you know that some of these guys are coming back from seeing worse fighting than you can imagine, rocked by IEDs and explosions that affect the part of the brain involved in making decisions and controlling emotions. Some of them are coming back and killing people. All it takes is a few words from her(maybe to get rid of the guilt or shift the blame), and you have a trained killer hunting your ass down.

 

[horaholic]

lots of men have to take what ever sex they can get ....

Bullshyt, we have right hands and the internet. There is no excuse for lowering your standards so low. I would sooner go 6 months without pvssy, than bang fat chicks or taken chicks who have multiple loads inside them... and I have, and dont regret it.