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[SW15]

Most women prefer fellas older than themselves

This is true. Someone that bases an entire dating strategy on seeking out outlier to unusual cases is going to have below average to dismal dating outcomes.

Gals born in the first of year of the prior MILLENNIUM's second to last decade have frequently birthed/sometimes even more or less raised multiple children, and have no desire to take on another child as a lover

A woman born in 1980 is 44 years old right now as 2024 comes to a close.

Most women born in 1980 have birthed a child by now. The typical woman born in 1980 has at least 1 child by now, typically in Grades K-8 and some might even have a high schooler by now.

The typical USA woman born in 1980 likely has had fewer children than a 1960 born woman had in 2004. Childlessness has become more common in 1980 born women but the Millennials born in the mid to late 1980s will have more childlessness than the 1980 born women.

1980 is an interesting birth year for US women. The women born in 1980 aren't quite Millennials and they don't have as much in common with Millennials. They are at the tail end of Generation X but also don't have that much in common with the early to middle Gen X'ers either.

I'm an early Millennial and I believe that I've had a very Millennial experience in my life. I can't imagine that I would have a lot in common with a woman born in 1980, especially a woman born in 1980 who is a single mom with an elementary school/junior high school aged child.

A 44 year old woman would view a 33 year old man as somewhat of a child within the context of a romantic relationship in most cases.

 

[BaronOfHair]

I'm an early Millennial and I believe that I've had a very Millennial experience in my life. I can't imagine that I would have a lot in common with a woman born in 1980, especially a woman born in 1980 who is a single mom with an elementary school/junior high school aged child

Yeah, romances between older women and guys significantly younger generally don't pan out, for the simple fact that heterosexual women desire leadership out of men. Thus, young women are highly receptive to an older man introducing then to subjects and activities they've never engaged in prior. Older women, by contrast, become easily frustrated when they have to do this with a younger man

 

[SW15]

romances between older women and guys significantly younger generally don't pan out, for the simple fact that heterosexual women desire leadership out of men. Thus, young women are highly receptive to an older man introducing then to subjects and activities they've never engaged in prior. Older women, by contrast, become easily frustrated when they have to do this with a younger man

This is consistent with my experience.

A woman is going to feel like she can't be led by a man 10-12 years younger than she is. She would feel that she'd need to be more of a leader. It doesn't even matter if the woman is in her late 30s/early 40s and the guy is late 20s/early 30s. A 30 year old man would be more likely to be able to lead a 25 year old woman than a 40 year old woman. A 40 year old woman doesn't think that a 30 year old man is capable of leading her.

A 40 year old woman might enjoy some short term sex with a 21 year old man with a hot body but that's not going to be sustainable. The 21 year old man is going to also tire of a 40 year old woman's body, even if she has an above average body for a 40 year old. She lacks the youthful elasticity in her skin. A 40 year old woman would get tired of not getting her emotional needs met by a 21 year old, even if the 21 year old male is attractive.

A man born in the early 1980s is going to find a woman born in the early 1990s to be youthful, interesting, and fun. He's going to think she has great energy and he's probably going to like her more youthful body. A woman born in the early 1980s is going to find a man born in the early 1990s to not be on her level in most ways.

 

[Vanderdonck]

You're right, we don't like how much attention broads get (compared to how little attention we get).

So it's attention you crave.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

So it's attention you crave.

Attention and Validation. It's basically where everybody gets their dopamine fix from.

The only problem is that he's too deep into the spectrum to understand that not all attention has the same value and he's seeking A&V in a way that will leave him dissatisfied. Then again, most people are taking the wrong approach to getting their A&V, so he's not alone in that.

 

[GoodMan32]

We accept that your age preference/fear of impregnating a chick exists, and we're not without what Bloom&Gottlieb refer to as Rational/Wise Compassion for your plight, hoss

Doesn't make your current desires any less impractical than those of the average 12 year old who dreams of making it to The NFL or The NBA. Less than 1% of students currently playing on a junior high team are fit for membership on The Golden State Warriors some day, and that same percentage of women in the age bracket you lust after are in the market for a much younger guy

The time has come to start rolling with reality, by pursuing women your own age and younger, rather than chasing a fever dream which has a dismal chance for success

I'm glad to hear you're compassionate.

One key difference between myself and a 12 year old who wants to be a pro athlete: Eventually I'm going to age into a demographic where menopausal/peri-menopausal broads won't automatically disqualify me on account of age. The 12 year old wannabe pro athlete, on the other hand, will (in the vast majority of cases) never become a pro athlete.

Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again while expecting different results. I already know I have a track record of turning down sex with a naked fertile woman (right there in bed with me). Why focus on young broads when I know there's a high chance I'm going to chicken out once they offer me sex?

 

[BaronOfHair]

Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again while expecting different results

Yeah, such as pursuing women much older than yourself, when at least one in that age bracket has already informed you: "Most of us have no desire for younger men"


"Why focus on young broads when I know there's a high chance I'm going to chicken out once they offer me sex?"

Gorging yourself on MGTOW content has misled you into believing that you have no choice BUT to b-tch out, the minute the going gets tough, then film a lengthy YouTube video on the many ways Gynocentrism f-cked you up. Same way Feminism scammed many women into believing that every bad date or unpleasant interaction with men they have isn't attributable to either the dude being psychologically disturbed or run of the mill societal bias(News flash: Our society is filled with prejudices and biases towards damned near everything), but this amorphous and invisible force known as The Patriarchy

 

[GoodMan32]

Because it's 2024, soon to be 2025. Gals born in the first of year of the prior MILLENNIUM's second to last decade have frequently birthed/sometimes even more or less raised multiple children, and have no desire to take on another child as a lover

As someone else has mentioned to you prior, you're(understandably)thinking about dating and mating the way men do I.E. Youth is not only not an obstacle but indeed desirable on a mate. This ain't how most women function though. I encourage you to Google the now-exhaustive research on this subject for yourself: Most women prefer fellas older than themselves

I've seen statistics on marital age gaps. I'm well-aware the typical woman prefers an older man.

I just looked up the numbers to refresh my memory. In 85% of married American heterosexual couples, the husband is either the same age or older (for the purposes of the study, the husband can be up to 2 years younger and still be seen as "same age")

Ok, so that still leaves 15% of married couples where the woman is willing to be with a man more than 2 years younger than her. Even if a minority, 15% still translates into millions of broads.

Also worth taking into account is the fact cougar couples don't tend to get married (in other words, a marriage study doesn't take the full picture into account in terms of how many broads are willing to go younger)

As for a 1980-born broad not wanting to go for kids, 33 isn't a kid (in the song Charlie's Got The Blues, they even have a line that goes "you're not a kid at 33").

I could understand a 1980-born broad thinking 20 is too young (as there's a high chance she has kids that age). I just think (as I said on a past post) the man's age really shouldn't matter once he's 30+ (ironically though, it's been said before on this forum that an early 20s boytoy has a better shot with a 45 year old broad than a 30-something man does)

 

[GoodMan32]

So it's attention you crave.

Attention is one of the things I crave, yeah.

 

[GoodMan32]

Yeah, such as pursuing women much older than yourself, when at least one in that age bracket has already informed you: "Most of us have no desire for younger men"

If you're talking about the woman I think you're talking about, she also gave me pointers to maximize my odds of getting into an older woman's pants.

Besides, even if a young woman is more likely to accept my advances, that's meaningless if I'm going to chicken out once we're naked in bed.

Furthermore, I'm not 100% convinced I'd have better luck with a young woman anyway. I mentioned on a recent post that (in my experience) older broads have generally been way handsier with me than young broads (which makes me wonder if there's something about me that serves as a magnet for older broads/repels young broads)

If I recall, it's been said on this forum that young broads are typically handsy. In which case, the fact they generally haven't been handsy with me is very telling.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Ok, so that still leaves 15% of married couples where the woman is willing to be with a man more than 2 years younger than her

15% of those living in West Baltimore may have spent 8 decades or more there, without ending up with a gut full of lead, stabbed in the chest multiple or times, or carjacked. These odds remain lousy though